[QUOTE=FirsTimer86;5822560]What was the damage for a BBBJ?[/QUOTE]Varies between 40 and 50. But definitely worth 50.
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[QUOTE=FirsTimer86;5822560]What was the damage for a BBBJ?[/QUOTE]Varies between 40 and 50. But definitely worth 50.
Guys.
I realize this may be counter intuitive to the point of this board, but I'd like some feedback.
Has anyone ever tried and / or been successful and helping one of these girls get out of the game?
This girl is a great person and I can tell they want to get out. But I can see how she isn't in the best situation. She's clean, I know she is and she's not lying. She's recently had a child and its completely changed her. I know deep inside she wants to get out of this life, especially for her son. But she doesn't have much experience working. No high school diploma, and it's been a while so GED would be hard. Not even financial aid to go back to school and get certification of some kind. No family that she can count on.
I've grown to care in some way for this girl.
[QUOTE=AskngForFriend;5823795]Guys.
I realize this may be counter intuitive to the point of this board, but I'd like some feedback.
Has anyone ever tried and / or been successful and helping one of these girls get out of the game?
This girl is a great person and I can tell they want to get out. But I can see how she isn't in the best situation. She's clean, I know she is and she's not lying. She's recently had a child and its completely changed her. I know deep inside she wants to get out of this life, especially for her son. But she doesn't have much experience working. No high school diploma, and it's been a while so GED would be hard. Not even financial aid to go back to school and get certification of some kind. No family that she can count on.
I've grown to care in some way for this girl.[/QUOTE]I admire your thinking and attempt to help. I think you've naively selected the wrong audience. You probably need to seek help from individuals or groups with moral backbone.
[QUOTE=WetLapper;5824079]I admire your thinking and attempt to help. I think you've naively selected the wrong audience. You probably need to seek help from individuals or groups with moral backbone.[/QUOTE]No, I understand you want women for sex. But I feel several of us could provide some type of valuable insight. I also feel that doing what we do, some of us might have thought about this or maybe even acted on this.
Vnamvet, any words? I know you've tried to help people before. Any success? Have any of them actually wanted to get out?
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[QUOTE=AskngForFriend;5823795]Guys.
I realize this may be counter intuitive to the point of this board, but I'd like some feedback.
Has anyone ever tried and / or been successful and helping one of these girls get out of the game?
This girl is a great person and I can tell they want to get out. But I can see how she isn't in the best situation. She's clean, I know she is and she's not lying. She's recently had a child and its completely changed her. I know deep inside she wants to get out of this life, especially for her son. But she doesn't have much experience working. No high school diploma, and it's been a while so GED would be hard. Not even financial aid to go back to school and get certification of some kind. No family that she can count on.
I've grown to care in some way for this girl.[/QUOTE]Definitely no shame in caring for someone regardless of the circumstances. Obviously I don't know the full story, but just be careful about getting too involved, you may not get the result you think. Most of these girls are masters of manipulation. Most will swear they are clean, most say they want to change but as you correctly pointed out they lack the life skills and education, maybe through no fault of their own Some are very emotionally fragile and damaged. You could spend a lot of time and a bag of money and come away disappointed. It may be better to keep it strictly business.
SR.
[QUOTE=AskngForFriend;5823795]Guys.
I realize this may be counter intuitive to the point of this board, but I'd like some feedback.
Has anyone ever tried and / or been successful and helping one of these girls get out of the game?
This girl is a great person and I can tell they want to get out. But I can see how she isn't in the best situation. She's clean, I know she is and she's not lying. She's recently had a child and its completely changed her. I know deep inside she wants to get out of this life, especially for her son. But she doesn't have much experience working. No high school diploma, and it's been a while so GED would be hard. Not even financial aid to go back to school and get certification of some kind. No family that she can count on.
I've grown to care in some way for this girl.[/QUOTE]Just my 2 cents. Most of us around here have been around the block a time or two. For the most part this is a judgement free zone except for a few meatheads that get all bent out of shape if you pay for or want something better than their usual $40 gutter trash, where they get their rocks off more by the chase for the cheapest lay, than they could possibly enjoy the horrifying experience. Of my soapbox now.
As others have said, just be careful and don't bite off more than you can chew. And though you may have read her 100% correctly, it is just as likely, you are out of your element and can't see her game. Who knows.
This is not an apples to apples and a little extreme but you will get my point. If you stop and ask 100 if those people with signs that say, "will work for food," hop in I've got a pretty easy job and will pay you $50 to paint mailbox, 99 out of 100 have no interest.
Maybe your girl is the 1. Try something very small to help, and see if she is really interested. Not a handout.
[QUOTE=AskngForFriend;5823795]Guys.
I realize this may be counter intuitive to the point of this board, but I'd like some feedback.
Has anyone ever tried and / or been successful and helping one of these girls get out of the game?
This girl is a great person and I can tell they want to get out. But I can see how she isn't in the best situation. She's clean, I know she is and she's not lying. She's recently had a child and its completely changed her. I know deep inside she wants to get out of this life, especially for her son. But she doesn't have much experience working. No high school diploma, and it's been a while so GED would be hard. Not even financial aid to go back to school and get certification of some kind. No family that she can count on.
I've grown to care in some way for this girl.[/QUOTE]No worth it, I personally have tried to help several women in the same situation, and all of the turned into a big disappointment because different factors, drugs, pimps,. Mental issues, exbfs or just because they are so lazy to even try to get a real job.
Thanks for the feedback, guys.
I agree, most of these girls are "damaged" in some way, won't change even if you try. And that's definitely the case with her, she's been through stuff.
I just wish I knew how to help her.
Anyways. Thanks again to the feedback, everyone.
Most of us have been there a time or two. We see a halfway decent provider who sucks and fucks us good and we want to help them out of the game. The best way to help them is to be a good regular they can count on. DO not get further involved. Fuck, Pay and Leave. Many of us have tried to be "Captain Save-A-Ho" Some of us have tried to turn a WG into a housewife and some of us have even helped a provider try to get off the Candy. At the end of the day, the success stories do not outweigh the horror or regret stories. With that said, do what you want to do, because you will. Just remember the warnings given. We'll stay tuned for your "Damn I should have listened" Story.
[QUOTE=AskngForFriend;5823795]Guys.
I realize this may be counter intuitive to the point of this board, but I'd like some feedback.
Has anyone ever tried and / or been successful and helping one of these girls get out of the game?
This girl is a great person and I can tell they want to get out. But I can see how she isn't in the best situation. She's clean, I know she is and she's not lying. She's recently had a child and its completely changed her. I know deep inside she wants to get out of this life, especially for her son. But she doesn't have much experience working. No high school diploma, and it's been a while so GED would be hard. Not even financial aid to go back to school and get certification of some kind. No family that she can count on.
I've grown to care in some way for this girl.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=AskngForFriend;5823795]Guys.
I realize this may be counter intuitive to the point of this board, but I'd like some feedback.
Has anyone ever tried and / or been successful and helping one of these girls get out of the game?
This girl is a great person and I can tell they want to get out. But I can see how she isn't in the best situation. She's clean, I know she is and she's not lying. She's recently had a child and its completely changed her. I know deep inside she wants to get out of this life, especially for her son. But she doesn't have much experience working. No high school diploma, and it's been a while so GED would be hard. Not even financial aid to go back to school and get certification of some kind. No family that she can count on.
I've grown to care in some way for this girl.[/QUOTE]Two very good pieces of advice were given here. Both very valuable. You are actually talking about getting a person out of addiction. The only way out for that individual is themselves. Everyone else involved no matter what their intention is an enabler. Like it or not. So be careful of their truth. Be supportive if they make positive moves to help themselves and know that it most likely won't work out without several attempts. Absolutely nothing better than people helping people in need. Difficult task.
I've seen this ad floating for a minute can anyone verify that this girl is real? And if so how was she?
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[QUOTE=AskngForFriend;5823795]Guys.
I realize this may be counter intuitive to the point of this board, but I'd like some feedback.
Has anyone ever tried and / or been successful and helping one of these girls get out of the game?
This girl is a great person and I can tell they want to get out. But I can see how she isn't in the best situation. She's clean, I know she is and she's not lying. She's recently had a child and its completely changed her. I know deep inside she wants to get out of this life, especially for her son. But she doesn't have much experience working. No high school diploma, and it's been a while so GED would be hard. Not even financial aid to go back to school and get certification of some kind. No family that she can count on.
I've grown to care in some way for this girl.[/QUOTE]Take her and the child into your home look after them. Otherwise she'll need to figure it out like everyone else in society. I'm sure it'll be tough but not impossible if she wants to better for herself. Just my 2 c.
[QUOTE=FSmith9009;5824581]Take her and the child into your home look after them. Otherwise she'll need to figure it out like everyone else in society. I'm sure it'll be tough but not impossible if she wants to better for herself. Just my 2 c.[/QUOTE]I strongly advise taking her home for an extended period of time, chances of her robbing you blind are too high to chance. My soapbox.
[QUOTE=AskngForFriend;5823795]Guys.
I realize this may be counter intuitive to the point of this board, but I'd like some feedback.
Has anyone ever tried and / or been successful and helping one of these girls get out of the game?
This girl is a great person and I can tell they want to get out. But I can see how she isn't in the best situation. She's clean, I know she is and she's not lying. She's recently had a child and its completely changed her. I know deep inside she wants to get out of this life, especially for her son. But she doesn't have much experience working. No high school diploma, and it's been a while so GED would be hard. Not even financial aid to go back to school and get certification of some kind. No family that she can count on.
I've grown to care in some way for this girl.[/QUOTE]So I am currently working with a girl to get her out of the life. Because she told me she wanted out. My first quote to her was "I can't save you, you have to save yourself. I can only give you the ability and the support to do that. " She said she understood, she moved in with me, then promptly moved out and went back to the life. Now I haven't abandon hope on her, I still help her, and don't have sex with her, but at some point she has to decide its really what she wants. That life isn't easy to break out of, it grabs hold of these girls with drugs and some easy money. So the only thing I will say is be careful. I really care about the girl I'm helping, and I know that deep down she wants out, wants a better life, but as I said, you are not a knight in shining armor, she has to be her own savior. Give her the tools and either she will pull herself up, or she will just take advantage and keep doing what she is doing. One last thing, you can't help her from the outside of her life, if she doesn't let you into the dirty parts of her life, she is likely just taking advantage of a good thing!