Strip Club Reports

[QUOTE=GeeMoneyBags;5653378]Can anyone recommend me some tips on going to the strip club (platinum or Wax) to lose my VCard? I'm not much experienced in saying what I want with women, so I don't want to get hustled or anything. And I know you have to tip all sorts of different people for a VIP and such. I've only been to the club's Pin-Ups and Blue Flame once with a family member so I don't know what to really expect at the other ones. I posted on here around August regarding this same topic and some guys on here had reached out to me to accompany me. But I honestly wasn't prepared at the time and I lost contact with them. I don't think I want an escort because it feels a little too "personal" for me if that makes sense? I know I want to do this on Wednesday for sure at any time, so if anyone just happens to be going to a club that offers what I'm looking for in VIP or just has any recommendations. Lmk. I'm 26 and AA if that matters.[/QUOTE]I'm with everyone else who suggests to go get a real escort. I view strippers as a step up above escorts, that's just me. I don't view them as high end escorts because I reserve that for a different class of lady.

If you are still set on going to a strip club, you will need to change your MO. You need to be more comfortable with yourself and what you want. Clubs are about the hussle and getting you to give your money to them. They want to do the least amount of work to get the most amount of money from you. I've found that when you are upfront and spell a girl what you want, they can be accommodating. My MO won't help you, so I can't provide much info beyond this.

Stay safe out there!

[QUOTE=RondaColdSon;5660082]I went there around 8 pm and it was completely dead and only like 15 dancers. Also I didn't know that they didn't even get nude on the floor. What would be the best time to go?[/QUOTE]When I went to wax it was after midnight so I would say that going late is best. I had a great time with a girl who went by Emerald. She was a petite mixed girl and a total freak.

[QUOTE=Lyle416;5668627]It depends buddy. Some are okay with AAs and some aren't. But I wouldn't let it deter you as long you have money they'll rock with you. Rather than a pro I'd honestly would recommend going the civilian route in losing your V card. Meeting a church girl was sound advice. Library, church, grocery stores, etc. There's plenty of places to meet a decent woman.

However if you do want to go the pro route go with an MP or a stripper outside the club. I travel to Atlanta somewhat frequently so if you want to link send me a pm. We could go to wax or vivide I could probably help introduce you to some women though no guarantee. Anyway good luck my friend.[/QUOTE]I'm not trying to make excuses for myself, but it's not that easy for me to be that bold on the civilian route. The only language I am fluent in is Math and codes lmao. In all seriousness, I know it takes practice. Yea that sounds cool. I sent you a pm.

[QUOTE=Joesouncool;5668915]I'm with everyone else who suggests to go get a real escort. I view strippers as a step up above escorts, that's just me. I don't view them as high end escorts because I reserve that for a different class of lady.

If you are still set on going to a strip club, you will need to change your MO. You need to be more comfortable with yourself and what you want. Clubs are about the hussle and getting you to give your money to them. They want to do the least amount of work to get the most amount of money from you. I've found that when you are upfront and spell a girl what you want, they can be accommodating. My MO won't help you, so I can't provide much info beyond this.

Stay safe out there![/QUOTE]You are absolutely right. I need to be more comfortable with myself and what I want. I will easily get hustled if I do not. Appreciate you.

[QUOTE=GeeMoneyBags;5669379]You are absolutely right. I need to be more comfortable with myself and what I want. I will easily get hustled if I do not. Appreciate you.[/QUOTE]No worries dude. Asking for you want sexually is hard, no pun intended. You have to be comfortable in your own skin. If you aren't, you won't find what you want in a strip club, I'm comfortable with myself and with other people now. I told a girl my expectations just matter of fact Ly recently, now I'm in all her holes. If I hadn't read her body language, what she was saying, and said exactly what I want, it wouldn't have happened. Unfortunately, this is a learned trait. Don't worry, it just takes time.

Stay safe out there.

[QUOTE=Joesouncool;5670433]No worries dude. Asking for you want sexually is hard, no pun intended. You have to be comfortable in your own skin. If you aren't, you won't find what you want in a strip club, I'm comfortable with myself and with other people now. I told a girl my expectations just matter of fact Ly recently, now I'm in all her holes. If I hadn't read her body language, what she was saying, and said exactly what I want, it wouldn't have happened. Unfortunately, this is a learned trait. Don't worry, it just takes time.
[/QUOTE]Like Joe it's about getting comfortable with yourself. I used to go to strip clubs just for the stage tipping and table dancing. That's all I knew occurred in there, LOL. After a few years, I had a girl ask me about VIP (guess it always showed on my face I was a rookie prior to then because no one ever did). Since then, I've learned so many things. As Joe mentions. Now I usually go to the club when I need a new OTC / UTR regular. I'm currently enjoying my most FWB / GF / mistress experience ever. But it's totally whatever you're looking for / into / etc. To each their own.

Good luck with your V-card loss GeeMoneyBags!

All types of "-isms" exists but. If you're carrying yourself properly. It doesn't take long for someone to say to themselves. "Hey, wait a second, this guy is not what I expected. " So don't worry about who thinks what. When *YOU* walk into a place make sure *YOU* are looking good, smelling good, groomed perfectly, generous with your money, and friendly. You shouldn't have problems at most places.

[QUOTE=GeeMoneyBags;5659899]I am very attracted to Asian / Korean women, but I heard in Kamps that they do not like doing anything with AA. Idk how true that is or not so I'm asking. Southern Playmates had all the faces blurred out so it was eh to me. What does SA mean?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Datsurman;5673677]All types of "-isms" exists but. If you're carrying yourself properly. It doesn't take long for someone to say to themselves. "Hey, wait a second, this guy is not what I expected. " So don't worry about who thinks what. When *YOU* walk into a place make sure *YOU* are looking good, smelling good, groomed perfectly, generous with your money, and friendly. You shouldn't have problems at most places.[/QUOTE]I don't get the aversion to AA Men, the majority I've met, worked with and for + partied with were all very put together, groomed up and carried themselves with a quiet confidence.

That's got to be annoying as fuck, being lumped into a stereotype.

[QUOTE=Androo75;5676926]I don't get the aversion to AA Men, the majority I've met, worked with and for + partied with were all very put together, groomed up and carried themselves with a quiet confidence.

That's got to be annoying as fuck, being lumped into a stereotype.[/QUOTE]I think I might have found a good one at one of my favorite clubs. Looks right, nice breast Aug., can carry a conversation, appears open to OTC. The Ozy system comes thru again. I think that She's going to cost, but still, it wasn't much investment to get to this point. Go follow the Ozy system folks, it works. I think she'll be on the high end of the price I can pay, but still, for this old guy, it's a step in the right direction. Don’t worry, I’m sure it’s only about the money to her, but still it makes me feel good.

[QUOTE=Androo75;5676926]I don't get the aversion to AA Men
[/QUOTE]Ask girl why. I have twice. Hispanic chick said black dudes try to negotiate and intimidate. White chick showed me FBI stats showing blacks commit 55% of all murders and agg assaults tho blacks only 12 % of population. She said she wasn't racist just didn't feel safe. And those percentages are significantly higher in the city of Atlanta. Over 90% of all killing and agg assaults

[QUOTE=AaronHamlet;5678229]Ask girl why. I have twice. Hispanic chick said black dudes try to negotiate and intimidate. White chick showed me FBI stats showing blacks commit 55% of all murders and agg assaults tho blacks only 12 % of population. She said she wasn't racist just didn't feel safe.[/QUOTE]The truth cannot be racist. Facts cannot to be racist. I have no idea if that data is correct, but if it is, then citing such data is just stating reality.

And these girls are just playing the percentages and probabilities. It is like screening for terrorists at airports. Of course most people are cool and not a threat, but you have to focus on the groups that are more likely to blow up your plane.

Beyond that, some women love men with beards, and some love clean shaven. Some women prefer black dudes and some prefer white. And vice versa. So some of it is probably personal taste.

[QUOTE=Androo75;5676926]I don't get the aversion to AA Men, the majority I've met, worked with and for + partied with were all very put together, groomed up and carried themselves with a quiet confidence.

That's got to be annoying as fuck, being lumped into a stereotype.[/QUOTE]I must admit that these modern times have been rough for us AA men. However, one can control the stereotype. For example; I prefer 'ghetto' strip clubs like Blaze or The Blue Flame (I miss Foxy Lady and The Purple Onion). I don't actively seek rejection, so I stay away from those "fresh out of Suburbia" strip clubs. I'll catch those women later on at The Clermont Lounge. The bottom line is all about the hustle. My money lasts longer at the ghetto clubs. As for the women who have an aversion to us AA guys; There is a never-ending line of new flesh feeling this industry, she won't be needed.

[QUOTE=CocaCane;5678467]I must admit that these modern times have been rough for us AA men. However, one can control the stereotype. For example; I prefer 'ghetto' strip clubs like Blaze or The Blue Flame (I miss Foxy Lady and The Purple Onion). I don't actively seek rejection, so I stay away from those "fresh out of Suburbia" strip clubs. I'll catch those women later on at The Clermont Lounge. The bottom line is all about the hustle. My money lasts longer at the ghetto clubs. As for the women who have an aversion to us AA guys; There is a never-ending line of new flesh feeling this industry, she won't be needed.[/QUOTE]Nailed it bro! She won't be missed and for every one that doesn't see AA There are 10 more that will.

[QUOTE=Joesouncool;5678170]I think I might have found a good one at one of my favorite clubs. Looks right, nice breast Aug., can carry a conversation, appears open to OTC. The Ozy system comes thru again. I think that She's going to cost, but still, it wasn't much investment to get to this point. Go follow the Ozy system folks, it works. I think she'll be on the high end of the price I can pay, but still, for this old guy, it's a step in the right direction. Dont worry, Im sure its only about the money to her, but still it makes me feel good.[/QUOTE]Long time reader and 1st time posting.

Original from Ohio, but visit Atl often to see family and also to partake in the glorious day shift shenanigans at which ever establishment I can manage to sneak off to. LOL.

Strip clubs in Ohio suck! Glad Atl is only 1. 5 hr flight away.

Curious to know more about the Oxy method though.

It's just playing it cool, my man.

Use whatever method to play it cool. I have been going to some clubs long enough that I have regulars I go see. Sometimes I stop by just to see if any of them are working. When I'm waiting to see, I just chill at a table and actually casually do work on my phone. I look up to enjoy the beauty but mostly chill on my phone. I don't know why that works, but there are some girls who I guess are looking for those that aren't desperate (maybe? After a while, if the right girls are there, you get one or some that approach you. I've had some of the best girls just jump in the boat. And many times those become new regulars, if the vibe is right and I like them. I'm picky by the way. Have to be pretty spinners.

So just play it cool. Of course, you've got to be well clean, well-groomed, etc.

Happy mongering.

[QUOTE=GoodToKnow;5679423]Long time reader and 1st time posting.

Original from Ohio, but visit Atl often to see family and also to partake in the glorious day shift shenanigans at which ever establishment I can manage to sneak off to. LOL.

Strip clubs in Ohio suck! Glad Atl is only 1. 5 hr flight away.

Curious to know more about the Oxy method though.[/QUOTE]