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I assume she's gone forever whatever, however I am wondering how common or how many of you all have made this transition from paying to not paying or paying less? Yes I can afford gifts, dinning, drinks, hotels. But $300+ on top. Not a good long term plan if I want to retire early LOL. In case your wondering I use SA because Tinder is too much work and I can't get girls in early 20's even with my decent looks.
I will get back on SA only if my plan is to pay for the first date or two with a normal type girls and TRY to transition. Maybe I am delusional but it did work for one date but maybe that why she's gone?
[/QUOTE]What happened with your Asian girl and what you're looking for does happen, but I think pushing for it with most of these girls will fall flat. If a girl's seen you a few times and genuinely enjoys the time with you, then it certainly happens that she'll drop her guard and get intimate without asking to be paid. It's happened with SA girls, traditional providers, and strippers. It's a thrill and big ego boost whenever it happens, but you have to keep it in perspective. In the vast majority of those girls' minds there's still the expectation that the payments, support, allowances, whatever are going to continue. There's a very, very small minority of girls who actually intend to end up traditionally dating the kinds of guys they meet on SA.
Obviously every situation is unique, but I would expect a lot of ghosts and blocks if you start suggesting unpaid playing after a date or two. Honestly, the gifts, dinners, and drinks aren't worth the investment in this game, at least for most of these girls. Maybe if you just budget for the hotel and allowances, you'll have more good experiences and variety vs trying to make this feel like 'real' dating.
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I had a friend 43 in another state find a 23 year old, she moved in to his million dollar house for a year. He was complaining he could not keep up because she wanted sex all the time LOL.
[QUOTE=FafaFooey;5818794]What happened with your Asian girl and what you're looking for does happen, but I think pushing for it with most of these girls will fall flat. If a girl's seen you a few times and genuinely enjoys the time with you, then it certainly happens that she'll drop her guard and get intimate without asking to be paid. It's happened with SA girls, traditional providers, and strippers. It's a thrill and big ego boost whenever it happens, but you have to keep it in perspective. In the vast majority of those girls' minds there's still the expectation that the payments, support, allowances, whatever are going to continue. There's a very, very small minority of girls who actually intend to end up traditionally dating the kinds of guys they meet on SA.
Obviously every situation is unique, but I would expect a lot of ghosts and blocks if you start suggesting unpaid playing after a date or two. Honestly, the gifts, dinners, and drinks aren't worth the investment in this game, at least for most of these girls. Maybe if you just budget for the hotel and allowances, you'll have more good experiences and variety vs trying to make this feel like 'real' dating.[/QUOTE]
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Another report
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/28c11ec9-7aac-4db6-81b3-a775a756dc7d[/URL]
Wants 400 for uncovered sex, no CIP, willin to stay for a few hours. Didn't bother meeting because she was rude over text. Needs you to host.
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Great assessment of this! Spot on.
[QUOTE=FafaFooey;5818794]What happened with your Asian girl and what you're looking for does happen, but I think pushing for it with most of these girls will fall flat. If a girl's seen you a few times and genuinely enjoys the time with you, then it certainly happens that she'll drop her guard and get intimate without asking to be paid. It's happened with SA girls, traditional providers, and strippers. It's a thrill and big ego boost whenever it happens, but you have to keep it in perspective. In the vast majority of those girls' minds there's still the expectation that the payments, support, allowances, whatever are going to continue. There's a very, very small minority of girls who actually intend to end up traditionally dating the kinds of guys they meet on SA.
Obviously every situation is unique, but I would expect a lot of ghosts and blocks if you start suggesting unpaid playing after a date or two. Honestly, the gifts, dinners, and drinks aren't worth the investment in this game, at least for most of these girls. Maybe if you just budget for the hotel and allowances, you'll have more good experiences and variety vs trying to make this feel like 'real' dating.[/QUOTE]
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I love
[QUOTE=KisaHero;5819084][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/28c11ec9-7aac-4db6-81b3-a775a756dc7d[/URL]
Wants 400 for uncovered sex, no CIP, willin to stay for a few hours. Didn't bother meeting because she was rude over text. Needs you to host.[/QUOTE]When these dumb c**ts default to stupid. They have no real selling skills and they always will show their pretty little selves damn quick. Had the same thing happen to me with a traveler over a rude text. They have zero patience. I have the mad money, however at least act like you're nice until I walk out the door! WTF?
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Report
[QUOTE=KisaHero;5819084][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/28c11ec9-7aac-4db6-81b3-a775a756dc7d[/URL]
Wants 400 for uncovered sex, no CIP, willin to stay for a few hours. Didn't bother meeting because she was rude over text. Needs you to host.[/QUOTE]I was talking to her before also, and mentioned 400 but didn't say it was BBFS. I countered and she said no. After a few weeks she message me again to see if we can work something out. She wants you to host and wants to be discreet. She won't give me her number so I might have to pass, because she was rude with her messages.
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Any one contacted them??
I contacted them and no one replied yet. Did anyone know the rates about them.
Chicagocutie.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aacdc577-6f4a-46a8-a64f-daa0c8f4b013[/URL]
Flirtiegirl.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bf55efe0-54be-439b-b1a1-d2b8f088c5c1[/URL]
Friendlytravelgirl.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7dfa1d92-cbc3-4775-a037-17b698c668be[/URL]
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GPS maybe
Looks like all the signs of GPS. Has anyone contacted her? [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/77512b11-1505-4141-85fa-1382052d1dc7[/URL].
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[QUOTE=FafaFooey;5818794]What happened with your Asian girl and what you're looking for does happen, but I think pushing for it with most of these girls will fall flat. If a girl's seen you a few times and genuinely enjoys the time with you, then it certainly happens that she'll drop her guard and get intimate without asking to be paid. It's happened with SA girls, traditional providers, and strippers. It's a thrill and big ego boost whenever it happens, but you have to keep it in perspective. In the vast majority of those girls' minds there's still the expectation that the payments, support, allowances, whatever are going to continue. There's a very, very small minority of girls who actually intend to end up traditionally dating the kinds of guys they meet on SA.
Obviously every situation is unique, but I would expect a lot of ghosts and blocks if you start suggesting unpaid playing after a date or two. Honestly, the gifts, dinners, and drinks aren't worth the investment in this game, at least for most of these girls. Maybe if you just budget for the hotel and allowances, you'll have more good experiences and variety vs trying to make this feel like 'real' dating.[/QUOTE]I agree with this for the most part. There are some exceptions however but those exceptions are in the small minority of men. I would say if you are a guy who is under 35, good looks, has a beautiful place in a trendy neighborhood, professional job (oral surgeon, Hot shot lawyer) many of these woman can be converted to freebies.
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What's going on?
Am I crazy or are men really paying these girls to just text them and send them pictures all these girls wants an "online relationship". I would never pay for pictures and texting smh that's why these girls are getting over inflated egos and power trips because guys paying them for the least.
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[QUOTE=JustinFields;5822084]I agree with this for the most part. There are some exceptions however but those exceptions are in the small minority of men. I would say if you are a guy who is under 35, good looks, has a beautiful place in a trendy neighborhood, professional job (oral surgeon, Hot shot lawyer) many of these woman can be converted to freebies.[/QUOTE]I won't argue with that. But I will argue that if I was that age and blessed with good looks and unlimited funds, I'd be using SA to find lots of no commitment variety outside my normal social circle, not as a way to find a full-time companion. If you've locked in one girl who you're buying dinners, drinks, and gifts for, is becoming your only outlet for play, and is possibly moving in with you, then you have a girlfriend, not a 'freebie'.
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[QUOTE=FafaFooey;5822847]I won't argue with that. But I will argue that if I was that age and blessed with good looks and unlimited funds, I'd be using SA to find lots of no commitment variety outside my normal social circle, not as a way to find a full-time companion. If you've locked in one girl who you're buying dinners, drinks, and gifts for, is becoming your only outlet for play, and is possibly moving in with you, then you have a girlfriend, not a 'freebie'.[/QUOTE]Yes and that is what I mean. Girls are attracted to men of power and money especially younger men with money and power.
I have dated many younger woman through SA and not through SA and have many of their insta and snapchats and I will tell you when it comes time to settle and show the world the 22 year old SB is not doing it with the 43 year old guy.
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[QUOTE=JustinFields;5822084]I agree with this for the most part. There are some exceptions however but those exceptions are in the small minority of men. I would say if you are a guy who is under 35, good looks, has a beautiful place in a trendy neighborhood, professional job (oral surgeon, Hot shot lawyer) many of these woman can be converted to freebies.[/QUOTE]I agree. I've been the beneficiary of that. The flip side is that a lot of the girls who are willing to convert to a real relationship aren't of the quality that I would consider going monogamous with. So what happens is they become progressively more aggressive and jealous, even stalkery at times.
I had a girl who didn't even want my money after awhile. She basically gave me the choice of going monogamous with her or never seeing her again. She wouldn't take p4p even though i know that was her arrangement with other guys.
That's why I use a lot of different methods to meet girls so I'm not tied into any one. SA, escorts, dating apps, even picking them up in cafes.
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Does anyone have any info on this one?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d12fa807-c863-414e-8905-2efeb412f353[/URL]
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Sa chicago area
[QUOTE=LookingForHer;5822633]Am I crazy or are men really paying these girls to just text them and send them pictures all these girls wants an "online relationship". I would never pay for pictures and texting smh that's why these girls are getting over inflated egos and power trips because guys paying them for the least.[/QUOTE]Girls have told me they drive from Texas, Atlanta, just to deal with guys in the Chicago region on SA because they overpay so much. I am sure that includes being dumb enough to also pay for pics and lesser things.
