Also, the "performance issue" (and a word about cost)
[QUOTE=Willow1535;4152146]I agree with you 100%. If I am paying for it, I am looking for a fantasy girl. I am willing to pay for quality, but it is severely lacking in this area.[/QUOTE]This is another factor often cited as a reason for accepting providers who are over-the-hill, obese, or obvious drug users.
As I've mentioned before, I fled from a meeting with Pretty Cameron, because she reminded me of a bull dyke in a women's prison, and she had a gut overhanging her waistband.
I'd read rave reviews about her "performance".
Guys: I don't care. If a woman is completely unattractive / fat / etc, I don't care how "enthusiastic" she is. Just. No.
Likewise for Bad Kookie, who seems to have had a few too many cookies.
I've also read a lot of raves about Cristen Cremes. To me she looks rough and old and like a drug user. Sorry! But that's just the honest truth.
Now, let me be clear: Many of these women have unfortunate backstories. There is always a place for kindness and tact. When I turned down Cameron I didn't insult her to her face. (And neither should you.) I made like I was an overly nervous first-timer who just couldn't go through with it. Cristen Cremes, I'm sure, needs some help. But I'm not going to have sex with her. No.
To address a related issue: cost. I'm not a "sky's the limit" kind of guy. I have been holding off on seeing Bianca Carlisle because, jeez, $500 is a lot of dough.
As others have noted, Eros isn't what it used to be, either. Alexandra Kole is on there constantly: She's a 40+, way-past-her-prime provider who is trying to sell $600 appointments. She's not a $600 provider.
I've noticed that most of the Eros girls constantly tour. They aren't doing this to accumulate Marriott points. They're chasing the small numbers of guys who are wiling to pay $500. (Hint: There aren't that many, unless the girl is *really* exceptional, and that means exceptional by Todd Cincy standards.) Bianca Carlisle would be able to print money if she charged $300, and she wouldn't have to travel. But I doubt she would be open to that suggestion.
In my experience (and I've been doing this since Bill Clinton was president) $200 to $350 is the range where supply meets demand, where the rate is high enough to consistently attract quality girls, but the rate is low enough that a significant number of men are willing to pay it.
The problem now in the Cincinnati market is that we lack this mid-range. On one hand, we've got Bianca Carlisle chasing $500 appointments. On the other hand, we have the bulk of the USAG guys looking for $80 appointments. (At $80, you'll get nothing but Jenny Crack and Jenny Craig.).
There is a lot of money to be made in that mid range, IMO. But right now we only have the two extremes.
That's not how the woman views it
[QUOTE=JimJaimes;4152407]$80 for 15 minutes of sex is pretty good money! Why would I pay $120 or $160? That's $320 an hour in my book. I'm not sure how that equates to "cheap".[/QUOTE]Her calculation is: How much money do I need, to make it worthwhile to have sex with a guy who is old enough to be my dad, who I'm (probably) not all that attracted to? How much money do I need to make it worth the not insubstantial physical, reputational, and legal risks?
And for most college girl types, that isn't $80. It's more like $200 to $350.
On the other hand, if the woman is a strung-out addict who just wants some quick cash to get another hit, then $80 is more than enough. And yes, women like that will see the logic of your minute-based calculation.
Trixie, Cristen and other skanks
I have not seen Trixie or Cristen in person, but I have seen their pictures / ads. They would both fall under the category of " I wouldn't fuck them, if they were giving it away". Guys, come on. Neither one of these two women are remotely attractive and I don't care if they are cheap. You can do better in a local dive bar on any weekend night for the cost of a bucket of beers.
[QUOTE=GolfGuy;4155846]It always bothers / scares / worries me when old used up providers come back for one last go around. For instance, where has she been the last few years? Prison? Bad relationship? Living on the streets homeless? I've never seen her, not now upon her triumphant return or back in 2011 when she was with Buddah. She sent me a PM begging me to come see her again. I had no clue who she was. What bothers / scares me the most is she says, and others he verified, that she'll do anything you want to do to her or her to you for $60. Reports say she's used up and has no teeth. What else does she have, or not have? Young (less than 50) year old people with no teeth get that way from drugs and disease, infectious and contagious. You see her you're playing Russian roulette IMO.
Golfguy, playing through and skipping this hole.[/QUOTE]