Anyone (besides me) tried this website? Two hundred bucks and so far a whole lotta nothing!
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Anyone (besides me) tried this website? Two hundred bucks and so far a whole lotta nothing!
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[QUOTE=Member 2008]Anyone (besides me) tried this website? Two hundred bucks and so far a whole lotta nothing![/QUOTE]It's a waste. A handful of women who want to talk but nothing beyond that. Also a bunch of webcam types who go on there (can tell by limits of dirty talk or something like that). otherwise, like you said, a waste.
There was a big deal on the site on the Tyra show today. Looked more a a cross between Jerry Springer or Maury and an infomercial. Of course everybody on was having several affairs and was confessing them to a spouse.
[QUOTE=Member 2008]Anyone (besides me) tried this website? Two hundred bucks and so far a whole lotta nothing!
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[QUOTE=Member 2008]Anyone (besides me) tried this website? Two hundred bucks and so far a whole lotta nothing!
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Never tried AM, but have tried AFF. Had some success there a while back but it was challenging to find real people. In order to have full access you need to pay, but it is an additional $10/month to allow non-paying members to contact you. There are ways around it, but it is still frustrating. The worst part is, the majority of the real women on that site are non-paying with no pictures because they are afraid of being seen by others (like a spouse). Good luck and happy hunting.
Yeah, I tried AFF, AM, Online Booty call etc., their all the same, you have to pay to get anywhere and then the chicks lead you on, very few are legit, most are scams in one way or another, cams, sites, etc. Better off if we (guys here on USA) just share our good and bad times with real chicks, and keep the good ones busy, it would be good for us all and much safer.
I too tried AFF a number of times. It was a sausage fest. There are very few real women on there, and just like everyone said, they are quite hard to find. I'm not going to say I didn't make any contacts, I made a few, but nothing that panned out. I bet fakes outnumber real contacts 10: 1 on AFF.
Jay
I joined and followed a bunch of those types of sites years ago and can easily agree with what's been said already.
As mentioned, the ratio of men to women feels like 10: 1.
Of those women, only 1 in 10 are actual women who visit the site regularly. The rest are guys pretending to be women, ads for webcam shows or 'professional services', fake profiles set up to lure more customers, or profiles from women who visited once but will probably never return.
Of the actual women, only 1 in 10 is even remotely interested in single men. The rest are just looking with no intention of actually meeting anyone, or they're searching only for other women or couples.
If you are lucky enough to find a real women who's just looking for some fun, you can send her a letter to hope to grab her attention over the other 100+ e-mails that she will most likely receive that day. Every day.
Even if she responds, you'll then have to assure her that you're not some crazy psycho (like the last 3 guys she's met off of there). And so on.
It's possible to find some fun on those sites, but for me, the amount of time and energy needed to pursue it didn't seem worth it.
Update:
Just got contacted for a "coffee date". Who knows where it might lead :)
[QUOTE=Jaybird22]I too tried AFF a number of times. It was a sausage fest. There are very few real women on there, and just like everyone said, they are quite hard to find. I'm not going to say I didn't make any contacts, I made a few, but nothing that panned out. I bet fakes outnumber real contacts 10: 1 on AFF.
Jay[/QUOTE]
Hmm... I've had success over the years from AFF, Fling, the old Yahoo date and Lava life (of course I've also gotten lucky from relator.com with listing agents but I cant share those details).
I met a swinging older couple couple, looking for a young stud; An older VERY bbw teacher who wasnt getting it from hubby; A BBW college student who was just a freak; A few decent Milfs who just wanted one nighters and of course lots of crazy women who either hated men or litterally was on state disability for mental deficientcies.
I havent really tried Ashely Madison yet, but my experience has been you get what you put into it. It takes a very short direct and honest profile like. "Young handsome Idealistic business professinal with high sex drive has met too much heartbreak. Seeking attractive confident woman of any age for a long string of one night stands, leading to happily ever after." With 2 or 3 really good pictures and putting in 1 or 2 hours a day to write and respond to emails.
If you are on this board you already have the time and money needed. Think about it If you spend $40-160/w on sw or escorts and hours upon hours of gas driving around, or drivng to distant notels. Then mongering is actually more expensive than online dating.
In my experience with online dating my ratios have been closer to 1 in 10 for responses, But of those responses the conversion rate has been closer to 1 in 5 or 1 in 3. The key is to narrow your field with your ad or email so that the responses you get are already prequalified, and just need a good closing pitch. It like sales or marketing the more you do it the better you get. Of course I still monger too. Mostly because I enjoy the thrill of the search and the quick fix of not having to deal with emotional or mental drama just to get laid. And most escorts dont mind if you only call them once a month or every few weeks. Of course Ho's are women too an they have thier own batch of drama and clingy needyness.
- SG
PS: It also helps to have a good hook like being financially stable, having a uniqued physical attribute, or unusual exciting/dangerous occupation that will get them excited. It is ok to bend the truth or lie as long as you can keep it up Long term. IE if you are a data analyst guard at a federal building you can claim to be a "Federal Agent" and nobody can disprove that.
[QUOTE=Wsgman]I've seen them both. Jess I saw last winter, she had real tits, small but nice. Kelly I saw before and after she had enhancements. She was flat as a board before.
Both were not costly and nice enough. Jess is impossible to get a hold of, always get the mailbox full number.
Have not seen Kelly since last May, she told me she was a few months pregnant. Question I have is, by my math, she should be full term by now. I stopped seeing her since she was a little out of area and I am not into relationships with people who are pregnant. Not my thing. Feels really weird.
So, short of me calling her to find out, does anyone know if she had the kid or not? Keep seeing her adds, and scratching my head wondering if she terminated, but then this post about lactating makes me really wonder.[/QUOTE]Hey Wsgman,
I talked to Kelly on the phone recently and she said she terminated her pregnancy. And, I think she broke up with the guy who knocked her up. I don't see her anymore, but like to check in on her from time to time.
Take care.
Cpt Wallie
I stumbled across an article and discovered that social scientists had downloaded posts from 10 cities including Hartford (2004-2006) had analyzed them and had published several research papers on how men discuss prostitution on the Internet.
You have to pay to download one or go to a University Library to find the journal.
[QUOTE=Michaelzxc]I stumbled across an article and discovered that social scientists had downloaded posts from 10 cities including Hartford (2004-2006) had analyzed them and had published several research papers on how men discuss prostitution on the Internet.
You have to pay to download one or go to a University Library to find the journal.[/QUOTE]I might finally be famous! Actually, maybe I should sue since he didn't have my expressed written consent to republish my copywritten material.
[url]http://eroticservices.********.com/index.php?do=view&p=1767421[/url]
This one has me wondering .
And I usually trust my "gut" , but was wondering what everyone else thinks :
Says she is from Hawaii
Cannot find a Hawaiian ad for her in CL,BP,Escortscom,Eros,TER,
Called her.She says she is visiting friends in CT and this is the 1st time
she has ever done this.
hmmmmmm
photos seem a little too awesome or what you think ??
Called India Dupree Saturdauy night. She said she was in the Bradley Airport area. She agreed to OUTCALL to my house in Hartford County.
She quoted an arrival time of 1.5 hrs after our phone call.
Her drive would be approx 45 min to my house.
She called and told me she was leaving for my house,
and would be there in less than one hour.
One hour passed , No India.
1.5 hour passed , No India .
I called her and no answer.
She never showed .
I wonder if her not showing had something to do with our last phone chat,
where I stressed in " no uncertain terms " , that when she arrived
at my front door , " she really, had better be the girl in the photos " !
hmmmmmmmmm ????????
Hooked up with Carolina in a motel in the area.
She has realy cleaned up. nice.
A good time was had by all.