[QUOTE=JmSuttr;3679966]Sorry to hear about Scarlett and hope you're able to reconnect. Just wanted to share some observations about getting the personal digits of your faves, and I'd also love to hear about the strategies of others.
IMHO, by the time a masseuse becomes a personal fave she's had to develop a sense of comfort and chemistry with the client. But getting her digits is going a step further and depends on her willingness to cross that invisible line between work and personal. Some girls might be worried about a client turning into a stalker while others might worry about family or an SO finding out. What's worked for me in most cases is to focus on the business angle of how having her digits will make it much easier to see her for massage. Also, since some AMP providers can run into problems if they get too popular, I might mention how having her digits can help with scheduling visits to try to avoid those issues. Just depends on your assessment of what her concerns are.
Any other suggestions out there?[/QUOTE]Sounds reasonable. Getting too popular was definitely a problem for Scarlett. "These reviews are killing me" she told me once. So there really are good reasons not to be telling the world when you're getting an extraordinary level of service, much as I hate to say it.