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[QUOTE=OnlyDreams;5661866]Just curious to know what's the longest distance you guys have traveled to specifically see a sugar baby?
Mine is about 30 miles. There are a couple of girls that I'd love to see, one is in Michigan City Indiana and other north of Milwaukee.[/QUOTE]I've gone on road trips precisely for this reason! Unfortunately due to the current situation we are in with the pandemic. If you want to tap some quality ass you're going to have travel.
if you find yourself in a B or C list city like say..Charlotte, NC or Madison, WI, etc ..set your search radius about 100 miles and stay on top of your messages for a week or so prior to you heading to your location. a few years ago i went down to florida and figured id just sign up for a memebership again once i got down there and it worked out good to be honest but the market was alot differnt back then (2016~2017) ..now you need to do recon about a week or two before hand. i wouldnt gamble like that anymore due to the increase in competition and lower quality women that are on there now.
But when I'm at home I try to cap it under 100 miles.
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She could be lying too
[QUOTE=LolBoat;5663988]I was talking to this chick here in NJ and she said she had to deal with salt daddies who said they'd give her money but never actually wound up going through with it. Now she wants $$ no matter what happens, even just for coffee.
It really sucks this is happening but it seems like lot of guys ruined it for the rest of us with their scammer BS.[/QUOTE]Yes, once in a while some broke ass guy may still try to get a free hookup with a SB after a price has been already arranged. But again, if he doesn't have money I doubt he would be paying a monthly membership. However, that's the number one lie a lot of SA use to scam guys. Every single scammer I've come across who ask for money in advance have told me they've been ripped off by guys who didn't pay them. Many of those girls live in other cities / states but want you to believe they are local. But once you send them money, they will never show. Just don't fall for that trap. They will tell you all kinds of lies but never ever send money in advance.
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[QUOTE=LolBoat;5663988]I was talking to this chick here in NJ and she said she had to deal with salt daddies who said they'd give her money but never actually wound up going through with it. Now she wants $$ no matter what happens, even just for coffee.
It really sucks this is happening but it seems like lot of guys ruined it for the rest of us with their scammer BS.[/QUOTE]And how do you know that she isn't the one scamming you? She could tell you this sob story to make you feel sorry for her so that you will meet her for dinner / coffee and give her the money. Then she tells you she didn't feel a connection and wishes you luck. You are out the $$ and she did nothing for it.
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My first USA SA date
I have used SA in Latin America many times before and it has been amazing. I use girls as tour guides and they show me amazing times, I find girls who can take me hiking mostly. I was in LA recently and had a few days left in my membership so decided to try it out here. Yea I head USA is the worst place for mongering and SA here even sucks, that's why I never wanted to try it. I only tried it one week here but yea lots of flakes, lots of pros, few of the broke college girl type dreams. I also am not rich like everyone else here who can afford USA prices LOL. All I wanted was a date and to pay for drinks to see what its like here.
I went on a date with tall sexy early 20's Asian chick. She was in college and was educated and actually normal. My plan was two drinks and go home. She seemed stuck up at first but after a lot of drinks we are making out at the bar, I bounce her to another bar and all we do is make out there I tell her I want to fuck her and she says she wants the same. I was super drunk. Skipped dinner and had tons of alcohol. Bad idea. We go to my car and I find a hotel and the magic happens. BBFS, CIM, three rounds, complete drunk GFE, we leave at 8 am. I never BBFS I am strongly against it (see username) for me I would have never done that sober, I can't believe she even let me drive how irresponsible of her, LOL. A mongering friend told me this only happened because I am attractive. Yea for an old monger LOL. When I drop her off I tell her I will pay her something, I think it is fair, I thought about ghosting her though, but I wanted to hit it sober this time. For date two she asks how much I will give her, I tell her 500 for our two dates, she says 600, I agree.
Date two was amazing also, lots of alcohol (we both like to drink) but I'm not blacking out this time, LOL. Two rounds covered like I like it, really good aggressive sex. I was DATY while fingering and she came so hard and was like what was that?. Was that my G spot? WTF no one ever did this to her? That my tip of the week LOL. She is amazing, special to me, real, my first and only SA America. I will never see her again tho LOL. 600 is crazy money for a small fry like me yea I make a lot but I too cheap to pay that much for pussy, it already commands to much power over me, I have to learn to tell myself no. When she hits me up next I will tell her I can wine and dine her and fly her to Cancun but I will never give her cash again. I can get still get NSA FWB for free. Yes older maybe not as hot but free LOL. I think there is a 10% chance she will see me again under these conditions, I tried my best to make her feel special, to seduce her, and to give the BFE (Boyfriend Experience) LOL.
Lessons. Always have condoms, don't get too drunk, price is what you pay value is what you get, FIRE.
Did I over or under pay her? Was my experience unique at all?
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[QUOTE=RedHead169;5664089]And how do you know that she isn't the one scamming you? She could tell you this sob story to make you feel sorry for her so that you will meet her for dinner / coffee and give her the money. Then she tells you she didn't feel a connection and wishes you luck. You are out the $$ and she did nothing for it.[/QUOTE]I didn't meet her or pay her any $$ precisely for this reason. You're 100% right thought.
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Ariana contacted me too. Same number. Wanted to meet after 2 sentences and even gave me her location right away. Set off a red flag for me. She is not my type at all but tried to engage out of boredom at the moment. Asked for 500 than before I could even respond she dropped to 400. I just stopped responding.
She texted pics but I don't find her attractive but the pics matched.
[QUOTE=Zimbler;5663077]ArianaAries.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/64d3c899-71ce-4980-bf46-568423da70b3[/URL]
Talked with her. She's in the River North area. Wants 400 ppm, but she can host. Face pics are nice, but she obviously has implants, which I don't like. If you offer less or try to negotiate she'll block you. Ask me how I know.
Ari.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/89e00d1e-80b7-47d6-960a-1a5b677270bd[/URL]
She's in the Libertyville area and can't host. She said she received 400 ppm in her previous arrangements and that's what she wants. If you offer less or try to negotiate she'll block you. Ask me how I know. LOL.[/QUOTE]
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Ariana
[QUOTE=Diginonomous;5664163]Ariana contacted me too. Same number. Wanted to meet after 2 sentences and even gave me her location right away. Set off a red flag for me. She is not my type at all but tried to engage out of boredom at the moment. Asked for 500 than before I could even respond she dropped to 400. I just stopped responding.
She texted pics but I don't find her attractive but the pics matched.[/QUOTE]Ariana is real, definitely a traveling pro. Saw her in LA about 8 months ago. 400 for solid service and she didn't watch the clock. Everything minus oral covered. Like most, she doesn't seem to be too into it.
If you like really skinny girls with bolt ons, she isn't too bad.
Whether whoever is texting from her new number is actually her, ask to video chat. I took the plunge in LA after videoing her for a few minutes.
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[QUOTE=GeorgeVerWest;5663721]So you would go and meet her, give her the 300 plus dinner and if she agrees not to see you because of whatever reasons she may have, then you are out of 300 plus the tab and with no arrangement... does that sound like a "good deal"? LOL cmon! That's ridiculous.[/QUOTE]Out of six times, it worked out great five times. So the math worked out great in my favor. You just have to develop good instincts for whether or not she's a scammer. I've absolutely had the best results doing it this way.
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[QUOTE=LolBoat;5663988]I was talking to this chick here in NJ and she said she had to deal with salt daddies who said they'd give her money but never actually wound up going through with it. Now she wants $$ no matter what happens, even just for coffee.
It really sucks this is happening but it seems like lot of guys ruined it for the rest of us with their scammer BS.[/QUOTE]What happen is seeking hit mainstream. There are tons of youtube videos telling guys to treat seeking as a dating site and how not to pay. I remember when I started this hobby a few years ago there were way more girls and more girls now ask immediately when contacting them what kind of arrangement are you looking for.
Aol chatrooms, My space, Tinder, Facebook, POF all had glory days it hits mainstream and gets played out. This is what appears happen to SA.
The best dating APP right now is Instagram. I am a little older and don't have a crew and don't have the social status to kill it on there.
To the younger guys Instagram has the hottest girl and it is where it is at. Even if you meet a hot girl at a coffee shop if you have a good Instagram that ups your chances of getting the date.
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[QUOTE=CBJlover;5664147]I have used SA in Latin America many times before and it has been amazing. I use girls as tour guides and they show me amazing times, I find girls who can take me hiking mostly. I was in LA recently and had a few days left in my membership so decided to try it out here. Yea I head USA is the worst place for mongering and SA here even sucks, that's why I never wanted to try it. I only tried it one week here but yea lots of flakes, lots of pros, few of the broke college girl type dreams. I also am not rich like everyone else here who can afford USA prices LOL. All I wanted was a date and to pay for drinks to see what its like here.
I went on a date with tall sexy early 20's Asian chick. She was in college and was educated and actually normal. My plan was two drinks and go home. She seemed stuck up at first but after a lot of drinks we are making out at the bar, I bounce her to another bar and all we do is make out there I tell her I want to fuck her and she says she wants the same. I was super drunk. Skipped dinner and had tons of alcohol. Bad idea. We go to my car and I find a hotel and the magic happens. BBFS, CIM, three rounds, complete drunk GFE, we leave at 8 am. I never BBFS I am strongly against it (see username) for me I would have never done that sober, I can't believe she even let me drive how irresponsible of her, LOL. A mongering friend told me this only happened because I am attractive. Yea for an old monger LOL. When I drop her off I tell her I will pay her something, I think it is fair, I thought about ghosting her though, but I wanted to hit it sober this time. For date two she asks how much I will give her, I tell her 500 for our two dates, she says 600, I agree.
Date two was amazing also, lots of alcohol (we both like to drink) but I'm not blacking out this time, LOL. Two rounds covered like I like it, really good aggressive sex. I was DATY while fingering and she came so hard and was like what was that?. Was that my G spot? WTF no one ever did this to her? That my tip of the week LOL. She is amazing, special to me, real, my first and only SA America. I will never see her again tho LOL. 600 is crazy money for a small fry like me yea I make a lot but I too cheap to pay that much for pussy, it already commands to much power over me, I have to learn to tell myself no. When she hits me up next I will tell her I can wine and dine her and fly her to Cancun but I will never give her cash again. I can get still get NSA FWB for free. Yes older maybe not as hot but free LOL. I think there is a 10% chance she will see me again under these conditions, I tried my best to make her feel special, to seduce her, and to give the BFE (Boyfriend Experience) LOL.
Lessons. Always have condoms, don't get too drunk, price is what you pay value is what you get, FIRE.
Did I over or under pay her? Was my experience unique at all?[/QUOTE]I want the link LOL 300 for a date and a good fuck with a sexy Asian? Bro give me the damn link lmao.
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[QUOTE=JustinFields;5664233]What happen is seeking hit mainstream. There are tons of youtube videos telling guys to treat seeking as a dating site and how not to pay. I remember when I started this hobby a few years ago there were way more girls and more girls now ask immediately when contacting them what kind of arrangement are you looking for.
Aol chatrooms, My space, Tinder, Facebook, POF all had glory days it hits mainstream and gets played out. This is what appears happen to SA.
The best dating APP right now is Instagram. I am a little older and don't have a crew and don't have the social status to kill it on there.
To the younger guys Instagram has the hottest girl and it is where it is at. Even if you meet a hot girl at a coffee shop if you have a good Instagram that ups your chances of getting the date.[/QUOTE]Indeed SA is getting played out. No social media for me as I'm a bit older now as well.
I feel like now is the time start a new app that is a combination of backpage / SA and or somehow circumvents the existing SESTA laws. This is getting ridiculous.
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DreamyLover on SA
First timer using SA and have been having a ton of hits. Have a couple different possible slooots lining up for "help" LOL, clearly they all want to pretend they aren't escort / hookers. Aaaaaand they are, about to me up this one as we speak. 500 for 90 minutes all holes, cim-cof, degradation, and recording approved etc.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/03f28252-8e0b-4776-ae02-f82df024b5f8[/URL]
Assuming she is a professional but I haven't seen her anywhere nor did her number show up. Will report back.
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Dreamy lover
[QUOTE=Kabs3714;5665876]First timer using SA and have been having a ton of hits. Have a couple different possible slooots lining up for "help" LOL, clearly they all want to pretend they aren't escort / hookers. Aaaaaand they are, about to me up this one as we speak. 500 for 90 minutes all holes, cim-cof, degradation, and recording approved etc.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/03f28252-8e0b-4776-ae02-f82df024b5f8[/URL]
Assuming she is a professional but I haven't seen her anywhere nor did her number show up. Will report back.[/QUOTE]I've been talking to her as well, got the pro vibe off her, nice to see the spidey senses not totally dead, ha. Hadn't gotten as far as rate though, so good to know what she's looking for.
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Lol
[QUOTE=FeldSpot;5666055]I've been talking to her as well, got the pro vibe off her, nice to see the spidey senses not totally dead, ha. Hadn't gotten as far as rate though, so good to know what she's looking for.[/QUOTE]We booked the room, walked in together and she immediately took off her clothes. Her tits are big but her body has a lot of stretch marks. She was game for BBFS but I declined and we ended agreeing on a hour instead. She's a horny thing. I legitimately throat fucked her for 30 minutes, fucked both holes covered. Recorded the whole thing, she truly was a dirty dirty submissive thing. She says she isn't a pro just loves to get fucked and needs some support. We are still texting and working on some other situations that may be more convenient, talking about meeting up occasionally at a parking lot where we can car date. Talking her down to 2 benjis for a cardate that will allow me to throat her and use those other holes for two pops while recording. She seems game. Wouldn't call her a pro yet, may meets up with guys occasionally so semi-pro is what I'm thinking. We will see her on the circuit eventually but not yet LOL.
She legitimately let me fuck the shit out of that mouth. Impressive stuff.
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[QUOTE=Kabs3714;5666144]We booked the room, walked in together and she immediately took off her clothes. Her tits are big but her body has a lot of stretch marks. She was game for BBFS but I declined and we ended agreeing on a hour instead. She's a horny thing. I legitimately throat fucked her for 30 minutes, fucked both holes covered. Recorded the whole thing, she truly was a dirty dirty submissive thing. She says she isn't a pro just loves to get fucked and needs some support. We are still texting and working on some other situations that may be more convenient, talking about meeting up occasionally at a parking lot where we can car date. Talking her down to 2 benjis for a cardate that will allow me to throat her and use those other holes for two pops while recording. She seems game. Wouldn't call her a pro yet, may meets up with guys occasionally so semi-pro is what I'm thinking. We will see her on the circuit eventually but not yet LOL.
She legitimately let me fuck the shit out of that mouth. Impressive stuff.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the info. Stretch marks are a bit of a boner killer, but if she's really into getting off as much as possible, that can be slightly overlooked.