Wow! Awesome "Real World" Post
This is one of the most compelling posts I have ever read on this forum. Thank you for sharing your hard earned truth and wisdom.
[QUOTE=Willie24;5446707]So after being in this hobby for twenty five years, I think that I've earned the right to express an opinion. The majority of these girls are providing a sexual service for one reason and one reason alone, to make money. Getting emotionally involved almost always ends up being a disaster. Most of them are unemployable, on drugs, have incredible drama and turn to the hobby to support themselves, their BFs, their kids or their drug habits or all these things! Most professional providers are older, 30's, 40's and above, have conquered their demons, for the most part and handle their jobs like skilled mechanics. The women you see on Tryst usually fall into this category. The providers, for the most part, on Skip the Games do not. All of them are great actors. They play a role, using their skills and sexuality to get us to spend our money fulfilling our most basic needs, getting from them what we don't get at home. Some of these girls are great and usually warrant repeated visits. Most are not. UTRs exist because they are generally women who have jobs in the real world, enjoy sex and see a way to satisfy their own sexual appetite and also make extra money. Sometimes we get overly involved with these women and end up doing things for them that we shouldn't but do anyway because we THINK we are in love when it's really in lust! Going above and beyond just providing them money for services rendered is a bad idea, take it from me. And trying to take over directing them is also a very bad idea! Getting involved on any personal level usually ends up badly as well. Many years ago, I met a provider who was new to the hobby, beautiful, sexy, smart and provided an absolutely outstanding sexual experience. With the help of some testosterone, the GFE experience she provided to her clients was the best out there and the experience would last for hours. Our hero tried to help her, taking her off STG, doing her ads on USASG Classified, getting her a burner phone, writing rave reviews to help her appeal to the upscale clients that she needed to attract and pretty soon she was seeing about a half dozen regulars per week at about $300 per visit. Along the way, our hero fell in love with her and would do absolutely anything to help her and to make sure she was safe and happy. Well after a few years, one of the mongers she was seeing decided HE wanted her all to himself and offered her an incredible amount of money to be his and his alone! When she rejected him because she was far too independent to do this, the monger exposed her to her family by showing them her Skip the Games ads which he reprinted from years past. Since she was living on her parents property, she had no choice but to live by their restrictions, which meant cameras on the property, absolutely no men visitors and she suffered severe emotional and psychological damage from which she's still recovering from today! Our hero was destroyed and heartbroken and to this day regrets helping her become so successful in this hobby because he not only helped destroy her, he destroyed a wonderful relationship he had with her. So the next time you think that you want to really help one of these women because you think that you're in love with them and really want to help them, think again. ! You may end up destroying yourself along the way.[/QUOTE]
