Beginners should read the forum
[QUOTE=DumboTheJumbo;5045158]Hey everyone, I joined a while back but haven't been active at all both in this forum and mongering. I didn't have anything to share or any questions to ask. With no posts, nobody is willing to share digits or info with me. Seems like a chicken and egg problem.
Someone please tell me how to gain some reputation here?[/QUOTE]Read, click on a link for a lady with positive reviews, call, tell her you are new and ask if she'd like to see you, NEVER USE ANY WORDS ABOUT SEX, just that you'd like a visit, what is the suggested donation, newbies don't dicker. Pay a hundred or one and a half to build a base line, be polite! Fuck her and report back, even if she has a hundred reviews, we always like one more. Stick with the well established ladies until you learn the ropes. Repeat. Yd.
Sending A Dick Pick-Due Diligence Is Required
I have had some specific experience with this. While I am not a law enforcement officer, I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night! Seriously, I do have a legal background though. Sending a picture of your genitals is called dissemination of explicit sexual material and is a crime. Level varies by jurisdiction. I have asked a law enforcement officer who is a hobbyist about the dick pick requirement and have been told, "law enforcement can not disseminate sexual material in the furtherance of an investigation. " The single biggest reason being the possibility of dissemination to minors. To the best of both of our knowledge, it has not been presented in a court case, yet. I know many girls who require a dick pick before they will see a client. While anyone should rightly be leary, perform your due diligence as best you can seems to me to be common sense. Clearly, sending the picture is dissemination of sexual material. I would not contact nor send a picture to someone I have not checked out as best I could first, before I even pick up the phone. My primary rule is search of the provider's phone number should return a sufficient amount of links to varying advertisements over a period of time. Secondly, they must have varying reviews from different sites also over a period of time. This process certainly eliminates some savory options, but I do believe it has served me well. So, your dick pick gives your provider the confidence that you are not law enforcement. In regards to using common sense, I use a burner phone changed out monthly, available everywhere dirt cheap, pay cash. I never send a picture including my face. I was asked for a copy of my drivers license recently. Screw that. My final thought to add fellow members, is the laugh I get at those who ask "are you in any way affiliated with law enforcement?" as if this CYA. There is clear precedent in the courts that a law enforcement officer may lie in furtherance of an investigation. Lying is one thing. Committing an actual crime in furtherance of an investigation is another. Keep in mind that in our hobby both sides are interested in covering their back side. Simply use common sense with your activity, perform your due diligence and go with your Gibbs gut.
[QUOTE=ReturnOfBlade;5047040]If you're not comfortable it's best to move on. You're not alone. It's a no for me as well 99.9% of the time. In all my years in this hobby I've only made exactly ONE exception. I sent a dick pic for verification and only because this provided had 40 positive reviews on the LC site with respectable rates. It felt weird sending it, but at the same time I felt comfortable based on the plethora of reviews she had. It's not something I foresee myself ever doing again. Definitely not my face ever. There are plenty of providers who don't require photo verification.[/QUOTE]
The Pic Dilemma and How to Handle
I agree that you can find other providers if she insists on pics. If you do still want to see that provider, read on.
There is a way around this if you feel you have to send a pic. All you have to do is send a fake picture pulled from the internet of what ever body part that provider is asking. I literally searched "average looking guy" picture on the internet and found a picture that looks similar to me and have sent that. I use it whenever I need to, it never has failed. I originally found one that actually was TOO close looking to me that it actually fooled my family! It was eerily identical. I don't use that one any longer and found a similar one. When searching, some of you may need to use some other descriptor than average looking guy, maybe above average or below average. LOL.
I try to never need to use the identifying picture. If she has used HER real pic in her ads or sent her real pic and I am not 100% comfortable with the situation, I send a fake pic even less like I look and always ask to meet outside the house or the room. I ask to meet near the pool area, parking lot or some other common area or place before going to the house / room. I will then recognise her and approach her, not the other way around. I approach her and introduce myself. This also is a good tip to avoid a sting situation. LEO will NOT generally meet you outside the room. Using a fake pic also has another benefit to use one. If you are spoken to by LEO, you can always say and prove, "that's NOT me". I also never give my actual car type to a provider either when asked. Same reason. I don't want LEO or possible handlers trying to rob me approaching me in a parking lot.
If she wants a dick pic, find one that resembles you (or not) and send it to her. What is she going to do, match it up to you in person and turn you away when the veins don't match up? NOT when there's $$ waiting for her. Many members have mentioned to never send a real dick pic, I agree. There are tons of reasons not to send real pics and I can't think of a single reason to do it. If the provider EVER finds out your real name and info, she (or her handler) now possesses something that she can easily use against you for blackmale purposes. I bet your wife CAN match up the veins! You would be in a rough spot.
Just my thoughts.
Grain 56.
[QUOTE=MikeDoes;5045100]For awhile now I've seen girls posting about needing photo verification before they'll meet-up; I know it's most likely a safety thing, but I would think if they needed the $ then that wouldn't matter. I've definitely skipped contacting providers because of that. Has anyone found a good way around that? Or are guys really sending these girls their picture?Thanks.[/QUOTE[QUOTE=DixenCider;5045320]No way to get around it if the provider insists. I would just let them know its not something I'm comfortable with and if she won't budge than its best to find another provider.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=ReturnOfBlade;5047040]If you're not comfortable it's best to move on. You're not alone. It's a no for me as well 99.9% of the time. In all my years in this hobby I've only made exactly ONE exception. I sent a dick pic for verification and only because this provided had 40 positive reviews on the LC site with respectable rates. It felt weird sending it, but at the same time I felt comfortable based on the plethora of reviews she had. It's not something I foresee myself ever doing again. Definitely not my face ever. There are plenty of providers who don't require photo verification.[/QUOTE[QUOTE=Miketastic69;5047383]Imagine, a provider gets busted and gives up her phone. A picture of your drivers license is included. How do you explain that to work, spouse, court? When her MO is to collect picture before giving you paid sexual services?[/QUOTE]
