"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=AliasSM;1381051]I think several of these girls may be pros in disguise, so landing 50% may in fact be attainable, just not leading to any future LT relationships.[/QUOTE]Alias,

I would never tell another brother what he should do, but may I suggest you try to resist the temptation of fishing for this kind of baby? If they [I]are[/I] pros, they will take your bait no matter how badly you thrash the water. Where's the challenge in that?

Perhaps keep the ones you suspect on reserve, or schedule them for the end of your shore leave, and only follow through if you are unsuccessful in landing anything more challenging. Again, please forgive advice given where it is not sought, but I was "tricked" once or twice, and they are not my fondest of memories.

I know I speak for us all when I say we eagerly await your play-by-play report.

Scott

Scott, I've known a few bigger women in my time, and the attraction was never really there for me. Worse, every time I thought to ignore my past experience and 'give it the old college try', the experience has been less than great. Maybe we all have our own wants in a woman, but for me, one that just lays there is no where near as enjoyable as one that gets into the action. Last night's SB was definitely a non-participant, no matter how I tried to encourage her to be otherwise. I don't know, maybe fishing the Back of the Pages has ruined my appreciation of what women can be, or spoilt me into thinking that I need a slender, fairly tight-bodied woman to enjoy myself. All I know for sure is I'll be fishing the SA profiles some more, hoping to find someone else to hook up with.

[QUOTE=Castlerae;1381415]Last night's SB was definitely a non-participant, no matter how I tried to encourage her to be otherwise. I don't know, maybe fishing the Back of the Pages has ruined my appreciation of what women can be.[/QUOTE]This is a potential downside of these young gals, especially those that might be a little frumpy and lack the experience. Give me a hot 30 something babe that has learned what she likes, as well as what her man needs. Yippee. I realize that there are some youngins out there that have it figured out, but they are tougher to corner, so I usually stick with the mature MILF for this very reason. Each to his own, as they say.

Scott,

In my younger know-it-all life, I may have resented advice from the pros, but now humbly appreciate the words of wisdom. After all, it is you, Lit, and Nando that have inspired me to pursue this route and get off the pro / SW track I was once on.

I may be way to optimistic about next week, but so far the stars are lining up pretty well. 2 that want to meet have been emailing me for a couple of weeks now. They both are likely in that heavy category judging from their pics. Can't tell for sure from the angles taken, but I'm just holding out hope they aren't into the sloppy category. Both seem like easy targets.

2 more are at the perfect MILF age and have just sent me pictures. Both were I'm the 7-8 range for looks and seem like perfect matches for what I want LT I don't think either of these are pros and both seem like they will be a little harder to get into the FC on the first meet. But both seem much more desirable and worth the extra time and effort if it all works out. Neither have agreed to a specific night, but both seem ready to meet.

The 5th is an attractive 23 yo that has probably done this a few times before. She seems more confident in her approach. Not to the pro level of making money demands up front. But definitely knows what she has and has no qualms about meeting an old F_____ like me.

And I'm still playing around with my old standby, just I'm case I have a vacant night during my in-house vacation.

Should be an interesting week. Hope it turns out to be half of what I expect, and I'll still be a very happy old man.

Thanks again Scott for your advice. I'll only do the pro thing if I get tricked into it and the little head takes over bbit that happens a lot with me these days.

Alias.

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1381261]Alias,

I would never tell another brother what he should do, but may I suggest you try to resist the temptation of fishing for this kind of baby? If they [I]are[/I] Pros, they will take your bait no matter how badly you thrash the water. Where's the challenge in that?

Perhaps keep the ones you suspect on reserve, or schedule them for the end of your shore leave, and only follow through if you are unsuccessful in landing anything more challenging. Again, please forgive advice given where it is not sought, but I was "tricked" once or twice, and they are not my fondest of memories.

I know I speak for us all when I say we eagerly await your play-by-play report.

Scott[/QUOTE]

I will have 3 days this week to taste some pudding. My my Latina HYB can't give it up this week. I will meet her for an early dinner and hopefully get my brains screwed out from my first CL conquest (24 yr old AA) on Tues. She will get. 60.

Then thurs night I have this 20 yr old AA spinner. This will be my first time giving her the TiggaBounce. She is cute and full of energy. Smallest breasts I have seen in years. Met her from sugardaddie dot com. She will get $.

Then I have Fri night free. I have one really hot 29 year old AA with a slamming body (sugardaddie). But we need to do our first meet and greet. I also have 2 others (CL) who are chubby and want to take there time before giving up the goodies. So Fri, I have 3 potentials, but none with a gurantee of tasting the pudding. I hate wasting a good Fri night and not be getting goodies. What should I do?

Anyway my Latina HYB is getting busy with school, etc. So I am seeking one or two to fill in on call, LOL.

As a side note, put an ad in CL seeking SB candidates. The response was good, but the quality, not so hot. But they are also cheaper. I stay under $ per visit with the CL women.

My SA subscription expired and I started getting all these winks and bookmarks. This did not happen when I was a paid member. They are so obvious, LOL.

Happy Hunting

[QUOTE=BigTigger;1381711]As a side note, put an ad in CL seeking SB candidates. The response was good, but the quality, not so hot. But they are also cheaper. I stay under $ per visit with the CL women.[/QUOTE]Curious about the wording of your SD ad in CL. Have tried to place one but some technical glitch so it never published. Not sure of the issue. May try again and just open to what Tigger says in his ad. Thanks and hope you get milked like Elsie the cow this week brother.

I'm envious of you guys who get a pass from the warden for a whole week. I do some traveling for work so that is when I do most of my SB activities. Well that and during work hours if I have the time. The warden may leave the yard for one or two evenings a year if I'm lucky.

Like some of our other brethren on here, I have gone the MILF route with the SB's for the past 2-3 years. However, I do have a date later this week with the youngest SB (23) I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. I'm just hoping this old monger doesn't get intimated and all the equipment operates as intended.

[QUOTE=Varoom;1381865]Curious about the wording of your SD ad in CL. Have tried to place one but some technical glitch so it never published. Not sure of the issue. May try again and just open to what Tigger says in his ad. Thanks and hope you get milked like Elsie the cow this week brother.[/QUOTE]I kept it simple. Just said what I was looking for and made sure to say that I cover all expenses when we go out. I also said that I don't mind helping with expenses.

I included a fake pic and stated the photo was "similar" to me.

I gave them a phrase to include in email title. Got the goodies on first date with one, the others were / will be 2nd ir 3rd date.

If I don't get the goodies, I pay for gas (. 4 or less) only. If they don't drive and I pick up, no funds. I don't tell them this. Most don't want to feel like escorts and appreciate the meal and good convo. I have sent emails before 2nd or 3rd date and say a nice compliment or two and ask if they are ok with our next date being a hotel date. It allows them to answer w/o pressure. Since these are non-pros and not real SBs, I limit the initiation of sugar talk.

I Always give gifts when getting the goods. I usually slip it in a pocket or purse when they are in the bathroom. .60-1. 0 for CL women.

Happy Hunting

I have followed this thread from the start with great interest and much laughter. I have often wondered if I should test the water. Not having the time to invest in this type of sport I am afraid I would make a bad SD so I will continue to follow the antics of my fellow mongers. To all of you I hope things go well and keep posting. Maybe just maybe I might try dipping a toe to see how warm the water truly is.

Setting up my next round and of course turned to SB1, the MILF. Who promptly tells me she only has very limited time available as she is going to Florida for a week with another friend. Once I got over the initial shock (how dare she boff someone else) I thought I know the next present to give you. A granny bathing suit! So tell her I can't meet the limited time available, see you next time. This results in offer to arrive the night before and I will leave the latch open for you. Sounds like fun. A slumber party with no clothes!

All this got me off my keester and back at SA and now I have them coming out my ears. The 20 somethings finally started responding. Aside from my sleepover it will be a busy week, looking for that diamond in the rough. Total of 4 interviews lined up but one may be a pro and another is skittish ("it's not alllll about the sex". The hell it isn't) Keep you posted.

So what forums and blogs are the ladies on? Always best to know your adversary. I find SA blog outdated but maybe I am looking in the wrong place? Help somebody?

Is my favorite and is moment to moment-very current.

Re: Monogamy and SBs.you have to be very specific with them about what you expect. Many of these girls generally want to line up as many SDs as they can handle to maximize the income. Most on there interpret NSA as fuck anybody you want to. They blog on and on denying that they are engaging in prostitution yet we all know the score are. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that they are getting money (aka allowance) for sex (aka.relationship) The only difference is they are only seeing one.or a few.Johns instead of 8 / day. The problem with us is that we can only provide so much $$$ to our favorite girl, where they can see multiple guys if they so desire.

Less than a week since I saw her, and Meet #1 girl is emailing me, asking when I want to see her again. Wonder if I should just tell her bluntly she's not my type, or try to find some way to arrange a 'soft landing'?

On an unrelated note, a question for all the SA regulars: how many of you get "Favorite"ed by women from the Phillipines? I've had four women "Favorite" me, and all but one of them was a prospective LBFM. Mind you, I don't plan on any 'monger vacations' to the Phillipines anytime soon, so I wonder if they're just hopeful or what?

Thanks Hernando. I must be looking in the wrong place. How do I get to the current threads. Thanks for the info

[QUOTE=Castlerae;1384336]On an unrelated note, a question for all the SA regulars: how many of you get "Favorite"ed by women from the Phillipines? I've had four women "Favorite" me, and all but one of them was a prospective LBFM. Mind you, I don't plan on any 'monger vacations' to the Phillipines anytime soon, so I wonder if they're just hopeful or what?[/QUOTE]All the time. It's a scam, don't reply to those. On most of them you can do a tineye or google image search and see the pictures are Filipina models.

[QUOTE=Castlerae;1384336]Less than a week since I saw her, and Meet #1 girl is emailing me, asking when I want to see her again. Wonder if I should just tell her bluntly she's not my type, or try to find some way to arrange a 'soft landing'?[/QUOTE]That's always a tough one Castle. Since she's apparently a college age girl, probably just maintaining radio silence is enough. That's probably what she would do to you if she weren't interested.