Sugarbabies?

This will go along with my reply to Cincy, I created a dummy profile and found the girl that ghosted me:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c00e73e1-464f-4f4c-9f26-14a8e7a8517d[/URL]

Can you give us the screen name / handle of who we need to be aware?

[QUOTE=SstevenEvets;3943306]So I was hit with the band wagon as well. In my scenario though, it is from someone on there trying to do it intentionally. I received a message from them that then I progressed to chat with off site. Prior to that their language was heavy with the innuendo for a p2 p on the site. After not coming to an agreeable term as I'm not forking over 1 k per meet they filed the complaint. SA confirmed which user it was that did the complaint and sited the conversation as being inappropriate on the site. Afterwards I received a follow-up text saying to enjoy being banned. So watch out guys, there is at least one asshat on there intentionally fucking with us. At least imo.[/QUOTE]

I had the opportunity to meet with StormHawk71 a while back. It was a last minute meeting and it was late. I picked her up at her location near Lebanon. Then we went back to the hotel. It started out a little weird as she wanted me to turn all the lights off. When the fun began, it was very good. It was all I could have hoped for and more. When the lights came on, I could see scars on her arms. She told me they were from scratching mosquito bites. She claimed that her thyroid condition caused her to scratch the bites a lot which gave her scars. She told me I could even look her thyroid symptoms up to verify. I didn't believe a word of it and assumed it was from drug use, but she emphatically denied it. She later told me she wanted to go BB. She said she was ok with not using condoms because she could tell by talking with someone if they were disease free. Wow!! We have a mind reader on our hands. Plus, I'm not a mind reader and didn't know if she was disease free. What a bunch of BS. Anyhow, I didn't partake in the BB. I'd be careful with her in that regard. She even claimed she had not had sex in 2 years except once last summer with her boyfriend. She was a good time, but I think she's full of lies like many others. Not sure I'll repeat.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/47426e2e-34e2-42bb-b8a3-5bf010a3f32c[/URL]

SmokeGoodLoud - "Hailey" - 9158 ceb2-6 ef2-4 c36-884 a-d4 c8093 ddaf1.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9158ceb2-6ef2-4c36-884a-d4c8093ddaf1[/URL]

Met for a meet and greet, another serious disappointment. Pic's fake (thanks to an earlier warning), but she'll send real pics if you ask (attached). Looks like a caveman with a giant pile of curly red hair, but showed a decent body, so I figured it was worth the cost of coffee. She doesn't drive, and insists on being picked up (but apparently time limit's not really a factor), she's incredibly and obviously uncomfortable and unhappy with what she's doing, has jacked up teeth, and she was so stoned she couldn't order at Starbucks. Refused to show I. D. She made it clear that she doesn't kiss, give head, or do anal, and certainly implied that she goes full-on dead fish in bed. When I started trying to back out, she offered bb w / pull out for $. Not on bc, zero concern about testing / safety. Way too sketchy for me, although surprisingly I didn't see any obvious signs of heroin use.

[QUOTE=Auzzie;3946020] although surprisingly I didn't see any obvious signs of heroin use.[/QUOTE]Hum.

I did see some scarring on her legs. That was enough for me to say no, before her clothes got to the point of even coming off.

MM.

[QUOTE=CinMiner;3943464]Can you give us the screen name / handle of who we need to be aware?[/QUOTE]Yeah -- I would *really* like to know who we need to avoid. And also, if you reply to SA Support with the screenshots of that text, they'll ban and blacklist her.

SA doesn't fuck around with their money -- and we're their money.

[QUOTE=ShadowRecruit;3937984] She was only interested in a "from a distance" type of an arrangement.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2b03f...9-7f78ef7de47a[/URL][/QUOTE]Report those, include screenshots.

SA will ban them from the site.

MM.

She messaged me also, although my account isn't premium atm, so I haven't read it. But eeeewwww.

[QUOTE=Auzzie;3946020]SmokeGoodLoud - "Hailey" - 9158 ceb2-6 ef2-4 c36-884 a-d4 c8093 ddaf1.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9158ceb2-6ef2-4c36-884a-d4c8093ddaf1[/URL]

Met for a meet and greet, another serious disappointment. Pic's fake (thanks to an earlier warning), but she'll send real pics if you ask (attached). Looks like a caveman with a giant pile of curly red hair, but showed a decent body, so I figured it was worth the cost of coffee. She doesn't drive, and insists on being picked up (but apparently time limit's not really a factor), she's incredibly and obviously uncomfortable and unhappy with what she's doing, has jacked up teeth, and she was so stoned she couldn't order at Starbucks. Refused to show I. D. She made it clear that she doesn't kiss, give head, or do anal, and certainly implied that she goes full-on dead fish in bed. When I started trying to back out, she offered bb w / pull out for $. Not on bc, zero concern about testing / safety. Way too sketchy for me, although surprisingly I didn't see any obvious signs of heroin use.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LogJammin18;3942434]To me, Sugaring rather than seeing a true escort is about getting to BB. If my social media research on a girl tells me she is a legit college girl and not 3 guy a day provider, I pay for her to get tested. I found a site that you can create an account, pay for it and have the results sent to you: [URL]http://myprivatelabs.com[/URL].

She just has to show up at local lab for 15 minutes. I provide a test to her as well.[/QUOTE]That URL does a couple of crazy re-directs. Here's the site you eventually wind up on:

[URL=https://www.stdcheck.com/]Get STD Testing | Fast, Confidential FDA-Approved STD Tests[/URL]

Got a chance to meet this diminutive tart last night. In pix comes across as cute and sassy. In real life she is almost impossibly tiny. I measured her at 4'10" - but still cute and sassy.

Lives in the north part of Hamilton. I picked her up and drove her home.

Date started decently but rapidly deteriorated. She engaged in conversation pretty well initially, just checking her phone occasionally, but as time went on, she began shaking and becoming a bit disjointed in our chat. At one point she asked me to find her a pen in her purse, at which point I found a number of things I didn't like at all, including subox.

At this point I told her our time was over and took her straight back.

If you're interested in very, very small elfin-like girls with reddish hair and are comfortable with heavier drug use, have at it. I, for one, have no interest at all in the latter. On so many levels. Partying is one thing. This is on a completely different level.

Play at risk here, fellas.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f005db3e-933a-4329-8bb8-75a5e0e24b65[/URL]

[QUOTE=RogerOver;3947189]That URL does a couple of crazy re-directs. Here's the site you eventually wind up on:

[URL=http://www.myprivatelabs.com/]Get STD Testing | Fast, Confidential FDA-Approved STD Tests[/URL][/QUOTE][URL]http://www.myprivatelabs.com/[/URL] gets you to the proper place.

[QUOTE=LogJammin18;3947385][URL]http://www.myprivatelabs.com/[/URL] gets you to the proper place.[/QUOTE]Results are rather quick, and you can print them.

When I've gotten STD tested at Tri-Health, you can't get those results online for some odd reason.

[QUOTE=TheWolverineJP;3943323]Hmmmm, I wonder if I pissed someone off. I was chatting with a girl in Dayton, she was a blonde around 30 ish, 5'2', pretty face, nursing student. She and I went to text and planned a meet and greet. She had sent me several pics and we were getting along great. The day of the planned meet she had texted me a couple hours ahead of time and told me she was good to go. I leave work early to meet her at a Starbucks and she went silent, I waited the normal amount of time, 20-30 minutes and after several texts never received a reply. Logged on to SA and sent her a note asking why she ghosted me, it was immediately read but no reply. Sent her another note and told her I told her I was going to report her ass as a fraud which I did and withing 30 minutes her profile was either "inactive or I was blocked", two days later my account was banned. Maybe a coincidence, maybe not.[/QUOTE]IMHO no matter how annoyed you get with any girl, even she if robs you, do not report them to the site. I don't believe this is a coincidence at all. Just lick your wounds and move on, no matter how tempting it might be to seek retribution.

Allegedly 20 years old from Burlington Kentucky. Pacific Islander / Asian. Says she needs $800 to pay for her lease. Wants it to be sent by money order or a gift card.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9d7cf2a9-dffd-4f42-9df7-908bf846913d[/URL]

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3947675]IMHO no matter how annoyed you get with any girl, even she if robs you, do not report them to the site. I don't believe this is a coincidence at all. Just lick your wounds and move on, no matter how tempting it might be to seek retribution.[/QUOTE]Do not report them to the site?

It's my expectation that SA does their part in making sure that it's a good experience for us all. They weed out the bad actors on both sides. If a guy is stealthing or being horribly inappropriate, I'd want him removed, if for only because it makes it so much harder for the rest of us to actually find someone. Similarly, if there's a girl who's being a shady *****, it's my expectation that SA weeds that woman out, because when she's a shady ***** and she leaves a bad impression on one woman, that drives more men away that takes away their revenue stream (which takes away my honeypot).

If another member was robbed by a chick, and he could have reported her and gotten her off of SA, and you messaged her, went out on a date, and was also robbed, wouldn't you be upset if you knew it was 100% preventable?

MM.

[QUOTE=MisforMaster;3946417]Yeah -- I would *really* like to know who we need to avoid. And also, if you reply to SA Support with the screenshots of that text, they'll ban and blacklist her.


SA doesn't fuck around with their money -- and we're their money.[/QUOTE]So the screen name was, toriluv. I intended to share the link from my back up profile but when I logged in to it I ended up being suspended from that one too with SA stating that they had determined it was from the same person logging in from multiple accounts due to IP match.

A lot of odd shady shit going down from SA lately guys.

My profile is very clear that I do not offer more than a token amount at the MnG. She was very hot to meet until the exchange below:

Bam.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d7b6400d-e3da-4e33-a773-eae33d103353[/URL]

[QUOTE] cherrybomb247 about 3 days ago.

Wednesday at 1:30? Absolutely. Please have $175-$250 with you or don't keep ebtertaining this convo, I'm serious if you can't give me money before we order our food save us both time and energy and move on now. I'm risking my life for this and I normally require more but I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt otherwuse I look forward to lunch.

RedRetired about 2 days ago.

You must have missed that part of my profile.

Cherrybomb247 about 2 days ago.

You must of missed mine as well. I was already breaking my rule I require a deposit before I meet with anyone and I was willing to do that with you. Sorry for the misunderstanding and good luck to you. [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SstevenEvets;3948231]So the screen name was, toriluv. I intended to share the link from my back up profile but when I logged in to it I ended up being suspended from that one too with SA stating that they had determined it was from the same person logging in from multiple accounts due to IP match.

A lot of odd shady shit going down from SA lately guys.[/QUOTE]Sounds like you need to use a vpn for SA.

[QUOTE=BamBam;3948888]My profile is very clear that I do not offer more than a token amount at the MnG. She was very hot to meet until the exchange below:

Bam.

[quote][b]cherrybomb247 about 3 days ago.

Wednesday at 1:30? Absolutely. Please have 75-50 with you or don't keep ebtertaining this convo, I'm serious if you can't give me money before we order our food save us both time and energy and move on now. I'm risking my life for this and I normally require more but I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt otherwuse I look forward to lunch.

RedRetired about 2 days ago.

You must have missed that part of my profile.

Cherrybomb247 about 2 days ago.

You must of missed mine as well. I was already breaking my rule I require a deposit before I meet with anyone and I was willing to do that with you. Sorry for the misunderstanding and good luck to you.[/b][/quote]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d7b6400d-e3da-4e33-a773-eae33d103353[/URL][/QUOTE]At least the little GPS skeezer was nice enough to wish you well. LOL. Nothing unexpected though. Her profile pretty much spells out that she's a straight up hooker:

What's a "token" amount? I always told them I don't pay people to eat and drink on my dime.

That's hilarious. Sounds to me like she just wants $250, a free lunch and then just bolt and say it "didn't feel right" and wouldn't want to meet again unless she thought she could get you to do the same thing again with empty promises of "more to come".

I'd tell her to stick it. LOL.

[QUOTE=BamBam;3948888]My profile is very clear that I do not offer more than a token amount at the MnG. She was very hot to meet until the exchange below:

Bam.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d7b6400d-e3da-4e33-a773-eae33d103353[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=RogerOver;3948941]At least the little GPS skeezer was nice enough to wish you well. LOL. Nothing unexpected though. Her profile pretty much spells out that she's a straight up hooker:

What's a "token" amount? I always told them I don't pay people to eat and drink on my dime.[/QUOTE]I usually responded with. I understand your time is valuable, but my secretary wil have a fit if I don't bill for the time we are together, so you can either pay me for just the billable time at $125/ hr or provide me with my standard retainer of $2000.

Bam you know the good catches, don't expect $$$ they are happy with the attention and some small spoiling.

To answer a few of the comments: 1) I work a numbers game and do not rule anyone out if I find them attractive. We eventually get to the stage where I tell them my offer and let them rule themselves out if needed. 2) Her profile may read like a straight up hooker but her behavior says 'pretend hooker' and real life scammer. 3) By token amount, I mean enough to cover an Uber or gas. Usually no more that $20-30. I want to convey that I can be generous but I am not an ATM. Even so, I am actually paying less than 5% of the time. 4) I have lately found that the "good catches" are harder to find than a year or more ago. I hope having the universities back in session will improve things.

New question: has anyone here had any success with any SB from Oxford. I've gotten several of them to the MnG but not a single one to the FC. They either spook or have GPS.

BAM.

[QUOTE=BamBam;3950138]To answer a few of the comments: 1) I work a numbers game and do not rule anyone out if I find them attractive. We eventually get to the stage where I tell them my offer and let them rule themselves out if needed. [highlight]2) Her profile may read like a straight up hooker but her behavior says 'pretend hooker' and real life scammer.[/highlight] 3) By token amount, I mean enough to cover an Uber or gas. Usually no more that $20-30. I want to convey that I can be generous but I am not an ATM. Even so, I am actually paying less than 5% of the time. 4) I have lately found that the "good catches" are harder to find than a year or more ago. I hope having the universities back in session will improve things.

New question: has anyone here had any success with any SB from Oxford. I've gotten several of them to the MnG but not a single one to the FC. They either spook or have GPS.

BAM.[/QUOTE]Excellent point. Thanks!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/11b3cf4b-6614-48c4-8248-93b9d4be3eb8[/URL]

Can't figure out if this girl's a semi-pro who refuses to learn the lingo, a stripper who wants to wring every penny out of you, a scam, or just kind of an idiot. On SA she said she wants a pretty traditional SB / SD relationship, we go to text and suddenly it's nickel-and-dime upsells for every interaction. Got real hostile when I suggested she read up on letstalksugar or sugarlifestyleforum because the things she was saying didn't make a ton of sense, but if you're willing to put up with the attitude (and it turns out not to be a scam) it sounds like nothing's off the table for negotiation.

[QUOTE=Auzzie;3954816][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/11b3cf4b-6614-48c4-8248-93b9d4be3eb8[/URL]

Can't figure out if this girl's a semi-pro who refuses to learn the lingo, a stripper who wants to wring every penny out of you, a scam, or just kind of an idiot. On SA she said she wants a pretty traditional SB / SD relationship, we go to text and suddenly it's nickel-and-dime upsells for every interaction. Got real hostile when I suggested she read up on letstalksugar or sugarlifestyleforum because the things she was saying didn't make a ton of sense, but if you're willing to put up with the attitude (and it turns out not to be a scam) it sounds like nothing's off the table for negotiation.[/QUOTE]I just blocked that one and went on. Too many hotties to waste time attitudes.

Sky859 - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f7619466-87be-48e0-4efe-9457898234ee[/URL].

She looks mighty familiar. Didn't she used to advertise on USA?

[QUOTE=SDaddy9;3955555]Sky859 - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f7619466-87be-48e0-4efe-9457898234ee[/URL].

She looks mighty familiar. Didn't she used to advertise on USA?[/QUOTE]I believe you are correct. It sure looks like the Sky859 who advertised here. Did duos with either Karmen859 or Shevelle or both but they hung out in the same notel. Can't remember for sure. Then she went solo and there was a BUNCH of drama between her and Karmen with accusations of thievery and drugs. I don't think Shevelle was a part of that drama. I saw Karmen, who seemed okay to me. Never saw sky. Maybe it's not her but it looks like her.

LL.

Spent the minimum for credits and have messaged back and forth with a few chicks but no meets. Just wondering if this is a complete waste of time and cash. Appears to have several pros I recognize but there are several of interest.

I've not reupped with seeking but had similar experience there as well.

It does take an inordinate amount of time it seems.

Thoughts and recommendations would be appreciated.

Limp Vinny.

[QUOTE=Vinlmp;3955877]Spent the minimum for credits and have messaged back and forth with a few chicks but no meets. Just wondering if this is a complete waste of time and cash. Appears to have several pros I recognize but there are several of interest.

I've not reupped with seeking but had similar experience there as well.

It does take an inordinate amount of time it seems.

Thoughts and recommendations would be appreciated.

Limp Vinny.[/QUOTE]Honestly, the entire SB scene just isn't what it seems it was even a few years ago.

There was an 18 year old here in Cincy that just went bat-fuck crazy the other day on me. And I had to block her. Because I told her, straight up, that I wouldn't give her any money until we would see each other in person.

Seriously. WTF. Where do these chicks think that we'll just give them cash to chat with them?

[QUOTE=MisforMaster;3956210]Honestly, the entire SB scene just isn't what it seems it was even a few years ago.

There was an 18 year old here in Cincy that just went bat-fuck crazy the other day on me. And I had to block her. Because I told her, straight up, that I wouldn't give her any money until we would see each other in person.

Seriously. WTF. Where do these chicks think that we'll just give them cash to chat with them?[/QUOTE]I am having the same issue. Chicks having a good vibe, we move to text, schedule a MnG.

Then they suddenly need some cash and want to sell pics. Several times. Fellas beware!

[QUOTE=HerrDoktor;3956280]I am having the same issue. Chicks having a good vibe, we move to text, schedule a MnG.

Then they suddenly need some cash and want to sell pics. Several times. Fellas beware![/QUOTE]Seems that's all it's becoming, especially with the young ones. The internet is full of naked girls, I'm not paying to see you naked.

[QUOTE=HerrDoktor;3956280]I am having the same issue. Chicks having a good vibe, we move to text, schedule a MnG.

Then they suddenly need some cash and want to sell pics. Several times. Fellas beware![/QUOTE]They don't "suddenly" need cash. They have always needed cash. Creating the illusion of a relationship, however tenuous, is how scanners groom their targets. There was never going to be a face to face meet and greet. Selling pics was always the plan.

Guys that believe even for a second that there was going to be "more" after the first bit of cash is exchanged for pics, is being naive at best.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/aa5b7a57-054e-439c-8fb5-ed9e1172874a[/URL]

She's been on SA for over a year and seems eager to meet, so I'm guessing an outcall only UTR.

(513) xxx-4188 Google Voice number.

Anyone have any info?

[QUOTE=DNut;3958630]

Guys that believe even for a second that there was going to be "more" after the first bit of cash is exchanged for pics, is being naive at best.[/QUOTE]There are suckers born every minute.

Also, be careful out there, I noticed a profile in Ohio with a location called "REGION TEST, OH, USA. " so, either SA is getting desperate and starting to design their own bots because traffic is starting to dwindle, or, they've started to let their guard down and bots are getting through.

When Intried to log in, I found that I, too, have been banned for life for soliciting sex. Which is curious, as I have not been on the site for a week or so, and never suggest a dollar Amy.

[QUOTE=SstevenEvets;3948231]So the screen name was, toriluv. I intended to share the link from my back up profile but when I logged in to it I ended up being suspended from that one too with SA stating that they had determined it was from the same person logging in from multiple accounts due to IP match.

A lot of odd shady shit going down from SA lately guys.[/QUOTE]

When I tried to log in. Never actually solicited not suggested a Dollar amount.

[QUOTE=CinMiner;3960103]When Intried to log in, I found that I, too, have been banned for life for soliciting sex. Which is curious, as I have not been on the site for a week or so, and never suggest a dollar Amy.[/QUOTE]

Blav8282: member: 7 d87 f545-5 f89-44 e5-971 a-710 e044 c12 c8 -- "Online first" relationship. Not worth the time.

Charli_C - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9149c3db-3d79-4ef2-8ea3-de7c796514a0[/URL] Possibly the biggest tits I've seen on SA. If she knew how to use them like Lady J did, she might be worth seeing.

Try Candy Coated Babe. She is under 5' tall and sports these ta-tas. She don't need no airbags, that's for sure!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3064f17e-3c0c-4cd8-9bae-ae71dbcda6e1[/URL]

[QUOTE=JoeBogus;3966684]Charli_C - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9149c3db-3d79-4ef2-8ea3-de7c796514a0[/URL] Possibly the biggest tits I've seen on SA. If she knew how to use them like Lady J did, she might be worth seeing.[/QUOTE]

Has anyone had trouble remaining logged into SA?

I navigate from my inbox to the search or something similar and I get kicked out. All the way to the sign in screen. Ugh!