Right click not working on SA?
A few days ago, I discovered I could no longer use my right click on SA. This makes it very difficult to open multiple profiles without leaving my search results. It also makes it very inconvenient to search on images. Is anyone else having this problem?
Bam.
SA and phone #s and FB friends
Way too may girls (and especially the non experienced ones you want) use their own phone #. Even if they have it not available to anybody on FB, a search in the FB search box with their phone number will "reverse find" them.
Also -- if they have their FB friends list closed off to the public. Fret not -- just look at whatever profile or other pictures are available and see who has "Liked" it. Guess what you get. A list of her best friends!! .
GB.
[QUOTE=Starkey2008;2819505]Reverse search their photos. That sometimes reveals their identity through one of their social media accounts. Then search the name. If she gives you a number or email to communicate with, search those. You'd be surprised how many use their actual regular numbers or emails. BTW. That's a good indication that they are not pros. Pros know how to use Google Voice and fake emails. Here is a couple of more tips. If you get a hit on a pic and a name and find her social media, take a look at her followers. "Birds of a feather flock together". Frequently, they have "friends" or "followers" who are also on SA. Also. In Richmond, there are a lot of VCU girls on SA. Find one and you can find many. Again. They suggest to their friends that they should try it out.
Stark.[/QUOTE]
SA and phone #s and FB friends
[QUOTE=GuyWoodson;2819523]Way too may girls (and especially the non experienced ones you want) use their own phone #. Even if they have it not available to anybody on FB, a search in the FB search box with their phone number will "reverse find" them.
Also -- if they have their FB friends list closed off to the public. Fret not -- just look at whatever profile or other pictures are available and see who has "Liked" it. Guess what you get. A list of her best friends!! .
GB.[/QUOTE]Guy. Exactly! If a baby gives me a number, the first thing I do is run it through FB, then Google. And I have definitely checked out their "likes" as well. All it takes is a little know how and a little time. Here's another one. Sometimes, the name they use on SA is not their real name but IS a "user" name they use on their other social media accounts, like Twitter or Instagram. I have run SA user names through Google and gotten hits. Sometimes, the really inexperienced ones actually use part or all of their name on SA, or initials. I like a good mystery and once you find one, you'll be surprised how the dominoes fall.
Stark.
No more photo Right-Click on SA
[QUOTE=BamBam;2819454]A few days ago, I discovered I could no longer use my right click on SA. This makes it very difficult to open multiple profiles without leaving my search results. It also makes it very inconvenient to search on images. Is anyone else having this problem?
Bam.[/QUOTE]I opened a ticket and got the following response from their help desk:
"Hi XXXXXXXX,
In an effort to improve member privacy we have disabled right click on member photos. However you will still be able to use right click elsewhere on the site.
Regards,
Anna.
[URL]SeekingArrangement.com[/URL]
Customer Satisfaction Team".
If they are going to do that, they should at least make an announcement to warn SD's and get some mileage out of it from the SB's.
Bam.
Also lost message restore
Before you could restore deleted messages. No longer. Can't go back and see what I already know or recover a lost contact info provided. Damn.
White Knights Sr*w Up the Mix
[QUOTE=Mike7794;2820084]Great info. Thanks.[/QUOTE]So while the prior posters have generously given an excellent, detailed "how to" of how to find the real identities of the girls. I'll add this:
Don't be an idiot and tell the girl what her last name is when she hasn't give it to you. Don't act like the "smartest cat in the room" by letting her "know" you know private info about her. Info she has not given you her self. While it might be personally satisfying, to show how smart you are to have found all of her info- how do you think that is going to make a SB feel? Bet a bunch of SBs are quietly creeped out and think you have stalker tendencies or "control issues. " So keep any info you find in your pocket. Smile and know she isn't a hardened pro and just a real regular girl doing some profitable dating. Nothing to be gained by telling her info you found.
Look this advice comes from experience. I played that game (I'm smarter than you) where I told a girl private info I found about her. The BP style girls could care less as their friends already knew what they were doing for a living. But the smarter girls and the SB types got freaked out. Had one end a date, just as it got going because she was scared I was a stalker or CL-killer type. Look, all of these girls hear the horror stories about internet dating. So when you do something odd, like showing you searched her private info it makes you look like a wacko, in their minds. That is what the SB told me, she was scared, and didn't continue. Shortly there after she closed up all of the "holes" that allowed me to find her info. I have danced around the issue enough with many girls to know the overall "concern" many have. If you want to know their last name, just ask. If you do that in a sweet, kind way, not an interrogation, you usually get an answer. After a trip to the FC, if things went well, you can just ask her to send you a link to her FB page.
HOWEVER, above all, [B] DO NOT TELL THE GIRL HER INFO IS EASILY ACCESSIBLE![/B] Look if you intend to marry the girl and want to protect her privacy, then yeah, help her close up these openings. But if she is just a one-off date or short-term (<6-mo. SB), then in the long run, you are F'in yourself by helping her close any breaches. Girls know other girls and don't think girls on SB sites don't email other girls and form friendships. There is often a whole under current network you'll never suspect. Remember women are innately more social than dudes! So being a White Knight and "telling" a girl about holes or ways to find her info can't help in the long run. Nothing in life stands still and as time goes by these girls are going to learn and close those ways for you to find them. So don't help the evolution along by being a "nice guy," otherwise soon enough you'll be back to flying blind again.
Hey, I'm just sayin'.