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I can not stand it when someone I've had a visit with or a few convos just disappears. It's nice to have closure. Some of these Nando 1s will disappear for months then pop up. I recommend that you come up with an explanation of some sort that will preserve her dignity. Something like you already have other relationship (s) but you loved the time you spent together.some bullshit like that.
[QUOTE=Hernando;1384797]I can not stand it when someone I've had a visit with or a few convos just disappears. It's nice to have closure. Some of these Nando 1s will disappear for months then pop up. I recommend that you come up with an explanation of some sort that will preserve her dignity. Something like you already have other relationship (s) but you loved the time you spent together.some bullshit like that.[/QUOTE]I sent her an email trying to mix thanks with a reason why we shouldn't see each other again. Now, if she just takes the hint.
[QUOTE=Spitfire;1384561]All the time. It's a scam, don't reply to those. On most of them you can do a tineye or google image search and see the pictures are Filipina models.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I was fairly sure the pics were either BS or a sign they were 'semi-pro', just kinda curious if this was a common occurance, or if there was something in my profile to draw the extra attention. Sounds like the former.
[QUOTE=Hernando;1384797]I can not stand it when someone I've had a visit with or a few convos just disappears. It's nice to have closure. Some of these Nando 1s will disappear for months then pop up. I recommend that you come up with an explanation of some sort that will preserve her dignity. Something like you already have other relationship (s) but you loved the time you spent together.some bullshit like that.[/QUOTE]Closure is good. I've used the "I've met someone" a time or two myself. I guess my point was a lot of these girls will just stop all contact when they're done with you, which does suck. Castle, it sounds like you handled it about as well as it could be done.
I'm concentrating my efforts on 1 SB. As a result, I have one in the Blacksburg area that I'm no longer seeing to pass along to trusted SMs. Send a PM if interested.
Gentlemen,
I am certain none of you were holding your breath waiting for me to get back into the game, but I wanted to let my brothers know that I feel that I have sufficiently realigned my synapses, emerged from my "Clockwork Orange" style reprogramming, and am ready to suit up and hit the field again. I am once again scared of getting caught, am following my Best Practices outline of behaviors, and have a healthy awareness of all I stand to lose should I screw up. In short, I'm ready to leave the safe house and once again go into deep cover and fuck some babies.
In surely what is the most bizarre coincidence in a career that seems to be marked by many such events, I fired up the Batphone today just out of curiosity and what should I see but a text from my ATF. I'm not sure when she left it, since I have the lowest-tech phone made - one step above two soup cans and a string - but the gist of it was that she misses me and needs to see me as soon as possible. Ok, so the first part is nice, but the second part of her message can be read in a couple of ways: The Good Way - she has never had such fantastic sex with anyone else like she had with me, and is aching for some Scottie steel. The Bad Way - she's pregnant! I'm not overly concerned about the latter, since I am like the head of the CDC when it comes to safety, but it is a thought that has settled down in the back of my mind and is proving somewhat difficult to dislodge. I would appreciate any advice, observations, comments or general wisdom regarding my situation. I wish I had more to relate, but it was a terse message, which is not totally uncharacteristic of her, but not SOP either.
Setting all the above aside for the moment, [I]if[/I] I am jumping to the worst possible conclusion, and she just had temporary amnesia or something like that, I really would like to go back to the way things were with us. Some of you may think I'm a puss for wanting this, but I just can't help it. Seeing the text from her vividly brought back her sweet little face, and her glowing smile, and her sparkly brown eyes, and her cute spinner body, and her astonishing agility, and the awesome sex (with toys), and how much we connect on so many levels, and on and on. As I said to a fellow brother and friend, it took no effort whatsoever to remember everything about her. In a funny way, it may be the perfect denouement for me to come back from the brink of insanity to the safe harbor of my ATF. If it works out the way I hope, I may not stray this time, except, in the immortal words of Falstaff, "above once or twice a week."
We shall see, my brothers, we shall see. In the meantime, post up. Surely you can't all be spending quality time with Ms. Palm.
All the best,
Scott
Gentlemen,
I'm sorry if I seemed a little snippy at the end of my previous post. I did not scroll down to see that we have several new brothers posting here. Congratulations and welcome! It is not the easiest of avenues to walk, and certainly there will be some bruising if you do it to the best of your abilities, but I'm certain that the seniors will agree that the rewards are unparalleled.
Castle, nice job in providing a soft landing. As Lit said,"do no harm."
Bondo, it is a learning process, as has been said many times before. Get your chops out of the way, and you will be much more comfortable going forward.
Tigger, thanks for the pms, and you are my new hero. Out of curiosity, how do you clear your calendar? Are you an eccentric millionaire?
Newbies, there is much wisdom here. Avail yourselves of it, and don't be shy in pm'ing any of us.
I look forward to reading of your exploits, and sincerely hope I am not relating any sort of news about another little Scottie on the way any time soon, or in fact, ever.
Scott
Good to see ya Scotty!
The good thing is, I don't have the time I want, but just the time I need. That keeps me from going overboard. However, like catching some of these lovelies, getting time has the same requirement. Creativity. Just make sure to take care of home first and try to keep your pockets of time reasonable, not to mention, try to have some of the truth in your lie. Go to a restaurant or sports bar. It doesn't have to be the exact one you said and you don't have be alone.
BigTigg.
[QUOTE=F Scott; 1388415]Gentlemen,
Tigger, thanks for the pms, and you are my new hero. Out of curiosity, how do you clear your calendar? Are you an eccentric millionaire?
Scott[/QUOTE]
I haven't been on for a while mainly because I've had nothing to report. Since that initial, and aborative, foray into the SD / SB field, my luck has gone to zero. Out of half a dozen messages sent to various prospective SB's, I've gotten one reply. That reply was simply an indication that the young woman was interested in meeting, and I see from my "Sent Mail" file that she hasn't bothered to read the reply I sent her offering to meet. So, I'm guessing she's either found someone more "promising" (read 'willing to commit large sums of $$$ up front') , or she's having second thoughts about the whole SB scene. Ah, well guess I can keep hunting, huh?
Oh, and Meet#1 emailed me back, asking if I wanted to meet, plus texting me the same question.
So much for getting her to go away soft and easy.
[QUOTE=F Scott;1388404]. and what should I see but a text from my ATF. I'm not sure when she left it, since I have the lowest-tech phone made - one step above two soup cans and a string - but the gist of it was that she misses me and needs to see me as soon as possible. Ok, so the first part is nice, but the second part of her message can be read in a couple of ways: The Good Way - she has never had such fantastic sex with anyone else like she had with me, and is aching for some Scottie steel. The Bad Way - she's pregnant![/QUOTE]. Or most likely she needs some money LOL.
PS I've seen one girl 3-4 months then poof she vanishes for 3-4 months then poof she reappears for years
So I promised an update to this forum on how my weeks vacation from the warden has been progressing and I always try to keep my promises. First let me say that although I no longer live in the Richmond area, this particular forum has been an amazing help to me and I truly appreciate the advice of the pros like Lit, Scott, and Nando, so will continue to stay in touch through this forum even though my experiences may not be relevant to the Richmond area in particular. In other words, YMMV in dealing with the SB sites and other sources like CL and BP depending on where you live.
So as you may recall, the warden left for a week's vacation and I have been plotting my week of freedom for about a full 30 days before she left. I joined a SB site and posted another add on CL just rinsed what I could line up with the goal of getting laid at least 50% of the nights she is gone, every night by a different SB. So far. Here is where I Akkad of Wed night anyway:
Sat night. Got laid by the warden (OK, I know this one doesn't count but it happens so infrequently that I had to through it in anyway as one more benefit of her going on vacation.
Sunday. Headed out for an early afternoon first meet with a 30 something MILF that I met on the SD site. I had been emailing her for at least 3 weeks so was pretty sure we would go to the FC on the first date. She has 2 kids, face a 7-8, but could tell from her SB pictures she was going to be on the heavy side for me. We met at a very casual restaurant and discussed what our interests were. I was attracted to her, but the weight would be a negative for any LT potential. Long story short, she agreed to check into the closest notel and we had a pretty good time in the FC. I'd rate the sex a 6 overall though. Just can't get over the weight thing. But she is still 25 years youger than I am and her face was beatiful to look into while pumping away. It was fun, I have to admit, but will not likely call her again.
Monday- Had to drive about 90 minutes after work to meet another young thing from the SD site. I had also been emailing her for several weeks and could tell she was going to be a reasonably easy conquest. She is an AA that has just turned 21, and AGAIN, I could tell that she was going to be on the heavy side. But the age thing peaked my interest and I just had to check her out. Picked her up outside her parents house, and went to an AppleBees closeby to get acquainted. Spent about an hour talking and she was very fun to talk with. When I mentioned that we should continue our conversation at the nearby hotel, she did not hesitate to accept my offer. We spent the rest of the evening in the FC and I could tell from the start that she had not had sex in a while. She loved the oral part and really got into both giving and receiving it. In summary, she was a lot of fun but not what I am looking for in a LT relationship. I'm telling you all again, I am a BBW magnet and it's sad how out of shape some of these pretty young women are. But had a fun night anyway.
Tuesday. Had lunch with a young 20 something that I met off of CL. She is a MILF with 2 kids that is going through a divorce and has a lot of stress in her life. But WOW, what a knockout. She is a 9-10 in every respect. She was fun to talk to, beautiful blond hair and blue eyes to die for. AND NOT A BBW! She is the perfect match for what I'm looking for, but will take a little coaching to get into the FC. I have been emailing here back and forth for the last day, and an evening date looks promising. Hoping maybe that can still happen before the warden returns.
Tuesday night- Drove about 40 minutes after work to meet a 24 year old divorced MILF for dinner. I met her on the SD site but had not been emailing her until the last few days. She was a blast to talk with at the restaurant and I was very attracted to her. Body was a 7-8, face an 8, and personality a 10. Maybe has done this before a few times and could possibly be a semi-pro. She hesitated when offer to rent a room, saying she didn't expect to progress to that point on the first date. But the more we talked the more agreeable she became. We soon checked into the nearest hotel and the fun began. She had a great body, but not as into the sex as the 2 BBWs from earlier in the week. I couldn't tell if she ever climaxed or not, but I had fun and will likely return. She was fun to talk to and seemed very appreciative for the allowance.
Wed night- Tried to line up the blond MILF from CL but struck out. She said she was interested but couldn't meet that evening. Wasted night, but I looked up one of the Pros I have seen before just to get a quickie. I know that doesn't count towards my 50% goal, but it was fun anyway and no prep time required. They do have their advantages.
Thursday night (tonight). I have a date lined up with another CL response that has been emailing me for a couple of weeks now. It looks promising, but she is a little older than I'm looking for. From the sound of her emails, she is a divorced MILF, early 40s, and hasn't had sex for quite some time. Her pictures look pretty good, so will see what happens. I don't expect her to be LT.
Hoping the CL blond will agree to Friday night. The warden comes home Saturday. Wish me luck.
Sorry for the long post.
Alias.
[QUOTE=AliasSM; 1381051]Next week I plan to try the marathon of SDs. The warden leaves Sunday and I already have first meets firmly set up with SBs on Sunday and Monday, and potential dates not yet finalized with 3 other SBs the remainder of the week. My goal is to set up a meeting every evening, hoping to land at least 50% in the famous FC. I think that might be pushing it for me with my lack of honed fishing skills at this point, but I plan to try my hardest. I think several of these girls may be pros in disguise, so landing 50% may in fact be attainable, just not leading to any future LT relationships.
I will of course report back to this forum.
Alias.[/QUOTE]
Alias,
What a week so far! Talk about jumping into the deep end.
Way to go, my brother. Can't wait for the updates,
Scott
Welcome back Scotty! Hopefully she misses you on all levels.not the least of which is $$$. Probably what happened is she found another boy.maybe IRL to date and she pulled back from the pretend world of Sugar Dating. And he didn't pan out, soo she realized that with you she has a sure thing.you love her and treat her well.
A Story.I had a Nando 1 who was a cheap lay but I developed some feelings for her in spite her trashy ways. About a year ago she disappeared.no contact, returned calls.nothing. So I got over it after a while and now have my fabulous ATF Nando 3. Several months ago I got repeated texts, calls, and even calls to my office and personal cell. All I could think about was that I had a baby that she wanted support for. Shit! I finally called back and thank God she wasn't pregnant / delivered, but she needed Money. What a shocker since she always needed $$$. I said no and the calls continued.in fact accelerated, so I called to sternly tell her to bug off. She said she had pictures. Talk about my ball sack shrivelling up like a prune. She wanted a small amount of $ so I agreed "this one last time " Well, you can guess what happened. There was another threat-which I just said do what you got to do, and I will do mine. Fortunately she hasn't been back but I will get the police involved if I have to. The moral to this story is.as long as they know who you are you are at risk. It goes back to desperation and class. As long as your SB has class and is not desperate then you should be safer from blackmail.
Welcome back Scott! I knew we'd see you again soon!
I've been on a roller coaster ride with my current fav for the past couple months. There doesn't seem to be anything in between as things are either great or awful. I'm not sure how much more my old ticker can take. Such is the danger of gettting emotionally attached I suppose. In the past I've been threatened myself and it always seems to come down to "do what you have to do and so will I" as Nando says. Yet another reason to not let the SB's know anything about you. Of course for me it's do as I say, not as I do.
Alias is my new hero on this board! Damn man. You figured this shit out pretty quick! I think two in one week is my all time record. Good for you. Just be careful when the warden gets back into town. They have a way of seemingly knowing what goes on when we stray.
Congratulations Alias!
Not only is it impressive to line up so many girls, but to perform that many days in a row is awe inspiring. Do you like to use any chemical enhancement to supplement your natural function?
Don't you love the ad for Vitamin V warning us of erections lasting more than 4 hours? If that happened I would have to go through the black book to page ten before the effects wear off.