[QUOTE=FunderJ;5105692]I've never heard of Fetlife but a lady provider told me that Tinder was only good for finding dates with Gays. What experiences have you mongers had with Tinder.[/QUOTE]I've had great success with Fetlife, but it took some time and effort. It helps if you go to their events—vanilla gatherings to sex parties. If you are decent looking and polite and open minded you can do very well (being older helps with these girls who have daddy issues). I've had one-night stands and months-long relationships from Fetlife—all with amazing sex. But read up on polyamory, impact play, and power exchanges. If you can drop a reference to "The Ethical ****" or if you are good with ropes and ties (thank you Boy Scouts!) you'll catch a few eyes. Most of the women on Fet are down and if they aren't, it'll be in their profile.
Tinder's a good place if you are a pretty boy; Fet's good if you are educated and kinky af.