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Do not fall for this scammer. She scammed me for $60 but atleast I came out safe. Asked to send $50 advance and I declined. Agreed to meet and once I reached came out of her apt and sat in my car and demanded all the money in advance, I declined and she wouldn't leave my car. Gave her $60 and left unhurt.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/65e95f8e-7e60-4a84-be51-7c2d6f89140a[/URL]
Any info on this one? Exchanged some messages but let my membership expire before getting offsite contact like a dummy. Would love to hear if she's worth the renewal. Feel free to PM.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aeecd683-7d2e-4378-8294-2efe7e505075[/URL]
[QUOTE=Maxamillion8;5814263]She has good experience in this hobby. She left for foreign studies after we met. Met her in public without any expectations from either side in Chapel hill area. Her asks is high 4 Benjamin per meet to start with. No hosting. Limited action. She is particular in what she will and what she will not do behind closed doors. That all restrictions came after the doors were closed. LOL. With that limitations, I can't spend that kinda money. I'd pass.[/QUOTE]I have met with her recently too, was fun to hang out with but agree in action she just didn't feel into it at all, so have not pursued again.
[QUOTE=SuperDave3038;5882479]Any info on this one? Exchanged some messages but let my membership expire before getting offsite contact like a dummy. Would love to hear if she's worth the renewal. Feel free to PM.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aeecd683-7d2e-4378-8294-2efe7e505075[/URL][/QUOTE]Don't have specific details but I had messaged her and she seemed legit. I also saw her on Feeld, the alt / swing dating app.
Has anyone done anything with her? Seems to have GPS. I had got some messaging going with her previously and while I may have low balled a bit at 3 she basically laughed at it and that was end of that. I suspect she may have gotten lucky with one whale in the past and trying to recreate lost glory.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4f78a6d0-d55d-477d-9173-03ddd84a32fc[/URL]
Any feedback on her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d36cf052-43f1-4b7a-9d42-a6359c76ce39[/URL]
[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;5883430]Any feedback on her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d36cf052-43f1-4b7a-9d42-a6359c76ce39[/URL][/QUOTE]She must have multiple handles on SA. I had private convos with her but it went no where. I don't remember the details but I'll look for our conversations and update this thread.
Does anyone know of hotels which allow early check in. I would like to check in around noon.
[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;5883928]Does anyone know of hotels which allow early check in. I would like to check in around noon.[/QUOTE]Do you have status with any of them? That usually helps. I am usually able to check in early at Hilton or Hyatt brands as long as the place isn't sold out.
[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;5884186]Do you have status with any of them? That usually helps. I am usually able to check in early at Hilton or Hyatt brands as long as the place isn't sold out.[/QUOTE][URL]Dayuse.com[/URL]
Used several times, good rates on short stays generally around the airport. Modeled for people on layovers. I'm sure that's a small fraction of their business lololol.
[QUOTE=SuperDave3038;5884479][URL]Dayuse.com[/URL]
Used several times, good rates on short stays generally around the airport. Modeled for people on layovers. I'm sure that's a small fraction of their business lololol.[/QUOTE]This is exactly what am looking for and to use for future dates. Perfect. I appreciate the lead.
(Mods if there's any details in here that aren't allowed feel free to edit them out during approval).
Summary:
Fayetteville-based SA user by the name of Merycontrary is a fucking PSYCHO! Severely mentally ill. Masked it well in the beginning but I ended up having to run like my life depended on it. No link to her profile as I blocked her everywhere while driving home to protect myself from potential blackmail.
In case she makes a new account I'll do my best to describe her appearance: white, short, thin, brunette, short haired (but wears wigs), two cheek piercings, septum piercing, tongue piercing, lots of tattoos.
Detailed Story:
Connected with her on the site and quickly moved on to snap for communications. Agreed very quickly and willingly to a meet for a couple hundred bucks. Arrived at the location and we agreed to do the deed in the car. We chatted a bit to lighten the mood. This is where my spidey senses started tingling. It was like she had just done a fresh line of coke she was so ADHD. Impossible to keep a conversation going and her sense of humor changed with every sentence. I attributed it to nerves until she claimed to be diagnosed with BPD and personality disorder. Needless to say what happened shortly after removed any sense of doubt I had with said claim.
I got her into the back seat and we started. It was the most normal part of the whole ordeal. I'll even go as far as to say it was a great smash. At least for the first 5 minutes; after which she kept stopping and acting super disinterested. I ended up going limp because of how abruptly she killed the mood.
Little did I know how much of a mistake that was. She flipped the fuck out because I went soft on her. Got out of my car, started screaming (mind you we were in close proximity to other houses), saying I had a little dick (the irony of her gagging 5 minutes prior), and just kept losing her shit and pacing around freaking out.
Suddenly she tried to reach through my window (it was down for fresh air during the session) and steal my phone. I foiled her attempt, and then she decided to pepper spray me before I could finish rolling my windows up and leave. Didn't even know she had it. Thankfully it was cheap shit and lasted only a few minutes. I was even able to get off the property and drive a couple blocks away to clear my eyes. Albeit painfully.
But that's not the best part: she forgot to take the cash with her when she started freaking out! I didn't even realize it until I got back home to wash my face. I honestly don't even know how to feel about the whole thing. I went home blue balled, in pain, but with all my money and belongings and no lasting injuries. Such a roller coaster.
Really brings a whole new meaning to "don't stick your dick in crazy".
[QUOTE=Biscuits1234;5885718](Mods if there's any details in here that aren't allowed feel free to edit them out during approval).
Summary:
Fayetteville-based SA user by the name of Merycontrary is a fucking PSYCHO! Severely mentally ill. Masked it well in the beginning but I ended up having to run like my life depended on it. No link to her profile as I blocked her everywhere while driving home to protect myself from potential blackmail.
In case she makes a new account I'll do my best to describe her appearance: white, short, thin, brunette, short haired (but wears wigs), two cheek piercings, septum piercing, tongue piercing, lots of tattoos.
Detailed Story:
Connected with her on the site and quickly moved on to snap for communications. Agreed very quickly and willingly to a meet for a couple hundred bucks. Arrived at the location and we agreed to do the deed in the car. We chatted a bit to lighten the mood. This is where my spidey senses started tingling. It was like she had just done a fresh line of coke she was so ADHD. Impossible to keep a conversation going and her sense of humor changed with every sentence. I attributed it to nerves until she claimed to be diagnosed with BPD and personality disorder. Needless to say what happened shortly after removed any sense of doubt I had with said claim..[/QUOTE]Here is the link [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/99a5ab8c-849d-4292-9229-b7abd682b09d[/URL].
[QUOTE=Ddmmaa;5886065]Here is the link [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/99a5ab8c-849d-4292-9229-b7abd682b09d[/URL].[/QUOTE]Yep. Avoid this one like the plague unless you want to take a risk of getting robbed or worse.
One thing I completely forgot to mention in my report is that at one point she screamed "my husband is going to find you and kick your ass". Meaning two things:
1) There's a high risk of someone else being secretly present (or at least aware of your presence) if any of you try to meet her.
2) Some poor bastard married that and may be just as if not more insane and / or short-fused.
Be careful out there guys.
[QUOTE=Biscuits1234;5886755]Yep. Avoid this one like the plague unless you want to take a risk of getting robbed or worse.
One thing I completely forgot to mention in my report is that at one point she screamed "my husband is going to find you and kick your ass". Meaning two things:
1) There's a high risk of someone else being secretly present (or at least aware of your presence) if any of you try to meet her.
2) Some poor bastard married that and may be just as if not more insane and / or short-fused.
Be careful out there guys.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the heads up. But honestly looking at her pics I am not the least surprised she looks like a crackhead. You would have to pay me to tap that not the other way round LOL.
[QUOTE=Pubb69;5275424]We pay them to leave. No way I want to be around them for more than a couple hours. It would be unbearable to hang around with these narcissists any longer even if they were the ones paying.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=DJprofessorK;5275343]If you two are going at it the entire time, that math could end up in your favor.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=Djapa1234;5274580]Anyone seen this? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/31e7d9be-ffa7-4ae2-9867-1e0fffdc4fb7[/URL].
I face timed and she wants 1 k to meet for entire weekend. 36-48 hours basically.[/QUOTE]She took 4 * for one night. Very pro feel. She seemed a bit spaced out tbh.
Does anybody have any info on this one.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0f645b6e-42cd-449a-bed5-7c641624e058[/URL]
She says two girls $6. Do you think she is legit!?
Are there any trusted SB you know off? No luck at all help me out here please.
[QUOTE=Nath5310;5888553][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0f645b6e-42cd-449a-bed5-7c641624e058[/URL]
She says two girls $6. Do you think she is legit!?
Are there any trusted SB you know off? No luck at all help me out here please.[/QUOTE]She is legit. Her wife is hot, she is not. They are a lesbian couple.
[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;5888755]She is legit. Her wife is hot, she is not. They are a lesbian couple.[/QUOTE]Did you have a dream with them? Is it safe to go to their location!?
Anyone ever met this girl? Had contact early 2020 - spent a while texting and a couple video calls but nothing ever came of it. Wanted to treat her out for a nice dinner and maybe work something out but could never get anything set up due to everything being closed early when the lock downs first started making things difficult. Still kicking myself over this one haha, probably one of the cutest girls I've ever seen on SA. Think she mentioned she had ties to Arizona? No clue if she's even still in Raleigh.
Any info on her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6ca8e74f-1342-489a-9fbf-f0f8de5d9c18[/URL]
Started texting with her, if she is real I want to give her a try.
[QUOTE=BlueWaters;5890298]Anyone ever met this girl? Had contact early 2020 - spent a while texting and a couple video calls but nothing ever came of it. Wanted to treat her out for a nice dinner and maybe work something out but could never get anything set up due to everything being closed early when the lock downs first started making things difficult. Still kicking myself over this one haha, probably one of the cutest girls I've ever seen on SA. Think she mentioned she had ties to Arizona? No clue if she's even still in Raleigh.[/QUOTE]Girls have learned new thing by saying that they will start online and do video calls before they meet. There are girls probably taking $100's from multiple guys for few pics and videos and never have to meet anyone. Most of the time the faces of video is covered due to her privacy. Takes few weeks before SHE decides if YOU are worth to meet or not. So whenever I get asked to prove my self, I simply tell her that I pay top $$ to be on this site and she probably not paying anything. Thats enough for me to prove that I am not a cheap guy and who is serious about an arrangement. I meet for lunch or coffee without any expectations from either side because I want to be sure about her as much as she want to be sure about me. But there are also good female profiles who are fair and genuine about arrangement. Iv met few girls but also after that it's hard to get consistently meet with her works and other commitments and these type of girls are not depending on arrangement which is what you want.
Been chatting with this fine looking lady, very direct and too the point, Anyone had any experience meeting her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/19e8c025-e4f1-4fd8-b8be-65d1cf880ab1[/URL]
Started getting calls that they are calling from SA and there is a problem with LE by me talking with someone and all other BS. Calls started coming in once I shared the No with below linked person.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/300500fd-ef78-410c-bf63-ffb726967a59[/URL]
Be careful guys.
MM.
[QUOTE=Maxamillion8;5890852]Started getting calls that they are calling from SA and there is a problem with LE by me talking with someone and all other BS. Calls started coming in once I shared the No with below linked person.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/300500fd-ef78-410c-bf63-ffb726967a59[/URL]
Be careful guys.
MM.[/QUOTE]These people are so lame. Cops do not call people. They show up at your door knocking. Or pull you over. They don't call ahead LOL. I had someone saying they were a cop and that the person was under age blah blah blah. I don't ever answer my phone. So they actually left a voicemail. I'm guessing some of these people are overseas or something. Some pretty stiff penalties for pretending your a cop or other agent of the government. Granted most people probably would not go out of their way to contact the po po. I've only done it once and that was to report a Stolen Cashiers check and they told me they could care less if it was under 5 k.
[QUOTE=GregG73;5890845]Been chatting with this fine looking lady, very direct and too the point, Anyone had any experience meeting her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/19e8c025-e4f1-4fd8-b8be-65d1cf880ab1[/URL][/QUOTE]Profile gone so I guess another scammer.
[QUOTE=Maxamillion8;5890852]Started getting calls that they are calling from SA and there is a problem with LE by me talking with someone and all other BS. Calls started coming in once I shared the No with below linked person.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/300500fd-ef78-410c-bf63-ffb726967a59[/URL]
Be careful guys..[/QUOTE]Good to know, I had chatted with her but didn't bother with the bs about must have monthly allowance.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/lqwMzODaAPjnjar5vyV3b61r[/URL]
Meet this one last year for a meet and greet, she is real. I asked her if she could meet at a local strip club LOL which she agreed. We had dinner and drinks back at Peking lot there was some dfk and she allowed my hands to travel places. She mention there would be more the next time but it was too expensive for my taste.
"Only ladies with big pussy lips please".
[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;5893152]"Only ladies with big pussy lips please".[/QUOTE]Lucious, lips a plus.
[QUOTE=ShamRocx;5894055]Lucious, lips a plus.[/QUOTE]The work of a cunning linguist.
[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;5893152]"Only ladies with big pussy lips please".[/QUOTE]Go scientific to hash out the dumbos.
Luicious Virtical Lips.
[QUOTE=Maxamillion8;5895585]Go scientific to hash out the dumbos.
Luicious Virtical Lips.[/QUOTE]I love the "Luscious Vertical Lips". So I'll update my profile to include " Well endowed Luscious Vertical Lips".
I deleted my SA account after that fiasco with the bipolar chick down in Fayetteville to wash my hands of the scene completely. That situation really opened my eyes to how insane most of the women in this hobby are (especially the attractive ones on SA).
Anyways, I woke up to an ominous text on my burner from an unknown number saying: "Just wait until everyone finds out you're a sugar daddy, it's going to be so embarassing". No clue who it was, how they got the burner number, or what their goal was. Didn't even entertain them with a response. Guessing it was the first step in a blackmail attempt. The length these skanks will go through to try and get the upper hand and make a quick buck!
Take this tale as a sign to be more careful out there gentlemen. Even though my precautions will (hopefully) pay off, I know that there are a plethora of guys in the scene who don't look out for themselves like they should. Below are some of the steps I've taken to protect my identity. Some of them are admittedly pretty extreme, but highly recommended if you want to rest easy when faced with dumb threats or crazy SBs.
1) Get a proper burner phone. Google Voice / TextNow doesn't count. Get a proper shitty phone with a fake name and pay with a gift card (if possible) or cash. If you're on a sugar daddy website you should be able to afford this without a hitch.
2) Come up with a good fake name. My best advice is to pick a name that starts towards the opposite end of the alphabet. Avoid using the name of anyone tied closely with your real social media profiles (if you have any). Don't want your real profile to show up recommended next to your friend's whose name you used, do you?
3) If you insist on using real pictures of yourself: take unique ones specifically for your profile and blur / crop your face out of it. Take them in places that aren't necessarily associated with you. Never send saveable pictures of yourself thru any media channels and never use those pictures anywhere else.
4) Most younger women on SA want to talk via a social media app. Make a fake account. Use a unique username, fake display name, etc. I recommend you only install the app on a burner phone as well. Do not link any identifiable information to your fake account.
5) Hopefully by now you've established a vague and easy-to-remember pseudo-identity for yourself. Unless you're outright marrying an SB, never ever reveal any real details about who you really are and what you really do.
6) When in doubt, back out. If you have any reason to think you're being played, set up, toyed with, or if she's asking too many questions: ask yourself if she's really that good of a lay and if it's worth putting you and your career at risk. The answer should almost always be "no".
7) Remember: you are nothing but a cash cow to most of these women. They can and will turn on you if they see an opportunity to milk you for more money. Give them nothing to work with.
Hope this helps someone out there.
I was wondering who has seen Luna Valentine.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9c191c6a-fd74-4845-a566-0cfb04c111b5[/URL]
[QUOTE=Raltime;5900634]I was wondering who has seen Luna Valentine.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9c191c6a-fd74-4845-a566-0cfb04c111b5[/URL][/QUOTE]Open to discuss this privately.
Sorry this happened, but it seems like you've got things pretty tight. WTF have thing come to when we can't even count on the ladies making an honest dishonest living ;)
A few other lessons learned (these have all been "oh shit" moments for me) :
1. If she will be in your car, make sure any identifying info (ex registration, inspection paperwork etc.) is removed or locked up tight.
2. If your car has named "profiles" (seat / mirrors etc.) - remove your name from them and just use initials or a generic name.
3. Pay for food / drinks (really anything where your CC might be exposed to them) with cash if possible. If you do pay with a card at a nice restaurant, be ready to preempt the waiter / waitress when they are returning with it before that say "Thanks for dining with us Mr Jones".
4. Don't keep your wallet or any other info in the room.
[QUOTE=Biscuits1234;5900599]I deleted my SA account after that fiasco with the bipolar chick down in Fayetteville to wash my hands of the scene completely. That situation really opened my eyes to how insane most of the women in this hobby are (especially the attractive ones on SA).
Anyways, I woke up to an ominous text on my burner from an unknown number saying: "Just wait until everyone finds out you're a sugar daddy, it's going to be so embarassing". No clue who it was, how they got the burner number, or what their goal was. Didn't even entertain them with a response. Guessing it was the first step in a blackmail attempt. The length these skanks will go through to try and get the upper hand and make a quick buck!
Take this tale as a sign to be more careful out there gentlemen. Even though my precautions will (hopefully) pay off, I know that there are a plethora of guys in the scene who don't look out for themselves like they should. Below are some of the steps I've taken to protect my identity. Some of them are admittedly pretty extreme, but highly recommended if you want to rest easy when faced with dumb threats or crazy SBs.
1) Get a proper burner phone. Google Voice / TextNow doesn't count. Get a proper shitty phone with a fake name and pay with a gift card (if possible) or cash. If you're on a sugar daddy website you should be able to afford this without a hitch.
2) Come up with a good fake name. My best advice is to pick a name that starts towards the opposite end of the alphabet. Avoid using the name of anyone tied closely with your real social media profiles (if you have any). Don't want your real profile to show up recommended next to your friend's whose name you used, do you?
3) If you insist on using real pictures of yourself: take unique ones specifically for your profile and blur / crop your face out of it. Take them in places that aren't necessarily associated with you. Never send saveable pictures of yourself thru any media channels and never use those pictures anywhere else.
4) Most younger women on SA want to talk via a social media app. Make a fake account. Use a unique username, fake display name, etc. I recommend you only install the app on a burner phone as well. Do not link any identifiable information to your fake account.
5) Hopefully by now you've established a vague and easy-to-remember pseudo-identity for yourself. Unless you're outright marrying an SB, never ever reveal any real details about who you really are and what you really do.
6) When in doubt, back out. If you have any reason to think you're being played, set up, toyed with, or if she's asking too many questions: ask yourself if she's really that good of a lay and if it's worth putting you and your career at risk. The answer should almost always be "no".
7) Remember: you are nothing but a cash cow to most of these women. They can and will turn on you if they see an opportunity to milk you for more money. Give them nothing to work with.
Hope this helps someone out there.[/QUOTE]
I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.
[QUOTE=RalDude;5901474]Sorry this happened, but it seems like you've got things pretty tight. WTF have thing come to when we can't even count on the ladies making an honest dishonest living ;)
A few other lessons learned (these have all been "oh shit" moments for me) :
1. If she will be in your car, make sure any identifying info (ex registration, inspection paperwork etc.) is removed or locked up tight.
2. If your car has named "profiles" (seat / mirrors etc.) - remove your name from them and just use initials or a generic name.
3. Pay for food / drinks (really anything where your CC might be exposed to them) with cash if possible. If you do pay with a card at a nice restaurant, be ready to preempt the waiter / waitress when they are returning with it before that say "Thanks for dining with us Mr Jones".
4. Don't keep your wallet or any other info in the room.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=GentleGiant78;5902275]I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.[/QUOTE]What you're describing is more traditional long-term committed sugar dating. That's not typically what goes on with seeking and such. It's a revolving door. A lot of sugar daddies prefer a variety. I've had a few sugar babies that were long-term but I didn't keep privacy things from. And I did trust them. But they are far and few between. The majority of young women willing to sugar date have a few screw loose and you best protect yourself. You think with Johnny Depp went through was a nightmare, you have no idea what lurks out there in the sugar bowl.
But yes, if you develop a true relationship, which is what you're doing and trust is established then you can have more of an open door policy. I don't advice stop though. I dated a sugar baby who seems perfectly normal for about a year. Then the crazy slowly but surely started to reveal itself. It's in there lurking somewhere.