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[QUOTE=SemperFidelis;2504362]I have checked the abbr & even googled LOL, been reading here a while and have had a sa account now for a few months, now to the point can someone please enlighten me as to what a pot & gps are?[/QUOTE]POT. POTential sugar baby.
GPS. Golden Pussy Syndrome.
[QUOTE=IluvSmellyFish;2667458]In my neverending quest for variety, I've found a few problems. Mainly, because my time is limited, I pass up dates with girls that have made it into my rotation, to meet with pots. Two ladies have gone dark after I tried to reschedule dates with them in order to meet up with new pots.
I went out on a date with a pot that I thought I had sealed the deal with. We had previously m&ged and confirmed that she was interested in an FC trip. The night of, I take her to an upscale restaurant, she confirms during dinner that she is interested in heading to the hotel. So I book a room using an app on my phone. Next thing I know when the check comes, she immediately makes for the door of the restaurant.
I caught up with her and asked what was going on, and she replies that she just changed her mind. I wasn't sure whether I was more irritated that I could've spent the night banging another vetted baby, or because I dropped $150 on dinner and booked the hotel for another $175.
All for the best though. I am now working a new pot that I really like, and things with my swim instructor are still going strong. I don't see her often, but, its probably for the best, since I enjoy the variety so much.
Luckily, because I booked the room toward the end of dinner, I was able to cancel since the window between when I booked and called to cancel was so short. Annoying, but the only thing lost was the cost of the meal and the evening out. Between the two, the evening out was definetly more valuable of the two.[/QUOTE]Man that really sucks. Sorry you had to draw a ****.
[QUOTE=deez5454;2668165]Am I understanding correctly that SA is roughly $50 for one month? I'd like to try it out while I'm visiting in a metro city but nothing long term to be honest because I live in a rural area. There is no trial period for a handful of days right? Any recommendations other than SA? Ill be in columbus oh.[/QUOTE]There should be an option for a 7 day period. The cost per day is much higher, but overall it should be less money. Value may not matter depending on how long you're in town.
[QUOTE=Mike7794;2663135]After the disappointing weekend I had I'm already in a nice recovery mode. Let me explain.
The POT I met from a city two hours away went well. We each drove one hour to meet at a half way point for the both of us. We had a nice reasonably priced dinner and went to the FC at a local hotel. Boom finally had my sex.
Tonight my regular that had the hurt back last Friday came to my house to make it up to me. Now this young woman gets it when it comes to taking care of a daddy. She definitely wants to please me, and she has a really hot little body. She had an A plus performance in bed tonight. Boom sex again two nights in a row. The way it's been going lately that's a boon to me.
Tomorrow I'm meeting my 31 yr old either at lunch or right after work. She's horny and reliable, so I can pretty much count on another FC visit. That should make three.
Wednesday I'm meeting an 18 year old student by day and a new stripper by night. As she put it she can make the same amount of money in 20 hours as opposed to working 3 jobs and 70 hours per week. When she puts it like that who can blame her. Anyway we'll see how that one goes. She's from SA. Actually they almost all are. I don't plan on getting laid necessarily, but if there's a crack in the conversation I'll exploit it.
Thursday I could have a pro from SA if I want it. She's another stripper that's a pro on the side. I don't really go for these types unless I'm so horny I resort to it.
Friday back with my 24 yr old again. Been with her 7 weeks and if she delivers on the sex frequency then she'll turn into an ATF.
So I recovered nicely from last Friday and Saturday, but I've had an unusual run of strippers on the SA site.[/QUOTE]Hey, just discovered this forum although I've known about SA for several years now. I actually saw a stripper on there who I've seen a lot at a club in Chicago I frequent- well I've gotten a lot of dances from her which was pretty wild.
I've never joined SA for several reasons- it seems like an expensive hobby, I'm not sure I want to risk catching something (I'm clean) or risk knocking a gal up- even with protection there's a risk for each of those, & there's a chance a gal tries to blackmail me saying I forced her to do something- which I would never do. Do you guys worry about any of those things? I could use a spark- my dating life has been non existent lately even though I am in good shape, but I don't want to see a pro. I'd rather see the gal next door who isn't seeing everyone in a 60 mile radius 7 days a week.
I appreciate this forum. A lot of great info on here.
Here is my week in review. Title: Nonrepresentative Pics.
1) Started talking to a 25 yo blonde on SA. Pictures looked good, definately bangable. We decided to meet at a restaurant for drinks. Well, she did not look as great as the photos. They must've been from when she was 20-21 and 20-25 pounds lighter. Immediately, I knew this wasn't going to work. I decided to just bullshit and see what her story was. Same shit, different sugar baby. She wastes four years studying music in college and now is working an unrelated low-paying job, sharing a house with a few room mates. Delusional ideas that if she saves up money and moves to another city, she will get her big break. What also pissed me off is that she kept texting during the meet. Eventually, I just tell her that I need to call it a night because I work early. I don't think she took the hint that I was not attracted to her. While not much, I wish I could have my time and money back. Of course, the * asked for a $10 cocktail.
2) Started talking to mixed 23 yo. Pictures looked great, almost like a short Rihanna. After we exchanged numbers, I did a google search and got a name. I tried different variations on Facebook and was eventually able to sleuth out her profile. Her phone had a different surname than her Facebook account. What I found was that the pictures she posted to SA were carefully posed to hide flaws and possibly edited. In reality, she was alot uglier. I also found she lied on SA, because she actually had a kid. I am not down with a stretched out pussy. I also saw she had some deadbeat black baby daddy in her life too. She kept texting me and calling me for four days until she finally stopped.
3) Started talking to a 23 white stripper. Pictures were again really good. She was easily a 9. After finding out her real first name (not too common) and searching Facebook, I found her profile. She looked really rough. The pics on the sugar daddy site were easily from when she was 18-19 and at her peak. She had put on alot of weight and had all kinds of nasty birthmarks on her face, definately not "athletic" like she had put down on her profile. "Average" body, or possibly "a few extra pounds" in my humble opinion. I also found out that the strip club she worked at was the bottom rung in town--you know, the one with all the druggies and 35-40 yo dancers.
I wonder how many guys these chicks had fooled into meeting with their nonrepresentative pictures.
Have any of you had bad experiences where the pictures they posted or texted you were deceiving? How often?
[QUOTE=IluvSmellyFish;2667458]In my neverending quest for variety, I've found a few problems. Mainly, because my time is limited, I pass up dates with girls that have made it into my rotation, to meet with pots. Two ladies have gone dark after I tried to reschedule dates with them in order to meet up with new pots.
I went out on a date with a pot that I thought I had sealed the deal with. We had previously m&ged and confirmed that she was interested in an FC trip. The night of, I take her to an upscale restaurant, she confirms during dinner that she is interested in heading to the hotel. So I book a room using an app on my phone. Next thing I know when the check comes, she immediately makes for the door of the restaurant.
I caught up with her and asked what was going on, and she replies that she just changed her mind. I wasn't sure whether I was more irritated that I could've spent the night banging another vetted baby, or because I dropped $150 on dinner and booked the hotel for another $175.
All for the best though. I am now working a new pot that I really like, and things with my swim instructor are still going strong. I don't see her often, but, its probably for the best, since I enjoy the variety so much.
Luckily, because I booked the room toward the end of dinner, I was able to cancel since the window between when I booked and called to cancel was so short. Annoying, but the only thing lost was the cost of the meal and the evening out. Between the two, the evening out was definetly more valuable of the two.[/QUOTE]
A bird in the hand, is worth two in the Bush???
But hey who was flaky to start with, canceling a date with one girl to chase another? Maybe Karma caught up with ya?
I'm just sayin'.
[QUOTE=SemperFidelis;2504362]I have checked the abbr & even googled LOL, been reading here a while and have had a sa account now for a few months, now to the point can someone please enlighten me as to what a pot & gps are?[/QUOTE]While OP gave you the answers you needed THIS time, in the future you may need additional help. Go here to get an education.
Post #2 - Definitions.
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?15100-Sugarbaby-Thread-Highlights-Index-and-FAQ&p=2480291&viewfull=1[/URL]#post2480291.
Lots of other useful info in that thread.
[QUOTE=Kellster;2668872]Hey, just discovered this forum although I've known about SA for several years now. I actually saw a stripper on there who I've seen a lot at a club in Chicago I frequent- well I've gotten a lot of dances from her which was pretty wild.
I've never joined SA for several reasons- it seems like an expensive hobby, I'm not sure I want to risk catching something (I'm clean) or risk knocking a gal up- even with protection there's a risk for each of those, & there's a chance a gal tries to blackmail me saying I forced her to do something- which I would never do. Do you guys worry about any of those things? I could use a spark- my dating life has been non existent lately even though I am in good shape, but I don't want to see a pro. I'd rather see the gal next door who isn't seeing everyone in a 60 mile radius 7 days a week.
I appreciate this forum. A lot of great info on here.[/QUOTE]
Dude! You need others to convince you to operate outside of your comfort zone? If you aren't comfortable: Stay out of the game! Spidey Senses usually serve one well in the hobby and it is when one avoids or ignores the Spidey Senses that trouble begins.
That said, the kind of apprehension that comes through in your post could spell trouble if you contact the wrong girl. Find a hardened girl and she'll sense your fear and will use it to exploit you. While most on SD sites aren't hardened, as the discussion demonstrates, there are a few strippers, escorts and other pros on these sites. Find the wrong one, show signs of fear, telegraph certain things and you'll be a victim. Been there done that.
But everything one mention is a risk. I can tell you a bunch of ways to manage any risk, but each person has to make that evaluation and stick to it. How one guy manages risk or the risks he takes might not be what you are comfortable with as each person's circumstances are different.
In reality one should probably go see some pros to get their feet wet and learn some of the ropes. Go find the top-level girls; those that are HIGHLY reviewed or on the upscale websites (eros). Find a good one, tell her your a newbie and let her take charge, Then after the fun is over. Ask a lot of questions in a respectful way. Learn from a review girl who is thus low risk. Then venture into the lion's den.
Many of the skills you'll need to "manage" risk are the same things one might use when dating off of BP. See this thread for the best advice I could come up with for staying safe. Pay particular attention to the items that relate to revealing your personal items. .
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?13919-My-Suggestions.-Rules-For-BackPage&p=2394419&viewfull=1[/URL]#post2394419.
Also the prior post has a link to a thread where resides a couple months worth of reading & education particularly focused on the Sugar Baby aspect of hobbling. Get an education from the experience of others or through the "School of Hard Knocks!" Your choice really.
Good luck with your decision!
[QUOTE=SugarDaddyX;2668992]...
3) Started talking to a 23 white stripper. Pictures were again really good. She was easily a 9. After finding out her real first name (not too common) and searching Facebook, I found her profile.
...[/QUOTE]From their profile on SA.
[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;2669433]Dude! You need others to convince you to operate outside of your comfort zone? If you aren't comfortable: Stay out of the game! Spidey Senses usually serve one well in the hobby and it is when one avoids or ignores the Spidey Senses that trouble begins.
That said, the kind of apprehension that comes through in your post could spell trouble if you contact the wrong girl. Find a hardened girl and she'll sense your fear and will use it to exploit you. While most on SD sites aren't hardened, as the discussion demonstrates, there are a few strippers, escorts and other pros on these sites. Find the wrong one, show signs of fear, telegraph certain things and you'll be a victim. Been there done that.
But everything one mention is a risk. I can tell you a bunch of ways to manage any risk, but each person has to make that evaluation and stick to it. How one guy manages risk or the risks he takes might not be what you are comfortable with as each person's circumstances are different.
In reality one should probably go see some pros to get their feet wet and learn some of the ropes. Go find the top-level girls; those that are HIGHLY reviewed or on the upscale websites (eros). Find a good one, tell her your a newbie and let her take charge, Then after the fun is over. Ask a lot of questions in a respectful way. Learn from a review girl who is thus low risk. Then venture into the lion's den.
Many of the skills you'll need to "manage" risk are the same things one might use when dating off of BP. See this thread for the best advice I could come up with for staying safe. Pay particular attention to the items that relate to revealing your personal items. .
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?13919-My-Suggestions.-Rules-For-BackPage&p=2394419&viewfull=1[/URL]#post2394419.
Also the prior post has a link to a thread where resides a couple months worth of reading & education particularly focused on the Sugar Baby aspect of hobbling. Get an education from the experience of others or through the "School of Hard Knocks!" Your choice really.
Good luck with your decision![/QUOTE]Thanks appreciate the advice. Yeah I'm apprehensive about it- little head wants to and big head doesn't. I'm not getting any younger and my social life is in a dry spell which is why I am thinking about trying it. I'll definitely read some of those posts. I always try to learn from others mistakes. Thanks good luck!
[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;2669538]From their profile on SA.[/QUOTE]#3 told me her first name over the phone. She was using a fake handle on her SA profile. Not many people had that name in her city in the Facebook search. The problem was I had to give out my burn number before receiving enough clues to figure out who #2 and #3 really were and had to ignore alot of text and calls before they got the point.
[QUOTE=SugarDaddyX;2669641]#3 told me her first name over the phone. She was using a fake handle on her SA profile. Not many people had that name in her city in the Facebook search. The problem was I had to give out my burn number before receiving enough clues to figure out who #2 and #3 really were and had to ignore alot of text and calls before they got the point.[/QUOTE]So many girls, especially under 30, don't cover their tracks well, or even try. Real first name and hometown and college or employer will land a high % of true identities. One girl gave me her number, but I got voicemail. Very professional greeting with her full name and she was mystified how I found out so much about her -- think Healy in Something About Mary. Those Tibetan coins will cause panties to hit the floor at record speed.
[QUOTE=Kellster;2668872]Hey, just discovered this forum although I've known about SA for several years now. I actually saw a stripper on there who I've seen a lot at a club in Chicago I frequent- well I've gotten a lot of dances from her which was pretty wild.
I've never joined SA for several reasons- it seems like an expensive hobby, I'm not sure I want to risk catching something (I'm clean) or risk knocking a gal up- even with protection there's a risk for each of those, & there's a chance a gal tries to blackmail me saying I forced her to do something- which I would never do. Do you guys worry about any of those things? I could use a spark- my dating life has been non existent lately even though I am in good shape, but I don't want to see a pro. I'd rather see the gal next door who isn't seeing everyone in a 60 mile radius 7 days a week.
I appreciate this forum. A lot of great info on here.[/QUOTE]Expensive hobby? When I compare it to being married, then no I don't believe so. Having said that it's all in a budget you can afford.
I've never caught anything, but I'll use protection too, unless it is an established baby who I know stays clean. As far as pregnancy I had a Vsec about seven years ago. No worries for me in that regard.
I've never come close to feeling like a girl would blackmail me. Well, wait. There is one stripper who caught wind of my business, who has potential to screw with me. Hasn't yet. She's not from SA anyway. I can say most all the girls on the site need a little help in life, so there isn't much incentive to bite the hand that could feed them.
I'm having the time of my life on SA. I recommend it if you want to spice things up.
There is an index below this thread that has information compiled over several years. Really helpful information from approaching these women to discreet hotel stays, and how to sift through the UTR's, Pros, and Nando's.
Good luck.
[QUOTE=SugarDaddyX;2668992]Here is my week in review. Title: Nonrepresentative Pics.
1) Started talking to a 25 yo blonde on SA. Pictures looked good, definately bangable. We decided to meet at a restaurant for drinks. Well, she did not look as great as the photos. They must've been from when she was 20-21 and 20-25 pounds lighter. Immediately, I knew this wasn't going to work. I decided to just bullshit and see what her story was. Same shit, different sugar baby. She wastes four years studying music in college and now is working an unrelated low-paying job, sharing a house with a few room mates. Delusional ideas that if she saves up money and moves to another city, she will get her big break. What also pissed me off is that she kept texting during the meet. Eventually, I just tell her that I need to call it a night because I work early. I don't think she took the hint that I was not attracted to her. While not much, I wish I could have my time and money back. Of course, the * asked for a $10 cocktail.
2) Started talking to mixed 23 yo. Pictures looked great, almost like a short Rihanna. After we exchanged numbers, I did a google search and got a name. I tried different variations on Facebook and was eventually able to sleuth out her profile. Her phone had a different surname than her Facebook account. What I found was that the pictures she posted to SA were carefully posed to hide flaws and possibly edited. In reality, she was alot uglier. I also found she lied on SA, because she actually had a kid. I am not down with a stretched out pussy. I also saw she had some deadbeat black baby daddy in her life too. She kept texting me and calling me for four days until she finally stopped.
3) Started talking to a 23 white stripper. Pictures were again really good. She was easily a 9. After finding out her real first name (not too common) and searching Facebook, I found her profile. She looked really rough. The pics on the sugar daddy site were easily from when she was 18-19 and at her peak. She had put on alot of weight and had all kinds of nasty birthmarks on her face, definately not "athletic" like she had put down on her profile. "Average" body, or possibly "a few extra pounds" in my humble opinion. I also found out that the strip club she worked at was the bottom rung in town--you know, the one with all the druggies and 35-40 yo dancers.
I wonder how many guys these chicks had fooled into meeting with their nonrepresentative pictures.
Have any of you had bad experiences where the pictures they posted or texted you were deceiving? How often?[/QUOTE]Yeah I've been fooled by a few where they put older pictures where they were lighter too. One girl had the nicest pics when she must have been 18, because she was only 20 when I met her. Couldn't believe how much heavier she was in two years. Another met me for lunch and came in dressed so sloppy with her hair hardly brushed I was embarrassed to sit there with her. There haven't been many in those situations. I've turned kind of picky.
[QUOTE=ArcherSterling;2670074]So many girls, especially under 30, don't cover their tracks well, or even try. Real first name and hometown and college or employer will land a high % of true identities. One girl gave me her number, but I got voicemail. Very professional greeting with her full name and she was mystified how I found out so much about her -- think Healy in Something About Mary. Those Tibetan coins will cause panties to hit the floor at record speed.[/QUOTE]That's too funny.
"Healy in Something about Mary"? I don't recall a movie "Something about Mary".