[QUOTE=ShootAndRoll;6795666]Over the years. I have meet some interesting providers. Some are successful vs. Some are in very difficult situations. Most of the time I get the same answer I'm just trying to get into a better spot in life. Only doing this for a short time then getting out.
It's my choice where I go just like it's my choice who I help.. I've known this provider going back to 2017 ish. Always enjoy visiting however, over the years she's gotten involved with recreational medication and it turned into habit forming medication. The Kitty is fantastic. I always get exactly what I want. I've always kept the relationship, very business professional, making sure not to overstep my boundaries. I'm also not looking for a relationship with a provider for lots of reasons.
I've helped her out with clothing, school supplies, food. Last time I got a text from her asking for some help. I drove out to Baltimore, which was a lengthy drive for me. When I get there, I'm wondering if she's going to do the same thing she did the previous time.
She gets in the car while she's talking on the phone. There's no pleasantry. When I get over to Walmart she's still talking on the phone. I'm growing a little annoyed. She gets some items inside the store when we get to the checkout counter I do the donation part. Then back to her place..[/QUOTE]I never help out without some sort of pay back. It's just plain psychology 101. It teaches them that nothing is free. Even if it's a BBBJ in the car, it teaches them there is a cost to help. I agree, that sort of rudeness deserves being cut-off. But knowing these girls, they will come back to you the next time they need something. Just add the cost of the previous help to the next visit, ie. She needs to go above and beyond the usual. Maybe she doesn't do or like speaking greek or ATM but that would seem like reasonable payback for debts incurred. This also opens the door to these activities in the future. Every action has a consequence and I try to figure out reasonable paybacks for debts incurred, because trust me, they will come back to you for help in the future.