Anyone signed up or had any luck?
[QUOTE=RimJim;7340915]Has anyone used and / or had any luck with the SLN site?[/QUOTE]
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Anyone signed up or had any luck?
[QUOTE=RimJim;7340915]Has anyone used and / or had any luck with the SLN site?[/QUOTE]
Would someone mind sharing with me how to make things work on Seeking? I signed up and have been chatting with several women but am hesitant to meet up without a "deal" in place. It seems like everyone talks really vaguely on there. PM if you prefer.
[QUOTE=Dcsd12;7388265]Would someone mind sharing with me how to make things work on Seeking? I signed up and have been chatting with several women but am hesitant to meet up without a "deal" in place. It seems like everyone talks really vaguely on there. PM if you prefer.[/QUOTE]After a convo has started I ask if they'd like to switch to texting and discuss details of an arrangement. In that text discussion I let them know how I go about starting an arrangement. I'm single, so meeting in a public place isn't an issue (actual SBs prefer this, hookers don't care), we feel things out and then potentially spend one on one time together. If+ we have fun then repeat. I Have had a LOT of success with this approach. I don't use ppm in my pitch I say "per meet allowance" so if things go wrong they won't screen shot it and send it to seeking which will lead to being banned. And I never use any language like this on the seeking messenger- they could ban you, they monitor messages. Hope that helps.
[QUOTE=Dcsd12;7388265]Would someone mind sharing with me how to make things work on Seeking? I signed up and have been chatting with several women but am hesitant to meet up without a "deal" in place. It seems like everyone talks really vaguely on there. PM if you prefer.[/QUOTE]I haven't been in the game for a while but here is what I did. Get the conversation off Seeking asap. Be prepared to show pictures of yourself or do Facetime. Discuss the arrangement without being to explicit. Meet in public first. If public meeting goes well, then setup the first date. Do not pay anything until the end of the date. Avoid allowances.
[QUOTE=FingerLicking;7390313]I haven't been in the game for a while but here is what I did. Get the conversation off Seeking asap. Be prepared to show pictures of yourself or do Facetime. Discuss the arrangement without being to explicit. Meet in public first. If public meeting goes well, then setup the first date. Do not pay anything until the end of the date. Avoid allowances.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=EpicSD;7390033]After a convo has started I ask if they'd like to switch to texting and discuss details of an arrangement. In that text discussion I let them know how I go about starting an arrangement. I'm single, so meeting in a public place isn't an issue (actual SBs prefer this, hookers don't care), we feel things out and then potentially spend one on one time together. If+ we have fun then repeat. I Have had a LOT of success with this approach. I don't use ppm in my pitch I say "per meet allowance" so if things go wrong they won't screen shot it and send it to seeking which will lead to being banned. And I never use any language like this on the seeking messenger- they could ban you, they monitor messages. Hope that helps.[/QUOTE]Thanks. I've been trying this somewhat thus far. I have no problem starting conversations on Seeking and them moving them to texting shortly thereafter. But that is where I seem to be getting stuck.
I've had a few girls be very direct and say they are looking for ppm and then quote me ridiculous rates like $7. At least with those ones I can just say I'm not interested and move on.
But with the other girls, I get stuck. I have asked a few "what kind of arrangements are you looking for?" or "what are you open to" and they just ghosted me.
I have also had several girls give me their number and then when I send them a text they don't respond.
But more what I am asking at this point is how do you do it once you meet and greet at a coffee shop or wherever? Do you just start throwing numbers out there? Are there actually women on Seeking who aren't looking for ppm?
[QUOTE=Dcsd12;7390398]Thanks. I've been trying this somewhat thus far. I have no problem starting conversations on Seeking and them moving them to texting shortly thereafter. But that is where I seem to be getting stuck.
I've had a few girls be very direct and say they are looking for ppm and then quote me ridiculous rates like $7. At least with those ones I can just say I'm not interested and move on.
But with the other girls, I get stuck. I have asked a few "what kind of arrangements are you looking for?" or "what are you open to" and they just ghosted me.
I have also had several girls give me their number and then when I send them a text they don't respond.
But more what I am asking at this point is how do you do it once you meet and greet at a coffee shop or wherever? Do you just start throwing numbers out there? Are there actually women on Seeking who aren't looking for ppm?[/QUOTE]I do things a bit differently, 90% of the site is either scammers or girls wanting ridiculous amounts of money. So what I do is skip the whole meet in person part. While texting I tell them I'm looking for something fun, discrete, NSA and mutually beneficial. Then I ask them what they are looking for. If they say the same then I ask them what kind of benefits they're looking for. Usually 95% of them will throw out a number. If they don't move on from them. Most of the ladies that are interested already know what you are looking for so they don't ask. Just a few tips. Never hook up at your place, always use a burner phone or number when texting even if you are single. Don't buy pictures or videos for money, and don't pay until deed is completed.
This one tells me $300 PPM. When we move to text it turns out her $300 PPM is actually a $300 M&G. Then tells me if I want to get intimate for $300 I should hit a prostitute street LOL. This tarts got alot to learn.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/e71aee59bd6bce4d[/URL]
Does anyone know why I keep getting "502 Bad Gateway" Angie on my PC?
I have deleted history. Cookies. Cached. And done a chrome update.
[QUOTE=CPMachine;7396301]Does anyone know why I keep getting "502 Bad Gateway" Angie on my PC?
I have deleted history. Cookies. Cached. And done a chrome update.[/QUOTE]I get the same thing to include on mobile. Most of the time if I start typing the site name in the address bar and autofill completes with a link to another topic on the San Diego forum I can choose that link then the site loads fine. I'm able to navigate anywhere on the site from that point. But if I try to come back to the site on the same page from an earlier session then I get that 502 bad gateway error and have to employ the method described to get back in.
Sometimes I just end up having to go to the main page and work my way in to the San Diego forum. Hopefully the site gets fixed soon. Seems like several access related issues these past few months.
[QUOTE=CPMachine;7396301]Does anyone know why I keep getting "502 Bad Gateway" Angie on my PC?
I have deleted history. Cookies. Cached. And done a chrome update.[/QUOTE]There is a sorta quick fix depend on what browser you use.
On HTTPS on search bar, just delete the S manually, and try again.
Only enter form the front of the forum not additional side pages.
[QUOTE=Fonmyj;7396945]I get the same thing to include on mobile. Most of the time if I start typing the site name in the address bar and autofill completes with a link to another topic on the San Diego forum I can choose that link then the site loads fine. I'm able to navigate anywhere on the site from that point. But if I try to come back to the site on the same page from an earlier session then I get that 502 bad gateway error and have to employ the method described to get back in.
Sometimes I just end up having to go to the main page and work my way in to the San Diego forum. Hopefully the site gets fixed soon. Seems like several access related issues these past few months.[/QUOTE]Occasionally the site pops up a 502 for me, but firefox, chrome, microsoft edge, all the main browsers just need to do the HttpS delete the S on the search bar usually fixes itself. And even that trick some times when I post it pops up and it erases the whole review for me, it is slightly annoying. Hope admin fixes this soon.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f743c78e-9c57-46ee-9788-75317063a928[/URL]
Service queen, but looks like the pictures where she has weight. Hosts outside of her place in PB. Bare was possible and all holes open. She just loved sucking cock though, so that's all we did. I think it was around 2.
Can confirm she is submissive and wants to be told what to do. Loves to suck cock and is good at it. Down to the last drop. All holes open bare and Soaked the couch and bed. If you enjoy a squirter with a round ass as I do, she is it!
[QUOTE=SitHere6;7400013][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f743c78e-9c57-46ee-9788-75317063a928[/URL]
Service queen, but looks like the pictures where she has weight. Hosts outside of her place in PB. Bare was possible and all holes open. She just loved sucking cock though, so that's all we did. I think it was around 2.
Can confirm she is submissive and wants to be told what to do. Loves to suck cock and is good at it. Down to the last drop. All holes open bare and Soaked the couch and bed. If you enjoy a squirter with a round ass as I do, she is it![/QUOTE]The seeking links don't work. So it's best to list the name, like I did with creativesiren.
[QUOTE=HermanMiller;7400552]The seeking links don't work. So it's best to list the name, like I did with creativesiren.[/QUOTE]Odd, the works for me. Wildchild is the user name. I will add she asked for 650 but quickly agreed to 300.
[QUOTE=SitHere6;7401427]Odd, the works for me. Wildchild is the user name. I will add she asked for 650 but quickly agreed to 300.[/QUOTE]Hah. I thought that's who you were talking about. Yes, she gives great sloppy head and is fun. Cheerleader type. Definitely heavier. The pictures that show she is heavier re more accurate. Still fun to roll around with.
Her 2nd message to me was " It's $300 just to meet and talk and I need a pedicure and outfit".
She's about 30 days away from being a a 50 dollar yololistcrawler girl.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ec1b4c4661769480[/URL]
I played it too loose and fast and I'm being blackmailed to pay 950 or they send my seeking profile to my wife. I would normally ignore it but they sent pics of my wife's FB page and recent comments as well as texted one of my family members ph#s. I was also able to link it back to a convo I moved onto WhatsApp. My fault for not using burners and also most likely have too many photos out there. They knew quite a bit, scary. Google text #s, mexico whatsapp#, two untraceable emails trying to get me to pay.
, Ana latina with 1 photo, new account (1 week old), LA and chula vista locations. Can't provide profile photo I deleted the app.
[QUOTE=ImNotWeird;7428888]I played it too loose and fast and I'm being blackmailed to pay 950 or they send my seeking profile to my wife. I would normally ignore it but they sent pics of my wife's FB page and recent comments as well as texted one of my family members ph#s. I was also able to link it back to a convo I moved onto WhatsApp. My fault for not using burners and also most likely have too many photos out there. They knew quite a bit, scary. Google text #s, mexico whatsapp#, two untraceable emails trying to get me to pay.
, Ana latina with 1 photo, new account (1 week old), LA and chula vista locations. Can't provide profile photo I deleted the app.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I had someone try this scam on me not to long ago but thankfully did some research on it. Its a bluff, they don't end up exposing you. Just don't message them back, block and delete them and change all your passwords. If you pay them, they keep coming back for more. It is scary how fast people can find out all this info on you.
[QUOTE=CPMachine;7429651]Yeah, I had someone try this scam on me not to long ago but thankfully did some research on it. Its a bluff, they don't end up exposing you. Just don't message them back, block and delete them and change all your passwords. If you pay them, they keep coming back for more. It is scary how fast people can find out all this info on you.[/QUOTE]I agree with all this advice. I had someone try to blackmail scam me a few years ago. They claimed they had installed malware on my computer and had used my webcam to record me jacking off to porn. They demanded me to send them bitcoin or they would send the jacking off videos to members of my family.
I responded and said I was not going to send any bitcoin but if they still wanted to send the videos to my family they could go right ahead and do it because that would probably just get me lots of compliments on how nice of a cock I have.
I did not hear back.
Anyone ponder why nowadays there are so many 30+ women on seeking wanting to be sbs? It's like 90:10 ratio for younger than 30 from what I can tell LOL. Is it because of Onlyfans and influencer success that the younger women don't need to be sbs?
[QUOTE=FabricBuster;7430201]Anyone ponder why nowadays there are so many 30+ women on seeking wanting to be sbs? It's like 90:10 ratio for younger than 30 from what I can tell LOL. Is it because of Onlyfans and influencer success that the younger women don't need to be sbs?[/QUOTE]Here's my theory. Most of them are delusional and not reeling in much unless they are willing to get it on with really old guys.
I spent a couple months on SA recently and got a lot of laughs from the women in their 30's and 40's. Aside from the very few really hot ones, most of them are average looking or fat. I literally asked a few of them to explain why a guy like me would pay them $600 for a meeting when I could pay one of the smoking hotties in their early 20's that money. None had an answer and they acted butt hurt.
[QUOTE=FabricBuster;7430201]Anyone ponder why nowadays there are so many 30+ women on seeking wanting to be sbs? It's like 90:10 ratio for younger than 30 from what I can tell LOL. Is it because of Onlyfans and influencer success that the younger women don't need to be sbs?[/QUOTE]I think it's list price echo chamber. They see or hear other girls advertising a certain rate and assume they're worth the same, without questioning whether anyone's actually paying those prices. I'd bet plenty of them are just BSing each other, claiming they've got "regulars" dropping cash every night when the reality is a lot quieter.
Same story in the FBSM scene, one brags about seeing six, eight, even ten clients in a day, and suddenly everyone else thinks they should be pulling those numbers too. But when they're all on shift together, the place is dead except for the chick who is advertising a decent rate and / or not upselling everything.