Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[QUOTE=Westie6;4165339]New user and had a question for more experienced members. Only the men pay for the first dates correct?

I got an offer from someone but I wasn't sure if the price was for me to pay or her. I know that I can offer to others, just want to confirm that regardless of who offered, the men pay the amount.[/QUOTE]Yes, of course. Have had some girls send offer, but that just telling you her opening bid that she wants. Personally found wyp the worst of the sites in terms of women who truly dtf.

This girl wants $450. I stopped the conversation and deleted her number. I don't negotiate.

[QUOTE=TopGun9;4165746]This girl wants $450. I stopped the conversation and deleted her number. I don't negotiate.[/QUOTE]You should really rethink that stance. Many aim high hoping to get a real daddy that would say "yes" to any number. You can counter offer 200. Let her be the one to say she doesn't negotiate, then you can stop the conversation and get the next one. Odds are she'll take a lower number. They expect it.

I've run into four "pretty women" who wanted 1 K. I still counter offered a much lower amount. The worse that can happen is that they say "no. " If so, so what! We are not questioning what they are; just the amount.

BMD.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;4165892]You should really rethink that stance. Many aim high hoping to get a real daddy that would say "yes" to any number. You can counter offer 200. Let her be the one to say she doesn't negotiate, then you can stop the conversation and get the next one. Odds are she'll take a lower number. They expect it.

I've run into four "pretty women" who wanted 1 K. I still counter offered a much lower amount. The worse that can happen is that they say "no. " If so, so what! We are not questioning what they are; just the amount.

BMD.[/QUOTE]You're right.

BUT, there are way too many girls up here on SA for you to be wasting time haggling over a price. I like girls that accept whatever amount I offer. If agreed, we move forward. If not, thank you. Next.

[QUOTE=LuckyCT;4162659]She wanted $500 from me for a date on WYP. Took her a week to reply.[/QUOTE]I wrote to her 2 weeks ago. She read my message a week later. Got no reply. Next!

BMD.

[QUOTE=TopGun9;4166749]You're right.

BUT, there are way too many girls up here on SA for you to be wasting time haggling over a price. I like girls that accept whatever amount I offer. If agreed, we move forward. If not, thank you. Next.[/QUOTE]I usually catch them online in the message area and counter them live. Same on with text on the phone. Takes me a few seconds. If they decline then that's fine, too. Sometimes, it's also in how they say no. A little smooth talking can ease them into a more affordable range. They don't want to appear to be settling for lower standards too fast. .

BMD.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;4166860]I usually catch them online in the message area and counter them live. Same on with text on the phone. Takes me a few seconds. If they decline then that's fine, too. Sometimes, it's also in how they say no. A little smooth talking can ease them into a more affordable range. They don't want to appear to be settling for lower standards too fast. .

BMD.[/QUOTE]You need to stick to your price. They will always ask for more and some will not budge, but most will. I give them my offer and some accept, some will double it or more. I almost always decline and suggest they would be better off with someone else. If they move on, ok. Many will accept your terms if you are firm and are not rude about it.

I am doing a meet and greet with a hot looking 22 year old to, orrow. She wanted double my offer and I did as I said above and she agreed to my number. Fingers crossed she is as hot as her pics in real life.

[QUOTE=RonOne;4165157]Hope you have good luck on SA. Remember most are a waste of time. Be selective an do NOT overpay. Set your limit an stick to it. Never pay anything in advance. If you are not comfortable with her Bail out. Just my 2 cents.[/QUOTE]Thank you Ron, I will report back with any success!

They both are thick but the head game is strong.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/aac6ae17-127c-4ba1-a222-7289b6ede7ee[/URL] this one's in Wolcott and can't host. $150 did the trick even though she asked for double that.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/archive/404d68db-70f4-4327-8942-2cceb8eb7da1[/URL] this one is in New Britain and will host in a clean, safe location.

[QUOTE=TopGun9;4165746]This girl wants $450. I stopped the conversation and deleted her number. I don't negotiate.[/QUOTE]There are lots of good info an tips about how much you pay an how you treat them on here. If you are just getting into Sa an others I suggest you go way back on the posts. Good info on experiences an when to hold the line on price an move on. Some of us have been on SA for a few years an I dare say most of the girls are a waste of time. If you can nurture 2 or 3 gems you will have hit a home run. But it takes time an patience. An a little luck.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4167943]They both are thick but the head game is strong.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/aac6ae17-127c-4ba1-a222-7289b6ede7ee[/URL] this one's in Wolcott and can't host. $150 did the trick even though she asked for double that.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/archive/404d68db-70f4-4327-8942-2cceb8eb7da1[/URL] this one is in New Britain and will host in a clean, safe location.[/QUOTE]Here is the correct link for the second one.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6476bf9e-9544-4276-916b-745678fcf1a6[/URL]

I am getting no replys to Nicole2540 on Sa Looks like a very hot UCONN student Anyone hit her up an get a meeting?

[QUOTE=XxMarkXx;4159976]Was off of SA for a while, as I was enjoying the company of a few ladies. Those relationships have run their course, so I have renewed my membership. Some initial intel to share. As always, YMMV.

Nautibeachgirl. Met for coffee, very nice conversation. She is bigger than her pics, more like a small bow, but not unattractive. Reasonable expectations. Has transportation. Will probably setup a read date soon.

SummerSunrise. Met for happy hour. Nice person, just not for me. She is the girl in the pics, but pics are misleading. She is much heavier in person and seems like she really needs the makeup that is in her pics. We worked out arrangement info before meeting, which I always try to do. Reasonable expectations, but I will not be going forward.

Lulu413 - only messaged. Looking for 500+ per meet. Out of my range, conversation ended.

Bomb Schele. Looking for 400+ per meet.

Artist0801 - not looking for a relationship, just looking to hookup. 200/90 mins. Nice deal, tried to set up a meet, but comms got quiet.

Fitchick1212, babyoil. Looks like scammers.

JayLo11 - comms went dead.

Hope it helps someone.[/QUOTE]Meet up with Nautibeachgirl for drinks at a local brewery. Had a nice time good conversation even had a nice conversation about a sex toy party she attended the night before. Very open and comfortable and I think if we had time we would have ended up back at my house. A little heavier than I had hoped but would definitely hook up.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/eaa53044-39ae-4381-8a5e-d6315a877f2c[/URL]

Here's a copy / paste of the last message she sent me, not only does she gave GPS but she can't do math:

Please read my profile.

I'm my ideal friendship we'd meet 3-4 or more times a month with an allowance of 1 k per meet or a 5 k allowance would be perfect.

I am looking for a long term / hidden boyfriend / no drama / great friend.

Your turn!

To be honest though she is rocking that Roseanne Roseannadanna hairstyle.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4169761][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/eaa53044-39ae-4381-8a5e-d6315a877f2c[/URL]

Here's a copy / paste of the last message she sent me, not only does she gave GPS but she can't do math:

Please read my profile.

I'm my ideal friendship we'd meet 3-4 or more times a month with an allowance of 1 k per meet or a 5 k allowance would be perfect.

I am looking for a long term / hidden boyfriend / no drama / great friend.

Your turn![/QUOTE]