Seniors only: Please help me (in Seattle) help my Boston-area friend find a GFE
I'm asking those of you who are seniors to PM me with a recommendation. My friend was sexually traumatized as a teenager by his father by being forced to have sex with prostitutes (in a South American country). Now, as a 57 year-old, he's over a year into attempting to have an open marriage. He's a handsome guy, but has mental health issues with women. He keeps ending up with domineering women, which further pains his mental condition and attitude. He recently got very depressed after his SO had success with an outside partner. He purged all the dating apps, and deleted the contacts he had saved in his ventures. He doesn't know what to do because nothing is working, and he fears women he matches with him won't be a good match for him.
How can I help? I feel like he would benefit with NSA sessions with someone who provides the GFE. I understand that's more of an escorting topic, but let's start easy, with just HE. Even though technically, it's throwing fuel on the fire, I feel like it might bring him some sexual relief and sense of closure on his needs. But AITA for thinking this is the way to help? I asked him about it 6 months ago, and he was curious about AMPs. Maybe he wasn't too interested in paying for something, as he doesn't make a lot of money, and has two kids. I'd pay for it in full, multiple times over a period of time.
I'd appreciate your thoughts. I picked this forum sub rather than AMP, because I'm guessing a Caucasian or European would be a good option, as opposed to a Latin girl.
I really appreciate your inputs. Let's keep the conversation in messages. Looking forward to some new Inbox links! Thanks.