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[QUOTE=LuckyNutz;5935390]Highly disagree on many of the aspects. Continuously complaining about what ladies feel they are worth is not helpful. You can choose to see someone who is cheap or you can save up and spend money on someone you see once a week. The last time I was in Cincy which was two weeks, I spent nearly $1 k on a lady that didn't want to be reviewed. I will be one of the men that is willing to pay a lady what she feels is worth. You can swipe next and move on.[/QUOTE]Save up a grand a week to see that special lady lolol. Some guys, and providers are so disconnected with how few and far between the men are who have more than a few hundred bucks a month. Also. Most the men who have a g to blow, probably don't have to pay for it directly like that. I mean you're free to spend whatever you like. I think some guys like spending that much as a status symbol or they think the girl will fall in love with them or something. If it's worth that to you, I'm happy for you. I wouldn't spend a grand on any woman. I wouldn't spend half that. I'm more a hundred or less kinda guy. That's what I can spend, and still respect myself. But everyone is different, and although I think guys who are willing to overpay are ruining the market. It is your right.

[QUOTE=MikeJones1313;5935263]I see this a lot in ads, "no AA guys" what does this mean? Its not in the abbreviations tab.[/QUOTE]"All-American"- they hate tall, blond, handsome guys with small peni and lots of dinero!

Or maybe "African-Ameican"? I get confused sometimes.

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[QUOTE=BobbyLinn;5937003]Anal Aficionados[/QUOTE]Definitely African American. The funny thing is on some of their posted ad photos they are riding BBC and even BB quite often.

[QUOTE=DrDave39;5936832]"All-American"- they hate tall, blond, handsome guys with small peni and lots of dinero!

Or maybe "African-Ameican"? I get confused sometimes.[/QUOTE]Well, good thing I am none of those I guess LOL.

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[QUOTE=LuckyNutz;5935390]Highly disagree on many of the aspects. Continuously complaining about what ladies feel they are worth is not helpful. You can choose to see someone who is cheap or you can save up and spend money on someone you see once a week. The last time I was in Cincy which was two weeks, I spent nearly $1 k on a lady that didn't want to be reviewed. I will be one of the men that is willing to pay a lady what she feels is worth. You can swipe next and move on.[/QUOTE]I actually think discussing outrageous pricing is incredibly helpful. You caving in to pay ladies what they think they are worth is not. It must be nice to have that kind of money to throw around. What a weird flex.

I will be one of the men that finds a reasonable middle ground between what a lady is actually worth and what she thinks she is worth. If I can't find that I'll jerk off or bang my SO. No hole is worth 1 k an hour, but it's your money my guy.

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[QUOTE=MarblesKyle;5937182]I actually think discussing outrageous pricing is incredibly helpful. You caving in to pay ladies what they think they are worth is not. It must be nice to have that kind of money to throw around. What a weird flex.

I will be one of the men that finds a reasonable middle ground between what a lady is actually worth and what she thinks she is worth. If I can't find that I'll jerk off or bang my SO. No hole is worth 1 k an hour, but it's your money my guy.[/QUOTE]That's my take as well. It is such a weird flex. I mean I worked security at diamonds for years. I've also had next to fwbs relationships with alot of "working girls". I can tell the "big spenders". It doesn't get you any added respect. With most of these girls the more you're willing to spend the more pathetic they think you are. I think some guys think it works the other way around. But it doesn't. Sometimes I think guys who have that kind of money to blow enjoy doing so as a signalling thing. And it backfires in this hobby. You're seen as a mark. An easy target. If some of these big spenders could only hear the way these girls talk about them behind their backs. No hole is worth 1,000 dollars. To me it's not worth half that. But it's never been hard for me to get it for free. I just don't like seeing guys get taken advantage of. But if spending that kind of money isn't hurting them, and they're happy to do so, then it's their decision I guess.

[QUOTE=CincyShawn513;5937738]That's my take as well. It is such a weird flex. I mean I worked security at diamonds for years. I've also had next to fwbs relationships with alot of "working girls". I can tell the "big spenders". It doesn't get you any added respect. With most of these girls the more you're willing to spend the more pathetic they think you are. I think some guys think it works the other way around. But it doesn't. Sometimes I think guys who have that kind of money to blow enjoy doing so as a signalling thing. And it backfires in this hobby. You're seen as a mark. An easy target. If some of these big spenders could only hear the way these girls talk about them behind their backs. No hole is worth 1,000 dollars. To me it's not worth half that. But it's never been hard for me to get it for free. I just don't like seeing guys get taken advantage of. But if spending that kind of money isn't hurting them, and they're happy to do so, then it's their decision I guess.[/QUOTE]The scariest thing is that if the provider would spiral downhill, they know you are a mark for a grand and an easy target for a pimp.

[QUOTE=CincyShawn513;5937738]That's my take as well. It is such a weird flex. I mean I worked security at diamonds for years. I've also had next to fwbs relationships with alot of "working girls". I can tell the "big spenders". It doesn't get you any added respect. With most of these girls the more you're willing to spend the more pathetic they think you are. I think some guys think it works the other way around. But it doesn't. Sometimes I think guys who have that kind of money to blow enjoy doing so as a signalling thing. And it backfires in this hobby. You're seen as a mark. An easy target. If some of these big spenders could only hear the way these girls talk about them behind their backs. No hole is worth 1,000 dollars. To me it's not worth half that. But it's never been hard for me to get it for free. I just don't like seeing guys get taken advantage of. But if spending that kind of money isn't hurting them, and they're happy to do so, then it's their decision I guess.[/QUOTE]And that's a fact. High rollers could give a flying fuck what a hooker thinks about him or says behind his back. I've know a few of these guys in my lifetime and they're all about the show throwing money around having, a good time, buying drinks and trying to get attention. Some of them have so much money that a grand to them is $20 to you. I knew a guy that had a yacht with monthly upkeep / docking / crew was $18,000 monthly, on top of 3 country clubs he belongs to. You think he cars about paying a hooker $1000 or what she thinks about him? These guys lose more gambling in one night than you make in a month. Everyone finds their own comfort level in this hobby and what they can afford. They don't care what anyone has to say about it either.

You do you, they do as they please.

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I use to see her regularly never really had any problems. Always showered and fresh and very great performance.

Just be careful she has a crazy ex. That's a stalker.

I won't be back not worth having some crazy dude try to chase you down.

[QUOTE=Dyna69;5939192]I use to see her regularly never really had any problems. Always showered and fresh and very great performance.

Just be careful she has a crazy ex. That's a stalker.

I won't be back not worth having some crazy dude try to chase you down.[/QUOTE]Could you be her crazy stalker? Both your posts have been warning people away from her. Perhaps you had a bad experience, but a legit monger would just leave a bad review and be done. But this feels personal, and there is zero evidence you have "seen her regularly".

[QUOTE=BelowMe;5938078]And that's a fact. High rollers could give a flying fuck what a hooker thinks about him or says behind his back. I've know a few of these guys in my lifetime and they're all about the show throwing money around having, a good time, buying drinks and trying to get attention. Some of them have so much money that a grand to them is $20 to you. I knew a guy that had a yacht with monthly upkeep / docking / crew was $18,000 monthly, on top of 3 country clubs he belongs to. You think he cars about paying a hooker $1000 or what she thinks about him? These guys lose more gambling in one night than you make in a month. Everyone finds their own comfort level in this hobby and what they can afford. They don't care what anyone has to say about it either.

You do you, they do as they please.[/QUOTE]I agree throwing $ around is not big deal to them. At any level of the hobby you kinda have too figure you're going to be talked about anyway. I developed a close friendship to a lady in this and after we got close she started opening up more. I use to think she liked the work when I first started coming around her. It wasn't long until I learned she didn't enjoy it all. She only liked the quick $ from it. She said it was hard playing the part of being friendly all the time and that she would close her eyes and just keep counting up to 60 until it was over. I won't go into much more than that, but just that alone is enough to figure that talking and not caring about anything other than just the benefits of the money are all that's really important to probably a vast majority of them. Guess its just best to get what you need out of it and not concern yourself with anything else that happens after.