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Haven't met with her but discussed a possible arrangement. She says she's tired of cheap guys on SA, her words not mine, offering 350. Didn't even want to ask how much she wanted and convo didn't go much further than that. She sounded like a ***** to deal with, have since been blocked.
[QUOTE=SavageThing;5627291]Anyone see Lilith? [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/624a7051-404e-4922-a245-592fd96a84dd[/URL].[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Badger7;5790023]Haven't met with her but discussed a possible arrangement. She says she's tired of cheap guys on SA, her words not mine, offering 350. Didn't even want to ask how much she wanted and convo didn't go much further than that. She sounded like a ***** to deal with, have since been blocked.[/QUOTE]Not to be a jerk, but when she's one of the oldest women on the site AND she has 3 children that would probably limit her availability, what sort of other offers is she fielding?
In the triangle, there's a COPIOUS amount of women in their early to mid 20's, who would gladly accept 350. I think a lot of people, men and women, would do much better in the bowl if they were actually aware of their competition.
[QUOTE=MythMan2010;5776129]We all know it's been dry for a long time out there. Just throwing this out there, once you get past the girls with the bullshit cash app BS, inflation and no jobs is starting to wear down these chicks. That's the trend at least, let's hope it lasts.[/QUOTE]It has been dry so far but may change for the better for us? Well with the tight labor market and minimum wage of $15/ hr that may not happen any time soon.
You're exactly correct in your assessment. I just didn't like her disparaging tone towards guys who would be willing to spend that much on her. The SB market in Raleigh is in dire need of a correction. The highest tier girls in this area (ie hot college girls, mid-20's, 9's or 10's) only should be making that much ppm.
[QUOTE=DJprofessorK;5790040]Not to be a jerk, but when she's one of the oldest women on the site AND she has 3 children that would probably limit her availability, what sort of other offers is she fielding?
In the triangle, there's a COPIOUS amount of women in their early to mid 20's, who would gladly accept 350. I think a lot of people, men and women, would do much better in the bowl if they were actually aware of their competition.[/QUOTE]
While I'm on, might as well contribute to the board instead of just complaining. Did meet up with this girl, she's real, pics are real, she can host and is a fun time.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1df12625-f220-4917-8415-2129f6e4a415[/URL]
[QUOTE=Badger7;5790351]While I'm on, might as well contribute to the board instead of just complaining. Did meet up with this girl, she's real, pics are real, she can host and is a fun time.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1df12625-f220-4917-8415-2129f6e4a415[/URL][/QUOTE]How much for how long?
I know it has been discussed here before, but things have changed over time. So, can someone tell me how to sign up on Seeking totally discreetly, please?
I recall some discussion about purchasing pre-paid Visa cards, but also recall that they may not work.
What do you do about loading photos of yourself? Etc, etc.
Thanks in advance.
Anyone ever meet this one!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bc472b88-8e83-463a-97a8-3c8973ec07cc[/URL]
[QUOTE=Sobe69;5792869]Anyone ever meet this one!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bc472b88-8e83-463a-97a8-3c8973ec07cc[/URL][/QUOTE]I have not met her but we engaged in texting for a couple of days and it did not end well. She wanted to sell content. She sent a 2 second video (literally2 seconds) of her ass and wanted me to send $$. I declined.
[QUOTE=Sobe69;5792869]Anyone ever meet this one!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bc472b88-8e83-463a-97a8-3c8973ec07cc[/URL][/QUOTE]I was texting with her too. We seemed to come to an agreement to get together but when it was time to follow up and agree on a time I stopped getting a response.
I believe JNG-S on 2/6/22 at the grey bar hotel site is her so I'm not to worried she ghosted me. I would pick a neutral location to try again if she gets back to me.
[QUOTE=ToySoldier;5791561]I know it has been discussed here before, but things have changed over time. So, can someone tell me how to sign up on Seeking totally discreetly, please?
I recall some discussion about purchasing pre-paid Visa cards, but also recall that they may not work.
What do you do about loading photos of yourself? Etc, etc.
Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]Check out my last few posts here on how to use prepaid / gift credit cards. Still accurate as of 2 days ago when I renewed. NOTE: once you start typing in the first few CC numbers, you will get a warning "Prepaid cards may not work. " just ignore it. If you follow the other steps in my post it seems to work fine.
Anyone seen her before? PM me if you'd prefer. Thanks!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7b4aea0c-abac-4fcb-8de2-8ec9cf34bd7f[/URL]
I met her for lunch Pay to meet which I never did before but I got down to a decent rate and it was not prepaid so I could bail if she was not real. Her pics are real. I had the opportunity to leave with her and go somewhere but my spider sense was going off. She invited me back to her place then ghosted me after she left and came up with the usually excuse line. She followed up with the emergency need money texts where I called her out and it ended there. She is super hot and good personality. She would of made a great SB and actually the only one I have ever met that I would consider putting on a real allowance. She did have a driver that looked like a dude but she claimed it was her dike sister.
[QUOTE=Bh400;5797232]I was texting with her too. We seemed to come to an agreement to get together but when it was time to follow up and agree on a time I stopped getting a response.
I believe JNG-S on 2/6/22 at the grey bar hotel site is her so I'm not to worried she ghosted me. I would pick a neutral location to try again if she gets back to me.[/QUOTE]
She is real cool older chick but just did not connect in during the deed. PPM type not shaved its been a while for that.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ce37ea4e-be80-4fa0-9c34-725f79d758f3[/URL]
Any one ready to go and a true sub. Did not get a chance to take it to the next level been too buy someone take the plunge and report back.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5ce7a598-56b9-4842-9b57-6911eecfaab7[/URL]
Another PPM good to go but does not travel and too far for me to make that trip. Someone take one for the team and report back.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aafc80b5-8a3f-4d3e-9a82-84c29f3b5fa4[/URL]
Has anyone made contact with this one. She sure sounds legit, I'm hoping to visit her this weekend. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aee76fe2-00fd-4f5b-8e1e-ab583a0a78c4[/URL].
I just got banned from SA for "soliciting" (conveniently a few days after they charged me for 3-month renewal). I do not discuss compensation even in texts, much less the site itself. I wrote their contact us page to ask what happened and they responded with a boilerplate email without any details, just that they have "obtained and verified information" and that they won't respond any further.
Anyone deal with this successfully? I saw a previous post that the admin told them to read the TOS and they got their account reinstated, but I was not given any option like that. I have half a mind to refuse charges on the recent renewal, but not sure if I want to burn that bridge.
She has good experience in this hobby. She left for foreign studies after we met. Met her in public without any expectations from either side in Chapel hill area. Her asks is high 4 Benjamin per meet to start with. No hosting. Limited action. She is particular in what she will and what she will not do behind closed doors. That all restrictions came after the doors were closed. LOL. With that limitations, I can't spend that kinda money. I'd pass.
[QUOTE=NewRdUGuy;5808026]Anyone seen her before? PM me if you'd prefer. Thanks!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7b4aea0c-abac-4fcb-8de2-8ec9cf34bd7f[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=ElectricHug;5814084]I just got banned from SA for "soliciting" (conveniently a few days after they charged me for 3-month renewal). I do not discuss compensation even in texts, much less the site itself. I wrote their contact us page to ask what happened and they responded with a boilerplate email without any details, just that they have "obtained and verified information" and that they won't respond any further.
Anyone deal with this successfully? I saw a previous post that the admin told them to read the TOS and they got their account reinstated, but I was not given any option like that. I have half a mind to refuse charges on the recent renewal, but not sure if I want to burn that bridge.[/QUOTE]Sorry about that mate. You can always try SB. The responses are not as great as SA. But at least they are not as strict.
[QUOTE=ElectricHug;5814084]I just got banned from SA for "soliciting" (conveniently a few days after they charged me for 3-month renewal). I do not discuss compensation even in texts, much less the site itself. I wrote their contact us page to ask what happened and they responded with a boilerplate email without any details, just that they have "obtained and verified information" and that they won't respond any further.
Anyone deal with this successfully? I saw a previous post that the admin told them to read the TOS and they got their account reinstated, but I was not given any option like that. I have half a mind to refuse charges on the recent renewal, but not sure if I want to burn that bridge.[/QUOTE]Some years ago, I was banned for mentioning in a message that I liked to take photos during my dates if the girl was into it. Now, I don't know if she reported me or if SA just routinely scans for keywords, but I was banned and told that I was attempting to start an adult entertainment company. Which is absolutely bonkers. They refused to lift the ban, and I just left it alone. About 3 months after that, I randomly tried logging back in. Same email address, same username, same password, nothing changed. And it let me back in.
I have no clue what I did. Maybe the ban is only temporary or timed dependent upon the offense. Real or imaginary.
[QUOTE=DJprofessorK;5814882]Some years ago, I was banned for mentioning in a message that I liked to take photos during my dates if the girl was into it. Now, I don't know if she reported me or if SA just routinely scans for keywords, but I was banned and told that I was attempting to start an adult entertainment company. Which is absolutely bonkers. They refused to lift the ban, and I just left it alone. About 3 months after that, I randomly tried logging back in. Same email address, same username, same password, nothing changed. And it let me back in.
I have no clue what I did. Maybe the ban is only temporary or timed dependent upon the offense. Real or imaginary.[/QUOTE]I had the same thing happen years ago. I never discuss money on the site but was told I violated the TOS. Wasn't really looking to meet anyone at the time anyway so let the premium expire. Signed up again a few months later with same account and not problems.
[QUOTE=DJprofessorK;5814882]Some years ago, I was banned for mentioning in a message that I liked to take photos during my dates if the girl was into it. Now, I don't know if she reported me or if SA just routinely scans for keywords, but I was banned and told that I was attempting to start an adult entertainment company. Which is absolutely bonkers. They refused to lift the ban, and I just left it alone. About 3 months after that, I randomly tried logging back in. Same email address, same username, same password, nothing changed. And it let me back in.
I have no clue what I did. Maybe the ban is only temporary or timed dependent upon the offense. Real or imaginary.[/QUOTE]I don't know why you guys put up with this, by all means contact your credit card company and get it refunded.
There is absolutely nothing on that website that doesn't spell fraud.
[QUOTE=NewRdUGuy;5815828]I had the same thing happen years ago. I never discuss money on the site but was told I violated the TOS. Wasn't really looking to meet anyone at the time anyway so let the premium expire. Signed up again a few months later with same account and not problems.[/QUOTE]Have dates with a couple of strong POTs, maybe that will tide me over until then, ha.
Any comments on her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/1cabaa38-fe7a-4649-8e5a-9e8b4fc11ad8[/URL]
This is a link that leads to your inbox, not a profile.
[QUOTE=Raltime;5816347]Any comments on her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/1cabaa38-fe7a-4649-8e5a-9e8b4fc11ad8[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Raltime;5816347]Any comments on her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/1cabaa38-fe7a-4649-8e5a-9e8b4fc11ad8[/URL][/QUOTE]There's been recent comment on her. I think I commented as well. Do a search.
*To clarify, I get fully what the site is about (SA). I get the expectations, rules, and unsaid limitations.
With that out of the way. I have met quite a few girls / ladies off of the site. Being moderately successful, along with being in good shape while in my mid 30's, at least ok looking, and being overall adequate at personability and fun fun. I must say I am 9 out of 10 times disappointed in the holistic quality of SBs. They tend to fall into 3 categories and the 4th being titled "Unicorn".
I am going to list my experiences and simply pose the question to everyone:
Is there truly enough upside to continue this venture? And, has anyone else experienced the same experiences and outcomes?
1. Angular Queen.
On so many of the meetings I have had, many of the girls had significantly more weight than expected, or did not match their pictural embodiment.
I am a visual man, as I am sure many of you are. But, this comes up so often, I am starting to wonder the amount of filtration and perfect angles are being used. Yes, I try to look my best in my pictures. Yes, I chose the angles that cast me in the right light. But, I also make sure what is in the pictures is an accurate representation of myself. Yet, while casting fog and trying to do a poorly executed magic trick these ladies expect to be benefited as much as those within the top tier. I feel with both misrepresentation and most likely knowing their place, they should know top beneficial arrangements should be kept in perspective.
2. Hollow Beauty.
When I am lucky enough to be graced with the presence of the same beauty digitally was presented to me.
I have been very pleased to meet with a girl that represented herself accurately, even displays grace. If even for a moment. But, once sitting down it is fully business. This (at least for me) is very off putting. As someone that daily dances within the business world and contractual deals. The less business you discuss, the more lucrative the contract. With that mentioned, I get you are attractive. I get you are used to holding all the cards. But, please learn to play poker, or be willing to learn. Maybe I am old fashioned, but aren't these arrangements meant to be beneficial in more than just money. But, even within the cylinder of economics, stock goes up and down. And, once over lunch or dinner conversation ensues, I find myself falling asleep. I think for many men, these are the headless horsemen from Sleepy Hollow, and should be held to standards, regardless of looks.
3. Almost Cinderella.
OK, so she has looks, she has the gift of gab, and she knows how to dance with you in the desired dealings.
But, when it comes times to deliver or naturally move to the agreed / mutually eluded to next steps. All of a sudden a loop hole or a thing magically appears. Though this thing was unforeseen, I am still held to the foreseen expectation. If any pushback is to arise, a pout along with an excuse manifests. Now, the alternative to this is, the first or even a few meetings went well. Then, like a bear trap is activated, more needs are wanted, expectations change, or simply. Demands are expected to be happily acquiesced. Hey! I got married, if this is what I wanted, I would not turn to this location or "hobby."
4. The Unicorn.
She is what I am attracted to. She is what I expect. There is nothing more, nothing less, no one's life is altered or stressed for the worse.
Thanks if read the whole thing!
[QUOTE=DionysusVice;5819234]*To clarify, I get fully what the site is about (SA). I get the expectations, rules, and unsaid limitations.
With that out of the way. I have met quite a few girls / ladies off of the site. Being moderately successful, along with being in good shape while in my mid 30's, at least ok looking, and being overall adequate at personability and fun fun. I must say I am 9 out of 10 times disappointed in the holistic quality of SBs. They tend to fall into 3 categories and the 4th being titled "Unicorn".[/QUOTE]Couldn't have said it better myself. A striking percentage of women on SA fall into the first two categories.
Unfortunately, there are also a significant amount of men out there who still pay their ludicrous prices for arrangements. I've had moments where I offered less to settle for less (desperation in a competitive market), only to be promptly "bought-out" by some other high roller with low standards whom has no respect for his own money. I've had unkempt land whales with year (s) old accounts message me trying to get half a grand+ for a meet and greet; which means some fool out there is paying those prices! Yuck.
Then there's the "cinderellas" as you describe. Beautiful, excellent social skills, prompt with communication, no bullshit. Until she gets in the door. Suddenly it becomes clear that a worn out couch cushion would have rewarded you with a better time. The one unicorn arrangement I managed to win over lasted about 7 months. She unfortunately moved away to take care of aging family.
I've already given up on STG and other sites. SA is (and has been) on the downward spiral for a while now. It's only a matter of time before I abandon that ship too.
Any info on this lady.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d4954685-2e79-43fd-b5da-f5f2d50db8da[/URL]
[QUOTE=Biscuits1234;5819570]Couldn't have said it better myself. A striking percentage of women on SA fall into the first two categories.
Unfortunately, there are also a significant amount of men out there who still pay their ludicrous prices for arrangements. I've had moments where I offered less to settle for less (desperation in a competitive market), only to be promptly "bought-out" by some other high roller with low standards whom has no respect for his own money. I've had unkempt land whales with year (s) old accounts message me trying to get half a grand+ for a meet and greet; which means some fool out there is paying those prices! Yuck.
Then there's the "cinderellas" as you describe. Beautiful, excellent social skills, prompt with communication, no bullshit. Until she gets in the door. Suddenly it becomes clear that a worn out couch cushion would have rewarded you with a better time. The one unicorn arrangement I managed to win over lasted about 7 months. She unfortunately moved away to take care of aging family.
I've already given up on STG and other sites. SA is (and has been) on the downward spiral for a while now. It's only a matter of time before I abandon that ship too.[/QUOTE]How guys are paying whatever they charge now to spend endless hours going through fakers and scammers and the entitled ones with the statement" I know my worth" the site is so far in the drain now that only the unaware or desperate are even bothering with it and to top it off after they get their subscription money from you the harassment begins for really no reason. To make matters worse almost all the legitimate hookers I met through agencies in the past had superior hygiene to almost anyone I met on there and I mean at the asking price of $500 and up how disappointing does it get when they show up un showered and in a rush?
A few back and forth messages and went for the digits and got radio silence.
[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;5820039]Any info on this lady.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d4954685-2e79-43fd-b5da-f5f2d50db8da[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Sobe69;5822816]A few back and forth messages and went for the digits and got radio silence.[/QUOTE]I also exchanged messages with her a few times on SA. She expressed interest but then went silent.
We texted for some time. She wanted 300 for a dinner date and 500 for the deed. I passed.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/34df9c62-01ad-4ee8-a387-0324a99905d5[/URL]
[QUOTE=SandPiper540;5812160]Has anyone made contact with this one. She sure sounds legit, I'm hoping to visit her this weekend. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aee76fe2-00fd-4f5b-8e1e-ab583a0a78c4[/URL].[/QUOTE]She's legit.
Did you ever meet her?
If anyone wants to use it for 25% off. Debating if I want to further frustrations.
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[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/175ab7d5-53f5-4287-97da-11fc0a60323f[/URL]
Else, it worth the drive.
[QUOTE=Aafakljgadkg;5828096][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/175ab7d5-53f5-4287-97da-11fc0a60323f[/URL]
Else, it worth the drive.[/QUOTE]Definite scam. The pics are a model on IG. Olivia something. We are not lucky enough to have that locally.
[QUOTE=Aafakljgadkg;5828096][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/175ab7d5-53f5-4287-97da-11fc0a60323f[/URL]
Else, it worth the drive.[/QUOTE]Definitely Fake. Google the pictures and you will also be able to confirm the same.
Tldrl if too busy, read the last paragraph.
I had a date, the went well by most metrics. The expected reimbursement was paid (more than 24 hours later); vigorously testing the hardwood floor of my office. Because, of the design of it, a comfortable sleeping suite, is transformed within. So, multiple smiles were had, at least by one truly. Though, within hours of good-byes and reimbursement, with the hollow "thank you's" I am told that -.
More is needed for another date. Informed my personality and magnetism were the only reasons she "overlooked" taking less (that she never specified) to enjoy the moment with me. Going forward, it would be more.
This is Bullshit.
I will not beat around the Bush with you guys. I have a beautiful wife (maybe the hate for me working so much at my company is motivation.) . Luckily, she (for the most part) is up for the naughty adventures. - A mix of issues and attitude make it less intimate than most would want. I bring this up to ask.
If there is a woman at home that holds her beauty in mind or body. Why are we allowing such blackmail?
In this forum, we are not the lower level predictable vases. (We are men, we are predictable.).
Last paragraph:
Why is this allowed?
As a singular body of consciousness (I am not touching the sex issue) . This forum section has many men I am sure we could become friends in real life. Hell, we might be able to advance each other as well. Why allow women that do not understand how you reached your status, your situation rule your situation with equal weight?
In desperate moments why do you cave?
If you guys do not want this public, please just DM me. I want to know.