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I've been in the hobby going on 11 years. I've seen my share of the good and bad also with all sorts of types. The one thing I can't exactly put my finger on is what more accurately describes "GFE". I know what I would want it to be, but I guess my question for you all is: what do you all feel like it is? Something specific, or just a list of idealist things that differs from person to person. Thanks in advance for your input.
I'd rather have low dollar lookers that preform well. Whats good for me in looks may not be good for you. I don't like them with their war paint on their faces. LOL eyes yes. I don't pay for paint. Or fake boobs been there done that. Not worth it. Give me a girl that loves to fuck and moans while she's getting it I'm all in. Anyone have any Pm me. Lenny6746.
[QUOTE=ThatGuy011;4123772]Pricing comes and goes as a hot topic on this board.
Everyone should do them, and that includes the white knights. I post my scale and what I pay and people get mad that I don't pay enough. That's just as bad as getting mad when other members pay 'too much'. Personally, I don't care what someone else pays, as I posted, I hear the words 'I ususally get XXX for this', while I've got her for 20, and based on looks, and knowing how other mongers are, I'd say they are correct. But again, only the person that determines that value is yourself. To you, she is TGTBT at any price, to me, she is TGTBT at 20, but she fucking did it.
And so you know where I'm coming from:
I have been doing this half my life, give or take. But when I started I was young enough for girls to get statutory charges for being with me.
I literally only want to cum. No kissing, no PSE, no GFE. My dick in hand, mouth or pussy. I'm not old, nor missing something in my life that they need to replace. Except a place to nut.
[/QUOTE]Anything like that guy.
In my world there would be kissing, mouth, face, neck body. Foreplay. Not just straight to the deed. Some flirty banter to start. Act like she enjoys you and why you're doing to her. Not rush you right out the door when finished. Pamper and dote on you a little. Clean you up afterwards. Like she's happy to see you, happy to have you and glad when you come back.
[QUOTE=TheBrestMan;4124408]I've been in the hobby going on 11 years. I've seen my share of the good and bad also with all sorts of types. The one thing I can't exactly put my finger on is what more accurately describes "GFE". I know what I would want it to be, but I guess my question for you all is: what do you all feel like it is? Something specific, or just a list of idealist things that differs from person to person. Thanks in advance for your input.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BelowMe;4125085]In my world there would be kissing, mouth, face, neck body. Foreplay. Not just straight to the deed. Some flirty banter to start. Act like she enjoys you and why you're doing to her. Not rush you right out the door when finished. Pamper and dote on you a little. Clean you up afterwards. Like she's happy to see you, happy to have you and glad when you come back.[/QUOTE]Certainly what you describe is what many of us would desire; I certainly would. However, I would term it more like an upscale GFE; maybe GFE+.
I think these days the term "GFE" is used more to describe what is allowed or acceptable. For example, there would be kissing and BBBJ at a minimum, just like you might expect a regular girlfriend to provide.
But what you describe, I think, is more of not just "what" is provided, but also more of "how" it is provided.
Some women may describe themselves as "GFE girls", but won't kiss you like they mean it, or like they too enjoy it; and even though they may provide a BBBJ, they won't put much into it. It means so much more, at least to me, when I feel like the woman too is truly enjoying what she's doing, and not just going through the motions!
Just sayin'.
[QUOTE=JustTry;4124969]Anything like that guy.[/QUOTE]Hahaha.
You mean don't see the same girls for 2/3 or less than you pay?
Gotcha.
[QUOTE=Yragyrag;4122669]Did I do him in?
Wasn't my intention that he go away forever. After all, he WAS a fellow Vet!
Come on back Olive Oyl, just don't be such a dickhead next time.
I suspect that due to embarrassment he may have started over with a new name?[/QUOTE]After you called him out, he certainly has disappeared. What was interesting about him was while he had over 1000 posts, 98% of those posts were on this thread. Rarely did you read any reviews of ladies he was with, which is the purpose of this site.
[QUOTE=Yragyrag;4125310]Certainly what you describe is what many of us would desire; I certainly would. However, I would term it more like an upscale GFE; maybe GFE+.
I think these days the term "GFE" is used more to describe what is allowed or acceptable. For example, there would be kissing and BBBJ at a minimum, just like you might expect a regular girlfriend to provide.
But what you describe, I think, is more of not just "what" is provided, but also more of "how" it is provided.
Some women may describe themselves as "GFE girls", but won't kiss you like they mean it, or like they too enjoy it; and even though they may provide a BBBJ, they won't put much into it. It means so much more, at least to me, when I feel like the woman too is truly enjoying what she's doing, and not just going through the motions!
Just sayin'.[/QUOTE]I think these 2 posts collectively, pretty much nail it on the head for me. I've done this a long time, sometimes I think unfortunately, and I've had this type of woman. You'll usually have to pay the higher freight, though. Not always. And those that are like this at an unbelievably good rate and no drama are the unicorns I keep chasing, LOL. Which, in and of itself, winds up being more expensive than just paying the higher prices ones, right?
I called a provider who advertised GFE. She said what's that. A blond moment for sure. LOL. ITS GIRLFRIEND EXPERIANCE FOR THE PROVIDER AND THE MONGER. Whats that. Full kissing feeling each others body going down on her getting her ready. DTAY. Fingering her. Having her go down on you to get you hard. Sucking her tits and nipples. Licking her pussy then fucking her. Thats true GFE to me. I've had alot of providers do that with me. I don't like the get on get off shit. Lenny6746.
[QUOTE=Yragyrag;4122669]Did I do him in?
Wasn't my intention that he go away forever. After all, he WAS a fellow Vet!
Come on back Olive Oyl, just don't be such a dickhead next time.
I suspect that due to embarrassment he may have started over with a new name?[/QUOTE]Is that new name Yragyrag?
[QUOTE=JimJaimes;4129375]Is that new name Yragyrag?[/QUOTE]For those intrepid enough to brave this cold, I think there are deals to be had today, probably stretching into tomorrow. Unfortunately, I'm not in a position to take advantage today, but it's a good day to bargain.
I haven't been posting any adventures because I haven't had any these girls are unreliable untrustworthy and unsavory thinking only of themselves. Example there is a girl that posted on here and listcrawler named Trixie she says she used to be part of Buddha's stable back in the day real thin chick with dark black hair I set a date with her for Monday on a Saturday I specifically said don't text me I'll text you Monday morning what does this chick do? She sends me a text from a different number saying Trixie here I ended up not seeing her Lacy who I've never seen I had contacted her before Christmas but didn't go through with the date texted me saying Hi this is lacy I'm available the girlfriend picked up my phone while I was on the toilet. We argued all day about that shit then Kelly texted me out the blue the very next day but I saw the text and immediately let her have it. I don't know which girls to trust or be discreet if I want strange they all seem to be thirsty and have their own adjenda. I think I'll just sit back and read for awhile and back up from the game I can't deal with most of these girls with no discression. Rant over. HL29.
Contacted a very well know board fave last week for an early morning massage. Explained that by a specific time that my window of opportunity would close as I had to do family stuff starting at noon. What do you think happened? 10 pm I get a text, as soon as I set my phone down and went upstairs for something. "Sorry honey, I was busy and my kid is sick and I have this and that and blah blah blah" why the fuck to I care what problems you have 12 hours after the time I wanted to schedule? And why the fuck ton they have to call you honey, babe and sweetie in texts? I swear most of them have not a lick of common sense. This is why I leave my phone on Do Not Disturb while I'm home most of the time. Rant over.
[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;4130005]I haven't been posting any adventures because I haven't had any these girls are unreliable untrustworthy and unsavory thinking only of themselves. Example there is a girl that posted on here and listcrawler named Trixie she says she used to be part of Buddha's stable back in the day real thin chick with dark black hair I set a date with her for Monday on a Saturday I specifically said don't text me I'll text you Monday morning what does this chick do? She sends me a text from a different number saying Trixie here I ended up not seeing her Lacy who I've never seen I had contacted her before Christmas but didn't go through with the date texted me saying Hi this is lacy I'm available the girlfriend picked up my phone while I was on the toilet. We argued all day about that shit then Kelly texted me out the blue the very next day but I saw the text and immediately let her have it. I don't know which girls to trust or be discreet if I want strange they all seem to be thirsty and have their own adjenda. I think I'll just sit back and read for awhile and back up from the game I can't deal with most of these girls with no discression. Rant over. HL29.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Yragyrag;4122669]Did I do him in?
Wasn't my intention that he go away forever. After all, he WAS a fellow Vet!
Come on back Olive Oyl, just don't be such a dickhead next time.
I suspect that due to embarrassment he may have started over with a new name?
[QUOTE=JimJaimes;4129375]Is that new name Yragyrag?[/QUOTE][/QUOTE]If you had been keeping up with this thread you would know that I am the one who called him out months ago, and right after that he disappeared.
Use common sense. My name has 300+ posts; far from new!
[QUOTE=Lenny6746;4124502]I'd rather have low dollar lookers that preform well. Whats good for me in looks may not be good for you. I don't like them with their war paint on their faces. LOL eyes yes. I don't pay for paint. Or fake boobs been there done that. Not worth it. Give me a girl that loves to fuck and moans while she's getting it I'm all in. Anyone have any Pm me. Lenny6746.[/QUOTE]I have seen high dollar providers ($400) and low dollar ($50) providers, some low dollar girls were good and some were terrible. I have had a similar experience with some high dollar girls also. The price you pay doesn't always coincide with the perceived value. Thats why when I read a mongers review of a girl I want to see, I go and read their reviews of other providers I have seen, to see if they are the same view as mine. I think we just need to give honest reviews of these girls then let the bad ones fade away.
Play safe.
JFK.