"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

I'm a newbie to the SD / SB scene but have much experience elsewhere on this forum I joined SA for a month and met a few nice ladies who I still see. What I don't understand are the scammers and why they are even on the SA site? Peeezy Hrd2 hndlMilf Shewontfindout all tried to scam me. I use the word "tried" because I'm not stupid but why string someone along then not show up or just stop texting etc. I'm getting pretty good at weeding through the BS and meeting some nice young ladies though. One woman I see just met someone last night in a hotel and he grabbed her by the neck and tried to rape her. He hit her in the head too. She was able to get away but is pretty shaken up. Lot's of fucked up people out there.

It's not uncommon at all for girl to abruptly stop communicating or flake on a date. There can be many reasons, one is that they are a scammed and determined you are not an easy mark and choose to move on. If they are a pro or UTR, they often are juggling many clients and dealing with substance abuse or pimp issues which make them very unreliable. New girls are often unsure what they truly want and easily get cold feet or think they have found a better option.

I always treat them as if they are new and have cold feet. Be kind and understanding. Pros, UTR's and Scammers don't care and move on. True newbies may be comforted and come back after seeing their options. I've had this work successfully several times.

Be patient and remember the wisdom of the founders of this thread and "do no harm".

[QUOTE=Fixter;2941780]I'm a newbie to the SD / SB scene but have much experience elsewhere on this forum I joined SA for a month and met a few nice ladies who I still see. What I don't understand are the scammers and why they are even on the SA site? Peeezy Hrd2 hndlMilf Shewontfindout all tried to scam me. I use the word "tried" because I'm not stupid but why string someone along then not show up or just stop texting etc. I'm getting pretty good at weeding through the BS and meeting some nice young ladies though. One woman I see just met someone last night in a hotel and he grabbed her by the neck and tried to rape her. He hit her in the head too. She was able to get away but is pretty shaken up. Lot's of fucked up people out there.[/QUOTE]

New POT. Had our M&G and things went well. I talked about the GFE being more of my goal. She's new to SA and says I'm her first date. She's 21, decent looks and body. She's working part-time in retail and preparing for college in the fall. I meet her at the mall where she works and we leave for dinner. No sugar convo, but it was a good dinner date and drinks. A perfectly normal date. I dropped her off at home at the end of the night.

She texted me this morning asking "How much dck do I need to suck to be your only SB? I was absolutely floored! I never quantified the favors. I think this SB won my heart. I can't wait for the second date.

Dam I got exhausted just reading your post!! Love it.

[QUOTE=PartyTimeGuy;2940652]Haven't posted for quite a while. Probably having too much fun to write. The current lineup is varied and keeps me busy. And satisfied. In order of my priorities:

1. Fuck Bunny: Pic is attached. Met her when she was 18. She is 20 now. Hottest little piece of ass I ever had. She is cute, pleasant, funny, petitely well built, energetic and a total nymphomaniac. She is sex heroin. I can never get enough. Even after 4 hours of wild fucking and sucking I still want more. All good things must come to an end, but I hope the end for this is far, far away.

2. Double Team Bunnies: One is white, the other black early 20's, good looking. The white girl is thin and the black girl is chunky. And they like to play together. We have realized every FMF fantasy I can imagine. My favorite is sitting on one of their faces while she tongue fucks my ass while the other other gives me hot, sloppy DT. OMFG! I get hard just thinking about it. Or, making out with one while the other fucks me or sucks me off. It's like having sex with a two headed woman.

3. Stripper Bunny: Strippers don't always make the best SBs, but this rule has some exceptions. She used to be a stripper but has "retired. " She is in her mid-20's, pretty, well tatted, nice tits, a little chubby / rounded and very skilled. She can DT me like a Hoover and is very multi-orgasmic, which I love. She likes her nipples pinched very hard as she cums. I pinch them with 100% force and no other woman has ever been able to tolerate that much less enjoy it. She is a squirter. I find that very hot. She is about as open minded as a woman gets. She'll try anything: anal, ass munching, 3-somes, other couples, bondage. If I can think of it she'll do it. Fuck Bunny is my sleek thorougbred but Stripper Bunny is my sexual workhorse.

4. Girl Next Door Bunny: 19, cute, well built, modest and nave. She has a kid, lives with her sister and likes to make extra money on the side. She advertised on Craig's list and I was lucky enough to be her first paid gig. She's not the most experienced or skilled or enthusiastic provider, but she is agreeable to do anything to please, even if she doesn't like it. It is perversely thrilling to have her do anything I want. I have trained her to be my obedient fuck doll.

5. MILF Bunny: Late 30's, Pretty and chubby. Horniest woman I ever met. She has my zipper down in 5 seconds of getting together and is hungrily sucking and begging to be fucked. She will do absolutely anything. Brought along a friend from out of town last time. They both couldn't get enough. Hot, wet, and wild!

Life is good my brothers.[/QUOTE]

Dear Brothers,

I am not circumcised and my tool gets chafed and the foreskin has superficial tears after intercourse. I do use lube and the room for improvement in terms of the amount applied is very small. I think dryness can be ruled out so what else could be the reason? Can intercourse without being fully erect cause the foreskin to be loose and get caught and subsequently pulled back and forth?

Thank you for your patience.

[QUOTE=PartyTimeGuy;2940652]Haven't posted for quite a while. Probably having too much fun to write. The current lineup is varied and keeps me busy. And satisfied. In order of my priorities:

1. Fuck Bunny:
2. Double Team Bunnies:
3. Stripper Bunny:
4. Girl Next Door Bunny:
5. MILF Bunny:

Life is good my brothers.[/QUOTE]Congrats Party man!. How often do you see each one, how many hours do you spend / month with them combined , and what is your monthly budget for all that sucking and fucking? Do you have an SO? I would guess no. This kind of activity would be hard to do with a wife around, and a lot of money to hide from her as well.

[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;2942202]Dear Brothers,

I am not circumcised and my tool gets chafed and the foreskin has superficial tears after intercourse. I do use lube and the room for improvement in terms of the amount applied is very small. I think dryness can be ruled out so what else could be the reason? Can intercourse without being fully erect cause the foreskin to be loose and get caught and subsequently pulled back and forth?

Thank you for your patience.[/QUOTE]Friction is the problem, and most likely semi erection allows an excess of tension on the foreskin. See a Urologist 1st. I would make sure you are medicated adequately to generate the hardest erection possible for you. You might need a circumcision. A third choice would be a small amount of Testosterone cream to the foreskin. It will thicken the skin, but don't take so much that your testicular function is suppressed -unless you need Testosterone anyway. Good luck! That will be $100 please.

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;2942032]It's not uncommon at all for girl to abruptly stop communicating or flake on a date. There can be many reasons, one is that they are a scammed and determined you are not an easy mark and choose to move on. If they are a pro or UTR, they often are juggling many clients and dealing with substance abuse or pimp issues which make them very unreliable. New girls are often unsure what they truly want and easily get cold feet or think they have found a better option.

I always treat them as if they are new and have cold feet. Be kind and understanding. Pros, UTR's and Scammers don't care and move on. True newbies may be comforted and come back after seeing their options. I've had this work successfully several times.

Be patient and remember the wisdom of the founders of this thread and "do no harm".[/QUOTE]I appreciate your expertise here. Very well stated and it was well received. I have met a few women on SA who are very nice but obviously new to this as I am. My experience in other areas has helped me and I am nice and compassionate with all women I meet. Thank you!

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2942435]...It will thicken the skin, but don't take so much that your testicular function is suppressed -unless you need Testosterone anyway. Good luck! That will be $100 please.[/QUOTE]A green note with a picture of Ben Franklin is on its way to you!

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2942435]...See a Urologist 1st. I would make sure you are medicated adequately to generate the hardest erection possible for you...[/QUOTE]I got a prescription for the blue pill from my primary care physician is it better to go to a urologist? Anyway I started with 50 mg (cut a 100 mg into two) and got very may be too hard so I cut the 50 mg into two and the result was just right but subsequent trips were not as good as a result I went back to 50 mg but the effect was not like the first time.

Is it normal for the blue pill to lose its efficacy with continued use? Will Cialis or anything else be better I. E. Consistent results with the same dose over time.

Where could one obtain the Testosterone cream. Any particular brand. Are online pharmacies good for this?

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2942435]Friction is the problem, and most likely semi erection allows an excess of tension on the foreskin. See a Urologist 1st. I would make sure you are medicated adequately to generate the hardest erection possible for you. You might need a circumcision. A third choice would be a small amount of Testosterone cream to the foreskin. It will thicken the skin, but don't take so much that your testicular function is suppressed -unless you need Testosterone anyway. Good luck! That will be $100 please.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ToeLover57;2938410]I had four dinner / lunch dates in three weeks with DnD, 23 Richmond on Seeking Arrangements. Said she needed time before anything intimate. So we did four dates in three weeks. Bought her 2 pair of shoes, VS bra and gave her some cash for summer school textbooks. Last date was lunch yesterday. She wasn't too talkative and keep asking what time it was. After an hour she remembered she had to leave earlier than expected.

I sent her a text last night that I didn't get a reply from. Now I see she blocked me on SA. I used my secondary profile to look and she is still online there. So definitely blocked.

I got rinsed for about 600 counting meals, shoes and cash. Take your chances with her if you dare.[/QUOTE]Toe. Sorry that happened. Thanks for the heads up.

Stark.

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2942430]Congrats Party man!. How often do you see each one, how many hours do you spend / month with them combined , and what is your monthly budget for all that sucking and fucking? Do you have an SO? I would guess no. This kind of activity would be hard to do with a wife around, and a lot of money to hide from her as well.[/QUOTE]No SO so my time and money is my own. I see each one 2 to 3 times a month. Normally I spend at least 2 hours with each with a max of 4 and an average of 3. They are various levels of donation from less than zero (she pays for everything) for MILF Bunny to $ and a half for Fuck Bunny. It averages out to a little more than about $ per session, plus hotel. About 2. 5 k per month. I know. That's relatively inexpensive for all that action. But I have discovered it pays to find the right kind of SBs who are in it for more than just the dough. It has taken me a long time to develop each one and I have a little time to hunt for really good potential replacements in the wings with no hurry to do anything new until it is just right.

[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;2942601]I got a prescription for the blue pill from my primary care physician is it better to go to a urologist? Anyway I started with 50 mg (cut a 100 mg into two) and got very may be too hard so I cut the 50 mg into two and the result was just right but subsequent trips were not as good as a result I went back to 50 mg but the effect was not like the first time.

Is it normal for the blue pill to lose its efficacy with continued use? Will Cialis or anything else be better I. E. Consistent results with the same dose over time.[/QUOTE]Tolerance can develop. Make sure it is Brand name, not expired, and take on an empty stomach. It will not work as well if you have eaten anything in the past 4-6 hours. Go up to 100 Mg if 50 does not work well.

Lebruno : Testosterone is highly regulated because of abuse / doping. You have to get it from an MD. There are clinics popping up all around that advertise male treatment for ED and Low T.

[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;2942202]Dear Brothers,

I am not circumcised and my tool gets chafed and the foreskin has superficial tears after intercourse. I do use lube and the room for improvement in terms of the amount applied is very small. I think dryness can be ruled out so what else could be the reason? [/QUOTE]Are your sure it isn't a lube issue? Have you tried different lubes? Could it be type over quantity used?

My point is the "standard" drug store lube "stuff" can tend to dry out and / or get sticky on you. That is what happens to me with Astroglide.

Check out the numerous options at this site:

[URL]http://www.condomdepot.com/show-all-lubes/[/URL]

Note several products are "staff picks". I like the Wet products and Pjur products also get high marks. Note the differences between water-based and silicon based (do NOT use with condoms).