It's not funny but did make me laugh
[QUOTE=BadBudda;2212089]Some dumb ass people think they're gaming a provider, getting cheaper rates, extra time, stuff that's not on th menu. All some of these guys do half the time is fuck it up for the rest of us! !! Case in point, I've been waiting to see this new girl, REALLY HOT been working on it all week. First tried Tuesday, by time I made sure I could create a excuse my wife would believe she was booked up and done for the night. Tried Wednesday but when it came time to get away some guy had run way over his time and couldn't wait for her to make it back to her incall she was so far out. Set it up tonight, paid someone to work my shift get to the location and some dumb ass has taken her out for a outcall, keep her damn near half the night and she's pissed at the world. Try and be a nice guy and listen while she and another provider talk about it, figure they will just get it out of their system. Hell no! Stuff just gets worse from there. 2 hours later, get the"you're a decent guy but I'm just not into it right now" WTF! This prick just messed up MY night! Hell he's probably single, and has play time to spare. I've got to plan shit with military precision, call in favors, and PAY people to cover my fat ass!! What the hell guys when one of us piss a provider off your screwing untold guys down the line. And who ever pulled this off deserves to be hung by the heels and beat on the balls with a wet carp!![/QUOTE]I'm not laughing at you or your situation because that does truly suck, but the picture you painted did make me chuckle a bit.
Unfortunately, this happens more often than you would expect. At the same time the issue does fall on the provider for not planning better. There's always a potential for things getting pushed especially toward the end of the day. Her not setting firm boundaries up front, allowing appropriate time, etc.
Having known several of these girls there's things they all do that these mongers pushing the limits don't understand. Almost all save your number in their phone after you call. They may not remember your name but there will be some identifier. One girl used to add DNA after numbers for do not answer if the experience has bad. Same girl would add $ for guy tips well or would pay even just to talk. Another girl would have identifiers like time, meaning the guy was always late or stayed over. It goes on and on but you get the idea. In the long run especially with popular providers they will bump appointments or allow for the time suckers if it pays well. If one guy can come in and make it so they don't have to hole up in a hotel room running through towels all day they're going to clear their schedule and their day.
In the long run the monger that doesn't take care of her she will remember.
And the real pisser is. .
I'm hearing about what's happened to this sweet kid, seems genuinely a good hearted kinda girl, the kind of provider you always wanted to find kind, you know? So after she and the other provider talk about this douche bag for awhile I ask" Why don't you call him out on this kinda stuff? " She replied " Oh, no he made it clear he's a senior fellow on this internet site and he'll talk shit about me and cause me trouble if I was to say anything or complained" WTF? Just because this cat has been around for a while, seen a few providers and learned how to scam people for extras, he seems to have a free pass to do or say anything he wants because he can wield the guide as a club. I make a appointment, show up on time, try and be responsible and respectful and all of sudden because HE'S a thought less bi-polar jerk I'm FUCKING INVISIBLE! !! Hell I'm a senior to but I have never tried to hold it over someone or tried to manipulate or bargain with that status. We're supposed to help eschew other out, share good info on who we find the best providers and save others from a bad or frustratingly experience. Instead it would seem some of us want to browbeat, threaten and use our presence on the board to extort favors from these girls. No wonder the ladies give some people the runaround and schedule duplicate appointments, some guys are just Pricks! Meanwhile those of us who genuinely respect and care for these girls see deals that we have planned, dreamed of, waited all week for go up in smoke because some asshole wanted to use his position to extort extras from some poor kid! !! I'm so mad I couldn't even sleep last night, I feel like this basterd stole from me. Think I'll call in and take vacation, get drunk and generally feel sorry for myself like the loser that I obvious am. The old saying is almost right Nice Guys don't finish last. . they don't even get to start! !!
ROLMOA maybe you need a less stressful hobby.
[QUOTE=BadBudda;2212252]. I'm so mad I couldn't even sleep last night, IThink I'll call in and take vacation, get drunk [/QUOTE]Fishing or knitting maybe? This hobby is supposed to relieve stress. Not increase it. LOL.
Don't Believe everything a provider says
[QUOTE=BadBudda;2212252]I'm hearing about what's happened to this sweet kid, seems genuinely a good hearted kinda girl, the kind of provider you always wanted to find kind, you know? So after she and the other provider talk about this douche bag for awhile I ask" Why don't you call him out on this kinda stuff? " She replied " Oh, no he made it clear he's a senior fellow on this internet site and he'll talk shit about me and cause me trouble if I was to say anything or complained" WTF? Just because this cat has been around for a while, seen a few providers and learned how to scam people for extras, he seems to have a free pass to do or say anything he wants because he can wield the guide as a club. I make a appointment, show up on time, try and be responsible and respectful and all of sudden because HE'S a thought less bi-polar jerk I'm FUCKING INVISIBLE! !! Hell I'm a senior to but I have never tried to hold it over someone or tried to manipulate or bargain with that status. We're supposed to help eschew other out, share good info on who we find the best providers and save others from a bad or frustratingly experience. Instead it would seem some of us want to browbeat, threaten and use our presence on the board to extort favors from these girls. No wonder the ladies give some people the runaround and schedule duplicate appointments, some guys are just Pricks! Meanwhile those of us who genuinely respect and care for these girls see deals that we have planned, dreamed of, waited all week for go up in smoke because some asshole wanted to use his position to extort extras from some poor kid! !! I'm so mad I couldn't even sleep last night, I feel like this basterd stole from me. Think I'll call in and take vacation, get drunk and generally feel sorry for myself like the loser that I obvious am. The old saying is almost right Nice Guys don't finish last. . they don't even get to start! !![/QUOTE]Just because a provider says someone took up her day doesn't make it true. And I'm not talking about your situation just providers in general. Stick to the script because at the end of the day its business never personal. The highest bidder will always win.
MandySenLuvz is freaking AWESOME!
Let me just say, some dreams shouldn't ever end and I just had one about MandySenLuvz. She gets it, unlike so many of these RIDICULOUS young girls that pop up with attitude and no clue what it takes to be great. She was amazing in every aspect, attentive, very giving, enjoys receiving, just an all around great time. I am somewhat picky and and it doesn't bother me one ounce not to see anybody if their attitude sucks, which is the case with so many. She is just a cool chick. I won't go into great detail but OMG she loves what she does! Dream starts with BBBJ, which turned into my favorite # then onto various positions, although doggy was top shelf and finally ending with BBBJCIM which made me see double. The only negative was having to walk down the steps on my wobbly legs. LOL Whoever gets to see her will have an amazing time.
Yes that is absolutely correct
[QUOTE=GimpedChef;2213252]Shouldn't you be trying to get in touch with the ones you stood up, blatantly hurt and such rather than if you were hurt just let me know? I for one believe that if you truly cared about what happened, you would try to find those whom you stood up, hurt and wasted their time; and try to see if you could remedy the problem. Having them "just let you know" shows you will do only for those that will put their hand up and say me I got hurt by you, rather they did or not. You made the appointment, you should know whom to contact.[/QUOTE]Very well put, it was a very ill attempt at righting some wrongs. It lacked sincerity & conviction. Nothing about it was or is funny to those she screwed over and her joking and making light of the situation only further defines her character. I was one of those people she screwed over and she feels as though I should come to her and let her know, are you fu* kidding me. The fact that she doesn't even know who they are just proves she didn't give a crap that she was doing it. What a joke!
Observations on my post, and sticking to known good providers
Yes, I probably shouldn't have used the term"kid" when I posted but having a daughter who is in her early twenties, I generally referred to any young lady in that age range as a "sweet kid". Not politically correct, but not meant to be insulting either. By that standard Tori, Dara, even Charlie are Sweet Kids to me, yet all of these are some of the FINEST providers one is liable to ever find. The individual who took advantage of the girl in question has done the same with at least 3 other providers so I wasn't just going off the word of one incident. If that is how he does business with his girls that is between them obviously, I just don't like it when it affects MY dream. One can ask any of the providers I've named and I firmly believe that they all would tell you I have always conducted or sessions with consideration and respect for both them and thier time and feeling. I'm here for a great time, not to abuse or denigrate any of the providers I've ever seen. These 3 in particular have always conducted their self well for me anytime I've been lucky enough to see them.
Reviews? Wait have you Seen Me?
Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong or right as I'm sure you will enjoy doing so, for as a member looking for a provider that is the correct thing to do. Are we as providers not supposed to post in order to advertise so that you as a member are able to find one to your liking. Why would it be necessary to insult a provider based on her ad that was neither tasteless nor unfitting to the ads desired. I am what is considered a Spinner. Thank you for your link to the urban dictionary for it is helpful in decifering the true meaning. A petite and thin girl that a man can. Etc. I am 5"1 110 lbs. Yea that's me I'm small, I'm thin, I am petite. Oh but I have an ass! It is a nice ass, and curvy, an ass you can fill your hands with. I'm pretty sure nothing in that meaning excuses me from the Spinner label. So I ask why do you find it necessary to review me based on my label that is not decieving of the meaning? Have you seen me? Have you dreamed with me? Have you reviewed me based on a legit meeting with me? If you had then you would know then that my advertising is correct. What a small, silly thing to pick on. I have done nothing to any member that would be worthy of a bad review. I have only legit reviews by legit members that have seen my spinner body that happens to have an ass. So now that you went out of your way to downgrade me on my post that is there to be accomodating to you as a member could you please help me with a little insight into why my ad should be reviewed so as to make me feel unwelcome and decieving of my accomadtions for you. Is your report truly helpful to those that wish to have a dream with me? Oh and a trashcan, REALLY! ? But look at that ass, what should a trashcan matter to the point you need to blast and ridicule me with it. I am here as a provider to play nice and be helpful to the gentlemen that have a desire to meet me and in no way wish to be rude, mean or decieving. Thank you gentlemen for such warm welcome. I am me, I am real and to those that had or wish to have a legit dream with me thank you for your kindness.
