Will be in Cincy first of the year for
Visit and looking for a lady for wide open play except don't like greek cuisine. Interested in senior vouches or high post guys who are regular contributors. Getting tired of standard fare and looking for that special holiday gift that guarantees both the lady and man a white Christmas. Age is not a deterent but at my age an experienced woman is preferred, not a one and done lady I am late 50's that I will admit to, excellent conversational skills that will leave any lady weak in the knees, love to kiss / dfk because I think it gets both engines revving, and love a woman who is vocal and directive and will tell you what and how she wants it. Any ladies who think they can provide that PM me. Guys I have talked with say they are abundant and love it also but so far have only met one who has but has moved out of the area to Lex and not willing to travel that far this time of year. Don't shoot the messanger. I am honest and EXTREMELY DISCRETE and expect the same out of any lady I share time with. I don't do drugs and won't spend time with anyone who does. Sorry just my feelings. Surely there are some ladies who love to play my way. Your identity will be guarded and NO ONE will know GUARANTEED. Have a Merry Christmas and a happy new year EVERYONE and may you all have a very white Christmas.
Stormy back on the prowl?
[QUOTE=Rogoh; 1633255]All,
I was looking at reviews on another web site and saw a review for Stormy / WetVelvet from late November. The last I remember was that see had a run in with the law and was serving a little time (although I did not know how much time). Is she back around or was that review total BS?
Roger[/QUOTE]Right about the legal issues and right about the time off. My first inclination was to call BS on the review because Stormy felt like she got a lot of client flow off this board and it would surprise me that she's back in the saddle without showing up here.
Then I remembered a new post in the Advertisers Section by a "newbie" named EnvyMe. She claimed to be a returning provider. I have no data (pro or con) on this new name EnvyMe but maybe Stormy is back in the rotation. If so, I'll be interested to see if she's the same reliable provider that she was before her vacation.
I guess we'll find out when someone decides to TOFTT with EnvyMe.
Have a great day.
Dz
I agree with Sinful Vouches from other ladies OR well respected Seniors
Or high posters are a must. She is right on with that recommendation. Ladies are good who have vouches from well respected contributors or other ladies or men we know. To take a client cold is asking for problems for the lady or man. Just my opinion on this snowy morning. Good post Sinful
I have no interest in providers seeking references
[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams; 1633521]So while perusing the Forum, I noticed some Providers are saying that they can see Clients without references. WOW is all I have to say. Not only is that VERY unsafe, it jeopardizes ALL of us when a provider doesn't check the references. I just find this absurd that a provider would go to that length to try and get business. And not to mention if any of the Hobbyists see her, then you don't care about the screening process, and this is just begging for LE to drop by.
I turned down several clients last week because they didn't have ANY type of references, and to me that just isn't okay with me. I ask for 2 references and I don't think that is a bad screening process. For the most part I try to answer my phone right away, but if not I do return calls or messages when I am available.
Be Safe,
Ally[/QUOTE]I have never once provided a reference to a provider, nor do I ever plan to, nor do I see how not doing so affects my safety in any way, shape or form. I also find it annoying to have providers on here attempting to dictate terms of service for other providers.
I do understand why providers would want this. I'm not, however, willing to spend time giving or seeking references and waiting for them to be verified. Nor do I have any desire to tell new providers who else I've seen, or to tell former providers who I'm seeing now. Nor do I think they should have to spend their time providing references.
If Ally can run her business this way, more power to her. However, the fact that she's on here whining about others not playing by her rules suggests to me that she's having trouble doing this, or having to turn down too many potential customers who won't play along.
I am quite sure that there are providers on here or elsewhere, the vast majority, at least elsewhere, who never have used references. And, it's absurd even for providers who use references to expect all providers to do the same, since that would essentially prevent any new customer from ever entering the system.
As far as jeopardizing everyone, there's no guarantee that a provider who checks references isn't LEO. In fact, it would be a great way for LEO in an extended undercover operation to go about business, both to appear "safe" and to collect additional intel. While there are some additional assurances for the provider, one, two or any number of references are no guarantee the customer is safe either. There's nothing preventing a psychopath from accumulating a few good "references" on his way to doing something horrible. There's really nothing preventing LEO from working in a system that would generate some references, since drug-related vice operations essentially do this all the time.
In fact, I've known at least one provider who saw a client repeatedly, trusted him implicitly and then was one time raped brutally by the same man. This is very unfortunate, but it's a risk in this business, or in life itself, since I'm sure quite a lot of folks have had spouses who changed on them over time.
In short, the reference system provides no real assurance and is a useless inconvenience that may actually increase risks for mongers.
