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This is probably getting boring for you guys but I am not bored. LOL. Had a day off during the week. SO was gone so my SB and I had a nice overnight. Good time and my CTF is down of about 1 k now. LOL.
[QUOTE=LikeMike1963;2752199]Had a meet with my SB th either day. Great sex. Then some cuddle and a nap!. Great afternoon. And my CTF is down to like $1200 now. LOL. Suppose to do an overnight this weekend. My SO is out of town. So my CTF will be even better!.[/QUOTE]
Last minute my ATF told me, started that time again thing today, trying to contact reserves no luck yet. I need a last minute reliable one to keep me drained on a day like today. Scheduled for next week.
[QUOTE=IluvSmellyFish;2757884]Welcome to the bowl brother. Glad to hear you're enjoying it.
Like you, I consider variety to be the spice of life. If I didn't, I'd be happy sitting at home with my SO.
FM, is correct, at least on this board, most brothers stay within a certain allowance range. That being said, allowance varies significantly from region to region. For example, allowance in NYC / DC are anywhere between 50 - 200 percent higher than their sister cities of Philly / Baltimore, which are only about an hour away. Regardless of local though, there are folks out there with ridiculous amounts of money, and so while you might be providing an allowance that is more than others, there is always someone out there who will be willing to pay more.
Like you, I tend to be a serial dater and ladies often do not last in my rotation for very long. In my humble opinion, I don't see anything wrong with that since like any relationship, if one doesn't like the other person enough to want to maintain contact, they shouldn't be feel obligated to see them regularly just because they met on a sugar site vs. Another means (e.g. tinder or backpage - although back in the day, I did have a regular or two from bp that I saw when they were in my town or when I was in theirs). Besides, its tough to know whether you want to see someone on a regular basis until you've sampled their skills, and its a tough sell to convince a pot to go to the FC if you tell her that if she doesn't live up to expectations that she will be kicked to the curb.
The main downside to this is that once many of these young ladies leave the bowl entirely if they go to the FC with one of us but never hear back because the skills behind closed doors wasn't worth the allowance that would be required for a long term sugar relationship.
While this is unfortunate for other brothers who may not have had a chance to sample the young lady's skills because she felt jilted by the fact that she felt like someone "hit it and split it," by no means does that make me feel badly for her. I always provide the allowance that I promise, and while they may feel badly that I never called them again, and other brothers may be upset they feel my actions caused a young pot to leave the bowl. I am unapologetic.
At the end of the day, the sugar bowl is what it is. I've had a few long term arrangements that have lasted over six months. A majority of my FC trips were one and done though, and yes, unless the baby was a utr, more often than not, the baby removed their profile or the profile has remained unchecked for months.
Long story short, congrats on your success in the bowl. Enjoy it for what its worth. After having played in it for what I would consider a decent amount of time, I have reached the conclusion that every sugar relationship is different and is tailored to the SB / SD.
Best of luck to you, and keep reporting back on your experiences, sucesses and most importantly, your failures, since it will help is all improve upon our own game.[/QUOTE]One of the consequences is that women are evolving strategies to make it more difficult for serial daters. Asking for positive I'd, STI tests, proof of income. Of course, at the moment this is small, relatively. But as it becomes more widely talked about on the blogs, the more they will ask for it.
Of course, that will mean they will get fewer dates, as most guys will refuse. But the proponents of these ideas say that's the whole point. They say they want to clear out all the serial daters, and if asking for the personal information achieves that, then bring it on.
It's not only some women pushing this, older guys with a bit more money who are missing out on younger pussy to serial daters also see some advantage here.
My new baby informed me about a week ago that is was "that time". She then added that. " of course that does not mean I can't do something for you" Sb heaven at the moment anyway!
[QUOTE=S2568;2759311]Last minute my ATF told me, started that time again thing today, trying to contact reserves no luck yet. I need a last minute reliable one to keep me drained on a day like today. Scheduled for next week.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=S2568;2759311]Last minute my ATF told me, started that time again thing today, trying to contact reserves no luck yet. I need a last minute reliable one to keep me drained on a day like today. Scheduled for next week.[/QUOTE]New Year New SD syndrome?
Sounds like the SDs aren't the only one playing the numbers.
Of course, could be a lot of new SDs joined after the new year too and contacting girls.
So After the AM hack, I've been very reluctant to join any sites.
These SA sites. How much verifiable info do they require? Anyone have strategies to avoid leaving yourself out there like that, or incriminating card charges?
Of course I am more than happy to RTFM if there's a FAQ for that.
[QUOTE=RubberyMan;2759378]One of the consequences is that women are evolving strategies to make it more difficult for serial daters. Asking for positive I'd, STI tests, proof of income. Of course, at the moment this is small, relatively. But as it becomes more widely talked about on the blogs, the more they will ask for it.
older guys with a bit more money who are missing out on younger pussy to serial daters also see some advantage here.[/QUOTE]This idea won't gain traction because too few guys will do it. I have never had an SB ask for I.d. Or an STD test in 10 yrs. The thing is, these girls need and want the money. Most do not have the staying power to make demands. The small number of guys paying moderate and over can fight over the half dozen 10's out there. Also, you can't pay too much attention to the nut bags on the SA Blog. If they had arrangements they wouldn't be hanging out with open profiles on the blog. It's OK to have high expectations, but most won't get there unless they are top models.
[QUOTE=S2568;2759311]Last minute my ATF told me, started that time again thing today, trying to contact reserves no luck yet. I need a last minute reliable one to keep me drained on a day like today. Scheduled for next week.[/QUOTE]Maybe I am different than most, but I have no problem pounding that pussy when my Baby is on her period. Actually it is a little kink I kindof enjoy. I might pass on oral on her, but all else is a go. I make it clear that Menses is not an acceptable excuse to miss pleasing Daddy. For you squeamish guys who aren't into that, the least she can do is service you in other ways. My schedule is so tight that I do not have flexibility to avoid 1 week / month. After all, an arrangement means full service.
[QUOTE=FredMoore;2760710]This idea won't gain traction because too few guys will do it. I have never had an SB ask for I.d. Or an STD test in 10 yrs. The thing is, these girls need and want the money. Most do not have the staying power to make demands. The small number of guys paying moderate and over can fight over the half dozen 10's out there. Also, you can't pay too much attention to the nut bags on the SA Blog. If they had arrangements they wouldn't be hanging out with open profiles on the blog. It's OK to have high expectations, but most won't get there unless they are top models.[/QUOTE]Yes, but that's pretty much what they are after. It's accepted that there will always be some women who are desperate. But what these people are after is to get rid of most of the serial daters. For them if that means getting rid of 90% of guys, so be it. The women don't like the serial daters, the guys with money don't like the competition from younger guys offering less $$ So, they don't care if low price SDs and serial daters leave. It's the whole point. Or if they don't, what they want to do is get the new women more readily available for the older guys, leaving a pool of nando1's for the rest of us.
[QUOTE=FredMoore;2760719]Maybe I am different than most, but I have no problem pounding that pussy when my Baby is on her period. Actually it is a little kink I kindof enjoy. I might pass on oral on her, but all else is a go. I make it clear that Menses is not an acceptable excuse to miss pleasing Daddy. For you squeamish guys who aren't into that, the least she can do is service you in other ways. My schedule is so tight that I do not have flexibility to avoid 1 week / month. After all, an arrangement means full service.[/QUOTE]On the third or fourth date my SB indicated it might be her time. I told her I was cool with it and spread out a towel on my bed. She was just starting so there wasn't much volume. After the session we cleaned up a bit. She really liked the colors and pattern of the towel so I folded it up and gave it to her. Hopefully she will have good memories when she wraps it around her after getting out of the shower.
[QUOTE=RubberyMan;2759378]One of the consequences is that women are evolving strategies to make it more difficult for serial daters. Asking for positive I'd, STI tests, proof of income. Of course, at the moment this is small, relatively. But as it becomes more widely talked about on the blogs, the more they will ask for it.
Of course, that will mean they will get fewer dates, as most guys will refuse. But the proponents of these ideas say that's the whole point. They say they want to clear out all the serial daters, and if asking for the personal information achieves that, then bring it on.
It's not only some women pushing this, older guys with a bit more money who are missing out on younger pussy to serial daters also see some advantage here.[/QUOTE]What man would divulge his proof of finances to a baby? That's crazy. That could be abused by others having no intention of meeting, but want the information. There could be professional hackers or just thieves wanting the information and all male.
Get a prepaid visa. Use your SD email. Pick a fake address. You will have to use this address when registering your prepaid card. But use the same address on SA. Pick a house 5 doors down from you. Also do not use your real name.
[QUOTE=HamboneVA;2760229]So After the AM hack, I've been very reluctant to join any sites.
These SA sites. How much verifiable info do they require? Anyone have strategies to avoid leaving yourself out there like that, or incriminating card charges?
Of course I am more than happy to RTFM if there's a FAQ for that.[/QUOTE]
Hello sugar daddies.
Around Christmas I answered an ad on Craigslist.
Turns out she wants a sugar daddy. Thinking I'd just play along and nothing would ever come of it we start this email conversation. We then spoke on the phone. And she has sent me a ton of pics of herself, both clothed and naked. To be honest I'm starting to crush on this girl. She is asking me to come by her house all the time now.
What are the rules of engagement? We have never spoken money other than the one time she said she needed a SD. How do I know if I'm one of many guys she's playing? I have face pics and her cell number and email address. Is there a place I can display this info and everyone can see if she's known to the board?
She lives in Glen Alen off of Gaskins Rd in a very, very nice house with her "brothers". What do I do??
Agree with FM here. Also if a guy is willing to pay a higher allowance, not sure if he cares that I am in the 200-400 range only. As a guy who has money to throw around, he will get the baby of his choice at the high or substantial levels. Unless the pot wants something more than money.
While there are some guys who might be willing to share there personal info, I can't imagine the pool being very large. Anyone who has made it to the point in life where they can spend the kind of disposable income on a baby should either be smart enough to know the risks involved with divulging that info to just anyone or gotten burned by disclosing his info to the wrong woman.
Of course there are those that use SA truley as an alternative dating site. Guys who meet a baby and then establish a true relationship with them. There is no way a SD who has a SO and is not in an open relationship can compete with a SD who is single and can offer the prospect of a real relationship. These guys can provide their real info without any real repercussions. No way other guys who need discretion can compete with that regardless of age, allowance, looks or game. If a guy is reasonable successful, and willing to expose his real information on the site and provide a decent allowance with a prospect of a real relationship, than the bowl is a dream of endless pussy come true.
That being said, I've taken more than my fair share of babies to the FC without providing any real info. While the hardened utr pros or serial / professional babies may require it, the college coed or first year grad student has never asked me. When I take them to an upscale restaurant and can hold a normal conversation, that's the only vetting process I've ever needed. I've also had a few long term relationships that have lasted more than a few months when the baby was cool enough, hot enough, and good enough in bed. Of course if I was going to be happy with one lady, then I wouldn't be on SA in the first place.
That's just my experience though. If another brother wants to show his paystub, linked in profile, and give his baby his credit card, more power to him since he will probably land that 10/10/10 baby, but also land the headaches that come with her as well. I suspect that the more likely scenario is that a player like that runs through babies faster than I can m&g them and doesn't really care what I'm doing since my situation makes him all that more appealing to the pots.
[QUOTE=FredMoore;2760710]This idea won't gain traction because too few guys will do it. I have never had an SB ask for I.d. Or an STD test in 10 yrs. The thing is, these girls need and want the money. Most do not have the staying power to make demands. The small number of guys paying moderate and over can fight over the half dozen 10's out there. Also, you can't pay too much attention to the nut bags on the SA Blog. If they had arrangements they wouldn't be hanging out with open profiles on the blog. It's OK to have high expectations, but most won't get there unless they are top models.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;2757732]I think that what you want isn't what a typical SB is looking for. The girls are looking for on-going arrangements with gents, not serial dating. Serial dating makes them feel cheap and used. Many are OK with the idea of building a SD / SB relationship as there are perks and other things that go into it that aren't available from a BP client. So for many the idea of one off dates is abhorrent. THAT they equate with prostitution. It is a fine line in their mind that allows them to justify the behavior.
So IMHO, what you are doing is OK, if you are up front with the girls and tell them "I don't like to stick with the same one more than couple of times" so that they can decide if they wish to play the game under your conditions.[/QUOTE]How is it any SB's business if we are being monogamous with them are not so why bother bringing it up at all? Of course if they ask I'll not lie and if they can't handle it then as FryerGuy (a brother on this board) would say NEXT!