Need some help navigating this SD landscape.
Hi all, I am very new to this SD part of the world so please go easy on me. I just registered for the premium on SA, and then trying to get started. How soon do you bring up the money topic? Is it very transactional or you need to actually build up some relationship beforehand? Some girls are super direct, didn't even know anything but start asking for money. Very confused on how to handle all these. And at times I felt frustrated. Also what would be an appropriate starting point if we are talking about money? Any advise is much appreciated!
If they go straight to the point
[QUOTE=IronMan831;5827280]Hi all, I am very new to this SD part of the world so please go easy on me. I just registered for the premium on SA, and then trying to get started. How soon do you bring up the money topic? Is it very transactional or you need to actually build up some relationship beforehand? Some girls are super direct, didn't even know anything but start asking for money. Very confused on how to handle all these. And at times I felt frustrated. Also what would be an appropriate starting point if we are talking about money? Any advise is much appreciated![/QUOTE]They're likely a pro. If you're good with that Godspeed. If not, stop further discussion otherwise you may risk getting banned.
LuvKC23 - pics are accurate
I have a Seeking account but have never signed up for a membership as I'm more of a strip club guy. But it's fun to browse and live vicariously through you all.
I was casually looking at posts and found LuvKC23: I recognized her as someone I worked with before the pandemic--the arm tattoo was a giveaway. She's too physically close for me to ever pursue, but wanted to let you SA connoisseurs know she's the real deal, at least in terms of looks, so you won't get catfished.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/71c0ee58-2934-4f90-b5c8-967b2c55a67d[/URL]
Thanks for that info. It's very helpful now and in the future
[QUOTE=PauFord;5827369]Copy the last string of digits in the UR after the last hyphen and search on that.
In this case with the URL being https://members.seeking.com/member/a64fbd5a-497f-4a9e-b20f-ea49e0109bac you would copy ea49e0109bac and paste that into the search box.
She was discussed yesterday a little bit. Search and you'll see a couple comments.[/QUOTE]Thanks for taking the time to help me.
Coming to Chicago from Florida
Hi guys,
I'm coming to Chicago in early April and was hoping a few of you would like to share info on a SB or two with me. I'm not on SA right now as I have a full rotation in South Florida. If any of you are coming this way, I could give you enough info to make your trip worth while. The arrangement forum is not much down here but the young ladies are all over SA looking for a SD. I'm originally from Chicago but all of my SB that way are not doing it or not responding anymore. Feel free to I'm me if you want. I would appreciate and info you can help me with.
Suspicious Hotwife Profile
[QUOTE=Diginonomous;5826294]Has anyone seen the hotwife couple in worth? They've been on the site since 2019 but claim to still haven't found anyone to fulfill this "one time fantasy " for the wife. They're in their lower 50's. Husband has a checkered past but seems legit now. Straight says no male stuff which I'm. Not into anyways.
They've struck up conversations with me a few times over the past year and I've mostly blew them off but I think its started to pique some interest. But mainly just curious in how it went. Pm if needed.
Thanks.[/QUOTE]I've been lightly chatting with them and it feels suspicious.
Eventually was given their number to text, but they followed up with a "Are you going to text us?" before I saw the message with the phone number. Once I did text them, it was the husband I was speaking with.
I'm not going to pursue this further, between the hints of attitude in the messages and the bait-and-switch when it went to texting, it screams red flags.