The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

Are you finding them? I'm in sb and couple other sites, not finding any luck.

[QUOTE=GentleGiant78;5902275]I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GentleGiant78;5902275]I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.[/QUOTE]I have the same approach with sbs in general. I will from time to time go more casual for someone particularly hot, but I have had some great relationships with sbs.

[QUOTE=WillieD1;5902651]Are you finding them? I'm in sb and couple other sites, not finding any luck.[/QUOTE]Mostly on seeking.

Sb is mostly a scam.

Had a little luck on tinder / bumble / hinge but harder work for sure.

Sb definitely feels like the run around. I'll dig deeper with seeking, appreciate the tips!

[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;5903972]Mostly on seeking.

Sb is mostly a scam.

Had a little luck on tinder / bumble / hinge but harder work for sure.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GentleGiant78;5902275]I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.[/QUOTE]If it got up the chain in my company that I was in the sugar business I would immediately lose my position, and would likely struggle to find a replacement that even comes close to my current salary. For obvious reasons I'm not going to state what company it is I work for or what we do. All I can really say is that me getting exposed as a sugar daddy would cause a serious headache for more people than just myself. Lot's of fragile connections held together by mandatory good PR.

Frankly I'd rather be moderately paranoid for my future's security than rely on "trust" to not bite me in the ass and cost me everything I've worked for up to this point in life; just for a good lay nonetheless.

Sorry, not sorry.

[QUOTE=Biscuits1234;5904100]If it got up the chain in my company that I was in the sugar business I would immediately lose my position, and would likely struggle to find a replacement that even comes close to my current salary. For obvious reasons I'm not going to state what company it is I work for or what we do. All I can really say is that me getting exposed as a sugar daddy would cause a serious headache for more people than just myself. Lot's of fragile connections held together by mandatory good PR.

Frankly I'd rather be moderately paranoid for my future's security than rely on "trust" to not bite me in the ass and cost me everything I've worked for up to this point in life; just for a good lay nonetheless.

Sorry, not sorry.[/QUOTE]Absolutely agree with this. All this SB stuff is just temporary fun. And not worth losing everything else that you have built up in your life. Luckily I have not had any bad SB experiences where I got cheated or got robbed. But got ghosted a lot. The worst that happened was one SB got too drunk and I had to let her stay the night at the hotel I booked. Which I had done before but I would always let them book in their name rather than my name if they plan to stay the night. I politely declined to see her again. Though the sex was good the drinking was not to my tastes. I have one SB since 2 years now though I still like to hunt. But kind of tired. And will quit this after current SB moves on. No where have I exposed my real name. I usually get a dependent credit card with a phony name and use that when I have to use it in front of the SB. My current SB still calls me by my SA profile name. And that's all she cares about. Being paranoid in this hobby is a very good thing IMHO.

G.

Great job making sure you've picked a house sitter quality SB the first time you ever meet.

[QUOTE=GentleGiant78;5902275]I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GentleGiant78;5902275]I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.[/QUOTE]Just curious but what would you say you actually end up paying per week or month on your SB?

Any info on this lady will be appreciated.

[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;5907498]Any info on this lady will be appreciated.[/QUOTE]Check your PM.

[QUOTE=Maxamillion8;5908281]Check your PM.[/QUOTE]Could I have the same info please?

[QUOTE=GentleGiant78;5902275]I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.[/QUOTE]You got lucky but most spend months on that site only to be scammed. It's so bad now that you can't even get through a month without management expelling your membership for any reason they choose.

[QUOTE=Pubb69;5908512]You got lucky but most spend months on that site only to be scammed. It's so bad now that you can't even get through a month without management expelling your membership for any reason they choose.[/QUOTE]I have been back on seeking for 3 months since early Feb. In that time I have slept with around a dozen women from there. To avoid getting whacked off the site never talk money or use phrases like ppm on the site. Move that conversation to text (google voice if you need to) asap. If you start getting an off vibe from anyone, block them immediately so they can no longer see your profile to file a false report. Don't get into pointless arguments with internet strangers.

My personal approach is probably a bit closer to vanilla dating than most of you guys on here, and I have met many women on seeking who don't want any allowance from me at all. But for anyone where I have provided finances I move that conversation offline quickly.

[QUOTE=wpbdude;5905027]Just curious but what would you say you actually end up paying per week or month on your SB?[/QUOTE]In this area, assuming you want to see someone once or twice a week, you can get a very hot sb for $2 k a month. For ppm I find you can get hot women in the $300-$500 range with $400 being the most common. There are some women with GPS who look for or demand more, but keep digging and you will find plenty in that range. And many of those will accept less if it is consistent. Like most of these women are going to much prefer seeing the one same guy twice a week every week for a long period of time for $2 k a month than trying to find 4 one off ppm guys. Like if you are a married guy and have $1. 5-2 k a month and consistency to offer, you should be able to find a great sb in this area using seeking.

[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;5909218]I have been back on seeking for 3 months since early Feb. In that time I have slept with around a dozen women from there. To avoid getting whacked off the site never talk money or use phrases like ppm on the site. Move that conversation to text (google voice if you need to) asap. If you start getting an off vibe from anyone, block them immediately so they can no longer see your profile to file a false report. Don't get into pointless arguments with internet strangers.

My personal approach is probably a bit closer to vanilla dating than most of you guys on here, and I have met many women on seeking who don't want any allowance from me at all. But for anyone where I have provided finances I move that conversation offline quickly.[/QUOTE]Completely agree 100% with SeekingRdu. Move the convo off the site as quickly as possible. Move on if they prefer to chat on the site. I date a lot of these girls from the site. And I even give some away to a few on here who have my number.

[QUOTE=Dknotts;5908371]Could I have the same info please?[/QUOTE]Glad I did not bite. She posted additional pics and she is much heavier than I like.

So I joined SA a week ago, have a few conversations going, one chick flat out offered PPM. Etc. I get a call today from an unknown / unlisted number claiming to be from SA and something about a complaint of solicitation. I thought I read a post here saying the same thing. I would love to compare contacts with that person here and see if any patterns.

Sigh.

[QUOTE=wpbdude;5910887]So I joined SA a week ago, have a few conversations going, one chick flat out offered PPM. Etc. I get a call today from an unknown / unlisted number claiming to be from SA and something about a complaint of solicitation. I thought I read a post here saying the same thing. I would love to compare contacts with that person here and see if any patterns.

Sigh.[/QUOTE]I have had a same experience. Iv shared the profile as well (couple a pages back). Please share the profile here as an alert. It will help others.

[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;5910468]Glad I did not bite. She posted additional pics and she is much heavier than I like.[/QUOTE]Not sure what happened but she suddenly blocked me. I guess we have someone over here informed her that she is in discussion. I will caution my self before mentioning any intel. I will stick to not reveling the details in public anymore. But really, I thought we are on same team LOL.

Lynn.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d313158d-34b0-4a78-8033-359b562a8b16[/URL]

Talking a little, pics trace back to a OF account under Goddess Lynn.

MichelleSuzy1234.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/64cadbef-cf81-4ddf-92cb-1372c3062876[/URL]

Went to to phone call after reaching out, doesn't do FS, but said 400 for Greek and oral, virgin do to medical issue.

Any info on this lady will be appreciated. She was quick to throw out her number and just as quick to say what she wants for PPM. PM me with any info you may have. Planning on meeting her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aa44c888-faf2-4aa5-a8ac-da30fa8e6180[/URL]

I see "No Strings Attached" and "Platonic" a lot of times in ladies Seeking profiles. I feel those 2 are diametrically opposed. That one cannot be both. What am I missing here.

[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;5909218]I have been back on seeking for 3 months since early Feb. In that time I have slept with around a dozen women from there. To avoid getting whacked off the site never talk money or use phrases like ppm on the site. Move that conversation to text (google voice if you need to) asap. If you start getting an off vibe from anyone, block them immediately so they can no longer see your profile to file a false report. Don't get into pointless arguments with internet strangers.

My personal approach is probably a bit closer to vanilla dating than most of you guys on here, and I have met many women on seeking who don't want any allowance from me at all. But for anyone where I have provided finances I move that conversation offline quickly.[/QUOTE]Just tried to send you a PM, yer mailbox is full. .

[QUOTE=wpbdude;5915479]Just tried to send you a PM, yer mailbox is full. .[/QUOTE]Cleared it up.

Has any of you gents seen this girl in person or at least communicated with her? Initial vibe seems fine but if possible I'd love to get some intel. Thanks!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7dd57465-cfa6-4d81-ba6b-2fae83bcbdbc[/URL]

This may or may not be the spot for this, but has anybody tried to set up a woman with a cam girl account and help them make $$? Could be an interesting venture.

[QUOTE=LikesGirls;5926413]Has any of you gents seen this girl in person or at least communicated with her? Initial vibe seems fine but if possible I'd love to get some intel. Thanks!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7dd57465-cfa6-4d81-ba6b-2fae83bcbdbc[/URL][/QUOTE]She's real. Seemed like a decent person. We did a m&g but she wasn't my type. She's not a pro but I got short term, high volume vibes from her. Also, she couldn't host and didn't have a car.

[QUOTE=FuckHard;5892935][URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/lqwMzODaAPjnjar5vyV3b61r[/URL]

Meet this one last year for a meet and greet, she is real. I asked her if she could meet at a local strip club LOL which she agreed. We had dinner and drinks back at Peking lot there was some dfk and she allowed my hands to travel places. She mention there would be more the next time but it was too expensive for my taste.[/QUOTE]Just out of curiosity, how much was she talking about?

[QUOTE=Sobe69;5810237]She is real cool older chick but just did not connect in during the deed. PPM type not shaved its been a while for that.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ce37ea4e-be80-4fa0-9c34-725f79d758f3[/URL][/QUOTE]What was the damage for this one and how she look in person besides the 70's Bush. LOL.

[QUOTE=wpbdude;5928379]Just out of curiosity, how much was she talking about?[/QUOTE]I would be curious too, I saw her on seeking.

Some of the prices gals are asking for, and, it seems, guys are paying around here are crazy. I am getting girls in Greensboro wanting 8. Are they out of their minds? It's Hicksville nc there not NYC.

[QUOTE=EscortReview89;5911378]Lynn.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d313158d-34b0-4a78-8033-359b562a8b16[/URL]

Talking a little, pics trace back to a OF account under Goddess Lynn.

MichelleSuzy1234.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/64cadbef-cf81-4ddf-92cb-1372c3062876[/URL]

Went to to phone call after reaching out, doesn't do FS, but said 400 for Greek and oral, virgin do to medical issue.[/QUOTE]I've met Michelle a few times for PPM 2019-2020 so it's been a while. Your post didn't lead to her profile but it's here:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1e142607-f35f-4c18-80b6-938e19fc81f0[/URL]

Girl in the pictures is her. She's a cute petite girl, looks Hispanic but of Italian descent if I'm not mistaken. I met her mostly for dinner dates and once for private PPM at a hotel. Interestingly enough she told me she is a virgin too but wasn't aware it's due a medical issue, I just assumed she was lying because she wasn't comfortable with FS. Figured no way a tight college girl like her isn't getting dicked down by college guys on the regular. Shame because with that tight body she'd probably be a millionaire by now if she did; I'm honestly surprised some rich fuck hasn't taken her for himself by now.

Overall she's a pretty fun girl to take out for dinner and have a nice chat. She was somewhat uncomfortable kissing the few times I met up with her and would turn her cheek which I found kind of weird because it's not like I'm some old grandpa. The one time I did meet her at hotel for private PPM was awkward too which is why I didn't repeat. Didn't seem like she planned her schedule properly because she had just gotten off work and I basically got the impression she seemed in a rush to make it back home before family dinner. DATY but she didn't seem into it at all so I didn't force things. She was still turning her cheek when I tried to kiss her so me being a gentleman, I didn't want to force that either. I honestly didn't know what the fuck else to do so a little BBBJ which was ok with her tight mouth and small tongue but overall the meeting was just so awkward. I kissed her feet and fondled with her breast a bit and just sent her on her way. Lasted 15 minutes tops, it was too awkward, almost as if she was uncomfortable being naked and with her body so I just left it at that. Met her again for dinner a couple months later and she acted as if nothing unusual happened the last time we met so I figured that's just the way she is or maybe she's shy when it comes to sexual things.

Overall cool girl to take out to dinner, she's kinda fun to talk to. Wish she'd told me about the anal when I met her but again, this was a few years ago and maybe she's just gained some confidence since then. Would TOFTT and try again but I'm not local to RDU anymore so I'd be curious to hear what others experiences are with her. Sweet girl, treat her nicely.

[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;5928613]I would be curious too, I saw her on seeking.

Some of the prices gals are asking for, and, it seems, guys are paying around here are crazy. I am getting girls in Greensboro wanting 8. Are they out of their minds? It's Hicksville nc there not NYC.[/QUOTE]I quit the site about 3 years ago but I get amusement hearing these stories. It's the long and expensive route to meeting basically what used to be available through escort agencies at half the cost and a tenth of the aggravation.

Nothing more pretentious than meeting these women at a coffee shop or restaurant when both of us know the reason why we were meeting but somehow to make the woman feel like she isn't a hooker you meet and agree to it on the next time, meanwhile you wasted $100 or so on dinner and drinks plus your time with someone who would never date you nor would you want to date them. So next time it's a straight up cash transaction to get what you thought you wanted only to find out she is usually unhygienic, in a rush and an overall disappointment.

Hey. I'm getting back into the SB scene and I'm wondering if anyone has contact info for this woman? It's been a few years since we talked and I don't have her info anymore. Send a private message if you can help.

[QUOTE=Pubb69;5929834]I quit the site about 3 years ago but I get amusement hearing these stories. It's the long and expensive route to meeting basically what used to be available through escort agencies at half the cost and a tenth of the aggravation.

Nothing more pretentious than meeting these women at a coffee shop or restaurant when both of us know the reason why we were meeting but somehow to make the woman feel like she isn't a hooker you meet and agree to it on the next time, meanwhile you wasted $100 or so on dinner and drinks plus your time with someone who would never date you nor would you want to date them. So next time it's a straight up cash transaction to get what you thought you wanted only to find out she is usually unhygienic, in a rush and an overall disappointment.[/QUOTE]I think it depends on your overall MO. I stumbled upon this from other sugar dating forums, and got into sugar more from a regular dating perspective than the escort direction. Some of these girls on seeking I have had legit regular dating experiences / relationships from, without any allowances of cash changing hands. That is what makes it all the more comical when some average looking chick in fucking Greensboro thinks guys need to pay her 800 to hookup.

[QUOTE=SpoonerStrum;5926677]This may or may not be the spot for this, but has anybody tried to set up a woman with a cam girl account and help them make $$? Could be an interesting venture.[/QUOTE]If they are able to pic / video verify, but then start saying they want to do 'virtual' only. Test their answer. I've had probably about a half dozen sign up. A couple were then later inclined to meet in-person.

Does anyone have a lead on Tiffany. Looks like she's been around since 2019. And info will be appreciated.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/27cda71e-cfa4-4667-9bb8-fa0fab094fa6[/URL]

[QUOTE=DriveHard;5931039]If they are able to pic / video verify, but then start saying they want to do 'virtual' only. Test their answer. I've had probably about a half dozen sign up. A couple were then later inclined to meet in-person.[/QUOTE]Yep. Chaturbate is my go to site.

[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;5931726]Does anyone have a lead on Tiffany. Looks like she's been around since 2019. And info will be appreciated.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/27cda71e-cfa4-4667-9bb8-fa0fab094fa6[/URL][/QUOTE]Here's the right link to her profile.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/44a722bc-cfb0-4fa0-bba2-84df5b29c42f[/URL]

[QUOTE=wpbdude;5928403]What was the damage for this one and how she look in person besides the 70's Bush. LOL.[/QUOTE]I don't remember but it was nothing crazy I would say 2 as guess.

[QUOTE=SpoonerStrum;5926677]This may or may not be the spot for this, but has anybody tried to set up a woman with a cam girl account and help them make $$? Could be an interesting venture.[/QUOTE]I did this back in the day when webcam as new and the cameras plugged into your computer! Used a room in my apartment that had a roman tub it was good times for about a year.