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[QUOTE=Ewe52;6597306]Speaking of dates, I'm not a native New Yorker moved here 2 years ago. Where are some places besides the tourist traps to impress a girl on her day off. I've had my fill of harry potter and lion king shows to last me a life time.[/QUOTE]Wait. By girl on her day off do you mean these girls or actual girl you're going on a date with? I have not taken these girls to a Broadway show. Didn't even think of doing that or asking.
[QUOTE=JediNY;6596910]I would only take a girl out if they seem to genuinely like you and you like them. Otherwise you are giving up your time instead of money for extras. IMO a girl likes you if you get freebies at a minimum. Getting discounted perks is not a like in my book.
NYC sightseeing can also be expensive and a pain in the ass with long lines etc. So it depends on what you and the girl have in mind regarding showing them the City. Dating apps are full of girls who want to use you and want you to show them around the City.[/QUOTE]I did like the girl and we had some good chemistry. Ended up booking her 4 times. But I wouldn't have chilled with her outside the shop and spent money on her like that unless there was something in it for me, freebies in this case. Can't loose sight of the fact that it's just business at the end of the day.
[QUOTE=Nishi0;6596923]How was the dinner not awkward AF when you need a translator app to communicate?
At first, it seems like it'd be nice to take a J girl out for dinner. But, when I actually think about the mechanics of it, with a language barrier, wouldn't there just be awkward staring for 30 minutes while waiting for food?[/QUOTE]She had some English. Not fluent, but enough to make basic conversation. She understood english well but struggled to speak it, so some translator app was occasionally required. No awkward 30 minutes of staring LOL. Although I was a bit worried about the optics of it and whether people would be suspicious / know what was up!
[QUOTE=Ewe52;6596953]Well what the point of a date then? If you're just interested in paid sex and not her company. Or she's just interested in your money vice versa. Why waste each others time.
Now hearing about a desperate Jgirl girl offering free cip for life just to go on a $150 date city tourthink a cab ride would cost this much now I wasnt born yesterday! Lol[/QUOTE]As usual, you are such a hater. She wasn't desperate at all, in fact she was a pretty popular / busy girl. It was DDY Nami / SE Mayumi and she was quoting most guys $300 for CIP. It wasn't about the monetary value of the date LOL. I think she just wanted to lock me down for repeats (it worked) and was also looking for a pretty white boy to show her around the city. I kept the outing under $150 because I'm a cheap bastard and wasn't looking to drop over $200 on a hooker, unless it was for sex. She even spent some of her own money at a few of the stores we stopped at. Just doing my part to keep these ****** humble.
You just got trolled into naming names.
BTW: $150 for $400/800/1200 was a good trade.
[QUOTE=Ewe52;6597306]Speaking of dates, I'm not a native New Yorker moved here 2 years ago. Where are some places besides the tourist traps to impress a girl on her day off. I've had my fill of harry potter and lion king shows to last me a life time.[/QUOTE]There are many nice things to do in NYC that are Instagram worthy like Central Park, Brooklyn Bridge, High Line, museums, etc. But I would not consider them impressive. If I wanted to impress and leave a memory, I would suggest a short helicopter tour of Lower Manhattan. It should be under $200. I have done it many years ago. Why sight see at the top of a building when you can fly around it LOL.
I've proposed outside dates to my two ATFs from this year but the girls that have gotten ATF status from me have been quieter girls that weren't really interested in tourism and literally did not leave the spa for the entire time of their stay. The days off they took were for recovery and they just slept in the room, LOL.
I don't have to deal with a translator app though and I genuinely enjoyed conversation with both of these girls.
Apparently Ewe52 is either more attractive or just picks more fun girls for this crap, LOL.
[QUOTE=Kakattekina;6597425]The days off they took were for recovery and they just slept in the room, LOL.[/QUOTE]LOL That's what they told you. It's all YMMV.
[QUOTE=Kakattekina;6597425]I've proposed outside dates to my two ATFs from this year but the girls that have gotten ATF status from me have been quieter girls that weren't really interested in tourism and literally did not leave the spa for the entire time of their stay. The days off they took were for recovery and they just slept in the room, LOL.
I don't have to deal with a translator app though and I genuinely enjoyed conversation with both of these girls.
Apparently Ewe52 is either more attractive or just picks more fun girls for this crap, LOL.[/QUOTE]Nah apparently I'm the fat girl at prom compared to these ‘pretty white’ ladies on here! LOL. I just exchanged contact with the girls I click with and tell them if they ever have a day off to let's hang out. Most of them do have a good understanding of English. Never tried to negotiate a free lifetime cip out of the date though something to consider next time. But then again the fantasy continues on this board with some guys and they can write anything and claim it as facts.
[QUOTE=JediNY;6597449]LOL That's what they told you. It's all YMMV.[/QUOTE]I've seen both of them enough that I believe this to be true. I did actually take one of them to an outside excursion quite late in her tour, and the look of "wow so this is what America is like" on her face looked genuine to me!
[QUOTE=Kakattekina;6597667]I've seen both of them enough that I believe this to be true. I did actually take one of them to an outside excursion quite late in her tour, and the look of "wow so this is what America is like" on her face looked genuine to me![/QUOTE]It's all good. Comment made in jest. LOL.
[QUOTE=Ewe52;6597306]Speaking of dates, I'm not a native New Yorker moved here 2 years ago. Where are some places besides the tourist traps to impress a girl on her day off. I've had my fill of harry potter and lion king shows to last me a life time.[/QUOTE]I bring her to McDonald's, get her a happy meal and then bang her in the back seat of my car in the parking lot. They always tell me how much they love real authentic American experiences.
[QUOTE=VeoMorphine;6597695]I bring her to McDonald's, get her a happy meal and then bang her in the back seat of my car in the parking lot. They always tell me how much they love real authentic American experiences.[/QUOTE]Wow. You are such a hopeless romantic!
[QUOTE=Kakattekina;6597667]I've seen both of them enough that I believe this to be true. I did actually take one of them to an outside excursion quite late in her tour, and the look of "wow so this is what America is like" on her face looked genuine to me![/QUOTE]Shit Kat! Let's double date next time. And then convince Jedi to come out with his girl and make it a triple! I've had 0 bad dates with these Jgirls end of the night freebie or not.
[QUOTE=VeoMorphine;6597695]I bring her to McDonald's, get her a happy meal and then bang her in the back seat of my car in the parking lot. They always tell me how much they love real authentic American experiences.[/QUOTE]You must be loaded! With parking rates in the city that's over the $150 budget! Someone get this girl a subway pass!
Anyone have any reviews on Kama? Interested but first time getting into the Jgirls / BBFS scene.
[QUOTE=JediNY;6597147]IMO Just like a real date, it is only awkward when there is no chemistry or common interests and you having nothing to say.[/QUOTE]Yes. If it is just fucking, stay at the spa, it's cheaper.
[QUOTE=Scythe10;6597182]The one I mentioned was the "high-end" of paying for it during the outting, least from what I experienced. To be fair the cost came out to like a 2.45 sesh with an extra tacked on but I think I spent like 9-10 hrs with the girl? 4-5 hrs outting and 4-5 bedroom fun semi-overnight.
Another was just a simple coffee date + escorting around the city wherever she wanted to go. Got a small bit of action out of it at the end and discounts when I see her. Lowest "cost" wise. Just bought the coffee and the snacks and a lot of walking.
There were two others that were "in-between" those, cost wise.
Hence why I'd probs want it planned or decent chem if I ever do accept it again, to make sure of the cost / time / overall worth is.[/QUOTE]Only do it if real chemistry.
[QUOTE=JediNY;6596910]I would only take a girl out if they seem to genuinely like you and you like them. Otherwise you are giving up your time instead of money for extras. IMO a girl likes you if you get freebies at a minimum. Getting discounted perks is not a like in my book.
NYC sightseeing can also be expensive and a pain in the ass with long lines etc. So it depends on what you and the girl have in mind regarding showing them the City. Dating apps are full of girls who want to use you and want you to show them around the City.[/QUOTE]Yah only go for free and public places in case you get a dud on. Date and not the fun girl you fucked in the room.