Backpage Advertiser Reviews

August 30, 2012 she was Karissa in Raleigh: [url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/spoil-yourself-with-me-32/9623067[/url]

Yesterday, she was Khloe in the Charlotte area: [url]http://charlotte.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/spoil-yourself-with-me-goldsboro-rocky-mount-wilson-outcall-only-100-independant-32/5793769[/url]

Nice rack. I'm not sure about this changing names business. At least they both start with a K! Maybe it's ok, but maybe there's a need for some more info.

[QUOTE=jac76k; 1708379]I'm going to be in the RDU area next week and am looking for some mature.

Companionship. This ad caught my eye and wanted to know if anyone knows.

About her:

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/spoil-yourself-with-me-32/9623067[/url]

Thanks[/QUOTE]

Dreamed about Lindsey recently. (tel is 323-286-3992).

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-provider-well-reviewed-20/10854827[/url]

(Is it ok to give phone numbers so others can find this after the backpage ad is gone?)

In my dream, she was attractive and fairly skilled and safe. But my dream was real quick, and in it there was no real response to normal requests and feedback. As with a review or two on another site, the dream was too fast and she was in a rush, without much effort toward making sure someone might want to go back. I probably will not have such a dream again. Such dreams might best be done more economically on a quick visit basis, to those who are interested, because that's what it will turn out to be.

[QUOTE=Merge1; 1708778]Dreamed about Lindsey recently. (tel is 323-286-3992).

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-provider-well-reviewed-20/10854827[/url]

(Is it ok to give phone numbers so others can find this after the backpage ad is gone?)

In my dream, she was attractive and fairly skilled and safe. But my dream was real quick, and in it there was no real response to normal requests and feedback. As with a review or two on another site, the dream was too fast and she was in a rush, without much effort toward making sure someone might want to go back. I probably will not have such a dream again. Such dreams might best be done more economically on a quick visit basis, to those who are interested, because that's what it will turn out to be.[/QUOTE]Sir Merge,

I was thinking about making a day trip for play with this one, but now I am thinking it might not be worth my effort on her part. Did you go for a quick visit or did she just rush you right out. I imagine that a little hottie like her has so my clients that there is no need for her to give nice dreams do to the fact someone will always ring the phone.

Lex

[QUOTE=Merge1; 1708778]Dreamed about Lindsey recently. (tel is 323-286-3992).

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-provider-well-reviewed-20/10854827[/url]

(Is it ok to give phone numbers so others can find this after the backpage ad is gone?)

In my dream, she was attractive and fairly skilled and safe. But my dream was real quick, and in it there was no real response to normal requests and feedback. As with a review or two on another site, the dream was too fast and she was in a rush, without much effort toward making sure someone might want to go back. I probably will not have such a dream again. Such dreams might best be done more economically on a quick visit basis, to those who are interested, because that's what it will turn out to be.[/QUOTE]While I once considered her, I avoided that one for two reasons.

1. I don't like being rushed in and rushed out. No passion, no fun. If you are into hit and split, might me a good fit. Not for me though.

2. She is a little rough around the edges in her photos. Even with a good looking body, the face just doesn't do it for me.

To each their own, thank goodness for a plethora of selections out there.

[QUOTE=Purple Helmet;1708066]I saw only one BP ad on 3/13 that listed Wakeforest.[/QUOTE]Maybe I'm just whistling past the graveyard here, but I have to point out that it was the Wake Forest PD, not Raleigh. So I'm still not toil worried,

Has anyone here EVER seen an ad for a provider at a hotel in Wake Forest? I haven't. The news story even said that the police had never received a complaint about prostitution at that hotel. It sounds like the only action in WF is created by the PD. They must have been bored.

I saw her back in '07, if you last longer than ten minutes it's "are you close, are you done, are you close" pretty annoying. She's cute but very efficient and ushers you along, although maybe she just didn't like me, who knows.

She also says (l don't care what you think because)"I have lots of reviews" alot which is off-putting.

Your mileage may vary, but I didn't repeat.

TTB

[QUOTE=LexintonLuther; 1708789]Sir Merge,

I was thinking about making a day trip for play with this one, but now I am thinking it might not be worth my effort on her part. Did you go for a quick visit or did she just rush you right out. I imagine that a little hottie like her has so my clients that there is no need for her to give nice dreams do to the fact someone will always ring the phone.

Lex[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Merge1; 1708778]Dreamed about Lindsey recently. (tel is 323-286-3992).

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-provider-well-reviewed-20/10854827[/url]

(Is it ok to give phone numbers so others can find this after the backpage ad is gone?).[/QUOTE]Yes, if the phone number and pics are out there, why not. Too often we make it easier for providers to simply hide from bad reviews by cancelling the ad. I would say that 90% of people who report here and say they had a bad experience simply include a link to the ad. So all the provider has to do is cancel the ad, or it will expire with time. So I took the trouble to include a few of the pics from the ad, it took me no more than 60 seconds. I hope more of us would do that, as well as the phone number.

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[QUOTE=Velasco; 1709615]Yes, if the phone number and pics are out there, why not. Too often we make it easier for providers to simply hide from bad reviews by cancelling the ad. I would say that 90% of people who report here and say they had a bad experience simply include a link to the ad. So all the provider has to do is cancel the ad, or it will expire with time. So I took the trouble to include a few of the pics from the ad, it took me no more than 60 seconds. I hope more of us would do that, as well as the phone number.

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[ATTACH=CONFIG]236470[/ATTACH][/QUOTE]I saw Lindsey, hot little body on her but her attitude was. Eh, and she was puttign a lot of pressure to put a nice review in for her, yet she didn't work for it at all in opinion! Not a GFE at all. I have not repeated since and don't plan to

Hey TTB,

Quick arithmetic. (hold on to to seat of your pants) If you saw her in '07, Based on her posted age, she would have been 15 then! Ha ha ha ha!

Don't ya just love how these girls lie about their ages. I am sure that girl has to be pushing 30. Not that it matter to me, but be real about your age.

I just peeked at her reviews. Yeah not a good time to be had with her.

It's always funny when you have a date with a girl and when you get down to business, she asks "are you done?" I have only had that happen once and quite frankly the girl really didn't want to be there anyways, so she wasn't a repeater. That was in my mistake days. However, that has to be one of those things that just rip your ego all to shreds. LOL.

[QUOTE=Twoturningblue; 1709269]I saw her back in '07, if you last longer than ten minutes it's "are you close, are you done, are you close" pretty annoying. She's cute but very efficient and ushers you along, although maybe she just didn't like me, who knows.

She also says (l don't care what you think because)"I have lots of reviews" alot which is off-putting.

Your mileage may vary, but I didn't repeat.

TTB[/QUOTE]

Hi. Going to be in Raleigh on business next week and looking for.

Some mature fun. This one caught my eye-any intel:

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/BodyRubs/sexy-italian-beauty-amazing-massage-specials-now-25/10120354[/url]

Thanks

Looks like all of your post are requesting info. Might be good to post some experiences

As well.

[QUOTE=jac76k; 1710676]Hi. Going to be in Raleigh on business next week and looking for.

Some mature fun. This one caught my eye-any intel:

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/BodyRubs/sexy-italian-beauty-amazing-massage-specials-now-25/10120354[/url]

Thanks[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=jac76k; 1710676]Hi. Going to be in Raleigh on business next week and looking for.

Some mature fun. This one caught my eye-any intel:

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/BodyRubs/sexy-italian-beauty-amazing-massage-specials-now-25/10120354[/url]

Thanks[/QUOTE]She has a new review on another site. Not good.

Just a heads up to let you know she is re-branding apparently, new phone number, new name, new website and new review on the oThER site.

[url]http://bellabrooklyn.escortfiles.com/home[/url]

the latest BP ad

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/BodyRubs/brunette-vipsensual-body-rubs-for-classy-gentlemen-29/8616782.[/url]

[QUOTE=Southern Guy; 1702494]I noticed her postings in the body rubs section and then she added under Escorts. I read her reviews, knew going in what to expect and was thinking about seeing a regular, but remember reading about her outstanding breasts so decided to dream about her. I know when someone really likes their job or it is simply a means to an end. I believe she falls into the latter category.

When I arrived she gave me a hug, asked if she allowed kissing and she said,"oh no, silly, I cannot kiss you". I suggested no FK, just a light kiss and and she said nothing on the lips. She moved over to the edge of the bed and said you are welcome to kiss these all you want. I have seen a lot of breasts and would rank her's in the top 5 of all time, all natural, perfect shape, responsive small eraser size nipples, medium brown areolas, not quite silver dollar size.

She started saying,"oh yeah that feels good", but she was saying it every 10 to 15 seconds; reminded me of a robot. Once we settled in to a rhythm and she spaced out the words more I could tell she was getting close. I have given enough women oral to know when they let go and enjoy the pleasure, but she never did. All of a sudden, she pushed her legs in and started to act like she was having an O and it was obvious she was ready to move on. She said wow, that was good and you really know what you are doing, I don't fake orgasms. I wanted to say, wow you are a horrible actress.

I noticed the mirror on the wall directly at the end of the bed and suggested K-9. This was going to be good and she moved to the center of the bed, perfect place to watch in the mirror. Wow, what a view. I truly enjoy watching a great set of tits hanging and swaying with each thrust. As I mentioned, her's are perfection. I told her I planned to finish this way and reached around for her left breasts and squeezed gently while picking up the pace. She told me she would be getting dry soon and it would be uncomfortable to keep going much longer. I am about 35 minutes into the 60 minutes and about 10 of that was on DATY.

I told her I had learned as I got older that patience was a good thing and I was in no hurry to finish. I knew this is probably the last thing she wanted to hear, but I kept varying the pace and really enjoyed watching her breasts move with each stroke. Standing at the edge of the bed is one of my favorite positions for having control. She asked me again if I was about ready and I told her not even close, that I was planning to take my time and enjoying watching her breasts move. Still absolutely no GFE was anywhere in the room. Actually, this didn't bother me because I had paid for her time and planned to use it wisely. I was certain, MSOG, was not an option.

As always YMMV and if you are into perfect breasts, it might be worth a visit. Total investment $$.5.

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/available-now-vip-discreet-brunette-classy-rtp-area-30/10376883[/url][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=jac76k; 1710676]Hi. Going to be in Raleigh on business next week and looking for.

Some mature fun. This one caught my eye-any intel:

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/BodyRubs/sexy-italian-beauty-amazing-massage-specials-now-25/10120354[/url]

Thanks[/QUOTE]Fake pictures. I been there, nothing like the picture, don't waste the time.

She said she was getting sore, but I think she had probably arranged another visitor without much time for cleanup.

Otherwise, if I'm done I'm not going to stick around and chat if I can help it.

I prefer the ones over 35 these days, they seem to appreciate a good long boning more so than the younger ones.

Rgds,

TTB

[QUOTE=MrSmithwick; 1710220]Hey TTB,

Quick arithmetic. (hold on to to seat of your pants) If you saw her in '07, Based on her posted age, she would have been 15 then! Ha ha ha ha!

It's always funny when you have a date with a girl and when you get down to business, she asks "are you done?" I have only had that happen once and quite frankly the girl really didn't want to be there anyways, so she wasn't a repeater. That was in my mistake days. However, that has to be one of those things that just rip your ego all to shreds. LOL.[/QUOTE]

Hey coming to the triangle on business in a couple of weels. I have been seeing ads for Amber on Backpage and that she only does outcall. I would like to have a little bit more info if anyone is willing to share.

[QUOTE=WVfan;1713170]Hey coming to the triangle on business in a couple of weels. I have been seeing ads for Amber on Backpage and that she only does outcall. I would like to have a little bit more info if anyone is willing to share.[/QUOTE]I think I know which Amber you're referring to but can you link an ad so we can be sure to be talking about the same Amber?

[QUOTE=WVfan;1713170]Hey coming to the triangle on business in a couple of weels. I have been seeing ads for Amber on Backpage and that she only does outcall. I would like to have a little bit more info if anyone is willing to share.[/QUOTE]I saw Amber about 5 months age. She is a sweet girl, cute in her own way. At some point she had lost a lot of weight, but was then of average size. Everything was covered. CBJ, MISH, CG. Good price at $.00.

I enjoyed the experience but for various reasons unrelated to her have not repeated.

NC

Hi,

Anyone know Ava Jade?

[url]http://northcarolina.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/ava-jade-sweet-sexy-sensual-and-ready-to-please-ask-me-about-my-2-girl-special-23/11612077[/url]

I did some searches on the photos, numbers, and name. They seem to check out but, no reviews.

On Sunday, I set up a date with a very well reviewed 32 yo blonde lady with a 704 area code that posts on BP for 11 AM. 10; 45 AM, I call in followed multiple follow upNo response. Monday I see she is in GBO and set something up for 12:30 PM after she told me she is having phone problems. Same thing happens. If there is a problem, why not just call and say thanks, but no thanks. I have good reason to doubt the phone issue. I find this just plain vindictive and disrespectful.

Please treat me with the same respect I afford you: kind, considerate, punctual and honest.

Peace out

I posted this in GBO thread too.

On Sunday, I set up a date with a very well reviewed 32 yo blonde lady with a 704 area code that posts on BP for 11 AM. 10; 45 AM, I call in followed multiple follow upNo response. Monday I see she is in GBO and set something up for 12:30 PM after she told me she is having phone problems. Same thing happens. If there is a problem, why not just call and say thanks, but no thanks. I have good reason to doubt the phone issue. I find this just plain vindictive and disrespectful.

Please treat me with the same respect I afford you: kind, considerate, punctual and honest.

Peace out

I had a dream that this lady was returning to Raleigh. In a previous dream, this lady was sweet, fair priced and very hot.

[url]http://sexyrachelina.com[/url]

Any questions? Feel free to be / see me.

[QUOTE=HomerAnubis; 1716077]I had a dream that this lady was returning to Raleigh. In a previous dream, this lady was sweet, fair priced and very hot.

[url]http://sexyrachelina.com[/url]

Any questions? Feel free to be / see me.[/QUOTE]Her signature San Juan Capistrano is a very nice dream.

[QUOTE=HomerAnubis; 1716064]I posted this in GBO thread too.

On Sunday, I set up a date with a very well reviewed 32 yo blonde lady with a 704 area code that posts on BP for 11 AM. 10; 45 AM, I call in followed multiple follow upNo response. Monday I see she is in GBO and set something up for 12:30 PM after she told me she is having phone problems. Same thing happens. If there is a problem, why not just call and say thanks, but no thanks. I have good reason to doubt the phone issue. I find this just plain vindictive and disrespectful.

Please treat me with the same respect I afford you: kind, considerate, punctual and honest.

Peace out[/QUOTE]You know, a heads-up is no good unless you tell us who the young ladie is?

[QUOTE=Ellis61;1716338]You know, a heads-up is no good unless you tell us who the young ladie is?[/QUOTE]I thought I provided enough information that this could be easily researched.

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sweet-crystal-dawnn-32/9405963[/url]

She just popped up on backpage: [url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/hottest-22/11824225.[/url] But March 13th her contact info (jessyesta@yahoo.com) showed up on Charlotte BP: [url]http://northcarolina.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/no-hold-back-complete-satisfaction-attainable-22/11630722[/url].

Which led to the place she pulled photos from for the Charlotte post: [url]http://www.bellagals.com/bryci/33highvoltage/[/url]. Bryci it seems "Bryci has taken the internet by storm with her perfect curves, her killer smile and her amazing personality."

This recent one needs some interpreting: [url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-1ooo-real-everything-you-want-right-here-ebony-mami-19/7664121.[/url] The second picture over has a caption on it that says "100% Real Tats on my A* to Prove It!" Prove what?

The Wilmington USA folks are pointing something interesting here: [url]http://wilmington.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=11788577&image=11788575.[/url] Apparently the left leg has a house-arrest bracelet on it. Does that mean she'll stay put?

[QUOTE=Merge1; 1718400]The Wilmington USA folks are pointing something interesting here:

[url]http://wilmington.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=11788577&image=11788575.[/url]

Apparently the left leg has a house-arrest bracelet on it. Does that mean she'll stay put?[/QUOTE]She don't it will go off and guess what, probation officer will pay a visit there, just sayin Roush

I've seen her 3x now, and the past couple of times, it seems like there are better options out there.

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/19-s3xiwldyour-fantay-in-r3altycome-taste-19/8540133[/url]

The positive part is she is absolutely smoking hot. Incredible body, great tits, killer ass. You'd be crazy not to be attracted to this one. She's a brunette now, but otherwise, those photos are spot on.

It might just be that she's too young to understand the finer points of doing her job. It's not like I expect a true GFE from her, but it's just not a warm and inviting environment. She does the incall at her place, which is a small residential neighborhood. That's a huge plus. But the room she uses in her house is just has a cheap bed in it. It's got one sheet on it, and it was sketchy. So aside from freezing your ass off, it's not at all comfortable. Even a cheap motel has a sheet that won't bunch up when you flop around.

The bigger issue is that the last time I was there, we were cleaning up afterwards, and she handed me a towel that felt like I wasn't the first to use it (if you get what I mean). Not cool at all.

At some point, she could be an all star. For two bills, she needs to focus on some obvious details.

[QUOTE=Merge1; 1718392]This recent one needs some interpreting:

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-1ooo-real-everything-you-want-right-here-ebony-mami-19/7664121.[/url]

The second picture over has a caption on it that says "100% Real Tats on my A* to Prove It!" Prove what?[/QUOTE]It's her way of saying that she is the woman in the pictures. You'd be surprised how many use photos of women who have visibly identifying features (like tattoos) or are well known. An example is this one http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/100-special-sexy-sensual-princess-24/11815986 Kita Zen is a pretty well known porn actress so I doubt she's in Raleigh running $100 specials. I guess it could be her (hopefully someone will TOFTT) but it's not likely as most mainstream porn stars have at least been reviewed if they also work as escorts.

[QUOTE=HomerAnubis; 1717355]I thought I provided enough information that this could be easily researched.

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sweet-crystal-dawnn-32/9405963[/url][/QUOTE]Maybe if we were mind readers, but thanks for the link.

Since Bobbi was in Raleigh yesterday (& today) , I couldn't resist. Another great dream! She asks what you like, then proceeds to make you're dream come true. I'm going broke. Lex, can I borrow some money? LOL

I see this happen quite often. Girls get off to a relatively decent start then they get a little too comfortable with their entertaining habits. This is more common in the Indy scene. The problem that lies in your particular situation with her is that (after seeing her several times) you allowed her to entertain you in less than desirable environments. This was probably comfortable for her, but not comfortable for you. But you dropped the donation. Which made it ok. There comes a time when you need to put your foot down and say "no". Continuing this pattern only tells the girl that it's acceptable and she passes the habit off to the next person, thinking he too will think it's acceptable. Ultimately what happens here is that she not faced with gentlemen that refuse to see her because of her entertaining environment. Most guys are just happy to get a release, regardless of the environment they do it in. However, if she can get away with being in a sketchy, dirty environment, this pattern will continue.

Maybe you should try something different. You get a location and have her visit you or just simply refuse to see her if the location she is at doesn't meet your comfort needs. If EVERYONE follows this advice, I am sure some girls might figure it out that they are not going to make it as a great entertainer if they are not well prepared.

Personally myself, I will not go to low budget locations. I will leave if the room is dirty / disgusting. I will walk out if she is not ready to entertain me. Simple as that guys.

I am willing to bet that when you up your standards, refuse the lesser and walk away with your pride. Your engagements will be a lot better.

[QUOTE=TydeGuy; 1718605]I've seen her 3x now, and the past couple of times, it seems like there are better options out there.

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/19-s3xiwldyour-fantay-in-r3altycome-taste-19/8540133[/url]

The positive part is she is absolutely smoking hot. Incredible body, great tits, killer ass. You'd be crazy not to be attracted to this one. She's a brunette now, but otherwise, those photos are spot on.

It might just be that she's too young to understand the finer points of doing her job. It's not like I expect a true GFE from her, but it's just not a warm and inviting environment. She does the incall at her place, which is a small residential neighborhood. That's a huge plus. But the room she uses in her house is just has a cheap bed in it. It's got one sheet on it, and it was sketchy. So aside from freezing your ass off, it's not at all comfortable. Even a cheap motel has a sheet that won't bunch up when you flop around.

The bigger issue is that the last time I was there, we were cleaning up afterwards, and she handed me a towel that felt like I wasn't the first to use it (if you get what I mean). Not cool at all.

At some point, she could be an all star. For two bills, she needs to focus on some obvious details.[/QUOTE]

I paid a visit to a girl named Bubbles (blonde with just a little meat on her bones) last week. Unfortunately the post is down. If she pops back up I will post her link. All I can say is OMG. She is amazing. Sweet, clean, unrushed, and talented. I would absolutely visit her again.

Well y'all I will say that for the .6 I passed on my time was well spent. The pictures are close the young lady is very very thin but good and flexible. I enjoy when the lady allows me to be on top and hold those legs back. The door opens and the usual greetings were exchanged the action was quick in nature CBJ was enough to rise the needed wood and she was quick to ask me to mount her and threw her legs up and I was pleased to finish my dream. As I said very good quick dream for. 6. Clean, respectful, sweet and worth a report to those fellows in the hobby.

[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sxy-x-rotic-playmat-x-play-x-at-your-own-x-risk-22/11586406[/url]

I'm kind of new to this and I've only been with a few providers so I'm not that experiences in how normal it is for a girl to not get back to you, that sort of thing. There is a provider I've been really wanting to see. I called her once in Feb. And left a message but she never responded. A few days ago I called again, left a message. She didn't call back but a few hours later I called her again and she answered. We didn't really set up a time but she told me to call her in an hour. Soon after I started heading over to her location (general area) and I gave her a call. I couldn't remember exactly when I called the first time so I think I may have called a little over an hour later, it wasn't more than an hour and a half though. She didn't answer. I waited a bit and called a few more times spaced out over about an hour or so (until I had to head back to work). I'm just wondering if I should try calling again or if this girl is trying to tell me she doesn't want anything to do with me? Could I have offended her by being a bit late with my call? I know sometimes a girl just gets a bad vibe from you and they don't want to deal with you so I don't want to freak her out if I call again. And yes this girl is legit and well reviewed.

Also, how do you guys deal with figuring out pricing if they don't list all the prices? I may have offended her at the end of the call because I asked her how much it would be for a half hour. She did tell me how much though. I know they don't really like to discuss prices over the phone but if they don't list it you don't know how much you need to bring. Do you just bring extra money to the local with you and count it out there? In the past I just set the money on a table without saying anything. If I have to ask how much it is in person it seems the same as just asking over the phone and that way you don't have to be carrying extra $.

[QUOTE=Ellis61;1718978]Maybe if we were mind readers, but thanks for the link.[/QUOTE]You are welcome. Please feel free to PM me if you need help researching stuff.

[QUOTE=ThePantyRaider;1722467]How normal it is for a girl to not get back to you, that sort of thing.[/QUOTE]Standard answer number one: "it depends."

Read back through the archives and you'll see horror stories of phones blowing up on nightstands. So, you know the calls are coming in. Your goal is to not call so often that your number is noticed with a thought of "whoa, what's going on there?"

If you freak her out, she's not going to see you. If you don't call, she's not going to see you. So, keep it somewhere between the lines and treat the ladies like you'd treat anyone else you'd like to hang out with. Give them a call. Try a followup. If you'd really like to see them, try one more time. If that doesn't work, then maybe tonight just wasn't meant to happen.

[QUOTE=ThePantyRaider;1722467]Also, how do you guys deal with figuring out pricing if they don't list all the prices?[/QUOTE]Ask.

This is like a taxi: you find out the fare at the beginning (when you have any leverage). Keep things short and simple, give her time to offer the rate on her own, but if it's not forthcoming,"Oh, and, by the way, what did you say the hour was?" If she balks, you consider if you can live with the deliberations later. I would thank her for her time and move on.

Assuming you get an answer, take that much and a tip with you, so if there's a shakedown you only lose what you were going to spend anyway.

[QUOTE=ThePantyRaider; 1722467]I'm kind of new to this and I've only been with a few providers so I'm not that experiences in how normal it is for a girl to not get back to you, that sort of thing. There is a provider I've been really wanting to see. I called her once in Feb. And left a message but she never responded. A few days ago I called again, left a message. She didn't call back but a few hours later I called her again and she answered. We didn't really set up a time but she told me to call her in an hour. Soon after I started heading over to her location (general area) and I gave her a call. I couldn't remember exactly when I called the first time so I think I may have called a little over an hour later, it wasn't more than an hour and a half though. She didn't answer. I waited a bit and called a few more times spaced out over about an hour or so (until I had to head back to work). I'm just wondering if I should try calling again or if this girl is trying to tell me she doesn't want anything to do with me? Could I have offended her by being a bit late with my call? I know sometimes a girl just gets a bad vibe from you and they don't want to deal with you so I don't want to freak her out if I call again. And yes this girl is legit and well reviewed.

Also, how do you guys deal with figuring out pricing if they don't list all the prices? I may have offended her at the end of the call because I asked her how much it would be for a half hour. She did tell me how much though. I know they don't really like to discuss prices over the phone but if they don't list it you don't know how much you need to bring. Do you just bring extra money to the local with you and count it out there? In the past I just set the money on a table without saying anything. If I have to ask how much it is in person it seems the same as just asking over the phone and that way you don't have to be carrying extra $.[/QUOTE]In my opinion (as a provider) there are different catagories of providers that will handle your entire experience totally different. This forum is extremely valuable, and I do read it several times a day. Take some time and read as much as you can, especially from senior members. There is so much to learn from both clients and providers here. Back to the catagories.

1. Providers that work with a service. Normally your calls will be answered promptly by a person that handles / books / sets up the girls. If the service is reputable, and has a good track record, you normally will have a good time and get what you are looking for. Screening may be an issue, but remember, It is for their safety and yours.

2. Independent providers that travel from city to city. This is where it gets kinda tricky. They may be travelling because they do not get good reviews or offer service that is not up to par and have to travel so there reviews don't follow them. Chances are they are only interested in the green to feed a habit, so the service is of no real importance to them. Many of these girls change names and use non real pics. Some are very legit and always use the same name and have many good reviews. Again, prob a good bet you will have a nice experience with the latter.

3. Providers that are only in it for the quick fix, or are being handled by an abusive person that puts constant pressure on them to work. SW, bookstores are their haunts.

4. Providers that are independant, and live locally and do not travel. These girls usually are a good bet IF they have a solid reputation and many good reviews. One of the problems with this catagory is the fact that the girls being independant must answer their own phones. I have read many reviews on here about girls answering there phones during, before or Immediatly after a session. In my opinion, that is totally rude and disrespectful to the client. Independants don't have the luxury of having someone else screen and set up thier appts.

As an independant, not only will I NEVER answer my phone (I turn it off during sessions) I will also NEVER call a number back UNLESS the potential client has left me a voice message giving me permission to call back and telling me WHEN to call back. Discretion is always given. ALWAYS. That being the case, over the years, I have prob not returned hundreds of calls. I will also NEVER answer blocked calls. A good local, consistant well reviewed provider will eventually NOT have to advertise very much at all as they will have a fairly stable client base. I do have clients that move away, or run into financial strains so I do take new clients, but my advertising is mostly for my regular clients that do not save numbers and look me up just to get the number again. Don't expect a reputable provider to call back a number just because you called. If she calls back a couple hours later, it may be during your dinner time with your family. Leave a voice mail.

As far as "pricing", some providers will include donation amounts in there ad. Some will not. If they do not put pricing in post, it is totally acceptable to inquire what there "donation" would be for a specified amount of time. Armed with that information as well as several good reviews, you will most likely have a great time.

While I am on the soap box, I would like to give the "NEW" hobbiest a few pointers to up the batting average for them.

1. NEVER EVER ask ANY question that would even hint of anything sexual in your calls or emails. Any provider that answers those questions should scare the hell out of you.

I will ignore email or hang up on you Immed if you go down that road.

2. If you tell me that you were recommended by somebody that saw me I will most likely not belive you. If that is true, then ask your friend to call me first and recommend YOU to

Me.

3. I know that many hobbiest enjoy the hunt, and prefer strange. Thats totally cool. The true hobbiest knows the pitfalls with that and does not have a problem with a lower batting.

Average. It's part of the hunt. Brand new girls with no reviews could be fantastic or horrible. Thats part of the game. Life is a buffet. Enjoy it if you want. If you want to bat

100, do your homework, use a service, make sure your girl has many great reviews, find a local independant girl that has made your city thier home and takes pride in their work.

4. Please understand that your new dream is just that. New. The many nuances that make a dream fantastic usually take time to grow. I enjoy my regular clients more and more

Because I have LEARNED over time just what buttons to push on them and they have learned what makes my toes curl. Makes for a very fun experience. Just my two cents.

Happy Hunting Guys! I had this dream last nite and wanted to share. Bobbi