"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Why not meet her in a public location and vet her to see if her pics are accurate and her story makes sense when you're in person and can ask her questions she has to answer in real time?

[QUOTE=MathMan;2761558]Hello sugar daddies.

Around Christmas I answered an ad on Craigslist.

Turns out she wants a sugar daddy. Thinking I'd just play along and nothing would ever come of it we start this email conversation. We then spoke on the phone. And she has sent me a ton of pics of herself, both clothed and naked. To be honest I'm starting to crush on this girl. She is asking me to come by her house all the time now.

What are the rules of engagement? We have never spoken money other than the one time she said she needed a SD. How do I know if I'm one of many guys she's playing? I have face pics and her cell number and email address. Is there a place I can display this info and everyone can see if she's known to the board?

She lives in Glen Alen off of Gaskins Rd in a very, very nice house with her "brothers". What do I do??[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=RubberyMan;2760889]Yes, but that's pretty much what they are after. It's accepted that there will always be some women who are desperate. But what these people are after is to get rid of most of the serial daters. For them if that means getting rid of 90% of guys, so be it. The women don't like the serial daters, the guys with money don't like the competition from younger guys offering less $$ So, they don't care if low price SDs and serial daters leave. It's the whole point. Or if they don't, what they want to do is get the new women more readily available for the older guys, leaving a pool of nando1's for the rest of us.[/QUOTE]They should look for a hubby / bf who is faithful!

[QUOTE=MathMan;2761558]Hello sugar daddies.

Around Christmas I answered an ad on Craigslist.

Turns out she wants a sugar daddy. Thinking I'd just play along and nothing would ever come of it we start this email conversation. We then spoke on the phone. And she has sent me a ton of pics of herself, both clothed and naked. To be honest I'm starting to crush on this girl. She is asking me to come by her house all the time now.

What are the rules of engagement? We have never spoken money other than the one time she said she needed a SD. How do I know if I'm one of many guys she's playing? I have face pics and her cell number and email address. Is there a place I can display this info and everyone can see if she's known to the board?

She lives in Glen Alen off of Gaskins Rd in a very, very nice house with her "brothers". What do I do??[/QUOTE]Posting on CL, sending naked pics, living with brothers are red flags. If she wants a SD she should get an account on SA. Meet her in person.

Bros,

I was divorced, so I played the bowl with my real info. I got the most premium pussy for FREE. I turned my SB to SO and its been great. She's 10/10/10/10+. What I didn't expect was her level of crazy. She's the hottest girl I've been with and for the longest I assumed she was playing the field. That's when I tried to break up with her and all hell broke loose. Picked up that these pretty girls have more insecurities than you could imagine. Be careful what you ask for. LOL. It's all fun and games until emotions get involved.

The benefits outweigh the bad. I'm in the gym like crazy, working harder to earn more money. We vacation a lot. Life just got better all around with a younger girl on my arm. Seeing her naked perfect ass in the morning makes life worth it. The creator of SA should get more recognition than Steve Jobs. LOLOLOL.

Brothers,

I've just wasted almost a month trying to run a super-sweet little baby to ground, and have come to realize that she is just looking to scam SDs out of spa visits, meals and other swag, with no intention of removing her panties. She is constantly on the site so I am guessing I am not the only one she has tried to run her scam on.

Any Chicago-based members out there, PM me and I'll share her profile name and link. Luckily, I've spent too long in the Bowl to have fallen for her ploys, but newer club members may not be so canny.

Keep up the good work.

Scott.

Tried to break up with her and all Hell broke loose?

Now that's a story that should be shared for the collective wisdom of the bowl and one I'd enjoy hearing.

Unless you decide to keep her long term, I suspect it will only get more difficult with time. Wait long enough, and she might think she's entitled to prick holes in your condom, or grab them out of the trash when you're done with them.

Are you "clipped"? If not, get ready for the possibility of really having to figure out baby names for real, and not just as a game with your girl (and I mean a name for your offspring not your sugar baby).

Sounds like your SB has truly fallen for you. Based on my prior experience, this will help her rationalize even the craziest of crazy, and will get worse and harder to break up with as time goes on. As her craziness increases because she feels you slipping away, she will age and the younger, cooler ones with hotter tighter bodies will make your desire to move on and find a replacement hard to resist.

Sure, there are lots of Nando 1 and crazies in the bowl, but also just enough hot, cool young coeds/grad students who really are interesting and fun to hang out with that make being monogomous almost impossible for someone who knows what the bowl can offer.

Staying unmarried, not having kids, and getting clipped is the key to unending sex with some of the hottest women the bowl can offer.

Best of luck to you brother and second the sentiment about the creator of SA.

[QUOTE=HoyaSvnFgr;2762622]Bros,

I was divorced, so I played the bowl with my real info. I got the most premium pussy for FREE. I turned my SB to SO and its been great. She's 10/10/10/10+. What I didn't expect was her level of crazy. She's the hottest girl I've been with and for the longest I assumed she was playing the field. That's when I tried to break up with her and all hell broke loose. Picked up that these pretty girls have more insecurities than you could imagine. Be careful what you ask for. LOL. It's all fun and games until emotions get involved.

The benefits outweigh the bad. I'm in the gym like crazy, working harder to earn more money. We vacation a lot. Life just got better all around with a younger girl on my arm. Seeing her naked perfect ass in the morning makes life worth it. The creator of SA should get more recognition than Steve Jobs. LOLOLOL.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FScott;2762896]Brothers,

I've just wasted almost a month trying to run a super-sweet little baby to ground, and have come to realize that she is just looking to scam SDs out of spa visits, meals and other swag, with no intention of removing her panties. She is constantly on the site so I am guessing I am not the only one she has tried to run her scam on.

Any Chicago-based members out there, PM me and I'll share her profile name and link. Luckily, I've spent too long in the Bowl to have fallen for her ploys, but newer club members may not be so canny.

Keep up the good work.

Scott.[/QUOTE]Sounds like a regular baby to me. They sometimes start out with baby sugar tactics like this. Find out her angle than get to the vagina. Update us on the status. Happy New Year!

[QUOTE=HoyaSvnFgr;2763063]Sounds like a regular baby to me. They sometimes start out with baby sugar tactics like this. Find out her angle than get to the vagina. Update us on the status. Happy New Year![/QUOTE]If her panties aren't on my bedpost by the second date she will be seeing someone else. Happy New Year Brother Scott. Spa visits and expensive outings do not commence until that goal is in the bag. Why spend any money on a girl who might likely play us? A coffee shop M&G is what they get for stage 1.

[QUOTE=IluvSmellyFish;2762927]Tried to break up with her and all Hell broke loose?

Now that's a story that should be shared for the collective wisdom of the bowl and one I'd enjoy hearing.

Unless you decide to keep her long term, I suspect it will only get more difficult with time. Wait long enough, and she might think she's entitled to prick holes in your condom, or grab them out of the trash when you're done with them.

Are you "clipped"? If not, get ready for the possibility of really having to figure out baby names for real, and not just as a game with your girl (and I mean a name for your offspring not your sugar baby).

Sounds like your SB has truly fallen for you. Based on my prior experience, this will help her rationalize even the craziest of crazy, and will get worse and harder to break up with as time goes on. As her craziness increases because she feels you slipping away, she will age and the younger, cooler ones with hotter tighter bodies will make your desire to move on and find a replacement hard to resist.

Sure, there are lots of Nando 1 and crazies in the bowl, but also just enough hot, cool young coeds/grad students who really are interesting and fun to hang out with that make being monogomous almost impossible for someone who knows what the bowl can offer.

Staying unmarried, not having kids, and getting clipped is the key to unending sex with some of the hottest women the bowl can offer.

Best of luck to you brother and second the sentiment about the creator of SA.[/QUOTE]You just hit it on the head. No worries about poking condoms, we got tested & stopped using them when we got serious. We rely on the pull out method only.

On a drunken night, she did express this fear of me leaving her for someone younger. Not sure why the concern this early on. She's 23. I don't foresee dropping her like a bad habit anytime soon. LOL. She gets a little bitchy sometimes. I take it as the behavior that comes with being a woman and ignore her mostly. I'm really trying to keep things as fun as possible.

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2760719]Maybe I am different than most, but I have no problem pounding that pussy when my Baby is on her period. Actually it is a little kink I kindof enjoy. I might pass on oral on her, but all else is a go. I make it clear that Menses is not an acceptable excuse to miss pleasing Daddy. For you squeamish guys who aren't into that, the least she can do is service you in other ways. My schedule is so tight that I do not have flexibility to avoid 1 week / month. After all, an arrangement means full service.[/QUOTE]I would have love to do that but this girl gets really in to it with good oral and can't get full satisfied with just Or** for me. I can't really enjoy when it is that time, I had one did no tell me it was that time and complained of being sore and hurting, rather wait for full course.

You're a braver man than me for relying on the pull out method.

Like a game of Russian Roulette. One misstep, she won't have to ever fear you leaving her for someone younger since while you might move onto another baby, she'll always be connected to you by a living child that will keep the two of you connected financially, emotionally, and mentally.

I am to much of a coward to play Russian roulette like that - and even if the round was a blank, I would get frightened by the loud noise.

[QUOTE=HoyaSvnFgr;2763082]You just hit it on the head. No worries about poking condoms, we got tested & stopped using them when we got serious. We rely on the pull out method only.

On a drunken night, she did express this fear of me leaving her for someone younger. Not sure why the concern this early on. She's 23. I don't foresee dropping her like a bad habit anytime soon. LOL. She gets a little bitchy sometimes. I take it as the behavior that comes with being a woman and ignore her mostly. I'm really trying to keep things as fun as possible.[/QUOTE]

My take is that different babies have different games. This one might be the type that needs a SD to drop $1. 5 k on first before she will spread her legs so she can be sure that the SD is truly invested in her. She might be the kind that is looking to land a guy for real on the site to make her own. Or as you might be pointing out, she might just be looking to score some money, spa trips and stuff off of guys who are suppossedly so rich that they won't miss a few $100 here and there.

Chances are, its probably some combination of all of the above. So at the end of the day, it sounds like she isn't worth the time, effort, or money for you since you can probably find another equally hot baby to fill her spot who will drop her panties without as much work.

Isn't the bowl a beautiful thing? We get older, they all stay the same age!

[QUOTE=FScott;2762896]Brothers,

I've just wasted almost a month trying to run a super-sweet little baby to ground, and have come to realize that she is just looking to scam SDs out of spa visits, meals and other swag, with no intention of removing her panties. She is constantly on the site so I am guessing I am not the only one she has tried to run her scam on.

Any Chicago-based members out there, PM me and I'll share her profile name and link. Luckily, I've spent too long in the Bowl to have fallen for her ploys, but newer club members may not be so canny.

Keep up the good work.

Scott.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MathMan;2761558]Hello sugar daddies.

Around Christmas I answered an ad on Craigslist.

Turns out she wants a sugar daddy. Thinking I'd just play along and nothing would ever come of it we start this email conversation. We then spoke on the phone. And she has sent me a ton of pics of herself, both clothed and naked. To be honest I'm starting to crush on this girl. She is asking me to come by her house all the time now.

What are the rules of engagement? We have never spoken money other than the one time she said she needed a SD. How do I know if I'm one of many guys she's playing? I have face pics and her cell number and email address. Is there a place I can display this info and everyone can see if she's known to the board?

She lives in Glen Alen off of Gaskins Rd in a very, very nice house with her "brothers". What do I do??[/QUOTE]Thanks for the alert Mathman! I appreciate the heads-up and, thanks to you, realize that I have a UTR on my hands that might soon become Nando1 if she hasn't already. In fact, she may have already graduated to FB and be well above the radar as far as I know. If anyone that's been with her would like to compare notes, please PM me.

Thanks again Mathman for bringing this to our attention.

Ok, so I know these girls post pics with their lips pursed in an attempt to make their lips look fuller, but more often than not I can't help but think it looks like they are trying to smell their upper lip.

Just saying.

I have been on SA for a third time. Not sure if anyone else is seeing this but I am getting random SA girls giving me access to their photos without me having contacted them. They.

Also live very far away. I am guessing these are spammers. This site is going down hill fast! Between the huge increase in pros now this, what the hell is going on.