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[QUOTE=JasonDono;3683421]Can't find her on the site. Do you possibly have a link or anything?[/QUOTE]I can't even find it now. It was visible at the end of November when I started talking to her. We came to an agreement, then she took her post down. She must have completely deactivated it or something. Flaky as h*.
[QUOTE=JasonDono;3685407]Anyone know anything?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a9ea8afb-a81d-417f-bf4b-f8d44ee1a0dd[/URL]
It looks like she locked her photos. But I attached a photo of her. I MIGHT be seeing her Tuesday, but she seems flaky. So I'm not about to try to hard. She looks familiar as shit, I really want to say she posts on BP as a massage provider somewhere.[/QUOTE]She does look familiar. I probably reached out to her at one point or another.
I wasnt sure what this meant the first time around on the SA site. I was barraged with easy picks, and was to the point that I couldn't keep up with the requests for one nighters.
For fees of 150-300 max. I joined back on a few weeks ago, and have yet to get a personal meet. It seems like they are all under the assumption that theres a group of men that will give them monthly allowances (BS!) shopping trips (BS!) financial domination (WTF!) etc. I'm pretty confident my sticking to my guns will be fine as soon as rent gets close next week. I will only offer they see me a few times a month, and I will pay per visit. Tough shit if they are looking for a free ride, I'll wait it out.
By the way, I've only followed through with a 2 visit max for the ones I've told 3. Why bother when there's a fresh new one waiting in line? All in all, still a fan of this site. I've gotten fantastic looking women get naked for me, without me even asking, within 15 minutes of our first meeting, and great, uninhibited blows and bangs that will keep me from going down the pestering GF road again.
Stay Safe,
BAX.
The following are the "expectation" options for the girls on SA.
Personally, I refuse to contact anyone who chooses an option above practical. I don't care how good it looks. Its a level of ignorance I just won't bother with and they have a better chance of seeing god than getting that much out of me. Anyone with a gift list is an automatic reject as well. Ya ok honey here is a $500 purse to talk with me. NO!
If they ask "what is the monthly allowance" in 1st conversation again its an automatic dismissal. Is some one really going to commit to an ongoing thing with out having met? If they can't comprehend pay per meeting is the only option move on. I am there to have fun not waste time with Kardashian want to be's. Substantial= 10 K monthly. That is $120,000. 00 annual. Maybe I am a scrubber? Is there anyone here that has that kind of disposable income? If so would consider for even one second giving it to a single piece of ass? The site has provided me with many good times most one or 2 meetings and on to the excitement of something new. I have had some for $0 up to $$$. The $$$ was a moron moment by me and not at all any better than the 150 average. This is all my humble opinion of course.
NEGOTIABLE.
I don't have a set expectation.
MINIMAL.
Up to $ 1,000 monthly.
PRACTICAL.
Up to $ 3,000 monthly.
MODERATE.
Up to $ 5,000 monthly.
SUBSTANTIAL.
Up to $ 10,000 monthly.
HIGH.
More than $ 10,000 monthly.
I 100% agree that we all need to ban together around the NO pay for a M&G. Our time is clearly more financially valuable than theirs, hence the show me you are real garbage doesn't fly with the exception that I will pay for our expenses on a date like food / drinks. I haven't always been so firm with my PPM allowance, over the past 6 months or so I have reigned in the limit to 200-300 per meet unless there are crazy circumstances like get here now or porn star service.
As for how we each choose to play the game, the girls are definitely looking for consistency vs men looking more for variety. It's been my preference to cycle the toys after a few visits but I do keep a few that I give a monthly stipend to see me a few times a month at my leisure and for when others flake. My sense from talking to many of them is that hey are kind of doing the same thing seeing multiple of us simultaneously to make enough to get by. One girl flat out told me that SA and some of the other sugar daddy sites send out emails and push to get the girls to meet socially to encourage them to be safe (avoid rape). Not sure how I feel about what else they discuss, but if they all get to the point of no paid M&G's and realistic expectations that could favorable. Don't like that our discretion could be compromised tho.
[QUOTE=PainWint;3693052]The following are the "expectation" options for the girls on SA.
Personally, I refuse to contact anyone who chooses an option above practical. I don't care how good it looks. Its a level of ignorance I just won't bother with and they have a better chance of seeing god than getting that much out of me. Anyone with a gift list is an automatic reject as well. Ya ok honey here is a $500 purse to talk with me. NO!
If they ask "what is the monthly allowance" in 1st conversation again its an automatic dismissal. Is some one really going to commit to an ongoing thing with out having met? If they can't comprehend pay per meeting is the only option move on. I am there to have fun not waste time with Kardashian want to be's. Substantial= 10 K monthly. That is $120,000. 00 annual. Maybe I am a scrubber? Is there anyone here that has that kind of disposable income? If so would consider for even one second giving it to a single piece of ass? The site has provided me with many good times most one or 2 meetings and on to the excitement of something new. I have had some for $0 up to $$$. The $$$ was a moron moment by me and not at all any better than the 150 average. This is all my humble opinion of course.
NEGOTIABLE.
I don't have a set expectation.
MINIMAL.
Up to $ 1,000 monthly.
PRACTICAL.
Up to $ 3,000 monthly.
MODERATE.
Up to $ 5,000 monthly.
SUBSTANTIAL.
Up to $ 10,000 monthly.
HIGH.
More than $ 10,000 monthly.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Ballin69;3693759]I 100% agree that we all need to ban together around the NO pay for a M&G. Our time is clearly more financially valuable than theirs, hence the show me you are real garbage doesn't fly with the exception that I will pay for our expenses on a date like food / drinks. I haven't always been so firm with my PPM allowance, over the past 6 months or so I have reigned in the limit to 200-300 per meet unless there are crazy circumstances like get here now or porn star service.
As for how we each choose to play the game, the girls are definitely looking for consistency vs men looking more for variety. It's been my preference to cycle the toys after a few visits but I do keep a few that I give a monthly stipend to see me a few times a month at my leisure and for when others flake. My sense from talking to many of them is that hey are kind of doing the same thing seeing multiple of us simultaneously to make enough to get by. One girl flat out told me that SA and some of the other sugar daddy sites send out emails and push to get the girls to meet socially to encourage them to be safe (avoid rape). Not sure how I feel about what else they discuss, but if they all get to the point of no paid M&G's and realistic expectations that could favorable. Don't like that our discretion could be compromised tho.[/QUOTE]Good to hear the rates. It seems like I've been paying a bit too much. I should probably work at negotiations a little better.
I've read the last four posts. Good stuff. Here is my contribution and opinion.
There's an increasing number of girls who are not serious about the mutually beneficial philosophy. They want a free ATM like playing the lottery. Some of the outlandish ones I'll simply reply with a long laugh for no more than to make them feel like an idiot.
The substantial level on that site is laughable. One piece of a** for 120 k annually? Even someone with that kind of disposable income I can't see doing that. Even 100,90 k on down. I'm right around the 200 to 250 range, and on rare occasion 300 if she is a young 10 and not a stripper. I don't go for anything but slim or athletic and I screen athletic, because some of those are chunky. I'm not giving to chunky women. I'll hold out and I do. I'm on the picky side when it comes of looks and body. I even say don't ask how much the first time you talk to me. I never ever pay for M&G and I hope you all don't as well. I agree with the poster about banding together regarding some of these things. I've been on the site for several years and had a lot of fun with the girls. The site isn't as good as it used to be, but that young poontang keeps me looking. I've been spoiled to the point of girls in their 30's and up just don't do it for me. Well a few of them in their early thirties I guess. I had one that was thirty two a few years back that was one of the more fun ones I've been with. I signed up on that site in 2007, but didn't start to get active on it until a few years later.
Guys,
I am in complete agreement with everything that has been said here. I will never pay for a M&G. EVER. If I am asked for that it is an immediate red flag and I tell her thanks but no thanks. Sometimes that has made the girl apologize and agree to no $$ to meet. As far as the PPM is concerned, I believe that $200 should be the absolute max. It is simple supply and demand economics. If we on the demand side see that there is a greater supply (which there is now) and hold strong on price, we can move the amount even lower. Let's all agree to go as low as possible. I have even had some that wound of meeting for free most of the time especially if I offered a nice hotel room for us. Oh, and I always tell them that I need to deduct the cost of a room from what they get if they do not have their own place or at a minimum she takes half the cost. Just my $0. 02. Good luck out there. So, in the spirit of this forum, I can tell you that Misspain wanted a lot and I simply told her no. It is clear that she is on the site a lot based on how she appears in the recent users.
Agree on sticking together on not paying for a M & G. Like I'm going to pay you to interview for a job? LMAO. Also agree on setting the market place. I've paid between $0 + dinner / drinks / hotel to $260.00 and my firm cap is $300.00. My standard response to anyone asking above my limit is "I'm sure you are worth every penny but I have to pass" and at least 50% of the time they cave and come back asking for less.
This site is a gold mine right now let's keep it that way! Don't fuck the fatties, don't over pay, don't pay for M & G!
[QUOTE=Mgtbfb;3694414]Agree on sticking together on not paying for a M & G. Like I'm going to pay you to interview for a job? LMAO. Also agree on setting the market place. I've paid between $0 + dinner / drinks / hotel to $260.00 and my firm cap is $300.00. My standard response to anyone asking above my limit is "I'm sure you are worth every penny but I have to pass" and at least 50% of the time they cave and come back asking for less.
This site is a gold mine right now let's keep it that way! Don't fuck the fatties, don't over pay, don't pay for M & G![/QUOTE]I do the same with girls asking out of the range of what I'm willing give. I make those feel like they have golden pussy, so they can maybe say "but he is nice" and see my way of things, but the ones that blatantly put substantial or high is when I shame their ass. Some of those will reply or get mad and block me. The blocks don't bother me it frees up room on the list. One responded to me once where I mentioned she was looking for a free ATM, and her reply was "well yes I am". I just said "good luck with that" and moved on.
As far as this site being a gold mine? I don't know how long you've been a member, but three or four years ago and longer it was even better. Many legit babies on there with very few strippers and escorts, and not near as many GPS girls. For several months I had four babies going at once and at one point had five in that span until I realized how much sugar was flowing out of my account and had to lay off / fire all of them keep one. It was a tough call, but I had to do it for the greater good haha. But it was a lot of fun.
[URL]www.seekingarrangement.com/member/67a4d534-f4f3-427c-beed-e1541909ce56[/URL]
Wants 300 for a couple hours. Cute and good communication. Didn't pull the trigger because I wanted a much longer evening. She has babysitter issues, but definitely motivated to meet if you have her number.
Anyone have any experience with this one? I met her for a m&g back in October, but I didn't pull the trigger. Was going to give it another try.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/222fcc5f-1213-49fa-97ba-dd93a03249ad[/URL]
WTF is going on. This one wants $350 per meet as a minimum. She is on SA and WYP. Simply not worth it. This has to stop.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c8d9d2f2-6c42-4ae4-b05a-ff9c62673f7a[/URL]
The good news is that the stock market is booming and it is only going to get better for shareholders. I know exactly where I am going to put the $350 I just saved and it does not involve parts of her if you know what I mean.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6ef74e0c-ecc8-40c0-912d-23d560b11263[/URL]
Anyone have any info?
[QUOTE=SAGuy17;3695084]WTF is going on. This one wants $350 per meet as a minimum. She is on SA and WYP. Simply not worth it. This has to stop.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c8d9d2f2-6c42-4ae4-b05a-ff9c62673f7a[/URL]
The good news is that the stock market is booming and it is only going to get better for shareholders. I know exactly where I am going to put the $350 I just saved and it does not involve parts of her if you know what I mean.[/QUOTE]Must be $100 for each of the caterpillars on her forehead and $150 for her.
Be a good Daddy and educate her with a simple "No Thanks, that is just not a reasonable amount. ".