[QUOTE=EGray;3581987]Well maybe not stage 5 but I'm hoping for a little input regarding a clingy AMP provider. Anybody ever deal with a clingy AMP provider?
A little over a week ago one of my current favorites texted about 1/2 hour after I called the parlor asking if she was available. We had never exchanged numbers so she clearly just took my number from the caller I'd. I had seen her many times before and always call first so I'm sure she know who it was. At the moment it was just a text to let me know she was available so I responded and went to see her. That lead to one of the best visits with her yet.
Since then she has been texting me 2 or 3 times a day with a few different text each time. Mostly harmless stuff like "good morning" etc. I thought it harmless at the time so I was always polite and responded back but made sure not to get carried away with any back and forth.
I'm just at a loss as how to handle it and what her ultimate goal is. I very specifically go to AMPs because I do not want or need a relationship. I just enjoy a good massage and a great HJ. I'm vexed because she is a GREAT provider and I very much enjoy seeing her. I just don't want ANY drama! However, I don't want to go to the trouble of finding another provider that so clearly understands what I like.
I would literally be there right now had this not started but I'm fearful that the drama will just escalate if I don't cut ties sooner rather than later.
99 problems and the * is always at least 1.[/QUOTE]If you're single, I wouldn't worry too much about it, unless it makes you uncomfortable. I would just stop responding unless you're trying to make an appointment.
If you're attached, then I would probably cut it off all together unless you got your comms in a place that's easily hidden or disposed of.
I had a similar situation with an AMP provider who I shared a burner number with for setting up sessions, and she got friendlier and friendlier to the point it was excessive. Me and my SO were at the mall and and we ran into her, it was awkward and I covered it well as I completely denied I knew who she was. She tried showing me my phone number on her phone, and since it was a burner number I was again easily able to deny it. She left thinking I was someone else and my SO laughed it off, thankfully.
Cash, nickname, and burner phone / apps are key tools.