You will be profoundly disappointed
[QUOTE=GeeMoneyBags;5496772]I've been lurking on here for almost a year and decided on my birthday to go to pin-ups. I'll be honest I'm in my mid-twenties and I still have my v-card and it's starting to truly bother me now. I'm not assertive at all, unfortunately, so it's why I prefer doing my first time at a club (I know that sounds pussy / lame.) but yea, I read from here that pin-ups does extra and I didn't get that vibe there at all. There was a VIP section, but no VIP rooms. So I didn't see how extras there would have been possible as mentioned here. Not to mention I was there with father and the women saw that. So maybe that lessened my chances, even though I did get a few dances? I don't really care what I pay, I just want to be at least attracted to my first, so if anyone has any recommendations on a club that actually offers extras. Let me know, please.
For the record, I did go to pin-ups at 12 am and I was there to around 3 am, so it was probably the worst time to go for what I was looking for. Should I have tried Blaze, Wax, or any other alternatives that was mentioned on here. I'm serious about this, so someone whenever they can.[/QUOTE]I assume v-card means virgin. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. You don't get a prize for losing it, nobody will care that you have finally fucked a woman beside you. You will still be the same person the day after that you are today. You will feel different though. You will feel disgusted and ashamed of yourself, because now, not only are you too shy to get a girl to sleep with you, you are too shy and have to pay for it.
The vast majority of guys that see hookers are middle-aged or older married men. They do not necessarily suffer from extremely low self-esteem or, in your case pathological shyness.
Honestly, if you are going to spend money to get laid, spend it on some therapy to get over your shyness or some other way to build your self esteem. Whatever the reason you think is blocking you from getting laid, it's not your looks, your income or your social status. What blocks you is your attitude and ability to talk to a chick. If she'll wink, she'll fuck, believe me, I've seen some pretty fugly men with very hot women. Sure, the majority have money or status of some sort, but not always. In many cases, it's because they get the girl to talk, then they get her to laugh.
I can't speak for everyone, but I can speak for most. We don't see hookers and strippers for pussy. Most of us can get pussy from our wives, girlfriends, or both. Some are even able to pick up chicks at bars for one-night-stands. I'm not one of those, I'm too lazy. We seek out pros for the no-strings, aspect. I'm sure you've heard the old saying; you don't pay a hooker for sex, you pay them to leave afterward. Of course we don't mind the physical contact and the ability to have sex with hot chicks. The difference is, that we know, if we want we can still get laid without paying for it.
You don't know that. You might think it, but deep down, you haven't just lost your virginity, you've lost even more selfesteem. You are very young if you are in your mid-twenties, there is plenty of time to get laid before you need viagra. Work on yourself first, fuck a few girls, get your heart stomped on, stomp on a few of your own, then go to pro. You'll find it much easier to look in the mirror.
Or.
Do what you wan't I have kids about your age and older, that's what they usually do.
Strokers Monday Day Shift
Was by around 4:00 PM. Surprised by the number of dancers for a Monday. Maybe close to 20. A few more customers than dancers but the action was a bit slow. Quality of dancers was not that good in total. Quite a few sloppy looking ladies with excess in the wrong places. Maybe a Monday thing. A few good ones as well. I went to dance Jamaica who was good to me as always but she is so tiny that she won't appeal to everyone. Had a transfer from Pinups named Juicy Slim that was smoking. Dark smooth skin. Beautiful smile. Butt was a 10 period and no question on that point. Super hard body. Small to medium frame and gave some decent mileage (for Stokers). Got her real name and digits for a later date. Point of the post was that I spoke to a regular sitting at the bar. He agreed that the quality was down a bit in total for the day and we chatted about past dancers. So to the good news. He said Meagan is back from Wisconsin (or wherever) and is dancing again at the club. If you know her then no further comment needed. If you don't, she's probably the best looking spinner type that I have seen at Strokers in the past 4 years. Worth the price of visit to get a dozen dances from her if you can pry her away from the other customers. No earth shattering changes at Srokers. I would say the dancers attitudes are slowly improving and the mileage is a touch better but nowhere near Vivide. Happy hunting.
Maybe some potential at Gold Rush
Fell thru Gold Rush today after work at about 5. While surveying the scene for a seat I see my ex girlfriend from 10 years ago. She was dancing when I met her, we broke up because the ballers stole her. I'm 40 she's early 30's and looked at me like she was kinda ashamed to be dancing 10 years later.
I was actually happy to see her and we sat and chopped it for a while with drinks (on me). After an hour, I let her know I was trying to get some dances and asked if she was cool to dance for me. She was skeptical and told me she know my type and would find a girl for me.
She finds me a really petite dancer named Seven. Seven is 4'10,105 pounds. I like petite she she was a little too petite. Boy was I wrong, she had amazing grinding and stick shifting and went into my pants to play with the dick. I got 15 dances.
My ex got a little offended that I gave her $150 as the dances were $10 a song (more on that later). My ex, dancer name Dior, gave me great dances, well decent dances but she is absolutely gorgeous. Perfect chocolate skin, perfect D cups, small phatty, and the biggest, cheesesteak pussy ever. She got a bit excited while giving me dances and while they weren't the best dances, I was able to reminisce on the days I used to skeet that raw. I'm going back tomorrow to get more dances from seven.