Not sure where to post this but I'm sure somebody has answer. I go on escort alligator site and everytime I click comments or change type it goes to Eros website. Now it seems those are 2 very different sites but they connected? Or is it just me.
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Not sure where to post this but I'm sure somebody has answer. I go on escort alligator site and everytime I click comments or change type it goes to Eros website. Now it seems those are 2 very different sites but they connected? Or is it just me.
Rather than review new pussy (there ain't much out there lately) In hought I could share with the board my privacy routine for the benefit and / or input of other members. I've been hobbying since 2012 with no close calls, no random texts from escorts in the middle of the night, and I have no problem at all handing my phone to my SO to use if she wants to browse pictures or view something I'm looking at. Please excuse my typos as I'm writing this on my phone.
Private web browser:
Firefox Focus. This app is a purely "incognito mode only". You can't turn the privacy features off. It deletes all history and cookies as soon as you close your browsing session. Also, you can enable a PIN or biometrics to unlock it before opening the browsing session. So if you forget and you leave skip the games in the browser you SO can't see it. The only thing she can do is delete that browsing session and start a new one. Only CON is that there are no tabs. One window only, so clicking through links on this site is kind of a PITA.
Burner app:
It's literally called Burner. I'd love some real feedback on others that you all use, but this has been my go to since 2012. It doesn't require an email to sign upjust your phone number. Basic burner phone functions. Can purchase a 30 day burner for $5 that can be used for unlimited text, calls and to receive pics. If you pay more you can send pics. You can lock this app with a PIN or bio. You can also set timers to lock it after a certain amount of time. Phone numbers can be stored in the app. No need to give it access to your phones contacts. It has a "do not disturb" feature which will silence all notifications. I'm actually not too thrilled with this app but it does the job. I feel like it is hardly updated so would welcome any other burner app recommendations that don't require an email to sign up. I don't want to mess with a hobby email address.
My routine:
Browse only in Firefox Focus. Bio unlock is always turned on. Try and remember to close my browsing session before I head home but if I forget the bio unlock is my backup. My SO has never asked about that app and if she does it's perfectly reasonable to have a privacy focused browser on the phone (don't want google tracking me when I shop or look at porn or whatever).
My burner app only gets deleted before I head home and reinstalled when I'm away for the day. To cover my own ass, once I install it I immediately lock the app with a pin (not my biometrics). I then unlock it using the timer feature set to RE lock after a couple hours and use it for the day. I'm covered if I forget about it and drive home without deleting it. It's locked. I also immediately go into my phones notification settings and turn them off except for the sound and the icon flag. No need to have banners popping up and certainly no need to have notifications showing up on the home screen. The app makes a generic sound when you get a text, and you can see the icon flag that you've received a message. Also, I bury the app icon in my UTILITIES folder so when I get a text, the whole folder gets an icon flag. Very generic looking. All this precaution is simply to cover my ass if if forget to delete it and drive home. The app shouldn't be on your phone at home. If I do forget, it's locked up and not doing anything but making a noise if I get a text. Even if I get a text and my SO happens to be holding my phone it'll just be a sound that 99.9% likely to be dismissed.
Money:
Here's where I'm less confident about my routine but I get away with it because my SO doesn't know shit about our finances other than her credit card works when she swipes it. If you all have SO who are more involved it like your feedback on how you hide your hobby money. Personally I have a credit card I use that she does not have access to. It's with the same bank we both use, but she is not an authorized user and would not see the account if she logged onto our banks website. It's not weird for her to see a card with our banks name on it in my wallet. I use the card for cash advances. Expensive way to get money but fairly way to bury the expenses when paying bills. The card has a small revolving balance on it so there's always a reason to make a payment to that card. But like I said, all the SO knows is that her card works when she swipes it. If she starting digging and got pretty inquisitive it probably wouldn't be that hard to find out there's something amiss.
Other basic shit:
I carry an extra t shirt in my work bag. If I think I'm going to someplace that might smell like smoke, I'll change. Or if I'm wearing a coat I will leave that in the car and put the coat on before I go in the house. I'll do my greetings, then go change. I've also got a story that the guys at my work smoke in company vehicles which I sometimes have to drive. I never send face pics. I never use Venmo or cash app for transactions. Cash only. I've lost a fair amount of money or opportunities to fuck because I've just walked away from something that didn't feel right. Done some dumb shit too but don't let a hundred bucks be the reason you get arrested or get in a confrontation and go home with a bruise or scratch or worsedon't go home at all. I've pretty much written off Midlo tnpk. Places just to sketchy there. I prefer the Chester area mostly. Lately pussy has been hard to find so I appreciate the sharing of those on the board.
Hope this post is of value to some. If it keeps one of youse from getting Caught or worse then that's awesome. Stay safe.
[QUOTE=THXengineer;4821410]Rather than review new pussy (there ain't much out there lately) In hought I could share with the board my privacy routine for the benefit and / or input of other members. I've been hobbying since 2012 with no close calls, no random texts from escorts in the middle of the night, and I have no problem at all handing my phone to my SO to use if she wants to browse pictures or view something I'm looking at. Please excuse my typos as[/QUOTE]I use textnow app. I created a yahoo email account and use that as my login. It is free to use. You can mute all notifications and just delete the app at the end of the day. You can make phone calls and send and receive pics and vids. If I feel really deep secret, I use textfree using a web browser.
I use the incognito mode on chrome. You can drop the notification tab down on the screen, touch it and the whole windows are cleared out.
[QUOTE=THXengineer;4821410]Rather than review new pussy (there ain't much out there lately) In hought I could share with the board my privacy routine for the benefit and / or input of other members. I've been hobbying since 2012 with no close calls, no random texts from escorts in the middle of the night, and I have no problem at all handing my phone to my SO to use if she wants to browse pictures or view something I'm looking at. Please excuse my typos as I'm writing this on my phone.[/QUOTE]Wow that's a lot of work for the game. So glad I'm just dating somebody and not into my accounts. I use cashapp I can cashapp myself money then disperse as needed. I hate credit card advances very costly.
[QUOTE=THXengineer;4821410]Money:
Here's where I'm less confident about my routine but I get away with it because my SO doesn't know shit about our finances other than her credit card works when she swipes it. If you all have SO who are more involved it like your feedback on how you hide your hobby money. Personally I have a credit card I use that she does not have access to. It's with the same bank we both use, but she is not an authorized user and would not see the account if she logged onto our banks website. It's not weird for her to see a card with our banks name on it in my wallet. I use the card for cash advances. Expensive way to get money but fairly way to bury the expenses when paying bills. The card has a small revolving balance on it so there's always a reason to make a payment to that card. But like I said, all the SO knows is that her card works when she swipes it. If she starting digging and got pretty inquisitive it probably wouldn't be that hard to find out there's something amiss.
[/QUOTE]Thanks for your whole post. Pretty helpful information there for those that haven't thought about it.
Regarding your approach with money, I find this pretty inefficient for the expense. Like you said, tapping cash advance premiums just doesn't seem logical. I'd recommend a few different approaches instead.
I'd get a debit card, and every time you make a purchase at a grocery store, or Walmart, or Lowes, etc, make sure to cashback yourself something like $60 or whatever doesn't involve a fee. Do this enough and all of a sudden you have a pool of cash to play with that's only tied to an expense at a big chain store.
Lets say for some reason having a debit card is a no go. You could use that credit card and instead buy some gift cards, like amazon / walmart / paypal /prepaid debit card gift cards, attach them to a virtual money account and use that to hobby or to charge up your cashapp account. Personally, I don't see any downside to using cashapp. It has absolutely nothing to do with prepaying or deposits or anything. If you're not the type to prepay or pay a deposit for a date with cash in the first place, why would you do it with one of these virtual cash apps? And if you essentially only pay for services rendered (I. E. At the end, not at the beginning), this, too, could be done via cash apps. So I fail to see a downside. If nothing else, you could just take that cashapp card and pull it out of an ATM for yourself.
[QUOTE=Jcn1965;4821318]Not sure where to post this but I'm sure somebody has answer. I go on escort alligator site and everytime I click comments or change type it goes to Eros website. Now it seems those are 2 very different sites but they connected? Or is it just me.[/QUOTE]Sounds like an issue with ads or spam. I don't experience that behavior from the website, personally.
[QUOTE=NKLangur;4821523]Thanks for your whole post. Pretty helpful information there for those that haven't thought about it.
Regarding your approach with money, I find this pretty inefficient for the expense. Like you said, tapping cash advance premiums just doesn't seem logical. I'd recommend a few different approaches instead.
I'd get a debit card, and every time you make a purchase at a grocery store, or Walmart, or Lowes, etc, make sure to cashback yourself something like $60 or whatever doesn't involve a fee. Do this enough and all of a sudden you have a pool of cash to play with that's only tied to an expense at a big chain store.
Lets say for some reason having a debit card is a no go. You could use that credit card and instead buy some gift cards, like amazon / walmart / paypal /prepaid debit card gift cards, attach them to a virtual money account and use that to hobby or to charge up your cashapp account. Personally, I don't see any downside to using cashapp. It has absolutely nothing to do with prepaying or deposits or anything. If you're not the type to prepay or pay a deposit for a date with cash in the first place, why would you do it with one of these virtual cash apps? And if you essentially only pay for services rendered (I. E. At the end, not at the beginning), this, too, could be done via cash apps. So I fail to see a downside. If nothing else, you could just take that cashapp card and pull it out of an ATM for yourself.[/QUOTE]He said he has a SO. Cash app tells you on your statement money went to xyz person. Pulling out cash on top of a purchase is a good idea but if you have a SO who noses around, that might be a problem putting it somewhere. Putting money on a disposable debit card might be the way to go.
[QUOTE=Cjdftn;4821531]He said he has a SO. Cash app tells you on your statement money went to xyz person. Pulling out cash on top of a purchase is a good idea but if you have a SO who noses around, that might be a problem putting it somewhere. Putting money on a disposable debit card might be the way to go.[/QUOTE]I should add that my bank has very low cash advance fees. Right around 3. 5%. Probably not the case w most. It works for me and is worth the cost to have access to money that can be hidden from view and buried under a normall monthly card payment.
[QUOTE=Cjdftn;4821531]He said he has a SO. Cash app tells you on your statement money went to xyz person. Pulling out cash on top of a purchase is a good idea but if you have a SO who noses around, that might be a problem putting it somewhere. Putting money on a disposable debit card might be the way to go.[/QUOTE]If you don't cash out your cash app, the money is held in cash balance and when using the app, it takes from cash balance before it takes it from your attached account.
[QUOTE=Bigman74;4821791]If you don't cash out your cash app, the money is held in cash balance and when using the app, it takes from cash balance before it takes it from your attached account.[/QUOTE]Exactly so I just say I like using my cashapp card because blah blah blah. Plus no cash seems so much less risky. Almost all providers take cashapp and if not oh well I don't carry cash.
[QUOTE=Cjdftn;4821531]He said he has a SO. Cash app tells you on your statement money went to xyz person. Pulling out cash on top of a purchase is a good idea but if you have a SO who noses around, that might be a problem putting it somewhere. Putting money on a disposable debit card might be the way to go.[/QUOTE]Right. This is why I'd recommend attaching a disposable card to the account, so that it doesn't ever go on a statement mailed to your house. AFAIK there's no other statement you get from cashapp as you can opt yourself out of receiving any email notifications from Cashapp.
[QUOTE=Cjdftn;4821531]He said he has a SO. Cash app tells you on your statement money went to xyz person. Pulling out cash on top of a purchase is a good idea but if you have a SO who noses around, that might be a problem putting it somewhere. Putting money on a disposable debit card might be the way to go.[/QUOTE]I don't pay directly thru cashapp I put money into my cashapp account then pay them from there. The only person on bank statement is me now if she has access to your cashapp account then that coukd be problem.
Question for those of you who've done overnights at your location. If the provider is considered to be fairly trustworthy, when should payment be given? I have pause about paying all up front, as even the most honest in the biz might be tempted to take the lot of cash and just walk out the door.
Payment in its entirety the next morning? Some % up front to show good faith? What has worked for you?
Consider a hotel / motel unless you really know the girl. Long story short, leave yourself a way out of it turns out not to be what you thought it would be. The fellow mongers blowing up her phone all night was enough to ruin it for me. Then she had to check in with a friend every couple hours for her safety. PITA. If you use a hotel and it doesn't work out and you leave, make sure she leaves and you check out at the desk. You're responsible for the room and if you let her stay the possibilities are endless for that causing a bad hair day. I gave her half at dinner and the rest when I took her back to her place at 4:30 in the morning. She was a nice girl but not worth the hassle. Never again.
To all you old timers who were in the game about 15 years ago: Sandy who lived in Henrico, lived in a small yellow house gave massages. Her place was a wreck. I'm about 90% sure she passed last February. I don't think she was in the game for the past 10 years or so. Even way back then the sun was starting to set on her. I can't 100% confirm. Maybe someone else has some intel?