"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[QUOTE=2me4Looking2;3711267]I guess I'm jaded, but I get so many requests like this daily from girls on SA. I generally block them if they even hint at wanting money upfront, no matter how sad their story is. EVERY time I've declined but offered to meet and then provide money they have quit responding. I know it's that time of the month when rent is due and they come out of the woodwork, but asking for money like that is a big red flag for me.[/QUOTE]You aren't jaded. You just live in the real world and the overwhelming majority of times, that is a scam and the chicks are trying to steal from you. Sometimes it's worth taking a risk if it's a small amount, but generally it's not even a good idea to meet a girl who begs like that. They are trouble and could steal from you or who knows. I would only send money to someone upfront if it was my idea and then it sure wouldn't be much. Maybe $20 or $30 max.

Anyway I'm continuing my western NC / eastern TN "SA tour" and definitely frustrating to get these girls to meet up, but I've gotten four in nine days, so I guess should not complain. Atlanta was always shit for me with CL and I fear will be the same for me with SA, at least compared to these other areas. I guess it's partly because I like fair skinned white girls the best and there are a lot of those out in the country. But they also seem to have less of an attitude than ATL chicks. However, there are still some good local ones and I will just have to look harder for them when I return home.

I've been talking with lady going back to October. For various reasons we didn't get to actually meet until recently. It looks like she's put on a fair amount of weight since the pics were taken or she just takes great pics. Most women have an unbelievable ability to choose the most flattering positions, etc to make themselves look their best. Anyway, the difference was such that I decided not to proceed and I honestly don't mind a little weight on a woman.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/302569f2-e491-48cf-8e6a-ab4095650d11[/URL]

[QUOTE=Airmantroy;3710971]She's got to be 3 months behind in MOST cases, and even then it takes at least 30 days from the day the court signs the eviction notice. If she's going to be evicted I might want to know where she's living, for $333.00 a month, I could save a enough on my rent to afford the commute from Athens and still have some left to play with. Sounds like she should have been asking for help a lot sooner, or at least have a better excuse for needing a $1000.

Side note:

Don't you just love it when they move into these $1800+/ month apartments in Buckhead / Midtown etc. And can't afford the rent the 3rd month into a 12 month lease.[/QUOTE]I chatted with her months ago. She quoted 400 per meet. So I told her I don't think that would work. I told her I would give her 200. She said that was too low. Fast forward two months I get a text out the blue saying she needs money by the 5th for her rent. Can we meet asap she will take 200. I told her I would think about it. Because at the time I had another new chic lined up. Asked her how long would we have together since I would have to drive all the way to Athens, rent a room, pick her up, handle biz, take her back home then drive back. She says 45 min-1 hr. I told her I would need more time and multiple pops since I had a long drive and had to play chauffeur. She seemed to not want to play for more than an hour for 200. I told her if I were closer I could probably understand, but it just wouldn't be worth all the hassle. That was in December, I see she is still using the same story.

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;3710718]Thanks much. Very detailed and helpful review and some wise words in there as well.[/QUOTE]Some guys get carried away sometimes.

[QUOTE=Harley32;3711678]I've been talking with lady going back to October. For various reasons we didn't get to actually meet until recently. It looks like she's put on a fair amount of weight since the pics were taken or she just takes great pics. Most women have an unbelievable ability to choose the most flattering positions, etc to make themselves look their best. Anyway, the difference was such that I decided not to proceed and I honestly don't mind a little weight on a woman.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/302569f2-e491-48cf-8e6a-ab4095650d11[/URL][/QUOTE]I was talking to her off and on too and may have to bail on that project.

I was just texting with one who looks good but wants $200 up front on first lunch date and then $600 per visit. Nope, not for me.

[QUOTE=CatchNGo;3711700]I chatted with her months ago. She quoted 400 per meet. So I told her I don't think that would work. I told her I would give her 200. She said that was too low. Fast forward two months I get a text out the blue saying she needs money by the 5th for her rent. Can we meet asap she will take 200. I told her I would think about it. Because at the time I had another new chic lined up. Asked her how long would we have together since I would have to drive all the way to Athens, rent a room, pick her up, handle biz, take her back home then drive back. She says 45 min-1 hr. I told her I would need more time and multiple pops since I had a long drive and had to play chauffeur. She seemed to not want to play for more than an hour for 200. I told her if I were closer I could probably understand, but it just wouldn't be worth all the hassle. That was in December, I see she is still using the same story.[/QUOTE]Same story although she said her rent was $820. Looks like she is trying to build in some cushion. She quoted 400 per meet or three sessions if I would pay the whole amount. LOL. What kind of math is that. The desperation turned me off. Her cell is linked to her FB so she is real though not as appealing as the profile pics indicate. I just didn't feel like.

What's up bros? Here is a little intel I've gathered over the past week or so. My experiences only, yours may vary.

Spicey83.

[URL] https://seekingarrangement.com/member/7cd9c7d1-c2de-487e-8bb6-a06bdcc9e674 [/URL]

Easy to connect with. I hit her with some lame line about "are you really spicey, because I like them hot" Almost slapped myself for it but she "liked" it. She wants $400. Can't host. Asked if we could have drinks first. I decided to take another offer and didn't counter her initial price point. Cute girl though.

Gypsy.

[URL] https://seekingarrangement.com/member/9cb4522b-83ba-4d9f-b921-6eb28376817e [/URL]

This one is definitely about her business. Lots of tats. 4'11. Quoted me $500 for two hours of fun. When you message her, put the word Kitty in the subject line so she knows you "read" her profile. Our schedules didn't connect and I am swimming in multiple at lower price points, but her pics are nice.

SweetHips.

[URL] https://seekingarrangement.com/member/b59a4669-038c-4fea-aeb9-c7bf7396d2ab [/URL]

Scammer. Says she needs $600 dollars and wants it via Google Wallet or Cash App. Playing around, I told her I would give it to her in person cash if we met at public location of her choice. Then the excuses poured in. The car is in the shop, she's scared to give out her home address this early and her last Uber experience soured her from using the service. Stay away from this one.

2 sweet75.

[URL] https://seekingarrangement.com/member/53f86370-7b3a-4b40-a5c3-8ce29797eeb3 [/URL]

Chatted this one up for a bit. Stays about 1 hour outside of Atlanta but has transportation to get to the area. Offered $150 for playtime and she said she would make the trip. Works nights so she can only make it up to the Atlanta area during the day. Says she needs the money for some bills and asked if it would be a weekly arrangement. My plate is kind of full so I didn't partake. Yet.

White Diamond.

[URL] https://seekingarrangement.com/member/3199dc90-f98c-4704-aef3-9dec9d003a00 [/URL]

Willing to meet immediately, but said she would have to bring her aunt first meet. Then it would be whatever. Oh yeah, needed gas money for the trip. Yada yada. Her spill is that she needs another surgery after undergoing a hysterectomy Told me they have to finish cleaning some tissue around the uterus. Sheesh. That sure put me out of the mood.

Import Lover.

[URL] https://seekingarrangement.com/member/47d2f7f1-4dfa-49f8-a12a-d0a9a88b6977 [/URL]

One of those that want you to pay her to meet you for dinner. $500. LOL. Then says she's not looking for intimacy at all, but if it happens then so be it. Pass.

Mexican Cutie.

[URL] https://seekingarrangement.com/member/f5050c7e-495b-4637-beb1-be87ffaf2a09 [/URL]

This one has a pro vibe and is about her business. Clearly has a routine and I was intrigued. Likes guys a bit overweight. Prefers white gentleman and doesn't like black guys although she evaluates on "case by case" . Gave me the thumbs up upon picture verify, but the preferences are preferences and I wasn't taking the chance of BS service because of them.

Ivory51.

[URL] https://seekingarrangement.com/member/ac0ed136-93d0-5b83-0e98-cd48b2527a70 [/URL]

Older lady, mid-50's. Staying in an extended motel in Marietta. Quoted me $160 for an hour of fun and says she would include a prostate massage in the deal. Everything covered. Says she recently fell on hard times. Asked for a quick selfie to verify and she came up with an excuse not to send it. So I passed.

Chanel Bags.

[URL] https://seekingarrangement.com/member/dbabb791-c3f4-4137-856f-25971c9fe234 [/URL]

This is an agency or a collection of girls managing the account. Was texting on a Friday and the person told me they just checked into a spot in Norcross. The next day I got pictures that differed from the profile and inviting me to a Marriott in Marietta. I responded, I thought you were in Norcross. Crickets after that. The cell number matched a few escort profiles on Google. Quoted 250 hour.

Alright, I got a couple more. Once I am done with them I will share the intel. Ripper.

[QUOTE=VegaWrap;3606341]Everything seems right. Been going back and forth with her. About to pull the trigger. Anyone else have a review?[/QUOTE]After messaging back and forth for nearly a month now: she is sleeping in my bed as we speak. She drove roughly over an hour to my place, we chatted, had a glass of wine and called it a night. She asked if I prefer morning sex so I'm up burning the midnight oil trying to study for this huge exam in the morning. I'll report.

[QUOTE=Ripvan12;3711811]Same story although she said her rent was $820. Looks like she is trying to build in some cushion. She quoted 400 per meet or three sessions if I would pay the whole amount. LOL. What kind of math is that. The desperation turned me off. Her cell is linked to her FB so she is real though not as appealing as the profile pics indicate. I just didn't feel like.[/QUOTE]She also hit me up in December with a story of needing 1500. Nah, LOL.

[QUOTE=JohnnyMapalo;3710654][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a1fc711a-a88c-493d-9467-2f9690bd33b3[/URL]

Emergency, guys! We have a Sugar Baby in need. This chic just text me out of the blue stating that she needs just $1,000 bucks to stop from getting evicted. She said she would repay with a couple of sesssions. Any of you fat pockets willing to lend a helping hand? I told her she should probably do it in $200 increments. She wanted to know if I knew anyone that can help, so here you guys go. She really seems sincere, guys. I think. Says she needs the money in a couple days before she gets evicted.[/QUOTE]She is a sweet girl. Had a number of sessions with her last year (but I have moved on). Tiny and tight and willing to do whatever. 200 per will work. Have at it.

[QUOTE=LoriTruck;3712031]After messaging back and forth for nearly a month now: she is sleeping in my bed as we speak. She drove roughly over an hour to my place, we chatted, had a glass of wine and called it a night. She asked if I prefer morning sex so I'm up burning the midnight oil trying to study for this huge exam in the morning. I'll report.[/QUOTE]How are the new tits? She was supposed to send me a pic of them.

She doesn't appear to be preggers. Right? Just making sure. LOL.

[QUOTE=LoriTruck;3712031]After messaging back and forth for nearly a month now: she is sleeping in my bed as we speak. She drove roughly over an hour to my place, we chatted, had a glass of wine and called it a night. She asked if I prefer morning sex so I'm up burning the midnight oil trying to study for this huge exam in the morning. I'll report.[/QUOTE]It says she is in Columbia, SC now on SA. I wonder if she was back in ATL or maybe you are just farther to the East. But I appreciate her look and will have to hit her up.

[QUOTE=Ripvan12;3711984]What's up bros? Here is a little intel I've gathered over the past week or so. My experiences only, yours may vary.

Spicey83.

[URL] https://seekingarrangement.com/member/7cd9c7d1-c2de-487e-8bb6-a06bdcc9e674 [/URL]

Easy to connect with. I hit her with some lame line about "are you really spicey, because I like them hot" Almost slapped myself for it but she "liked" it. She wants $400. Can't host. Asked if we could have drinks first. I decided to take another offer and didn't counter her initial price point. Cute girl though.

[/QUOTE]She contacted me awhile back. I don't know if I want to go $400 with her either but looks nice.

BTW, how do you guys determine what kind of allowance per visit they want? Do you just ask them first or do you throw out a number? I usually favor around $200 but I know the top shelf women are going to be more.

It sounds like some of them can be negotiated down a bit. Perhaps should try that sometimes, but I figure they will have a bad attitude in that case and won't be worth even the lowered amount.

But I'm just trying to figure out if I should offer them an amount or have them throw out the first # for negotiating purposes.

Also do you ever meet up before discussing that? It is a waste of time if they want a fortune and you aren't going there, but sometimes they could be hotter than their pics. And I suppose not always bad to meet someone for lunch, but time is money and not my favorite thing to do.

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;3712503]She contacted me awhile back. I don't know if I want to go $400 with her either but looks nice.

BTW, how do you guys determine what kind of allowance per visit they want? Do you just ask them first or do you throw out a number? I usually favor around $200 but I know the top shelf women are going to be more.

It sounds like some of them can be negotiated down a bit. Perhaps should try that sometimes, but I figure they will have a bad attitude in that case and won't be worth even the lowered amount.

But I'm just trying to figure out if I should offer them an amount or have them throw out the first # for negotiating purposes.

Also do you ever meet up before discussing that? It is a waste of time if they want a fortune and you aren't going there, but sometimes they could be hotter than their pics. And I suppose not always bad to meet someone for lunch, but time is money and not my favorite thing to do.[/QUOTE]She will definitely bargain with you and try to sell you pics and videos. I wasn't very interested so I made a really low ball offer of 150 and her response was yes, but only for 30 min and no oral. I don't have her contact info.

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;3712457]It says she is in Columbia, SC now on SA. I wonder if she was back in ATL or maybe you are just farther to the East. But I appreciate her look and will have to hit her up.[/QUOTE]Clemson, SC.