My first m&g basically scoffed at my budget. On HX, she'd barely be a $120,5-6 face type who claims her last arrangement was 2 x / month $500/! GTFO! She recommended [URL]whatsyourprice.com[/URL] as "better fitting my needs. ".
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My first m&g basically scoffed at my budget. On HX, she'd barely be a $120,5-6 face type who claims her last arrangement was 2 x / month $500/! GTFO! She recommended [URL]whatsyourprice.com[/URL] as "better fitting my needs. ".
[QUOTE=DocOck;2713693]There's three pricing plans: 1 month for $70,3 months for $180, or 6 months for $300. I've had no problems using vanilla prepaid Visa cards for payment, if that's something that interests you.[/QUOTE]All I know is I keep renewing the 6 month plan.
ATF - On her period.
Church Girl - Depressed and doing her hair.
Hot New White Girl - 18 - got her tongue pierced today.
X GF - Christmas dinner.
Little Girl N - No baby sitter.
X SB - Too far to drive on a Friday night.
X UTR - No reply.
Roommate - Moved back to florida.
So the SB I would have loved to have been my primary girl, the one with the out of this world body and who's polite demeanor metamorphsized into a nasty sex crazed lover, became conflicted and personally I think got coaching from someone about what her value was. At times I felt like I was texting with two different people, has pushed herself out of the picture. I don't argue with her assessement of her value but I wasn't going to spend my entire month's budget on an unknown, especially when I have been getting some great experiences for 50 and less. It's too bad, but the great thing about having more than one SB is that you get over the loss pretty fast.
This past weekend went up north and hung out with my SB that has become a FWB and we fuck like crazy. I give her the best orgasm in her life according to her. She is also trying very hard to please me because at the age of 31, she is the oldest of the bunch and that has thrown her. She mentioned it several times and when giving me head, said "Can your 18 year olds do this? Perfect place to have all of them. Came home and called up the BBW AF and she came over and we fucked for hours. We definitely have chemistry. I gave the FWB 60 for a Christmas tree, nothing to the other.
[QUOTE=ChrisPoontang;2712369]I got just the thing for small butt holes![/QUOTE]I actually bought it (the anal-ese). It was like six bucks for a half ounce of 7.5% benzocaine cherry flavored ointment. Good and Bad. The good is that it led me to ebay where the competition sells a one ounce 20% benzocaine cherry flavored ointment for the same price or less. So almost 3 times stronger and twice as much for the same price.
Now the bad. You can not use this stuff and go bare or your dick will numb up and you won't feel a fucking thing. LOL. Butt (and all puns intended) for you guys that always cover up anyway, no big deal.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2719264]I actually bought it (the anal-ese). It was like six bucks for a half ounce of 7.5% benzocaine cherry flavored ointment. Good and Bad. The good is that it led me to ebay where the competition sells a one ounce 20% benzocaine cherry flavored ointment for the same price or less. So almost 3 times stronger and twice as much for the same price.
Now the bad. You can not use this stuff and go bare or your dick will numb up and you won't feel a fucking thing. LOL. Butt (and all puns intended) for you guys that always cover up anyway, no big deal.[/QUOTE]Well I've always said that those that would bareback indiscriminately were a bunch of numb nuts. Now they can have numb dicks as well.
[QUOTE=Marlowe;2719540]Well I've always said that those that would bareback indiscriminately were a bunch of numb nuts. Now they can have numb dicks as well.[/QUOTE]Indiscriminately? I suppose so. Admittedly I have been a repeat offender in the past. Been working on that lately. 61 years and all tests negative. I have to realize my luck could run out. But I just had to follow up on CP's post. And yours. Thanks for the words of wisdom. Truly.
I am really at the most minimum I have been in years. I got my ATF (14 months now) who is the best fuck/kisser in the world hands down. I reunited with my X. But that's like having a real GF. Don"t know what's going to happen there. But we plan to see each other once a week (almost at 3 years with her off and on). And I have one reliable UTR that is bucking for a raise. I may have to give in just to keep her chilled out. After 20 dates I have to admit she gets me off the way I like. So there are 4 guaranteed dates a week. Twice a week with my ATF and once a week for my GF and UTR.
My current SA stats / POTS. 14 favorites I am slowly working on. 8 girls in my inbox (meaning they haven't made it to my favorites yet). 27 girls in my sent box. And 6 that have agreed to my $ a date that I haven't gotten around to actually meeting yet. I could send out 30 more messages, but with the holidays, work, regulars and medical stuff, I don't see the point. I am sure I will cave soon. Maybe even tonite. I think I get bored in like 5 minutes tops. I worked 12 hours today just to keep from going crazy. But there are still 2 more hours till bedtime.
And I have 3,374 girls in my delete box after 9 months on SA with my current membership. That led to about 60 random hook-ups with 24 other girls aside from the 3 mentioned above as of october 30. Some only once or twice, and a few that made it to 5 or a few more. And every one of those hook-ups was at a $ a date.
If a girl shows loyalty and skills I do pay more over time. You cant fuck a girl 50 times and not give in to her needs here and there. I know I am always talking about a $ a date. But they have to be willing to start there to show their sincerity first. Because in a LTR the price is going to go up. Until they get spoiled rotten. Then I have to pull the plug whether I like it or not. And sometimes it's a real shame. But that's life.
If I really do get back for real with my X it will be the first time in my entire life that I broke up with someone and then went back. Because when I leave it's forever.
WhatsYourPrice is another site from SeekingArrangement folks. Basically you bid for a date rather than monthly allowance.
If you bid $100 and the lady accepts, then you can communicate with her. The site docks your account $20 I. E. 1/5 of bid amount.
I generally bid $50, then in communication propose 100-150 for a full (wink wink) date. I have had good luck with this site.
[QUOTE=Discreet1965;2724049]WhatsYourPrice is another site from SeekingArrangement folks. Basically you bid for a date rather than monthly allowance.
If you bid $100 and the lady accepts, then you can communicate with her. The site docks your account $20 I. E. 1/5 of bid amount.
I generally bid $50, then in communication propose 100-150 for a full (wink wink) date. I have had good luck with this site.[/QUOTE]Are you trying to set up a per visit deal? I haven't pulled the trigger on this one. Sure, I want to spend $_ to negotiate with you. #rolleyes.
Have been working SA for about 2 weeks. To say that it's different than HX is the understatement of the week! I've met with Fresno 6's that talked about $300 per plus a room! These chicks throw out $300+ like it was stale bread to pigeons, never mind the fact that you have the cost and exposure of getting a room. Fuggedaboudit. GPS blurted out by "princesses" who have no idea what we can find here for so much less.
Did get a 40 yo cutie down from $350 into the ones but we would still need a room. May work on that further. If she's willing to drop by almost 50%, I don't think I've hit bottom.
Had a long message chat with an 18 yo who, within a few minutes emailed me underwear and topless shots. We quickly arrived at those same high numbers plus room and she's a long way away. The flirting was interesting and fun.
Did have drinks with a 22 yo, OK-ish cute, but athletic stocky. She's very local and said originally $2-300 per but we were able to discuss it intelligently and, as she doesn't need it to cover bills, something in the $ range was acceptable. She even said I could go to her place.
The big winner was the cute but borderline BBW (Curvy?) 34 yo Hispanic married lady that I met for drinks. After a few, we were both ready to rip each others clothes off but she had to go pick up family. She also said her previous arrangement was $2-300 per but was good with my $. She flat out said her husband has very low sex drive.
So we met at her place today (something she didn't allow her previous to do! Had a few drinks from the vodka I brought, she said "put it in me" and screwed each others brains out for about an hour and a half on her couch. BBFS and I asked her about cumming inside her and she replied that she is on the pill. Told it didn't matter as I got clipped years ago. I asked her how long it's been since she had a good lay and she rolled her eyes. "You don't even want to know. " We will see each other again after the holidays and I do feel I accomplished what I wanted to out of this.
Have to say that, after all the DFK, etc. It was very awkward to hand her money unlike here. She just said, "Then don't make it awkward. " So I gave her her "Christmas present. ".
I will say that I have a better handle on filtering through the BS and may try AFF when my month subscription ends. Maybe more hook ups than LTR. Until then, I have a few serious contenders on SA but limited experience is saying that I'll get the same high numbers.
Such a different world. Unless your wallet it hung like a rhino, you will probably have to lower your standards from the "Holy crap" types.
I will say that the hunt is kinda fun. One thing I did notice is that the ones who never ask for private pics of me get quickly to numbers. Probably semi-pros.
Oh, and create a spreadsheet on Google Docs so you can keep track of it all. Serious numbers game.
My $0. 02.
"Spoiled Model behind bars. Getting out soon I guess I was having too much fun in CA because I caught a DUI and landed in prison:(I get out in March '16. Its pretty lonely and boring in here but we make our own fun. ".
Workin' it from the clink! Guess they have interwebs in jail!
[QUOTE=Raslan;2724290]Have been working SA for about 2 weeks. To say that it's different than HX is the understatement of the week! I've met with Fresno 6's that talked about $300 per plus a room! These chicks throw out $300+ like it was stale bread to pigeons, never mind the fact that you have the cost and exposure of getting a room. Fuggedaboudit. GPS blurted out by "princesses" who have no idea what we can find here for so much less.
Did get a 40 yo cutie down from $350 into the ones but we would still need a room. May work on that further. If she's willing to drop by almost 50%, I don't think I've hit bottom.
Had a long message chat with an 18 yo who, within a few minutes emailed me underwear and topless shots. We quickly arrived at those same high numbers plus room and she's a long way away. The flirting was interesting and fun.
Did have drinks with a 22 yo, OK-ish cute, but athletic stocky. She's very local and said originally $2-300 per but we were able to discuss it intelligently and, as she doesn't need it to cover bills, something in the $ range was acceptable. She even said I could go to her place.
The big winner was the cute but borderline BBW (Curvy?) 34 yo Hispanic married lady that I met for drinks. After a few, we were both ready to rip each others clothes off but she had to go pick up family. She also said her previous arrangement was $2-300 per but was good with my $. She flat out said her husband has very low sex drive.
So we met at her place today (something she didn't allow her previous to do! Had a few drinks from the vodka I brought, she said "put it in me" and screwed each others brains out for about an hour and a half on her couch. BBFS and I asked her about cumming inside her and she replied that she is on the pill. Told it didn't matter as I got clipped years ago. I asked her how long it's been since she had a good lay and she rolled her eyes. "You don't even want to know. " We will see each other again after the holidays and I do feel I accomplished what I wanted to out of this.
Have to say that, after all the DFK, etc. It was very awkward to hand her money unlike here. She just said, "Then don't make it awkward. " So I gave her her "Christmas present. ".
I will say that I have a better handle on filtering through the BS and may try AFF when my month subscription ends. Maybe more hook ups than LTR. Until then, I have a few serious contenders on SA but limited experience is saying that I'll get the same high numbers.
Such a different world. Unless your wallet it hung like a rhino, you will probably have to lower your standards from the "Holy crap" types.
I will say that the hunt is kinda fun. One thing I did notice is that the ones who never ask for private pics of me get quickly to numbers. Probably semi-pros.
Oh, and create a spreadsheet on Google Docs so you can keep track of it all. Serious numbers game.
My $0. 02.[/QUOTE]I would keep at it. It really takes time to get in the groove with SA. But over the long haul it always pays off. For me its more about knowing there are exclusive girls on there that only want one guy at a time. Makes me feel a little more special and the STD risk is far far lower if you get to those types of girls.
Always stick to the number.
And the number is, 100.
[QUOTE=Raslan;2724290]Have been working SA for about 2 weeks. To say that it's different than HX is the understatement of the week! I've met with Fresno 6's that talked about $300 per plus a room! These chicks throw out $300+ like it was stale bread to pigeons, never mind the fact that you have the cost and exposure of getting a room. Fuggedaboudit. GPS blurted out by "princesses" who have no idea what we can find here for so much less.
Did get a 40 yo cutie down from $350 into the ones but we would still need a room. May work on that further. If she's willing to drop by almost 50%, I don't think I've hit bottom.
Had a long message chat with an 18 yo who, within a few minutes emailed me underwear and topless shots. We quickly arrived at those same high numbers plus room and she's a long way away. The flirting was interesting and fun.
Did have drinks with a 22 yo, OK-ish cute, but athletic stocky. She's very local and said originally $2-300 per but we were able to discuss it intelligently and, as she doesn't need it to cover bills, something in the $ range was acceptable. She even said I could go to her place.
The big winner was the cute but borderline BBW (Curvy?) 34 yo Hispanic married lady that I met for drinks. After a few, we were both ready to rip each others clothes off but she had to go pick up family. She also said her previous arrangement was $2-300 per but was good with my $. She flat out said her husband has very low sex drive.
So we met at her place today (something she didn't allow her previous to do! Had a few drinks from the vodka I brought, she said "put it in me" and screwed each others brains out for about an hour and a half on her couch. BBFS and I asked her about cumming inside her and she replied that she is on the pill. Told it didn't matter as I got clipped years ago. I asked her how long it's been since she had a good lay and she rolled her eyes. "You don't even want to know. " We will see each other again after the holidays and I do feel I accomplished what I wanted to out of this.
Have to say that, after all the DFK, etc. It was very awkward to hand her money unlike here. She just said, "Then don't make it awkward. " So I gave her her "Christmas present. ".
I will say that I have a better handle on filtering through the BS and may try AFF when my month subscription ends. Maybe more hook ups than LTR. Until then, I have a few serious contenders on SA but limited experience is saying that I'll get the same high numbers.
Such a different world. Unless your wallet it hung like a rhino, you will probably have to lower your standards from the "Holy crap" types.
I will say that the hunt is kinda fun. One thing I did notice is that the ones who never ask for private pics of me get quickly to numbers. Probably semi-pros.
Oh, and create a spreadsheet on Google Docs so you can keep track of it all. Serious numbers game.
My $0. 02.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Raslan;2724286]Are you trying to set up a per visit deal? I haven't pulled the trigger on this one. Sure, I want to spend $_ to negotiate with you. #rolleyes.[/QUOTE]If you offer $50 for the date, then you pay the site $10. If she accepts your offer, you are obligated to pay her only $50 for the date. This ($50) normally gets me a lunch+movie date.
Most of the time, I have been able to negotiate to $100-150 for lunch+private time indoors. Still cheaper than SA.