SO,
I am with you man! I am mid-aged and been hobbying for decades but new to the board. Would love to share favs with you. Please PM me.
I can reminince about the old days and offer sugestions for best value top providers!
Happy Hunting!
JB69
[QUOTE=Stressed Out; 1563413]Skyla. I would absolutely agree with what my good friend has to say but if you look at the forum itself you will see two opposite directions it goes in. First are the blowhards who (as you say) like to give blow by blow descriptions, critiques and any little complaint they have. While some are legit (ie short time upsell ect) most IMHO fall into the realm of YMMV. In otherwords they guy doesn't get what he wants for the cheapest possible price and complains about it. These tend to be the same guys that undertip and see the provider as a commodity. They are what they are and there isn't much we can do except to point out to them the error of their ways and they are actually making things worse since if the provider reads the page (and some do) or hears about it they become. Let's just say not better at their job. Of course some are here to just massage their ego.
But the far majority of gents here are mindful of the safety of the providers (and in turn themselves) both in keeping them around for the long term (yes some self serving motives here) and out of the clutches of LE (again both reasons apply). Most of us have a deep respect for the providers both for the job they do as providers and as human beings which ideally is the way it should be. As you read thjrough posts you will see that most of the 'respected' posters will jump when he sees someone out of line.
Personally I want to know the basics of the provider. General looks, demeanor / personality, comfort level and skill. That is how I would decide who to see or not. I used to be a frequent user of the asian spas but as I've grown older I've found that personality, ability to communicate and comfort level between us to be a far more important part of my decision. Blatently put. I would rather see a provider who I can chat with (intelligently) , get a good massage from and be able to relax with (the ole kiss and cuddle thing) even if it ends in something short of a 'wild' finish. I guess the companionship part has become better than the sex part.
BTW. How is your hunt going for a mp to set out your shingle going? If it ever ends up to be in this area rather than the casino area let us know. Your idea of a nice session is probably what many of us would enjoy. Take care and be safe. SO[/QUOTE]