[QUOTE=SlimShady96;4341660] Her reply was. I do porn! Holy $hi# that wouldn't have ended well for ole Slim. Anyhow I excused myself and said I had to drop a deuce and text her back how uncool it was to just start blowing up phones and text at random hours and replying anything over an hour from the initial contact, she apologized and I hope / think she understood. I miss my old burner phone. SS96 safe for now.[/QUOTE]You're playing with extreme hot lava if you don't set notification on mute my dude.
I would highly suggest you use a 3rd party messaging app, if you haven't already, and make sure that app does not ring or vibrate (notification setting) when you get a text / call. And I'm sure you can use common sense to hide that app somewhere your wife wouldn't go into.
As for that girl Rachel, I've told her numerous times to stop calling or texting me. It's ridiculous to keep trying to the point where I think she's out to sabotage. Quick story, told her I stopped seeing girls as I was dating a cute girl some months back, and she called me in the dead of night at 3-4 AM in the morning. TWICE. I was out cold and didn't even notice the calls, luckily my girl was at her mom's for the night. I'm going to go on a limb here and say she might have forgotten what I told her. If not then she sure needs to learn proper etiquette or her ass stays on blocked number list.
But I since learned my lesson and turned notification off from that app.
And you know what's really frustrating? She reaches out from different phone numbers!! (In her defense, she lost the video I made of her and she looked really good in it. So she might have really wanted a copy of it back)
You've been warned.