Advice from a long time Sugar daddy
Seeking is full of scams. Any woman that wants money up front, it is a scam. I do not care if she send pics, videos, etc, never send money up front.
Beware of women who say they want to have dinner mulitple times before any bedroom action will happen. Many times, they have no intention of making it into the bedroom. After a date or 2, she will disappear with your money.
If the pics look too good to be true, it is possible she is real. I have met some drop dead beautiful women off that site. In this case, you need to do your research before meeting or meet for coffee to make sure she is real. Offer a nice allowance, if she is real, you will be happy, if she is fake, she will not show up. Never discuss anything sexual during this time. There are 9 and 10's on this site willing to meet, but be prepared to pay a lot.
If something seems off, use your gut and walk away. Never show your private pics until she shows hers, especially if she is not showing her face. Do not cave on this, many of the women who are scamming people, will not show their face at all.
Most girls are there to fuck for money. If we have to get a hotel, I always make the SB do it and pay her the amount on top of the allowance. This way, nothing is in my real name, plus I will not be staying the night at the hotel. If you do get the room in your name, never allow her to stay after you leave. Besides stealing things, most hotels slip a bill under the door in the middle of the night with your name on it. Easy way for blackmail.
Unless you are snipped, never trust the girl that she is on the pill. If she knows you are loaded or thinks you are, that is one nice payday for her.
Once you get a phone #, google it. Many use text apps, but some do not.
If the girl looks young, tell her you have to see I'd to prove she is over 18. Paying for sex will get you arrested, paying for sex with a girl under 18, will get you thrown in jail for a long time and more than likely on the evening news. Make her cross out her address and last name and leave her first name, her pic and birthdate. Never accept nudes until you have verified this either, that is actually worse than paying her to fuck.
Seeking is a shitshow. I have met some amazing girls on there and fucked the hell out of them. I have also met some psycho's who would habe probably bitten off my dick had they gotten the chance. Talk to them and feel them out.
If you have any questions, imbox me. If you have an SB that could use some cash and is in the NOVA area, send me her info. I am no longer on seeking, but always looking for a submissive SB.