"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=Hernando;1388987]Hopefully she misses you on all levels.not the least of which is $$$. Probably what happened is she found another boy.maybe IRL to date and she pulled back from the pretend world of Sugar Dating. And he didn't pan out, soo she realized that with you she has a sure thing.you love her and treat her well.[/QUOTE]This is sort of what I'm thinking as well. I know she has a group of guy friends that she hangs out with, and something could have easily developed there. I have yet to text her back, but I will do so today and see if we can get together next week. I am out of town this weekend starting tomorrow, unfortunately, otherwise I would make it sooner. I'm trying to fix my mind into a stern frame, but I'm afraid the minute I see her face I will cave. In fact, I know it will be so. The last time this kind of happened, although for a much shorter period, she admitted that she was a little freaked by how close we had gotten, and the depth of her feelings. (At least that is what she told me, and I gladly bought it) This could have played a part this time as well. We shall see.

She is nowhere near a Nando 1, so I am not worried about blackmail, unless there is a little Scottie in the oven, but I can't imagine that she will go through with that. She is too young to be tied down.

Interestingly, right before I got married, about a hundred years ago, I was sleeping with this stunning blonde with some self esteem issues, and cut it off with her a month or less before the ceremony. She knew my real name, where I lived, phone number, everything. Talk about living dangerously!

About a month or so later I started getting calls at work from her, and my mind immediately went to the "pregnant" scenario. When we finally spoke, she confirmed that this was indeed the case, but that she hated me so much at this point that all she wanted was money to take care of things, which I gladly gave her. I often wonder if she was telling the truth about that or not. In any event, I never heard from her again, and considered it money well spent. This was the lesson that convinced me to always play safe ever since.

Feels good to be back, but I have to start again from zero. Oh well, as has been said, a good deal of the fun is in the chase!

I'll keep my brothers apprised,

Scott

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1388404]I wanted to let my brothers know that I feel that I have sufficiently realigned my synapses, emerged from my "Clockwork Orange" style reprogramming, and am ready to suit up and hit the field again.[/QUOTE][url]Http://www.megawavs.com/play.aspx?id=16689[/url]

[url]http://datacore.sciflicks.com/a_clockwork_orange/sounds/a_clockwork_orange_cured.wav[/url]

[QUOTE]In short, I'm ready to leave the safe house and once again go into deep cover and fuck some babies.[/QUOTE][url]Http://datacore.sciflicks.com/a_clockwork_orange/sounds/a_clockwork_orange_hi_there.wav[/url]

[url]http://datacore.sciflicks.com/a_clockwork_orange/sounds/a_clockwork_orange_fuzzy_warbles.wav[/url]

[QUOTE]Some of you may think I'm a puss for wanting this, but I just can't help it. Seeing the text from her vividly brought back her sweet little face, and her glowing smile, and her sparkly brown eyes, and her cute spinner body, and her astonishing agility, and the awesome sex (with toys), and how much we connect on so many levels, and on and on.[/QUOTE][url]Http://datacore.sciflicks.com/a_clockwork_orange/sounds/a_clockwork_orange_flashed.wav[/url]

[QUOTE]We shall see, my brothers, we shall see.[/QUOTE][url]Http://datacore.sciflicks.com/a_clockwork_orange/sounds/a_clockwork_orange_viddy_well.wav[/url]

[QUOTE]All the best,

Scott[/QUOTE]Welcome back.

[url]http://datacore.sciflicks.com/a_clockwork_orange/sounds/a_clockwork_orange_welly_well.wav[/url]

OK. I blame Spitfire. He gave me info on an SB he was letting slide. And she is hot to trot with me. I am going to call her WB1 (wood baby1). Now in second thoughts CWB1. College wood baby 1. I will not mix the numbers. Just add the into letter to signify the Coed status!

Hopefully FC next week with CBW1.

I finally joined SA. What a rich fishing pool! However, I am so glad I am armed with all the info from this thread!

I will keep the group apprised!

Got an WB2 on the hook for tomorrow. Pretty sure she is an UTR escort. But a slim 40 MILF I cannot let slide! Thinking it will set me back $ at most.

CWB1 on the other hand will be $$ plus dinner and social. But if I get the overnight I am expecting. That is a bargain!

I knew I should never have participated in your fun. I really must get more work to support this mongering lifestyle!

GW

Last night went off completely as planned with almost exactly the results that I expected. I met the older CL contact at a decent restuarant and had a nice meal. I could tell she was not one of the more active CL posters from the start, but she did not hesitate to discuss sex and had emailed me a lot of racy pictures before we met so I was pretty sure the visit to the FC was going to happen. Rented a room after about an hour of eating and talking. She was much more reluctant to totally undress than the younger MILFs I have been with. I've seen this a lot with older women before. They think they need to keep their bra on until the lights go out, or something around the midsection to hide the fact that they aren't as in-shape as they once were. WTFWT. When I'm having sex, I like easy access to ALL body parts. To he'll with the modesty thing.

The sex was OK. She will not be a repeat with me though. I spent way too much time and money when the dinner, room, and sugar expenses are all combined and she is too old (40s) to waste more time on. It was fun for a one-nighter though.

Still hoping to set something up tonight. Last night before the warden returns for the lock-down.

[QUOTE=AliasSM]Thursday night. I have a date lined up with another CL response that has been emailing me for a couple of weeks now. It looks promising, but she is a little older than I'm looking for. From the sound of her emails, she is a divorced MILF, early 40s, and hasn't had sex for quite some time. Her pictures look pretty good, so will see what happens. I don't expect her to be LT.

Hoping the CL blond will agree to Friday night. The warden comes home Saturday. Wish me luck.

Sorry for the long post.

Alias.[/QUOTE]

Wow you guys, can't beleive the talk of getting these gals pregnant. Even though I shoot blanks I keep it covered up. Can't bring anything home to the warden. Had an absolutely exhausting slumber party with SB1 Sunday night where we finally went to sleep about 5am. I woke up first and there is her cell phone with no lock. Yikes! She's a busy beaver. Was tempted to go BB with her on earlier date but glad I didn't. Just too risky. Struck out timing wise with all new interviewees this week but looks like a few nights next week. Really like the all nighters. What a bargain compared to pros.

My Fellow mongers, after reading through I realized that I've not updated in a while. So here goes.

From SA:

Slim 39 year old (Richmond, Va). Nice body,"ok" face. You could tell she had a rough life. First date she got the Tiggabounce right after dinner. She was very appreciative, I got a massage, got my salad tossed (on the first date and for at least 10-20mins. Wow) , and overall the sex was ok. She was a bit quiet for my taste. I did have to drop her because of the overhead. She showed up 1 hour late (lived 10 mins away from restaurant) , she brought weed after I specifically said not to have drugs around me, she drank much more than I expected, which changed her personality to be a bit more aggressive than I liked and the chemistry was just off after that and a few other things. In the end, she was probably a little to street for me long term. $40 suga.

Sugardaddie-dot-com.

Stacked 29 year old (Richmond, Va) , pretty and very very shapely and I don't meant fat at all. She is actually in the running to take over the #1 spot. My Latina in Maryland is getting pretty busy. This one has her own place and is ready for the TiggaBounce after the 2nd date. It's funny, at end of 2nd date, I asked, so what do you want to do for our next date. Since this is more of a long term thing, I thought after the 3rd date I'm headed to the hotel. Her response "Sex". I was like."well. Ok, of course". I love it when I it's not big deal to me and they ask for it before I do. However 3 dates is my limit. $40 suga first date $60 suga 2nd date.

Her body is similar to this one: [url] http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?3987-Escort-Reports&p=1386894&viewfull=1#post1386894[/url]

One very hot 20 year old SB (Baltimore County) , very slim, but nice butt, date #1 was dinner and date #2 was full of the TiggaBounce. She was a little distracted and I could tell very inexperienced. I'm not so sure about this one as I'm not so used to the young and inexperienced. I guess for some reason, I just don't get excited about training. 1st date $40 suga 2nd date $80 suga. I'm debating on seeing her again. Really depends on time. She's getting her act together and will soon have her own place and a few other things taken care of. So I may keep may keep her around, but not really get into consistency until she's got things in order.

Her body is similar to this one, but with smaller boobs. [url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=165757[/url]

Craigslist.

25 year old (Laurel, Md) , nice body, little chubby (Similary to [url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=165816 [/url]), but she excelled in the bedroom on the first date. I hate that I've not had a chance to see her again. She's definitely worth seeing, but without her having transportation or her own place, I cannot consider her for long term. $60 suga.

24 year old AA, short and kinda fatty (Gaithersburg) ( Like this one [url] http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=165686[/url]) 2 dates down, time for TiggaBounce, but it's been hard getting the time right."I hate that I've not had a chance to see her again. She's definitely worth seeing, but without her having transportation or her own place, I cannot consider her for long term." I am going to make it a point to see her soon. I got to at least taste the goodies once. No sugar given yet.

29 year old AA (Woodbridge, Va) Nice body, since regular pics and nude pics. Lives a bit too close, really needs the money. Too desperate for anything long term. I will however try to help out a woman in need and see how things go. Just not sure when.

48 year old (Manasass, VA) BBW, I'm not sure why I'm even bothering to entertain this one. Nice face, my experience with older than 45 has been mixed. I'm probably more curious than anything else. She and I work close enough that I'm game for a TiggaBounce when my nights are slow. No sugar will be given for this one. I'll just cover the hotel room.

For some reason, I'm still having more luck with sugardaddie. Com than SA. Oh well, whatever works. I'm taking a break from both sites as I have more than enough to handle.

On a side note, met a white 42 MILF professional in Richmond last week while we both were using the computers at FEDEXOffice. We've exchanged numbers, chatted and flirted. I'm so excited. She's pretty, nice shape, and a real non-pro, non-sb who's busy and just hanging on by a thread with some unexpected financial challenges. I have a date setup next week with her. I'm going to help her out with some expenses as part of being friendly. I'm really looking forward to this one, she seems like a real winner.

BigTigg

Big Tig

Your Suga donations are impossibly low. Do you discuss this with them before the bounce or do you just gift that amount at the end of the night?

SA is full of GPS girls (Golden Pussy Syndrome for the newbies) These girls are requesting $3-5, 000 / month and some claim they are getting $20 K. The cheapos are coming in at $1-3000 / month. I have not hunted SA yet other than to check the blog which I highly recommend because of my HCB.

Now I am happy with my HCB after a little glitch this week. For the first time she cancelled two (yes 2) dates in one week. The excuses were date1-very good (gastro intestinal virus) and date 2 mediochre. Some family obligation that she would be too tired after to drive to see me. She should want to see me so badly that spending 7 hours together is preferable to none. She didn't want to see me badly enough. The truth hurts. I hope she is not beginning to take me for granted or has another Fuck Daddy. In almost one year together this has only happened one other time so I will give her the benefit of the doubt. I know you guys know where I come from, that is it is never too late, or too tiring for some love and affection. And from her POV, she missed out on some easy sugar $$$. Scott can identify with me on this one. I am too emotionally involved.

My favorite (of three) escort is in town this week and I am not even seeing her because I'm saving my $$$ for my baby. It must be love.

[QUOTE=Hernando; 1389613]Big Tig

Your Suga donations are impossibly low. Do you discuss this with them before the bounce or do you just gift that amount at the end of the night?[/QUOTE]No I don't discuss in advance much. But you will see, that most are AA and most are not 9-10s in the looks category. (I did luck out my my Latina, she's just young, but a real hottie...I mean I got really lucky.... her body is like this, but with bigger legs [url]http://washingtondc.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=7161282&image=7169045[/url])

The CL women are non-pros and not real SB, so they are happy with almost anything, do not go over $.

However, the big secret is my approach. I state I'm not a real Sugar Daddy, more of a Sugar Daddie Lite. I let them know upfront that I'm here to hang out, cover all expenses, pay for gas, sitter and help with a bill every now and then. If a potential TB wants anything that equates to "arrangement" or "fee per date", I don't deal with them. I'll leave that group to you guys, I've dropped down to the 2nd group. Nando2 I think. LOL.

This usually results with women who are not 100% comfortable with how close SBs come to feeling like prostitution and they like the idea that they can go out, eat, see a movie, etc and get some good sex without headaches. It also takes me more time to get the goodies, cause it's more like dating, but in the end, I end up with a stable that I can rotate through without a bunch of drama. It's kinda the happy medium between quantity and quality. That way when I help with a $$ or $$$ bill, I'm really appreciated.

Most of the suga above was just covering gas money because I covered every thing else. Oh wait, I also tell them that once it becomes a LTR, then more suga will follow. So they see it as an investment and I get to try the goodies 2 to 3 times before "I don't think this is going to work for me".

In all that I'm working on, only 1 really has Long Term Potential, the stacked pretty one from Richmond.



BigTigg.

So it is Saturday AM, the warden is due back today, and I want to post a summary for the week. As you all may recall, I have been preparing for my week of freedom for over a month and way trying to line up a potential different SB for each night of my freedom.

I covered Sun. Thurs in previous posts so won't bore you all with repeating those details. For Friday, my last night of freedom, I was trying to set up a second meeting with the hottest potential SB of the week (and by far the hardest of all to connect with). Unfortunately, that didn't happen and I had to call back up an SB from earlier in the week for a repeat performance just to keep the night from going to waste.

I have not admitted defeat with this super-hot blond MILF just yet. But after tons I'd emails and only 1 short meeting, she continues to avoid the second date and, of course, the FC.

I even thought throughout the week of soliciting help from one of you pros on this board to give me the right words to convince her. Like bundling up all of our emails and asking one of you to serve as a consultant to help me get across the goal line, but in the end, ran out of time and energy to continue the persuit with her (for this week at least). But damn if she isn't the hottest thing I've ever had respond to a SB ad, and I hate the thought of not landing this sexy little fish.

So for the total of six nights that the warden has been gone, I was successful with getting 4 new (to me anyway) SBs into the FC, and had to go to backup plans to get laid the other 2 nights due to failure to land a couple more SBs I had been pursuing.

Even though that calculates to a 67% success rate, I'm still disappointed with the missed opportunity from last night, and the fact that out of the entire week, I'd really only consider a repeat with one of the 4 new SBs. The other 3 are just too heavy or too old to interest me for LT arrangements.

So the search continues, and will be much harder now with the warden back in town. Keep up all of the good posts, my friends, and wish me luck with this last hot blond SB that I still plan to pursue. She has been very illusive up to this point, but has the greatest potential of anybody I have meant to date.

Alias

Ok, so my approach may not be the best to get the goodies on the first date, but I just landed a 24 year old AA from New Jersey, with a Master's degree coming off a bad relationship, looking for a casual man to keep her maintenance up and show here a good time every now and then. She's ok with meeting once a month and the damage is pretty low. We met up for date on Saturday, I picked a nice mid-point and we had a blast. Just typical date stuff, movie dinner, etc.

Her personality was great, she was very pretty (at least to me) and if you like curves. I was overwhelmed with her assets. I've got to find a "similar" photo to link to. Here is one I swiped from bp, she is similar to this, her boobs are bigger, but you get the picture. [ATTACH=CONFIG]166494[/ATTACH] If you like the skinny spinner type, she's not going to appeal to you. But my oh my. I stared at her boobs or butt every chance I got. Working on second date. At some point, she'll be my once a month date and screw and I already feel she's worth it.

Oh met her on sugardaddie dot com. I think I'm going to rotate her in and my 23 year old Latina out. That relationship is getting to serious and out of scope for what I want and can handle.

BigTigg

This one was crazy, showed her craziness on day 2, never even made it to the first date.

[QUOTE=BigTigger; 1389592]29 year old AA (Woodbridge, Va) Nice body, since regular pics and nude pics. Lives a bit too close, really needs the money. Too desperate for anything long term. I will however try to help out a woman in need and see how things go. Just not sure when.

BigTigg[/QUOTE]

Gentlemen,

Glad to see you all have been busy bees! Tigger, you never cease to amaze me. How [I]do[/I] you find the time?

Woody, it may cost a bit more, but you will enjoy it so much more as well. Good luck to you!

Alias, congratulations on your week-long dance card. Nicely filled (pun intended)

Buster, thank you for the pms and the nice tribute. I haven't stopped laughing at your CO post either.

As for me, I have created, or re-created, my SA profile, and am ready to get my line wet again. There are a couple of little fish that seem interesting, and I am planning to be much more selective and restrained this time around. We shall see if I've still got the touch.

Keep up the good work, my brothers!

Scott

Well, Scott, it's good to hear that you've found your focus again and are back in the game. I hope sincerely you keep your focus and enjoy the hunt.

For myself, since the last post, things have been "interesting". Spotted what looked to be the ultimate dream: two very attractive young women posting together, indicating that they wanted to meet someone together. YES, I'm thinking, and send them off a pitch. I see they read my message (about four days after I sent it!) , and am sure they're debating how best to respond to someone as exceptional as myself (okay, sarcasm off. I knew it was well beyond a "Hail Mary", but nothing ventured, nothing gained, true?). I have started discussions with another SB, mid-twenties and moderately attractive. She seems interested, and wants to get to know more, so a good sign. Whether it ends with the two of us sweating up the sheets is a matter for future settlement, but things aren't going badly so far. Unfortunately, Meet #1 is still emailing me occasionally, asking if I want to get together again. Decided to tell her I'd met someone else (true) , and that we'd already had an encounter (not quite so). With that, I told her I wouldn't feel good playing with two women at the same time (only if they catch me!) and wished her the best. Hopefully that will get her to move on. Will see.

One of our fine fellows hit me up about the crazy woman in Woodbridge. I'm glad he did, he was corresponding with her. Don't underestimate the value of sharing information.

My Latina and I have hit splitsville, moving on to something less intense.

My newbie 29 year old hottie will be Tue & Thursday, I'll get the goodies on Thursday. I'm 100% positive it's going to be a great experience. Damage will be minimal both nights. Probably $ combined.

I got late night booty call with my 20 year old on Friday night. Looking forward to that. I have to pick her up, so no more than. 40 maybe. 60.

Had a couple of nibbles from CL, but decided it's best to just focus on my 29 yr old AA hottie. So other than a booty call here and there, my posts will probably decrease for a while.

Oh wait, I still have the non-pro MILF in Richmond. That is on the radar, it is just going to take a while. I am getting encouraging texts from her, I can keep you updated on when she experiences the TiggaBounce.

Oh and my hottie from NJ. That will be very infrequent, but I'll at least report the first time I get to taste the goodies.

BigTigg

Gentlemen,

I am headed off in a few hours to a Meet & Greet with an HYM this morning who rose to my presentation from SA. I am excited to be back in the game, but trying not to get too far ahead of myself. In the past, my ratio of coffee to fucking was about 4 to 1, so the odds are that this will not end up with legs spread.

Wish me luck. She has long auburn hair, freckles and is apparently still married. That will be a first for me, and is kind of erotic, I have to say.

I'll let you all know what happens.

Scott