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I've been on Seeking for a long number of years. Way back when I joined, I put in my real age. Now that I'm almost to 60, I'm wondering if I would do better to create a new profile and shave 5 years off. I can pass for younger.
Do you other older guys like me use your real age? Do you think our prospects are hurt by it?
[QUOTE=NewAnonymousName;6314733]I've been on Seeking for a long number of years. Way back when I joined, I put in my real age. Now that I'm almost to 60, I'm wondering if I would do better to create a new profile and shave 5 years off. I can pass for younger.
Do you other older guys like me use your real age? Do you think our prospects are hurt by it?[/QUOTE]I shave about 4 years off mine. It can't hurt, and can only help to some degree.
[QUOTE=NewAnonymousName;6313538]If I get a second real phone line, is it inevitable that people can find out my name? Off the top of my head, I would have guessed that this is private information that the phone carrier is not allowed to share. How do sugar babies find out? Is there a way to sign up with a carrier and insist on a private number?[/QUOTE]Just get a prepaid phone account and register it with a fake name or "Verizon Customer". Make up a name, address, etc and use refill topup cards to keep the account active. I haven't had a phone in my name in several years. No reason for it, even besides the dating aspect.
And I would still use a VOIP number, and something like Sudo or Text Now, over Google Voice. Google is terrible with data privacy, and I avoid them for everything but search, which I do behind VPN and isolate my cookies into tab groups.
I used to always pull out with the fertile SBs, but lately I am jizzing inside there a bit more, and have them take a Plan B pill immediately afterwards. I'm surprised how many girls are up for this, but I think they enjoy some CIP too. The Plan B is about $40 at Walmart, but you can get them on Amazon for as low as $8 each:
https://www.amazon.com/Levonorgestrel-Emergency-Contraceptive-Tablet-Compare/dp/B07RZMG6ZM/
[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;6314777]I used to always pull out with the fertile SBs, but lately I am jizzing inside there a bit more, and have them take a Plan B pill immediately afterwards. I'm surprised how many girls are up for this, but I think they enjoy some CIP too. The Plan B is about $40 at Walmart, but you can get them on Amazon for as low as $8 each:
https://www.amazon.com/Levonorgestrel-Emergency-Contraceptive-Tablet-Compare/dp/B07RZMG6ZM/[/QUOTE]Interesting. I've been thinking about getting snipped next year when I file for divorce. (Been waiting for the kid to leave the nest.) I never thought about passing out plan B as a less invasive option. Do some SBs refuse?
[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;6314762]I shave about 4 years off mine. It can't hurt, and can only help to some degree.[/QUOTE]That's what I was assuming. But then I was wondering if some of the 30+ women like the more seasoned guy. And a SB in her early 20's probably sees both 55 and 60 as super old either way.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f6572998-3171-475b-a4cd-fd8db9903324[/URL]
This link may or may not be dead, not sure if she blocked me or disabled her account. Anyways, we moved to snap and she's real. Seemed very open and fun sexually, open to bare and BBJ, but she's all the way in Buford. I was still considering seeing her to add her to my "little black book" even being that far out but eventually she asked for pics of me, then blocked me when I sent them. Guess she didn't like what she saw LOL. Figured I'd throw her to the forum. I think you can smash for between 2-300 since she's over 30.
[QUOTE=NewAnonymousName;6314788]Interesting. I've been thinking about getting snipped next year when I file for divorce. (Been waiting for the kid to leave the nest.) I never thought about passing out plan B as a less invasive option. Do some SBs refuse?[/QUOTE]Most of them seem grateful a guy was thoughtful enough to bring one. I tend to grab 1 off Amazon and put it in the car if I have a date. Generally if things are going well then at some point she'll either bring up protection or just put me inside her.
If she asks about protection, I ask her if she's on BC, and if she is I tell her great, we're good to go, and I can show her recent STD results that we are. Most of the time just offering to do that is enough to get me in bare. If she's not on BC, then I ask her if she minds if we use Plan B, and I've got pretty good results with that offer. It takes a load off their minds when their taking a load inside LOL. Most are grateful that I'm so considerate. If/when it's used I just immediately Amazon Prime another, since I rarely see more than 1 girl a week.
If she never brings up protection and I'm inside her at some point I'll ask her where she wants me to cum. If she says inside I'll ask if she's on BC and if she is it's off to the races. If she isn't or if she tells me to pull out, I mention I brought a Plan B and confirm finishing inside is fine. 100% of the time I've had that work.
Very very occassionally they'll still insist on a condom (especially on the first date) and I respect their wishes. If I really like them and had a good time then on the next date I'll bring up the BC / Plan B conversation and see what it takes to make them comfortable going bare.
This is actually one of the few advantages the 30+ crowd have over the 18-29 crowd. Most of the 30+ girls will already have kids and have their tubes tied, where as the younger one's haven't. Still doesn't mean over 30 is worth a higher arrangement (especially with Plan B being $8) but it's something.
Another funny thing I've noticed with the more hippie / natural / organic girls (I.E. My type and a common set of values in early-mid 20's crowd) is they will avoid BC because it's unnatural, or some girls BC just fucks them up mentally / emotionally / physically, but for whatever reason they happily eat a Plan B (which I'm pretty certain is the exact same med as BC just a higher concentrated dosage). Go figure.
[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;6314777]I used to always pull out with the fertile SBs, but lately I am jizzing inside there a bit more, and have them take a Plan B pill immediately afterwards. I'm surprised how many girls are up for this, but I think they enjoy some CIP too. The Plan B is about $40 at Walmart, but you can get them on Amazon for as low as $8 each:
https://www.amazon.com/Levonorgestrel-Emergency-Contraceptive-Tablet-Compare/dp/B07RZMG6ZM/[/QUOTE]Just get a vasectomy bro, problem solved LOL.
[QUOTE=NewAnonymousName;6314733]I've been on Seeking for a long number of years. Way back when I joined, I put in my real age. Now that I'm almost to 60, I'm wondering if I would do better to create a new profile and shave 5 years off. I can pass for younger.
Do you other older guys like me use your real age? Do you think our prospects are hurt by it?[/QUOTE]I've looked younger than my age most of my life. I have always had a 5 year discount on my seeking profiles. My SIL recently bragged she used a website that tells you the age you appear and came out quite a bit younger. IDK the one she used specifically, but I found one where you upload a photo. It hit mu actual age right on the money.
I think a lot of people routinely cut 5 years off age in social media. For some, who are at favorable ages (I. E. , my 27 YO ex-SB), they go with the facts. If you track down the real identity of a POT or a SB you sometimes find this. Sometimes a 40 year old really can pass for a 30 year old (girls).
I've had some SBs the past year who were totally into the whole older / younger thing, so for them I didn't pose any issue w / my age. In evaluating a profile, I look at their age range first thing. It is common to see 50 as the top of their range. When I see that, I just block the profile so I never have to worry about it again. We're not a match. I sometimes see profiles with phrases like 'not my grandpa'. Likewise. There are enough girls on there who don't care about age, truly, for me to have fruitful fishing grounds.
Some girls profiles list their top age as 60+, I am seeing a few lately that list like 55 or 59. I consider these open to someone like me. Just as I can't really tell ages anymore among the young girls, I don't think they can discern past a certain amount older.
BTW, about the young ones, If they say they are 18 or 19, I always confirm separately in a message that they are at least 18, precisely because I can't judge age of someone that young. I sometimes get a response that they will be happy to prove it, send me their drivers license pics, etc. BTW, I am past social security age, and still banging young pussy, so don't let age inhibit you. My current regular is 40 ish and a super accomplished business woman, but I've definitely had teenagers before. Memorable.
[QUOTE=TylerDurden07;6314393]We texted pretty extensively & she sent some really hot pics. I had to be in the Battery last night on some unrelated business so asked her to join me there for a drink. At first, she agreed with no conditions. Then an hour later she said she needed $400 for "groceries. " She really really tried to get me to advance it. I refused to advance. She then agreed to have some after-drinks fun with me after I told her she'd definitely get grocery money after we had fun in private.
Something still seemed off about her way of talking. I smelled a rat with her &, frankly didn't expect her to show. Ultimately, I was right, she didn't. I then confronted her about it over text & she barked about how I "couldn't even do (her) a favor" after she asked for it. Reminded her that "favors" are given when favors are gotten. Didn't hear a peep after that.
Her pics are stunning, gents. Don't waste your time & fall for it.[/QUOTE]$400 for "groceries" in advance. That's funny.
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BTW, about the young ones, If they say they are 18 or 19, I always confirm separately in a message that they are at least 18.[/QUOTE]How do you "confirm" this, via text. I would definitely insist on seeing their ID when you meet up. Have them cover up their name and address if necessary, but must see the DOB and photo.
I wasn't strict with this, with the last 18 y o I met from the site, but that was a lazy and dumb mistake. If you have consensual sex with a young woman who is 17 yrs and 364 days old, then suddenly you will be a "pedophile rapist" in the minds of most people. and they will bury you under the jail.
Yes, we live in clown world, and all we can do is minimize those risks as much as possible, while still getting out there and having fun.
[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;6315411]How do you "confirm" this, via text. I would definitely insist on seeing their ID when you meet up. Have them cover up their name and address if necessary, but must see the DOB and photo.
I wasn't strict with this, with the last 18 y o I met from the site, but that was a lazy and dumb mistake. If you have consensual sex with a young woman who is 17 yrs and 364 days old, then suddenly you will be a "pedophile rapist" in the minds of most people. and they will bury you under the jail.
Yes, we live in clown world, and all we can do is minimize those risks as much as possible, while still getting out there and having fun.[/QUOTE]Check this out: [URL]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_the_United_States[/URL] . I would stay safe with the 18 requirement but some states give you some leeway.
[QUOTE=LouisHernandez;6315563]Check this out: [URL]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_the_United_States[/URL] . I would stay safe with the 18 requirement but some states give you some leeway.[/QUOTE]That's the chart for sex without payment. I believe every state (and definitely Georgia) forbids paid sex with a woman under 18. PPM with a minor will land you in prison. PPM with a minor while traveling across state lines will land you in federal bang you in the ass prison.
Allowance instead of PPM might give you an argument, but I wouldnt like your chances in court with that argument.
Moral of the story: DO NOT have sex with anyone even a day under 18 if money is involved in any way, shape or form.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0c728f9a-1f22-48f7-a09d-70a6b0f45010[/URL]
Someone had asked about her, can't remember who, but I did go see her. And she is for real.
Setup was done via text, as she immediately moved to text. She's a pro, and knows what she is doing. Price was $$$ She also is not a clock watcher, as she would've stayed longer then normal.
She's based out of Duluth, GA. And you have to go pick her up, she doesn't drive.
She just had a baby so she's still milking, but she wasn't my cup of tea (she's a bit of bbw, but not too much). I only had for BBBJ which she shallowed. She is also open for bare.
She did have some nice natural breast thou. I would say d? I dunno the size, but it was a handful.