Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

Yes, she's a pro, just using SA to advertise to wider range. But, at least she's real, like some of those "platonic" bitches that want the deposits or cash for listening to you.

[QUOTE=Murican314;4972012]I am almost positive this is the same girl, as some of those pics in SA look familiar to me from when I saw her FB profile (need to see if I can dig it up).

[URL]http://charlotte.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_e/2-hot-girls/613102308744[/URL]

There are a few reviews on the Gastonia board. I think she will do 120/140 for hhr.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Zucharelo;5094700]This is perfect! Did you find them on SA or how did you find them?[/QUOTE]That's good to know that couple is legit and it worked out very well for you. I couldn't gather enough courage.

[QUOTE=MtnPanda;5089644]Legit and has an incredibly tight kitty.[/QUOTE]Last year she was 19. She is from Salisbury, right?

[QUOTE=MilkyWy;5095558]Last year she was 19. She is from Salisbury, right?[/QUOTE]I saw her last year. Picked from her home in Salisbury. If it's same girl I agree she has tight kitty, flat chest.

[QUOTE=MilkyWy;5095557]That's good to know that couple is legit and it worked out very well for you. I couldn't gather enough courage.[/QUOTE]I liked that they were cautious with me too. They wanted to make sure I wouldn't do anything creepy or try and out them or anything. They have "kink" friends and "regular" friends and don't want their regular friends or their families to know what they like to do in the bedroom.

That cautiousness on their end got me me on board.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/53ba8f39-33fc-4622-8eca-cf15aa87e874[/URL]

[QUOTE=HoldenPierson;5095252]She's from my hometown. She reached out over Thanksgiving and gave me a sob story that she was behind on her rent. She asked me to front it for a meet when we got back Charlotte.

Scandalous ****.[/QUOTE]She turned so mean when I told her I didn't want to see her that I thought maybe she was working for someone.

Just be very cautious out there. There are so many scammers on SA and similar sites, it isn't funny any more. With holidays coming up, I wouldn't' be surprised if scams go up exponentially. Stay away from just about any platonic, "I don't meet now due to COVID, but we'll meet later. I promise. " I mostly stay away from one picture profiles. They don't even bother with making a real profile and uploading more pictures, because they know it will be gone in a few days, and than they will have to create the new one. Never, ever, EVER send any money up front. Not for their meal, not for gas, not for verification or to prove that you're serious. I tell them that I wouldn't be paying membership $90 per month, if I wasn't serious about it, and that they are the ones who need to prove their seriousness, since they have free accounts. It's hard finding someone honest. But after a lot of sifting and profile reporting, if you find one, treat her well.

[QUOTE=Sledg77;5096646]She turned so mean when I told her I didn't want to see her that I thought maybe she was working for someone.[/QUOTE]

This one is almost too eager to meet up. She is almost giving off Carmax Group vibe. But that profile has been active for. Long time.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ee92540e-fad0-c7ea-e50d-ac9a9a213784[/URL]

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;5096685]Just be very cautious out there. There are so many scammers on SA and similar sites, it isn't funny any more. With holidays coming up, I wouldn't' be surprised if scams go up exponentially. Stay away from just about any platonic, "I don't meet now due to COVID, but we'll meet later. I promise. " I mostly stay away from one picture profiles. They don't even bother with making a real profile and uploading more pictures, because they know it will be gone in a few days, and than they will have to create the new one. Never, ever, EVER send any money up front. Not for their meal, not for gas, not for verification or to prove that you're serious. I tell them that I wouldn't be paying membership $90 per month, if I wasn't serious about it, and that they are the ones who need to prove their seriousness, since they have free accounts. It's hard finding someone honest. But after a lot of sifting and profile reporting, if you find one, treat her well.[/QUOTE]I never pay anything up front. It's interesting though how many of these youngsters are willing to try to scam us poor old horny bastards. LOL.

I have been curious about the Seeking Arrangements (SA) website for sometime. I recently registered an account there so now I can see the profiles of women there. It is also helpful now when I read reviews on this thread with links as I can now click on the links and see the profile. I am intrigued, but $90 a month is steep when I read about so many scammers. I have RTFF back about 10 pages or so on this thread, but I still have some questions that I hope some of you who are experienced with SA can weigh in on.

1. Some (not many) of the girls say on their profiles that they are seeking "Friends with Benefits. " Are those girls more likely to be willing to have sex for money? Are there any other clues that you look for that suggest a higher probability that the girl will probably give us what we are really looking for?

2. So I see that so many new profiles that were just set up with today's date. Are these girls more likely to be scammers? Is there a better chance of striking gold with girls that have been there for awhile?

3. Some girls write that the guy should be direct and just tell them what they want. THAT makes me nervous. Do you think uncle LEO has set up any fake accounts on SA?

4. Any other suggestions for newbies to SA?

A few rules to start with.

1) Everyone has a sad story, no money up front, no exceptions.

2) If they jump to selling you pics / vids prior to meeting, scammer.

3) Usually 1 pic means they aren't serious, there are a few exceptions, but I usually don't spend much time on 1 pic profiles.

4) It's a lot of work finding someone that is serious and reasonable. I find most of the contacts these days are scammers, pic sellers, no touch but I'll listen to your problems, or girls who are bored sitting home and just playing with you. Play with them also. Promise them $1000 a week, car, condo, .

5) I do not discuss details of what I want or what I am willing to provide on the site. Go to txt and vet their number using various services where you can lookup phone numbers. Some will have services like Hushed where their name is masked, that is fine, I do also. If they immediately jump to meeting and having sex, they are likely semi or pros and doing every guy in town. Not what I am looking for on SA, move on.

6) I start out asking questions about what area of town they live in and what they know about CLT and require they send me 2 recent pics, one doing something I request like holding up the peace sign or giving me the finger. If they have tattoos, I ask for a pic of the tat and ask where it is so that I can vet any pics on their profile and any other pics they send me. A lot of girls use fake pics or pics from 5 or 10 yrs ago. That knocks out half or more.

7) Go fo the girl next door types. They one that look like professional models are usually scammers.

8) Be nice, it will get you a long way.

Your profile says you are a senior member, so I assume you have enough experience to guard your identify, etc.

I sure others can add. You'll learn as you go. I have 2 regulars who I met on the site and have been seeing for several years now. Kinda like looking for a wife except you don't have to part with half when it's over. Best of luck and I would not stay on more than 3 mos. Find a girl or two, drop your membership, rejoin as needed.

TB.

[QUOTE=JohnMarigold;5098378]I have been curious about the Seeking Arrangements (SA) website for sometime. I recently registered an account there so now I can see the profiles of women there. It is also helpful now when I read reviews on this thread with links as I can now click on the links and see the profile. I am intrigued, but $90 a month is steep when I read about so many scammers. I have RTFF back about 10 pages or so on this thread, but I still have some questions that I hope some of you who are experienced with SA can weigh in on.

1. Some (not many) of the girls say on their profiles that they are seeking "Friends with Benefits. " Are those girls more likely to be willing to have sex for money? Are there any other clues that you look for that suggest a higher probability that the girl will probably give us what we are really looking for?

2. So I see that so many new profiles that were just set up with today's date. Are these girls more likely to be scammers? Is there a better chance of striking gold with girls that have been there for awhile?

3. Some girls write that the guy should be direct and just tell them what they want. THAT makes me nervous. Do you think uncle LEO has set up any fake accounts on SA?

4. Any other suggestions for newbies to SA?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sledg77;5096646]She turned so mean when I told her I didn't want to see her that I thought maybe she was working for someone.[/QUOTE]Enjoy the ride buddy!

[QUOTE=ThunderBoat;5098623]A few rules to start with.

1) Everyone has a sad story, no money up front, no exceptions.

2) If they jump to selling you pics / vids prior to meeting, scammer.

3) Usually 1 pic means they aren't serious, there are a few exceptions, but I usually don't spend much time on 1 pic profiles.

4) It's a lot of work finding someone that is serious and reasonable. I find most of the contacts these days are scammers, pic sellers, no touch but I'll listen to your problems, or girls who are bored sitting home and just playing with you. Play with them also. Promise them $1000 a week, car, condo, .

5) I do not discuss details of what I want or what I am willing to provide on the site. Go to txt and vet their number using various services where you can lookup phone numbers. Some will have services like Hushed where their name is masked, that is fine, I do also. If they immediately jump to meeting and having sex, they are likely semi or pros and doing every guy in town. Not what I am looking for on SA, move on.

6) I start out asking questions about what area of town they live in and what they know about CLT and require they send me 2 recent pics, one doing something I request like holding up the peace sign or giving me the finger. If they have tattoos, I ask for a pic of the tat and ask where it is so that I can vet any pics on their profile and any other pics they send me. A lot of girls use fake pics or pics from 5 or 10 yrs ago. That knocks out half or more.

7) Go fo the girl next door types. They one that look like professional models are usually scammers.

8) Be nice, it will get you a long way.

Your profile says you are a senior member, so I assume you have enough experience to guard your identify, etc.

I sure others can add. You'll learn as you go. I have 2 regulars who I met on the site and have been seeing for several years now. Kinda like looking for a wife except you don't have to part with half when it's over. Best of luck and I would not stay on more than 3 mos. Find a girl or two, drop your membership, rejoin as needed.

TB.[/QUOTE]Even if they say to tell them what you want and what you will give. I got reported and banned from the sight for doing that.

[QUOTE=Sledg77;5097310]I never pay anything up front. It's interesting though how many of these youngsters are willing to try to scam us poor old horny bastards. LOL.[/QUOTE]It's a crazy world of sugaring! The site is full of scammers, con artists, pic sellers, pros, backpagers and many in the middle. Also there are diamonds in rough. But needs lots of work and patience. Sometimes I feel that real world dating is easier but you can't get 18-20 yrs old ones to date and mate. So is the chase. I have had my share of incidences. Here are some crazy ones 1) the SB I was working out deal, came with my doctor during my annual checkup. I learned she was a training to be PA. Not sure if she recognized me but I certainly did 2) I was threaded by calls and text by someone posing as father of the girl I was having meetup 3) at FC found SB had back surgery and had all bandages still on. Worst part she was in pain.

The list goes on. I'm sure many of you have run into unique situations.

[QUOTE=MilkyWy;5098791]It's a crazy world of sugaring! The site is full of scammers, con artists, pic sellers, pros, backpagers and many in the middle. Also there are diamonds in rough. But needs lots of work and patience. Sometimes I feel that real world dating is easier but you can't get 18-20 yrs old ones to date and mate. So is the chase. I have had my share of incidences. Here are some crazy ones 1) the SB I was working out deal, came with my doctor during my annual checkup. I learned she was a training to be PA. Not sure if she recognized me but I certainly did 2) I was threaded by calls and text by someone posing as father of the girl I was having meetup 3) at FC found SB had back surgery and had all bandages still on. Worst part she was in pain.

The list goes on. I'm sure many of you have run into unique situations.[/QUOTE]Also met a Sb who was into fucking males with strap-on. I declined but enjoyed fucking her a lot!

Does anyone have any info on this one? Is she still one of the biggest flakes on SA? I see her profile changes names and content almost monthly. It seems that only her profile changes, but not her flaky behavior, otherwise she wouldn't have to be reinventing names and creating new profile all the time.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c22c318f-6eef-440b-8ac5-ebcf5be4bc26[/URL]

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;5099976]Does anyone have any info on this one? Is she still one of the biggest flakes on SA? I see her profile changes names and content almost monthly. It seems that only her profile changes, but not her flaky behavior, otherwise she wouldn't have to be reinventing names and creating new profile all the time.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c22c318f-6eef-440b-8ac5-ebcf5be4bc26[/URL][/QUOTE]She replied to my initial message but has since gone crickets.

Is she still one of the biggest flakes on SA? - YES. You have to have a lot of patience and time on your hands to deal with her. She will commit, change, commit, change, forget, commit, change, not show, . You get the picture. Much easier girls to deal with out there.

TB.

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;5099976]Does anyone have any info on this one? Is she still one of the biggest flakes on SA? I see her profile changes names and content almost monthly. It seems that only her profile changes, but not her flaky behavior, otherwise she wouldn't have to be reinventing names and creating new profile all the time.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c22c318f-6eef-440b-8ac5-ebcf5be4bc26[/URL][/QUOTE]

Kaykay9817 I've chatted with this one but haven't met yet. We were supposed to previously but logistics got messed up. She seems to have a pro vibe to me. Any intel?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c6992df9-6b4e-4714-9b69-d35db3430040[/URL]

Thanks for the update. That's a shame, because she truly is not a bad parson, just such a damn flake. Sometimes I wonder how this chick ever makes any $$. I think I'll pass.

[QUOTE=ThunderBoat;5100032]Is she still one of the biggest flakes on SA? - YES. You have to have a lot of patience and time on your hands to deal with her. She will commit, change, commit, change, forget, commit, change, not show, . You get the picture. Much easier girls to deal with out there.

TB.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ScubaSteve100;5100040]Kaykay9817 I've chatted with this one but haven't met yet. We were supposed to previously but logistics got messed up. She seems to have a pro vibe to me. Any intel?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c6992df9-6b4e-4714-9b69-d35db3430040[/URL][/QUOTE]Looks really hot. I'm getting more and more tempted to subscribe to SA for a month or two.

[QUOTE=ThunderBoat;5100032]Is she still one of the biggest flakes on SA? - YES. You have to have a lot of patience and time on your hands to deal with her. She will commit, change, commit, change, forget, commit, change, not show, . You get the picture. Much easier girls to deal with out there.

TB.[/QUOTE]She changes profiles I've talked to her tries for higher admission, she will text.

Me from.

Time to time and has been reported with a.

Stinky fish box.

Stay Safe.

Devil.

[QUOTE=ScubaSteve100;5100040]Kaykay9817 I've chatted with this one but haven't met yet. We were supposed to previously but logistics got messed up. She seems to have a pro vibe to me. Any intel?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c6992df9-6b4e-4714-9b69-d35db3430040[/URL][/QUOTE]She posts on listcrawler out of concord. Forget her provider name.

[QUOTE=ScubaSteve100;5100040]Kaykay9817 I've chatted with this one but haven't met yet. We were supposed to previously but logistics got messed up. She seems to have a pro vibe to me. Any intel?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c6992df9-6b4e-4714-9b69-d35db3430040[/URL][/QUOTE]Found it.

[URL]https://escortbabylon.net/image_list/9802206861?gid=d6b76cd70510dd25bd561d69af8b4743[/URL]

Yes, for sure. I was lucky to meet her once, about a year ago. And we had a great time. She was on the pill, so BBFS was no problem, and total GFE with deep kissing and all. Besides, she had a clean recent test to prove. I intended to try DATY, but a slight odor convinced me that keeping my mouth at distance, was better idea. Instead, I wanted to see if she is 3, 4 or 5 finger club member. Took a little effort, and she was game, but my whole fist went in, and she was riding that fist with passion. She likes to be spanked hard, and is very submissive. Lot's of fun, if you can actually get her to meet. She's a great with texting, and keeping in touch, until it comes to actually showing up. I tried to connect with her on several more occasions. One time she was so convincing she'll show up, that I went and book the room. As you can imagine. I was waiting there for no reason. Just to hear form her, "sorry, I just can't make it. " No explanation or anything. She will use excuses from something came up, to I just got in a car wreck, and anything in between. Finally I decided that she's not worth the aggravation. Besides, she is not cheap. She want's 4 bills. If she was more on a budget, perhaps I would be little more tolerant. But she creates all the drama, and want's me to pay for it, as if that pussy is made out of gold. I haven't yet come across golden pussy, and hers certainly isn't. Golden Syndrome Pussy, yes for sure, many of them. Her rate is fair for what you get, but her attitude is not worth any price. I was hoping that with time she would mature and be little more responsible, but that doesn't seem to be the case. If anyone wants to give her a shoot, she's a lot of fun, but I am going to pass. Much better and less troubled pussy is to be found out there.

[QUOTE=Lildevil01;5100180]She changes profiles I've talked to her tries for higher admission, she will text.

Me from.

Time to time and has been reported with a.

Stinky fish box.

Stay Safe.

Devil.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;5100468]Yes, for sure. I was lucky to meet her once, about a year ago. And we had a great time. She was on the pill, so BBFS was no problem, and total GFE with deep kissing and all. Besides, she had a clean recent test to prove. I intended to try DATY, but a slight odor convinced me that keeping my mouth at distance, was better idea. Instead, I wanted to see if she is 3, 4 or 5 finger club member. Took a little effort, and she was game, but my whole fist went in, and she was riding that fist with passion. She likes to be spanked hard, and is very submissive. Lot's of fun, if you can actually get her to meet. She's a great with texting, and keeping in touch, until it comes to actually showing up. I tried to connect with her on several more occasions. One time she was so convincing she'll show up, that I went and book the room. As you can imagine. I was waiting there for no reason. Just to hear form her, "sorry, I just can't make it. " No explanation or anything. She will use excuses from something came up, to I just got in a car wreck, and anything in between. Finally I decided that she's not worth the aggravation. Besides, she is not cheap. She want's 4 bills. If she was more on a budget, perhaps I would be little more tolerant. But she creates all the drama, and want's me to pay for it, as if that pussy is made out of gold. I haven't yet come across golden pussy, and hers certainly isn't. Golden Syndrome Pussy, yes for sure, many of them. Her rate is fair for what you get, but her attitude is not worth any price. I was hoping that with time she would mature and be little more responsible, but that doesn't seem to be the case. If anyone wants to give her a shoot, she's a lot of fun, but I am going to pass. Much better and less troubled pussy is to be found out there.[/QUOTE]She's pretty, she's intelligent and she's fun, but not worth all the effort to meet with.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/53e3b5d9-da08-49b3-83ca-88a5f6c0860c[/URL]

They only want $300 each for the privilege of meeting and buying them dinner! LOLOLOLOLOL.

[QUOTE=ThunderBoat;5098623]A few rules to start with.

1) Everyone has a sad story, no money up front, no exceptions.

2) If they jump to selling you pics / vids prior to meeting, scammer.

3) Usually 1 pic means they aren't serious, there are a few exceptions, but I usually don't spend much time on 1 pic profiles.

4) It's a lot of work finding someone that is serious and reasonable. I find most of the contacts these days are scammers, pic sellers, no touch but I'll listen to your problems, or girls who are bored sitting home and just playing with you. Play with them also. Promise them $1000 a week, car, condo, .

5) I do not discuss details of what I want or what I am willing to provide on the site. Go to txt and vet their number using various services where you can lookup phone numbers. Some will have services like Hushed where their name is masked, that is fine, I do also. If they immediately jump to meeting and having sex, they are likely semi or pros and doing every guy in town. Not what I am looking for on SA, move on.

6) I start out asking questions about what area of town they live in and what they know about CLT and require they send me 2 recent pics, one doing something I request like holding up the peace sign or giving me the finger. If they have tattoos, I ask for a pic of the tat and ask where it is so that I can vet any pics on their profile and any other pics they send me. A lot of girls use fake pics or pics from 5 or 10 yrs ago. That knocks out half or more.

7) Go fo the girl next door types. They one that look like professional models are usually scammers.

8) Be nice, it will get you a long way.

Your profile says you are a senior member, so I assume you have enough experience to guard your identify, etc[/QUOTE]Thunder,

Thank you (and others who also chimed in) with your thoughtful reply to my questions. I will bite the proverbial bullet soon and try it for a month. I'm really intrigued by the girls who look like the girl-next-door type (not like professional models). I will report back when I have some experiences.

[QUOTE=Sledg77;5103592][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/53e3b5d9-da08-49b3-83ca-88a5f6c0860c[/URL]

They only want $300 each for the privilege of meeting and buying them dinner! LOLOLOLOLOL.[/QUOTE]Did you get to the part where they want you to cashapp them first? .

[QUOTE=ModelX;5103758]Did you get to the part where they want you to cashapp them first? .[/QUOTE]I didn't let the convo get that far.

Not enough dick.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2803ab4e-d32c-4adf-b311-eb873f357d57[/URL]

[QUOTE=Aafakljgadkg;5107107]Not enough dick.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2803ab4e-d32c-4adf-b311-eb873f357d57[/URL][/QUOTE]Chatted with her the other day. I'm sceptical.

Has anybody got any experience with Karah on WYP?

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;5062555]About a year ago, I met this spinner blond on SA, Jackie, from Salisbury area. She's real tiny, cute blond, 24 years old, reasonable donations. Has a few tattoos, clean, no demons, just a smoker. Real chill girl, and I never had any dishonesty experience with her. She told me she doesn't get much on SA any more, so she seems to be more of a UTR type. My phone busted and I lost all my contacts. I was just wondering, if anyone in here knows who I am talking about, and has her contact. I'd appreciate any lead or info. Please inbox me.[/QUOTE]Has a twin? Your description fits. PM for her #.

[QUOTE=HoldenPierson;5107125]Chatted with her the other day. I'm sceptical.[/QUOTE]She want 50 up front for gas. Hard pass for me.

Anyone notice that on the day prior to membership ending / renew that all of these once dead profiles now have that day as "recently active"?

I'm sure it's totally legit.

[QUOTE=HoldenPierson;5109438]Anyone notice that on the day prior to membership ending / renew that all of these once dead profiles now have that day as "recently active"?

I'm sure it's totally legit.[/QUOTE]Yes, same thing happens to me.

[QUOTE=HoldenPierson;5109438]Anyone notice that on the day prior to membership ending / renew that all of these once dead profiles now have that day as "recently active"?

I'm sure it's totally legit.[/QUOTE]After it end, I usually sees some very attractive members that were otherwise inactive.

[QUOTE=Aafakljgadkg;5117232]After it end, I usually sees some very attractive members that were otherwise inactive.[/QUOTE]Or not even real at all; some of the profile photo I got after my membership ends are definitely of a porn star.