Rants and Stupid shit in Orange County

[QUOTE=SukijoSeiwaka;6970315]I'm an asexual but, I just don't see the point of it. I'm not into plastic surgery but, there are a lot of girls from Latin america or asia that come here with plastic surgery work. From my understanding, a lot of guys who have oicked up transgenders are normally buzzed, drunk, high or very tired. This is what streetwalkers (females) told me in LA.[/QUOTE]Or they are closet gays.

Many guys, who transition, do so because they are gay, want sex with men and find it more socially acceptable to be thought of as women. Men who like sex with trannies are also gay or bisexual.

[QUOTE=BSouthgate;6970566]Or they are closet gays.

Many guys, who transition, do so because they are gay, want sex with men and find it more socially acceptable to be thought of as women. Men who like sex with trannies are also gay or bisexual.[/QUOTE]If the attraction is opposite sex features then, you aren't gay. Sexology, psychology and Neuroscience proved this wrong decades ago. A lot of guys from a sociologically stance are buzzed, tired or high. Most street prostitution is blowjobs so, a transgender who just blows or knows howto conceal their penis can easily hook a lot of Johns.

[QUOTE=EncinoChad;6966612]Yapping alert / disclaimer.

Man, what the hell is up with the rotation of girls in AMPs.

Like, I finally have time to catch up on some recommendations from some mongers on here, then by the time I get to them, the ladies that I want to try out are not there anymore. And a lot of recommendations are from fresh reviews as well from places that haven't been shut down.

This some limited-time only bs loll.

The only thing I could think of is that they're following the cinema / theater model where new releases brings peeps to the theater to buy tickets, in this case, we're buying "tickets" to "see" 304's. Idk, I just think this whole rotation thing is dumb.[/QUOTE]There was a newspaper article in OC Register I think with an expose of trafficking. It claimed that Asian girls working MP's in OC had no idea what city they were in, and were moved city to city every few weeks. I have never seen any evidence of that. Most of the shops have regular girls there for years. Universally they have cellphones and will give you their number. If they were in desparate straights you would assume they would seek some assistance or to get word to the authorities to rescue them. But no, they just want you to become a regular customer. In some shops, girls will even meet you outside the shop. I have seen a few who sleep over in the shop, but I believe this is unsupervised, and essentially just saves the girl the need to pay rent, keeping more money in her pocket.

I think the misunderstanding comes from a cultural difference. Many American women speak of any kind of sex with an older man as if its disgusting, and almost a form of sexual abuse if there is a 20 year age gap in a marriage. There is disgust with men's sexual needs and satisfaction, and an anti-male anti-boomer attitude in many quarters. So the idea of a woman doing sex work, and doing her job happily is unimaginable. Most of these Chinese women working the shops do not seem to be nymphomaniacs, they are just women who are ok with the job, and making more money than they ever dreamed possible. There is also some simple-minded racist views of Asian women as weak and compliant. Which comes from people who have not been around Chinese or Korean women much.

Happily we have arrived at a point, where the LE seems to leave us and the girls alone, and we can happily engage in the hobby, and they can make money, and the American ladies can get their $120 massages with their aroma therapy.

[QUOTE=DarkRoomDaddy;6971237]There was a newspaper article in OC Register I think with an expose of trafficking. It claimed that Asian girls working MP's in OC had no idea what city they were in, and were moved city to city every few weeks. I have never seen any evidence of that. Most of the shops have regular girls there for years. Universally they have cellphones and will give you their number. If they were in desparate straights you would assume they would seek some assistance or to get word to the authorities to rescue them. But no, they just want you to become a regular customer. In some shops, girls will even meet you outside the shop. I have seen a few who sleep over in the shop, but I believe this is unsupervised, and essentially just saves the girl the need to pay rent, keeping more money in her pocket.

I think the misunderstanding comes from a cultural difference. Many American women speak of any kind of sex with an older man as if its disgusting, and almost a form of sexual abuse if there is a 20 year age gap in a marriage. There is disgust with men's sexual needs and satisfaction, and an anti-male anti-boomer attitude in many quarters. So the idea of a woman doing sex work, and doing her job happily is unimaginable. Most of these Chinese women working the shops do not seem to be nymphomaniacs, they are just women who are ok with the job, and making more money than they ever dreamed possible. There is also some simple-minded racist views of Asian women as weak and compliant. Which comes from people who have not been around Chinese or Korean women much.

Happily we have arrived at a point, where the LE seems to leave us and the girls alone, and we can happily engage in the hobby, and they can make money, and the American ladies can get their $120 massages with their aroma therapy.[/QUOTE]I've done a little work with Polaris, which is a group that assists trafficked individuals. There absolutely are reports of girls who were forced to work in sex shops and had their docs taken from them and / or weren't in the country legally. The more prominent groups are Latina and Korean. Most of the shops that are discussed in OC are Chinese, and oddly enough the Chinese aren't a prominent group that gets trafficked. Again, shuffling the girls around from city to city or state to state isn't the most common form of trafficking. Debt bondage is the most common. That's where they paid someone to help them get into the US, under the guise of them having "work" once they're in, and having to pay back the debt which is often well north of $50 k. Their docs are confiscated until they're paid off. So now you have this girl in the US either illegally or without access to her docs, speaks little to no English, and owes some handler $50 k. She isn't a prisoner per se. She has some freedom. But she also has nowhere to go. She's afraid to go to the authorities because she may not be here legally. That's far more common than people realize. It's also prominent even more so with hotel and restaurant workers.

Now to clarify, there are some favorite shops in the OC that have some of the signs of trafficking. For example (I won't mention names but most of you will know who I'm referencing) there's a Westminster shop where the girls live with MMS and PPS and work 6 days a week, 12 hrs a day in a storefront with no rooms, just curtains so they have almost zero privacy. On the surface you might call that trafficking since some of the telltale signs are there. However, those girls have been known to go back home to China once in a while. If they were trafficked and here illegally they wouldn't be going home and coming back, so that place is safe.

This "trafficking" is almost always bindage by debt repayment. Itnis what it is. "willingly" is a relative term.

Much like a lot of guys remaining "married" in a sexless marriage becuase of perceived obligation. To the kids. Or whatever.

[QUOTE=EncinoChad;6966612]Yapping alert / disclaimer.

Man, what the hell is up with the rotation of girls in AMPs.

Like, I finally have time to catch up on some recommendations from some mongers on here, then by the time I get to them, the ladies that I want to try out are not there anymore. And a lot of recommendations are from fresh reviews as well from places that haven't been shut down.

This some limited-time only bs loll.

The only thing I could think of is that they're following the cinema / theater model where new releases brings peeps to the theater to buy tickets, in this case, we're buying "tickets" to "see" 304's. Idk, I just think this whole rotation thing is dumb.[/QUOTE]I couldn't find it to comment. You have to understand that the earth does not rotate around you. The current ways exist for good reasons. This is a free guide so you should be grateful if you can even get something useful out of it.

What AMP? What rotation? How can Taylor make so much money if the Eras Tour doesn't go around the country? If there is no rotation, the bookings for a lady will keep dropping.

[QUOTE=SukijoSeiwaka;6971170]If the attraction is opposite sex features then, you aren't gay. Sexology, psychology and Neuroscience proved this wrong decades ago. A lot of guys from a sociologically stance are buzzed, tired or high. Most street prostitution is blowjobs so, a transgender who just blows or knows howto conceal their penis can easily hook a lot of Johns.[/QUOTE]I think we agree Sukijo.

Trans women, like Dylan Mulvaney, were gay guys before they transitioned. A large proportion reverse transition to again become gay men. Those trannies on Beach Blvd like to suck cock. They are gay men. If you enjoy them sucking your cock, knowing that they are biological men, then you are bi or gay. Is that not true?

Trying to figure out if it's coincidence or me.

I changed mobile providers yesterday, and I'm unable to get onto bedpage. Not sure if it's blocked by the new provider, or by the account by default with the new provider, or might just be that page is coincidentally down just as I switch.

I guess first question, is it really down? Second question would be, how do you address this with the cell company?

[QUOTE=DaveSC;6974854]Trying to figure out if it's coincidence or me.

I changed mobile providers yesterday, and I'm unable to get onto bedpage. Not sure if it's blocked by the new provider, or by the account by default with the new provider, or might just be that page is coincidentally down just as I switch.

I guess first question, is it really down? Second question would be, how do you address this with the cell company?[/QUOTE]I check BP almost everyday. Never seen it down before. If you ever want to check if any site is down, just run a ping or check the down or not sites. If you think your ISP is blocking a site, either use a VPN or use a free proxy site. Such as.

[URL]https://proxyium.com/[/URL]

[QUOTE=DaveSC;6974854]Trying to figure out if it's coincidence or me.

I changed mobile providers yesterday, and I'm unable to get onto bedpage. Not sure if it's blocked by the new provider, or by the account by default with the new provider, or might just be that page is coincidentally down just as I switch.

I guess first question, is it really down? Second question would be, how do you address this with the cell company?[/QUOTE]Bedpage isn't down. I can get in easily from all devices and networks.

Try accessing via WiFi instead of over the cell network and see if that makes a difference. I've never heard of cell networks blocking sites like that but I guess it's not outside of the realm of possibilities. If you can get in via WiFi then it's something related to the wireless network. If not, then it's something on your device that's preventing it. Maybe try a different browser.

[QUOTE=DaveSC;6974854]Trying to figure out if it's coincidence or me.

I changed mobile providers yesterday, and I'm unable to get onto bedpage. Not sure if it's blocked by the new provider, or by the account by default with the new provider, or might just be that page is coincidentally down just as I switch.

I guess first question, is it really down? Second question would be, how do you address this with the cell company?[/QUOTE]You can test on [URL]downforeveryoneorjustme.com[/URL].

Maybe the parental blocking is on. Otherwise it's easier to switch than deal with it.

[QUOTE=BSouthgate;6972171]Trans women, like Dylan Mulvaney, were gay guys before they transitioned. A large proportion reverse transition to again become gay men. Those trannies on Beach Blvd like to suck cock. They are gay men. If you enjoy them sucking your cock, knowing that they are biological men, then you are bi or gay. Is that not true?[/QUOTE]I'd say if you seek them out thinking that they are men, then yes. If you enjoy getting your cock sucked by someone who looks like a woman, but it turns out they are a man of any degree, then no.

But sexuality is a spectrum, not a lot of people are completely straight or gay based on long-standing studies. In our society there's a lot of stigma so some of the most gay people of all swear up and down they are totally straight. You will never get past that issue here in the US, so any conversation is a non-starter.

Whereas in Thailand there's very little stigma. Ladyboys are common and generally don't consider themselves male or female (there are trans people in Thailand, but they aren't ladyboys). Either you like your dick sucked by them or you don't. No profound questions necessary, obviously you aren't completely straight if you do but neither is almost anybody. It is quite normal for a "straight" woman to find other women attractive, but not enough to want sexual relationships with them. Same for men. There are a lot more 1's and 2's on the Kinsey scale than 0's. Most of the 0's are extremely closeted due to religion. I have a best friend that to this day is a 6 who pretends to be a 0 because of religion, he won't leave it.

[QUOTE=DaveSC;6974854]Trying to figure out if it's coincidence or me.

I changed mobile providers yesterday, and I'm unable to get onto bedpage. Not sure if it's blocked by the new provider, or by the account by default with the new provider, or might just be that page is coincidentally down just as I switch.

I guess first question, is it really down? Second question would be, how do you address this with the cell company?[/QUOTE]Like Grimmy said, using WiFi should use the rules of the WiFi provider instead of the cell provider. If that doesn't work try using a free VPN just to check if something is filtering web IP addresses. If that doesn't work look up changing your DNS on your phone and use a public DNS.

[QUOTE=VoltronX;6975045]Like Grimmy said, using WiFi should use the rules of the WiFi provider instead of the cell provider. If that doesn't work try using a free VPN just to check if something is filtering web IP addresses. If that doesn't work look up changing your DNS on your phone and use a public DNS.[/QUOTE]It's also possible (just trying to exhaust everything because I don't know how techie you are) that you are trying to connect to the site while you're also connected to the WiFi network of wherever you are. Disable the WiFi and try connecting through the cell network. I think it is extremely unlikely that the cell network is keeping you out. Cell networks allow you to log into porn sites, escort sites, and all kinds of stuff, so there's no reason they'd try to keep you off of bedpage.

[QUOTE=FreeWally;6975019]I'd say if you seek them out thinking that they are men, then yes. If you enjoy getting your cock sucked by someone who looks like a woman, but it turns out they are a man of any degree, then no.

But sexuality is a spectrum, not a lot of people are completely straight or gay based on long-standing studies. In our society there's a lot of stigma so some of the most gay people of all swear up and down they are totally straight. You will never get past that issue here in the US, so any conversation is a non-starter.

Whereas in Thailand there's very little stigma. Ladyboys are common and generally don't consider themselves male or female (there are trans people in Thailand, but they aren't ladyboys). Either you like your dick sucked by them or you don't. No profound questions necessary, obviously you aren't completely straight if you do but neither is almost anybody. It is quite normal for a "straight" woman to find other women attractive, but not enough to want sexual relationships with them. Same for men. There are a lot more 1's and 2's on the Kinsey scale than 0's. Most of the 0's are extremely closeted due to religion. I have a best friend that to this day is a 6 who pretends to be a 0 because of religion, he won't leave it.[/QUOTE]I agree with Wally on this. Good discussion.