Any Intel on RosealieBankssXO
I feel she was reviewed here before but maybe under different profile name? Any intel? Thanks!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1650aa5d-dc91-4cfc-a2b3-ac681a4f459d[/URL]
Bring girl to you via uber
Hey gents, long time infrequent SA user here. I probably meet about 2-3 girls a year tops on SA but rarely repeat. I like to explore. So recently, I'm noticing girls asking that they would like you to "uber" them to you. Any experience with this? I like to meet people in public first and frankly don't like the idea of paying $50 or more for transportation without being sure we'd even click. The particular girl I'm talking to is open to being uber'd to a bar near me for drinks, then me hosting or hotel, and then being uber'd back for $400. Sounds like a pretty easy hell no to me.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/edc502f4-f352-4f6d-b7dc-44426ebff0a1[/URL]
A second gal, wants to meet near her place for drinks- $200 and then go back to her apt. For $400. She's offering two explosions for that. Still is on the ridiculous side. I'd consider $3 to 4 tops and no money when meeting for drinks. (No uber involved with this one.).
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/edc502f4-f352-4f6d-b7dc-44426ebff0a1[/URL]
Thoughts on the Uber question
[QUOTE=MDmonger;4432871]FYI. Your posted link won't work because you copied them from your personal inbox. Notice "messages" in the URL. You need to copy from their main profile page.[/QUOTE]I have had a few ladies ask for an Uber. My thought on that is the same as paying for a meet and greet, if you can invest then we can't meet. Besides, sending an Uber creates a monetary trail in my view. I don't like electronic trails that can be avoided.
A paragraph break now and then would be helpful
[QUOTE=DrknStrmy;4436355]So this is another nutcase whom NO ONE should waste their time with. I promise you it will not go well at all. She's been written about in other posts, which I should have heeded instead of falling for the alluring ass and supposedly 19 year old tits (she told me that she was 23). We did a meet and greet by her place mid-way between Baltimore and Washington. Things were ok initially but the vibe got a little weird at times in the conversation as she'd occasionally get oddly insistent about irrelevant things (things had gone really well, we were on the same page about our expectations and we were trying to figure out when we could get together, she proposed tomorrow, but had said her mouth had been bothering her because she had some issues with her teeth and was going to the dentist tomorrow to get xrays and some cavities filled; I suggested that if she was getting work on her mouth, tomorrow probably wasn't a good idea, to which she replied that I needed to respect her, she'd been to the dentist many times before in her life and she knows what to expect and there's nothing that would be a problem and I should go along with what she was telling me. "Danger Will Robinson! Danger! After eventually figuring out that tomorrow would not work, she moved an afternoon service appointment for her car for later and said we could go back to her place for an hour or so. We get there, and things are going ok just laying on the bed fully clothed chatting, and she sends me a payment request through cash app. She also makes an odd request--she has about $260 in cash in her car and can she give me the cash and I send her the same amount via cash app to save her a trip to the bank. That shouts classic scam. Now I'm thinking this has gone sideways, as I recall the reviews of her scamming others. I politely tell her, I won't be doing that. She then asks that I pay her the full amount on cash app and whether I have a condom. I tell her that I brought my own condoms and they're in my car, I will go get them. She insists that we stay there and that I use the one she has. I don't agree to that. I propose that since we don't know each other well yet (and smelling scam from the earlier request), I can pay her half now and half after. She flies off the hook and says I should just pay her the full amount because she's trusted me in having me back to her house. I tell her that I understand and appreciate that a lot because that does show a lot of trust, but she could easily walk out of the room and say she's not doing anything now after I send it to her, so I'm trying to meet her half way. I'll skip the back and forth and get to the part where she starts hitting me and grabbing my throat as I try to get my shoes on since I know this isn't happening. I am significantly bigger and stronger than her but I'm also smarter than that. When I don't respond by doing something dumb like striking her, she gets a knife and threatens to not let me leave unless I give her the money. This goes back and forth and she's totally deranged, insisting that I just pay her the money, eyes totally bugging out of her head at this point screaming at me to just pay her and she needs it (she also told me that she has a boyfriend who knows she's on the site but who doesn't know that she's having sex with guys--yeah right! So he may be some kind of pimp or addict and have some kind of hold over her where she gets money for them). I eventually get my way to the door--enduring more strikes from her, fortunately without the knife which she threw in the midst of screaming at me and trying to tackle me--and get out the slider out the rear of the house. She yells something about the front door as I walk out and then runs around to the front door, exits the house and says she's going to stand behind my car and not let me leave unless I pay her. She rants about there being guns in the house and people coming to help her and follow me and not let me leave and follow me home. She rants about ruining my life. Total freaking nutcase meltdown. True to her word, she gets behind my car and when I put it in reverse and slowly backup, she grabs the rear wiper and bends it then gets out of the way and I drive off. So yeah, total nutcase. No one in their right mind should bother with this girl who has clear mental issues. (She told me about her childhood, which wasn't good--though I was impressed with how she'd persevered despite it. She did talk about her perspective on sugarbabying given her experience on the site and the truly fucked up dudes there on it--she spoke of one experience which sounded a lot like a prior encounter described on this site and from her description sounded like she was dealing with an. Unusual person. Though she also described some totally fine experiences too.) This is what the demise of craigslist has done. There were street walkers, like this girl would otherwise be, who used craigslist as a safer way to stay off the street, and now that that's gone have pages on SA and other sites, but they're not sugarbabies, they're just hookers. Anyway, if you have any self-preservation in doing this and actually want to hook up instead of getting ripped off or threatened by knife point, don't contact her at all.[/QUOTE]It sounds like you had a bad experience, but that's a lot of text for one paragraph. This is like trying to read Joyce or Faulkner.
Another method of starting the conversation
[QUOTE=FunGuy570;4440899]The worst part of the sugar dating experience is the "what are you looking fo"are part. Unless they are pros they won't tell you. You will then have to throw out a guess and offer. They will usually smile, nod, ghost and dissapeer if they don't agree. Very rarily any counter. Anyone have any suggestions on how to handle this part?[/QUOTE]Talk about the non monetary things that are important to you. (Passion, chemistry, etc). Then say in past arrangements you have paid $xx. If they block you, whatever, but most want to think they're not pros, so they'll tell you what they are looking for. Go from there, be nice, don't pay too much. There is no sure fire method, but go for the conversation to get closer to an agreement. It won't always work. But I have a girl who is a great fuck who doesn't expect money every time I see her, but she is a flake! Decide what works for you! Good luck!
