[QUOTE=QuestForFun69;5056341]I had a similar situation happen with Candy, because I was white.[/QUOTE]I agree, it goes both ways. Especially in the hot wife world. Many only want BBC. Does not matter if I am packing a 8" vanilla twinkie, they want the color contrast. I honor their wish and move on. There are many reasons why some choose not to see certain races. Unfortunately, some are indeed racist. Sad but you will never completely get rid of that. The guilty by association of other aggressive black guys is a BS reason. There are dumbasses in all races, but you do not condemn an entire race because of it.