The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[QUOTE=Truncated;4294384]I know her.

She's one of the UNC girls who belongs to the groups who keeps a list of SDs.

I wouldn't give her a dollar until you sealed the deal. She's a rinser.[/QUOTE]Met up with her about a year and a half ago or more. She was a lot of fun and super sexy, and the FC was a lot of fun, but I live a bit away from the area so couldn't really become a regular thing. I was still fairly new to the game at that point, so I definitely would negotiate better now. I think it was 400 then. And as mentioned here, she is a UNC sorority girl who knows several others on SA and they share info. There were a few others I was chatting with at the time that were still active but fell off my radar for no reason. Also, I think she is a bit bigger than her profile pics now, at least what I can tell from her current social media.

There are 4 kinds of girls on there: 1) rinsers, 2) almost-hookers, 3) girls with GPS (which generally stands for Golden Pussy Syndrome, but also stands, in my opinion, for Golden Personality Syndrome: any girl who wants me to pay for the privilege of simply spending platonic time with her is out of her goddam mind. No 18 - 24 year old (my preferred age range) is that Interesting. Full stop, and 4) that ever-elusive girl who is really focused on school or work, who needs some extra money to get by, who's bright, cute, and fun, who enjoys your company, listens to your stories, who learns from your acquired wisdom, who might be helped by your personal or professional contacts, and who appreciates the sexual knowledge of an older man, and who may in fact remain a friend after the sugaring is done.

That fourth kind is exceedingly rare, but she can make all the bullshit you're currently enduring worthwhile.

As for the other ones, 1) never send money without meeting them first, regardless of how many nude pictures they send, 2) counter their $200 with $150 if you're paying for the room. Unlike mongering, there probably won't be a time limit = multiple holes, multiple pops. Also, you can call it an allowance, weekly, bi-weekly, monthly, whatever, but YOU get to decide if you want to see her again, and 3) well, at my age NO pussy is worth $500 - well, maybe Nina Hartley or Keisha. And certainly none of these girls would make the cut in my opinion. But you do you.

[QUOTE=Euusa19;4294461]Hey everyone.

I pretty new here.

I signed up for Sa website couple months now I am out from this website.

I meet with couple girls but all was trash.

Good girls asking 500 and up weekly that's not worth.

Also I am not looking going out to the public. Just want to stay discreet most girls want to go out.

They have also some private forum they talking about guys.

Anyone have any luck finding a good girl from the website?

I tried Richmond, Wilmington.

But no luck. All the same trash girls want $200. Nice girls want $500 and up.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BartonFink;4295461]There are 4 kinds of girls on there: 1) rinsers, 2) almost-hookers, 3) girls with GPS (which generally stands for Golden Pussy Syndrome, but also stands, in my opinion, for Golden Personality Syndrome: any girl who wants me to pay for the privilege of simply spending platonic time with her is out of her goddam mind. No 18 - 24 year old (my preferred age range) is that Interesting. Full stop, and 4) that ever-elusive girl who is really focused on school or work, who needs some extra money to get by, who's bright, cute, and fun, who enjoys your company, listens to your stories, who learns from your acquired wisdom, who might be helped by your personal or professional contacts, and who appreciates the sexual knowledge of an older man, and who may in fact remain a friend after the sugaring is done.

That fourth kind is exceedingly rare, but she can make all the bullshit you're currently enduring worthwhile.

As for the other ones, 1) never send money without meeting them first, regardless of how many nude pictures they send, 2) counter their $200 with $150 if you're paying for the room. Unlike mongering, there probably won't be a time limit = multiple holes, multiple pops. Also, you can call it an allowance, weekly, bi-weekly, monthly, whatever, but YOU get to decide if you want to see her again, and 3) well, at my age NO pussy is worth $500 - well, maybe Nina Hartley or Keisha. And certainly none of these girls would make the cut in my opinion. But you do you.[/QUOTE]Seems like 60% of the greetings have platonic in them which is kind of a general screwing for a guy to not only foot the bill for dinner but to pay for the privilege of their company. Most quickly realize that only happens on S. A. 's advertising and there is a general shortage of idiots in the area that will go for that and they only stay on for a week or so. The pros are easy to spot as those are the one's that have been on for over 6 months and frequent the site often. Then you have the huge majority of UNC students who are seeking $500 plus, most are only reasonably attractive and are delusional about their worth. Their shelf life on there is about 3 months as it never seems to work out for them.

[QUOTE=BartonFink;4295461]There are 4 kinds of girls on there: 1) rinsers, 2) almost-hookers, 3) girls with GPS (which generally stands for Golden Pussy Syndrome, but also stands, in my opinion, for Golden Personality Syndrome: any girl who wants me to pay for the privilege of simply spending platonic time with her is out of her goddam mind. No 18 - 24 year old (my preferred age range) is that Interesting. Full stop, and 4) that ever-elusive girl who is really focused on school or work, who needs some extra money to get by, who's bright, cute, and fun, who enjoys your company, listens to your stories, who learns from your acquired wisdom, who might be helped by your personal or professional contacts, and who appreciates the sexual knowledge of an older man, and who may in fact remain a friend after the sugaring is done.

That fourth kind is exceedingly rare, but she can make all the bullshit you're currently enduring worthwhile.

As for the other ones, 1) never send money without meeting them first, regardless of how many nude pictures they send, 2) counter their $200 with $150 if you're paying for the room. Unlike mongering, there probably won't be a time limit = multiple holes, multiple pops. Also, you can call it an allowance, weekly, bi-weekly, monthly, whatever, but YOU get to decide if you want to see her again, and 3) well, at my age NO pussy is worth $500 - well, maybe Nina Hartley or Keisha. And certainly none of these girls would make the cut in my opinion. But you do you.[/QUOTE]Sage advice.

Don't let the rinsers mess with your head. These girls network and scheme to con guys out of money for nothing.

Any one meet with her.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f630f761-11e8-4575-9154-70708c22ebea[/URL]

Please pm / share your experience I.

[QUOTE=PhilDeez123;4288870]She has a new Seeking username, it's AnberlinBaby. Still sweet and remembers everything about every conversation.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/09db7fc9-72da-48d5-b2f2-d245acfde0fa[/URL][/QUOTE]Saw her again this weekend. Like ChasingPuppies said, remembers everything. May be more transactional now but was truly into it and a good time. Treat her right.

She showed me some fake money one guy gave her (as she is just trying to get by). Classless.

[QUOTE=Ntcuonghm1;4294378]Has any of you guys dated Christinawb successfully? How much was the donation? How was the experience? She said she is a college girl, but I doubted it as she has been on the site for a few years. Anything you can share is appreciated.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/06006584-5cd9-319e-3455-9e4d74756bc3[/URL][/QUOTE]When I knew her, she was a real sweet heart and great. That was 2016. Yes, she was in college and a lot of fun. YMMV, smart girl with a lot of hot friends. She is a little loud in public, a lot like Sofía Vergara from Modern Family.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3f959...9-6729e250f89d[/URL]

Any luck with this one?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6a9f6fc3-99bc-48f1-a068-9238507821f1[/URL]

She has a bad case of GPS. $ 500 per visit. 2-3 visits per week. She doesn't host, so there's also the hotel room. She doesn't require, but does appreciate gifts. Likes to be surprised.

[QUOTE=TroyNc40;4310187][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6a9f6fc3-99bc-48f1-a068-9238507821f1[/URL]

She has a bad case of GPS. $ 500 per visit. 2-3 visits per week. She doesn't host, so there's also the hotel room. She doesn't require, but does appreciate gifts. Likes to be surprised.[/QUOTE]Maybe she deleted? I can't see her.

[QUOTE=Svt4628;4311224]Maybe she deleted? I can't see her.[/QUOTE]Yes. I think she must have deleted the account. I guess she had a lot of takers.

[QUOTE=Svt4628;4311224]Maybe she deleted? I can't see her.[/QUOTE]I thought she had blocked me but maybe she deleted or deactivated her profile.

[I]Safe mongering and sugaring![/I]

[QUOTE=ADreamer;4297292]Any one meet with her.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f630f761-11e8-4575-9154-70708c22ebea[/URL]

Please pm / share your experience I.[/QUOTE]I was able to get in touch with her. But maybe tad too late. She was asking for 2 K in a day otherwise she was leaving town to go back to where she is from (NY).

Not seriously that out of mind to offer that much to stranger. Texted a few days later and she replied she is not in NC anymore.

Exchanged messages with her.

Wants rent assistance but open only for platonic. Need money but only emotional connection.

And to top it off she is in Charlotte not Raleigh. Updated her location after that.

I have seen my SB graduate recently, and I have not searched for someone in almost 3 years due to the relationship that we had. Back then I was able to find applicants via CL, but since that is no longer an option, I have thought about looking in places like [URL]s.com[/URL], but it just doesn't seem as if the girls that want long term SB / SD relationships are on places like that. Its either girls with completely unrealistic expectations, or escorts. Real girls that are looking for someone to help them on the side so that they don't have to have a job during their studies or maybe a single mom looking for some additional help just doesn't seem to exist on those sites. I guess a lot of things have changed in the past 3 years. I was literally flooded with emails from prospective SB and was able to meet with several of them before deciding on the right one.

I just can't see myself paying $100/ month to be on a site where I will probably never find what I am looking for.

Are there girls like that on this site, or is it really just a pay site for people that want to meet "amateur escorts"?

For those of you that are on there and have met with girls from there, but you didn't click for whatever reason, how do you feel about asking them if they mind being contacted by someone that is not a member of the site?

Honestly, I would much rather give one of the girls that are on there and may be struggling in real life the $100 for just an introductory date where I take her out for coffee / dinner or whatever than to pay that site $100 for a membership. Just my personal preference. Maybe I was really spoiled by my SB and she was one in a million.