Satisfaction is rarely obtained
[QUOTE=Flagrant;5829812]This take is understandable. We tend to dehumanize ourselves through this activity. We feel entitled to satisfaction because we pay. That satisfaction is rarely obtained. The girls we see are far from capable of interacting with us like normal human beings. And they sure don't seem to like being our sex toys either. LOL.
But when one of them dies, it's pretty normal to express appreciation and sadness.[/QUOTE]"Somewhat rarely obtaining satisfaction. Getting ripped off 50% of the time with first time contact with a provider. And then really what is it like 90% of the time it's just not even worth it. So when you hit that 10% window and you're persistent like most of us are here yeah we get a little bit fonder these corporeal entities that provide us with Pleasure. So yeah I suppose we can all get a little gossipy and wanting to know stuff when one of the 10 % moves on."
Is it inherently de-humanizing?
[QUOTE=Flagrant;5829812]This take is understandable. We tend to dehumanize ourselves through this activity. We feel entitled to satisfaction because we pay. That satisfaction is rarely obtained. The girls we see are far from capable of interacting with us like normal human beings. And they sure don't seem to like being our sex toys either. LOL.
But when one of them dies, it's pretty normal to express appreciation and sadness.[/QUOTE]In the past, there have been girls I've seen regularly enough to establish a real rapport with. No illusions on either side, but we genuinely liked one another's company in the same way you might be friendly with anyone else in a commercial relationship (for instance, there's no reason you and your plumber can't be buddies). The girls were low volume and had legitimate day jobs. Baristas, clerical work etc. The key is that the girls weren't in the game to support an all-consuming drug habit and so had their act together. It's addiction rather than prostitution per se that dehumanizes them and by extension their clients.
I can't imagine having any kind of friendship or human rapport with the typical drug-addled STG gal. Most addicts would stab their own mother to death for their next fix if that's what it takes, so it's asking too much for human interaction with strangers like us.
I never saw Bailey, but I get the impression from reading people's posts that some of the guys here were her regulars and were on good terms with her even off the clock, so I can see why they'd be saddened at her loss, especially if she started out like the first type I describe and wound up like the second type.
Has anyone seen Lacey recently?
I saw mostly favorable review of Lacey from 1-2 years ago. Comes up from Arizona, supposedly limited menu (no kissing etc) but good looks, decent attitude, etc.
I tried contacting Lacey a couple of days ago with no response, may try again if she's still around. Has anyone here seen her on any of her recent visits?
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