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[QUOTE=BigD001;1624651]Hey Varoom, thanks for the reply, but you are NOT answering my question. My question is what is a reference? Not why use a reference. I understand these hoes don't want a stranger who could be a leo. I just don't have any references, I'm completely confused, should I just give them my mom's phone number so they can verify with her or call my ex wife and ask her LOL. If this is what you have to do to get to meet one of these ladies then what a fucking joke![/QUOTE]Ok Big D, I am going to try to remember you may be a little slow, as you did not only refer to the providers here as hoes but ladies in the same sentence, Now onto your question we want provider references on others you have seen, I hope I am saying this in as simple terms as possible and not using to big of words, I happen to be one of the "hoes" you were referring to, we not only want to make sure you are not LE but that you are a respectful, safe, and a clean man, did you understand that? Hope so.

For everyone on the board I apologize for getting somewhat nasty, trust me I could have been worse, I chose not to, I have a HUGE problem with disrespectful human beings, damn I am so glad my clients are 100% men, thanks guys, I LOVE MY JOB! Happy Holidays once again to all the Ladies and Gentlemen alike! Rhonda

[QUOTE=HappyEndings; 1623568]That was a nice way to get out of not showing. I had another Provider write Me telling Me that You were late and then cancelled the following day. Had You of said I was anything but ugly, I may have agreed but I'm far from unattractive and I'm positive that %99 of those who have seen Me, Would agree. Just show up or cancel if You cannot make it. It's that simple.

I'm giving out Personal info? I'm giving out Your number to only Providers in PM whom have asked. So They are warned of no-show possibilities. It's okay for Hobbyists to give numbers of Providers to other Hobbyists for good & bad reasons. What's the difference?

If You have any further comments or questions please PM Me. Thank You and Happy Holidays to All![/QUOTE]Yes, you did give out my personal info. You gave out my yahoo messenger I'd which was also my email address (I had to get rid of it since you publicly posted it). Also, check your post, I never said you were ugly. I said you were unattractive. That was my opinion. Some guys may think your attractive. Personally I do not.

Next time you want to try to blacklist someone. Just post a general message to the girls to contact you for their information. I sent you an I'm after you sent the pic that I was no longer interested, you must not have gotten it.

[QUOTE=BigD001;1624651]Hey Varoom, thanks for the reply, but you are NOT answering my question. My question is what is a reference? Not why use a reference. I understand these hoes don't want a stranger who could be a leo. I just don't have any references, I'm completely confused, should I just give them my mom's phone number so they can verify with her or call my ex wife and ask her LOL. If this is what you have to do to get to meet one of these ladies then what a fucking joke![/QUOTE]After looking over you last two post on the Board about references. Ok a Reference in this hobby is a provider you have seen and will verify you if call or messaged from another provider no more no less. Ok the catch 22 is if I can not see no provider because I have no reference what am I supposed to do? Well there are some website that you can get verified by and then makes it easier to be seen by a provider that requests them. Or you can see a provider that as for no references then prehaps after seeing her you might be able to use her to see another provider. But as my fellow Varoom said its for the protection of the provider. But you really don't have to said your words "what a fucking Joke!" you mght want to learn some board etiquette as providers read these posts and helps them get some idea what kind of person you are. Hope this helps you out.

[QUOTE=BigD001;1624651]Hey Varoom, thanks for the reply, but you are NOT answering my question. My question is what is a reference? Not why use a reference. I understand these hoes don't want a stranger who could be a leo. I just don't have any references, I'm completely confused, should I just give them my mom's phone number so they can verify with her or call my ex wife and ask her LOL. If this is what you have to do to get to meet one of these ladies then what a fucking joke![/QUOTE]You really don't want to have fun with any of these ladies do you. Always treat a woman like a lady, even if she does not act that way, to behave in any other manner lessens you not her. I have yet to meet a girl from here that has acted unlady like and all have behaved in a professional manner. Given that, I love women, women of all shapes and sizes they are all beautiful and all deserve respect, remember some of them are some ones mother, they are all some ones daughter, treat then well and the joy they will return to you will be immeasurable. Behave like a dolt and call them "Hoes" and I am pretty sure that you will get nothing and like it. Just my 2 cents, take it or leave it.

Deleted caustic reply to BD... because it is Xmas. Varoom is trying to get into the Xmas spirit; thinging about tying some mistle toe to my belt buckle... that usually helps. Merry fucking Xmas to you BD.

1st. Tgtbtredhead has no weight issues. I saw her in early November. She may or may not remember me. We talked about motorcyles upon my arrival and she shared with me that she is from a town that has a couple of big rallies each year. (I did not name the town because that is her story to tell, although I doubt she cares if you know where she is from)

2nd. Thanks to everyone that replied to my Erika inquiry. I do understand some girls come into this with certain ideas then discover they cannot handle the pressure. I do hope she loves her new life.

Fdx17

[QUOTE=BigD001;1624651]Hey Varoom, thanks for the reply, but you are NOT answering my question. My question is what is a reference? Not why use a reference. I understand these hoes don't want a stranger who could be a leo. I just don't have any references, I'm completely confused, should I just give them my mom's phone number so they can verify with her or call my ex wife and ask her LOL. If this is what you have to do to get to meet one of these ladies then what a fucking joke![/QUOTE]WOW, I don't even know what to say. Maybe a little common courtesy, or maybe you should not even be looking here. I think Reading road might be better suited for what you are looking for.

1. TgtbtRedhead does not have a weight problem. I seen her early November and she may or may not remember me. We talked about motorcycles upon my arrival and she shared she is from a town that has a couple of big rallies every year. I also told her to ask to see my junk. She laughed and asked me. (My reasoning is I am in her "house " what 2 people want to do in private is their business.) No Le would ask and if they did I was just complying with their request. I then made the same request to her and we had a great time. I am way too nervous to be in this hobby. Thank you, Christina.

2. Thank you to everyone that replied to my Erika request. I understand some ladies get into this and it does not meet their expectations or they cannot handle the pressures. I do hope Erika does enjoy her new life.

Fdx17

So far I've just been checking the board out. I just must say for a bunch of guys that dream with such gorgeous women, ya`ll are high strung.

I'm not sure who to take the plunge with first, so much reading pages of info. Have a Merry Christmas everyone.

[QUOTE=BigD001;1624651]Hey Varoom, thanks for the reply, but you are NOT answering my question. My question is what is a reference? Not why use a reference. I understand these hoes don't want a stranger who could be a leo. I just don't have any references, I'm completely confused, should I just give them my mom's phone number so they can verify with her or call my ex wife and ask her LOL. If this is what you have to do to get to meet one of these ladies then what a fucking joke![/QUOTE]It is obvious you will not get any were with the LADIES here. Maybe you should call your mom first and ask how a gentleman should conduct him self when in a ladies presents. She would possibly say no different than you would in front of her. Second learn to do your home work. If you were bright enough you would notice our ladies here ask for gentleman only most will ask for gentleman over 30 some even prefer upwards of more the senior type. HMMM? Lets think about this. Could that be that the Gentlemen in the age range have grown out of adolescents and puberty, have the funds and have reasons to stay utr. Also the are able to show that the have a grasp of the English language and able to conduct a reasonable conversation. I could go on and on with your lesson but I have an appointment. This Cowboy will always say what would the Duke do. LOL

Have a nice day.

Bigd001,

What on earth is your problem? Seriously how are you ever going to get any help on this board responding the way you are. And while you call us hoes you must like us enough to persistently ask the same question. Its because of guys like you that we require refrences. Its all apart of the business. The bashing is also unneccesary. You have made yourself look like a 3 yr old throwing a fit cause someone won't give him his way. I for one would not even see you if you had the right refrences. You have a bad vibe and negative attitude. And shame on you for coming on here and bashing hobbyist. They offer alot of useful intel and you just blew your chance at any help. But for your enjoyment here's what a refrence is=a referal from another provider that covers 2 main thing your not a cop and how the session went. So theirs the answer to your question.

Have a great day.

I am firmly on the side of Old Goober.

Respect and a display of humanity go a long way.

To throw around the term "hoe" is just sickening.

Sounds like a mommy issue to me so let's not be too hard on BigD, he probably can't help himself. Anyone who uses the term "hoe" is either a "gangsta", a teenager, an idiot, or at the very least an immature fool. IMHO. I don't think too many of the ladies on here will want to see him anyway.

[QUOTE=Cincyeast52; 1625650]I am firmly on the side of Old Goober.

Respect and a display of humanity go a long way.

To throw around the term "hoe" is just sickening.[/QUOTE]

We never met, but I certainly wish her well in the future.

The women who choose to allow select men to spend time with them are special. It is neither easy nor safe to do what they do, day in and day out. In fact, I know if the tables were turned I wouldn't be able to do it. Too much stress, too much uncertainty. Think of the dangers they have to negotiate each day, between odd, potentially violent, customers to law enforcement.

If I were in the profession, though, I can tell you this. I would never consider seeing someone who refers to ladies in the profession as hoes or any other derogatory term. That should be a tip off that the person does not respect you. And when there is no respect bad things can happen. This mindset generally comes from people of low intellect or from those who are ignorant. Clearly, any person who chooses to denigrate those he wishes to spend time with is a bit. Well, dim.

I believe these women are practicing a profession like any other and I hold them in high regard.

God bless the women who are willing and able to do this. Be safe, ladies, this holiday season and year round.

[QUOTE=MollyDaniels; 1623944]Yes, I remember that 'stink', and in retaliation, I do believe I posted all the most naughty, raunchy pics I could possibly find.

Who cares? There's complaints if there are no pictures, and then there are complaints about the pictures. You can't please everyone all the time.

MD[/QUOTE]Because you certainly pleased me all the time.

[QUOTE=Cincyeast52; 1625650]I am firmly on the side of Old Goober.

Respect and a display of humanity go a long way.

To throw around the term "hoe" is just sickening.[/QUOTE]The man is just talking common sense!

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[QUOTE=SylvieAmour; 1625812]Have any other providers gotten texts about this website.

[url]www.potentialprostitutes.com?[/url]

Well some do gooder has put me on there and weird numbers keep harrassing me saying that I am working for the cops and I am not and saying it looks bad for me and that they won't see me and blah blah but its 100$ to have your shit taken off there. I am irate that someone has done thsi to me and I wish I knew who did it but its like the dirty website anyone can pout whatever on there whether its false or not they can just do this![/QUOTE]Really. Don't pay them a cent!

BetterWhoIs shows that the owner / administrator is Gottfrid Swartholm in Stockholm, Sweden.

[QUOTE=SylvieAmour; 1625812]Have any other providers gotten texts about this website.

[url]www.potentialprostitutes.com?[/url]

Well some do gooder has put me on there and weird numbers keep harrassing me saying that I am working for the cops and I am not and saying it looks bad for me and that they won't see me and blah blah but its 100$ to have your shit taken off there. I am irate that someone has done thsi to me and I wish I knew who did it but its like the dirty website anyone can pout whatever on there whether its false or not they can just do this![/QUOTE]Wow, I checked out the website you posted about. Hopefully we have some tech savvy member that can crash it or something. It doesn't seem like a big threat, as I think they just targeted providers that post on BP, but it does seem like a shady online shake down. From their FAQ page "Why do I have to pay to remove my remove my profile? Removal is a paid service due to the costs associated with altering the content of the site on an individual basis." Yeah F-ing right! Seems like slander to me, but I am far from a lawyer. If these scumbags do get any money from a hard working girl then I do truly wish bad things upon them.

Gottfrid Swartholm is the co-founder of The Pirate Bay torrent site. He's also in trouble with Swedish authorities suspecting him of fraud and data intrusion, along with the alleged hacking of the IT company Logica.

Like I said, it's probably a scam. Probably to pay his legal bills.

[QUOTE=BigD001;1624651]Hey Varoom, thanks for the reply, but you are NOT answering my question. My question is what is a reference? Not why use a reference. I understand these hoes don't want a stranger who could be a leo. I just don't have any references, I'm completely confused, should I just give them my mom's phone number so they can verify with her or call my ex wife and ask her LOL. If this is what you have to do to get to meet one of these ladies then what a fucking joke![/QUOTE]A reference is someone who knows you and will speak to your character. The entire point of requiring references is so they can avoid people like you. Your ex wife would be a perfect reference. The provider could call her and she would tell her what a douche bag you are so the provider knows to avoid you. It seems like a catch 22 (That is a literary reference from a book called Catch-22. To sum it up a catch 22 is "a problematic situation for which the only solution is denied by a circumstance inherent in the problem or by a rule") but its really not. Some providers are able to tell within the first minute of talking to you on the phone weather you are someone they are interested in seeing. They won't ask for a reference and you can use them in the future as a reference. Obviously that is not an option for you. Your never going to get a quality provider. You best chance is to find a street girl who needs a fix real bad. She won't care what kind of person you are.

[QUOTE=SylvieAmour; 1625812]Have any other providers gotten texts about this website.

[url]www.potentialprostitutes.com?[/url]

Well some do gooder has put me on there and weird numbers keep harrassing me saying that I am working for the cops and I am not and saying it looks bad for me and that they won't see me and blah blah but its 100$ to have your shit taken off there. I am irate that someone has done thsi to me and I wish I knew who did it but its like the dirty website anyone can pout whatever on there whether its false or not they can just do this![/QUOTE]I like how the FAQ tell you not to sue them under "The Communications Decency Act". I would sue them under copyright infringement. If you own the rights to the photographs then they cannot use them on their web site. If you search online you can probably find a "notice of copyright infringement" that you could send them.

[QUOTE=SylvieAmour; 1625812]Have any other providers gotten texts about this website.

[url]www.potentialprostitutes.com?[/url]

Well some do gooder has put me on there and weird numbers keep harrassing me saying that I am working for the cops and I am not and saying it looks bad for me and that they won't see me and blah blah but its 100$ to have your shit taken off there. I am irate that someone has done thsi to me and I wish I knew who did it but its like the dirty website anyone can pout whatever on there whether its false or not they can just do this![/QUOTE]Seems like a POS website.

[QUOTE=BigD001;1624651]Hey Varoom, thanks for the reply, but you are NOT answering my question. My question is what is a reference? Not why use a reference. I understand these hoes don't want a stranger who could be a leo. I just don't have any references, I'm completely confused, should I just give them my mom's phone number so they can verify with her or call my ex wife and ask her LOL. If this is what you have to do to get to meet one of these ladies then what a fucking joke![/QUOTE]One can hope that his account is now abandoned / deleted. Some peoples ignorance and stupidity never cease to amaze me. I can't even begin to describe how disgusted this post made me. This is what happens when you let trash have a computer.

Ladies, on behalf of the real men out here I apologize for this neanderthal.

Rojo

Been awhile since I've been south of Dayton, but when I did travel I always made time for stormy or wet velvet. Any word as to what happen with her? Please PM should she want to stay utr.

[QUOTE=EricDraven;1626027]I like how the FAQ tell you not to sue them under "The Communications Decency Act". I would sue them under copyright infringement. If you own the rights to the photographs then they cannot use them on their web site. If you search online you can probably find a "notice of copyright infringement" that you could send them.[/QUOTE]The copyright infringement angle is about the best you could shoot for. But most of these sites are operating so far outside the law (possibly hosted in another country where they could give a s$%t less about copyright infringement). It's just a mass shakedown that hopes to find people crazy enough to believe that paying them will do anything but simply signal them that the've got someone on the hook. I betcha after you pay them. They ask for MORE money or you appear on "more" sites that they are willing to help you remove yourself from.

[QUOTE=JessiePleaser;1625604]Bigd001 what on earth is your problem? Seriously how are you ever going to get any help on this board responding the way you are. And while you call us hoes you must like us enough to persistently ask the same question. Its because of guys like you that we require refrences. Its all apart of the business. The bashing is also unneccesary. You have made yourself look like a 3 yr old throwing a fit cause someone won't give him his way. I for one would not even see you if you had the right refrences. You have a bad vibe and negative attitude. And shame on you for coming on here and bashing hobbyist. They offer alot of useful intel and you just blew your chance at any help. But for your enjoyment here's what a refrence is=a referal from another provider that covers 2 main thing your not a cop and how the session went. So theirs the answer to your question. Have a great day[/QUOTE]Jessie handles this with such class. Where I typically see some miscreant make a bashing post and the board lights up with providers going for blood and taking the insults so personally. Jessie understands this is just some poor misguided soul and retains her composure and even manages to accurately answer the guys question. Kudos to Ms Pleaser for a drama free response. Just one more reason to really appreciate her. Thanks Jessie.now. If the idiot would kindly just leave. (I guess I'm not as nice as Jessie)

[QUOTE=Bobby1862;1626115]Seems like a POS website.[/QUOTE]I'm pretty sure it is just a site that rips off BP ads. Then they probably use a bot to send out text messages using the listed numbers.

I wouldn't worry too much about it, honestly. They are just drumming up visitors to their site to boost 3rd party advertising revenues.

MD

[QUOTE=Gitanacv; 1625689]The women who choose to allow select men to spend time with them are special. It is neither easy nor safe to do what they do, day in and day out. In fact, I know if the tables were turned I wouldn't be able to do it. Too much stress, too much uncertainty. Think of the dangers they have to negotiate each day, between odd, potentially violent, customers to law enforcement.

If I were in the profession, though, I can tell you this. I would never consider seeing someone who refers to ladies in the profession as hoes or any other derogatory term. That should be a tip off that the person does not respect you. And when there is no respect bad things can happen. This mindset generally comes from people of low intellect or from those who are ignorant. Clearly, any person who chooses to denigrate those he wishes to spend time with is a bit. Well, dim.

I believe these women are practicing a profession like any other and I hold them in high regard.

God bless the women who are willing and able to do this. Be safe, ladies, this holiday season and year round.[/QUOTE]Holding the most incredible women in HIGH Regard. Thank you now that is commendable and an excellent choice of words.

Way to go Jess!

I usually post in Louisville; however, over the past several months I have checked the Cincinnati board for "Escort Classified Ads. Posted by Escorts. No Reviews or Commentary" section and don't understand why the talent is so much better there. Yesterday there were at least six escorts I would see in a second. Louisville-Missy? Its enough to make you cry and maybe even want to move there. A fellow Louisville poster suggested I also post here in hopes of attracting a few of your gems to come to Louisville every so often. UTR, please note, thanks. Boatload

I met up with Ally (aka Sinful Dreams) a few days ago. Since she is well-reviewed and highly respected here, I don't know that I have anything that can improve upon her reputation. So, I will just cover the highlights of our time together.

She was staying in a beautiful suite in one of Greater Cincinnati's nicest hotels. Being as this was not our first encounter, there was no hesitation or needing to "get to know each other".

We relaxed for a bit in the steaming hot jacuzzi tub that the suite offered and chatted. After which, we dried off and cooled down with some refreshing [B][I]icy[/I][/B] beverages. We proceeded to partake of some special dining and then Ally put on a very exciting magic show using a special Magic Wand that she has. We went on to engage in some of the more traditional pursuits and low-and-behold, the Magic Wand made another appearance. LOL. I must say that there was a very pleasant vocal performance as well.

Ally is a wonderful companion and any man would be pleased to spend some time with her. Always upscale and professional; and also wonderfully friendly and engaging. She is a pleasure that I will certainly repeat.

All my best,
JRW1

[QUOTE=Jry Wild1; 1626555]I met up with Ally (aka Sinful Dreams) a few days ago. Since she is well-reviewed and highly respected here, I don't know that I have anything that can improve upon her reputation. So, I will just cover the highlights of our time together.

She was staying in a beautiful suite in one of Greater Cincinnati's nicest hotels. Being as this was not our first encounter, there was no hesitation or needing to "get to know each other".

We relaxed for a bit in the steaming hot jacuzzi tub that the suite offered and chatted. After which, we dried off and cooled down with some refreshing [B][I]icy[/I][/B] Beverages. We proceeded to partake of some special dining and then Ally put on a very exciting magic show using a special Magic Wand that she has. We went on to engage in some of the more traditional pursuits and low-and-behold, the Magic Wand made another appearance. LOL. I must say that there was a very pleasant vocal performance as well.

Ally is a wonderful companion and any man would be pleased to spend some time with her. Always upscale and professional; and also wonderfully friendly and engaging. She is a pleasure that I will certainly repeat.

All my best,

JRW1[/QUOTE]I'm meeting her today at 3:30.

[QUOTE=Boatload;1626493]I usually post in Louisville; however, over the past several months I have checked the Cincinnati board for "Escort Classified Ads. Posted by Escorts. No Reviews or Commentary" section and don't understand why the talent is so much better there. Yesterday there were at least six escorts I would see in a second. Louisville-Missy? Its enough to make you cry and maybe even want to move there. A fellow Louisville poster suggested I also post here in hopes of attracting a few of your gems to come to Louisville every so often. UTR, please note, thanks. Boatload[/QUOTE]Boatload,

Your boards are pretty rarified but that Jami lass seems cute and sweet Missy does seem to dominate the ads. What's up with the the talk about food?

[QUOTE=BigD001;1624651]Hey Varoom, thanks for the reply, but you are NOT answering my question. My question is what is a reference? Not why use a reference. I understand these hoes don't want a stranger who could be a leo. I just don't have any references, I'm completely confused, should I just give them my mom's phone number so they can verify with her or call my ex wife and ask her LOL. If this is what you have to do to get to meet one of these ladies then what a fucking joke![/QUOTE]I am pretty sure you just ended your need for any references with that post. I can think of only a few ladies on this board that would be willing to see you, but for those that are just reading and are confused a reference comes from ANOTHER PROVIDER that has seen you. The need for references is quite obvious, but lets list a few just so others don't make the mistakes you have made:

Things Provider C may ask of one of your references (Provider A and Provider B that you have already seen) :

1) Confirms that you are not a LEO

2) Confirms that you are drug and disease free.

3) Confirms that you are not some misogynistic creep [blue][Deleted by Admin][/blue]

4) Confirms that you did not short her on the donation (two twenty doller bills with blank pieces of paper or lower denominations stuffed between them when you put your envelope on the dresser)

5) Confirms that you don't have any physical problems the potential provider might need to know about.

6) A good provider might do some research on what your likes and dislikes are and asks this of your reference, if they are willing to share-you might be thankful for this.

7) Confirms that you are not some stalker that keeps texting and calling after your session.

8) Confirms that you were a gentleman BCD.

9) Confirms that you were clean and fresh, and did not smell of goat in your nether regions.

10) Confirms that you show up on time and leave on time.

They are others, but that should give the general jist of things. Communication is good for them and us. Frankly, I won't see a lady that does not ask me for references before our first session, because it is usually indicative of a sloppy provider that does not worry about LEO on the prowl or these other crucial areas that impact all of us.

[QUOTE=Varoom;1625416]Deleted caustic reply to BD. because it is Xmas. Varoom is trying to get into the Xmas spirit; thinging about tying some mistle toe to my belt buckle. that usually helps. Merry fucking Xmas to you BD.[/QUOTE]Merry Christmas to you, Varoom. Way to stay above the fray.

I spent an amazing 90 minutes with this beautiful lady!

I will definitely see her again!